Csami:
Sticks and stones.

may break my bones, but words will never break me.

Not true though.

Some 7 years ago I was in your shoes. 150k salary spoilt brat as bosses. I told them i was resigning they were shocked. The respect came as they begged me to stay.

blackpanthar:


Do you ever MIND if the lousy driver of the public buses you board to WORK is dressed in TUXEDO SUITS or in SINGLET or without shirts(like bro shaggi)? If YES, then you may need to leave

200k monthly is the BUS taking you to a better FUTURE, the driver's attitude notwithstanding..... ENJOY THE RIDE AS LONG AS IT HELPS YOU GET TO YOUR DESIRED FUTURE on time.... you can not have EVERYTHING WORKING SO PERFECTLY IN THIS LIFE.

I hope you have a vision of doing several side hustles.... If you do then you would not mind if your boss is abusive.... you will carry your cross till you are fully established and cross over.

so bro, chill and save up for your investments and side hustles till they are paying you the 200k+ mOnthly then you can "FIRE YOUR BOSS"

If the driver come crash the bus come get accident nko

Most people leave their jobs because of bad bosses not as if they hate the job..

@Op I feel you should first of all let the boss know you're not happy with the way he/she is treating you and if you don't see changes, you can quit provided you have other options or something giving you income.

thesicilian:
It is never a good idea to quit your job until you've found something better. 200k is not a fat salary by the way.

I bet you haven't worked in a tensed environment where all you think of is to leave just for the peace of mind. Peace of mind is all that matters. Only Africans put money or pay above their happiness so I actually don't find your post surprising.

It has to do with the concept of being “risk averse”.

In the scientific study of human relationship (“Psychophysics”) most people are ‘risk averse’ or over weigh a sure thing over a ‘gamble’ which may even have a higher expected value.

Such an internal programming may be the result of multiple iterations of human evolution where risk averse individuals survived and the risk taking individuals were eliminated. Succeeding generations would have a higher proportion of risk averse progeny.

Consequently, most people are willing to endure whatever ‘pain’, it may induce in working for someone, for the surety of an income.

Continuing to work for an arrogant boss is no different than a battered women who remain in an abusive relationship in spite of the pain, that they endure. My answer is this ( I will quit)

Motivational speakers are all over this thread.

AuntRose:

I bet you haven't worked in a tensed environment where all you think of is to leave just for the peace of mind. Peace of mind is all that matters. Only Africans put money or pay above their happiness so I actually don't find your post surprising.

In Africa family responsibilities come before peace of mind. Funny but true.

Let him continue to be abusive.In as much as my salary is forthcoming....

Alexgman1:
You happen to have a well paid job where you earn close to #200,000 monthly but your boss is always angry, abusive, disrespectful, proud, impatient & provoking personality.
Will you endure and continue working for him and flexing ur fat salary every month or you will quit if you cant take it any longer?

200K a month is not a fat salary!

tot:


may break my bones, but words will never break me.

Not true though.

Different strokes

Emmypure:
200k and someone is calling it a well paid job, when your mates are earning more than 5m a month.

Tell am oh

Csami:


Different strokes

For different folks.

Alexgman1:
You happen to have a well paid job where you earn close to #200,000 monthly but your boss is always angry, abusive, disrespectful, proud, impatient & provoking personality.
Will you endure and continue working for him and flexing ur fat salary every month or you will quit if you cant take it any longer?

see your mouth like fat salary, you're a poor man if you don't know

See how people are encouraging remaining in a toxic work environment... Nigeria has a long way to go.

OP, the earlier you start developing a Plan B, the better.

200k that people make daily?

200k


200k wey boys dey hammer for one week

EmptyGarden:
Enjoy your job o, to beg money no easy o.

as in eh

Peanut Salary, until when you started earning it you will understand. So your self worth is less than money, Nawa oooo

Alexgman1:
You happen to have a well paid job where you earn close to #200,000 monthly but your boss is always angry, abusive, disrespectful, proud, impatient & provoking personality.
Will you endure and continue working for him and flexing ur fat salary every month or you will quit if you cant take it any longer?

Fat what? 200k is fat? Anyway, endure. The crown is for those that endure till the end. Nothing last forever.

thesicilian:
It is never a good idea to quit your job until you've found something better. 200k is not a fat salary by the way.

everybody get levels na.. Na him level be that.

Emmypure:
200k and someone is calling it a well paid job, when your mates are earning more than 5m a month.

Many more of his mates are jobless ..
Anyhow you see it,200k is a good salary.

U can’t never have it completely

thesicilian:
It is never a good idea to quit your job until you've found something better. 200k is not a fat salary by the way.

It takes an average of 8 years before any lecturer in a University can earn this 200k!

Endure bro no leave work O
E get why

I will save enough money to move on!
I no wan slap am kill one day o!

thesicilian:

In Africa family responsibilities come before peace of mind. Funny but true.

And that's why most don't pass the age of 55-60 yrs unlike their counterpart in the West.

200k per month naa big money still oh! in this present 9ja cos I'm talking for myself & not minding these folks. Not everybody out there is earning up to that amount monthly so bros/ma'am abeg try endure the annoying boss and save up a reasonable amount to start up a side hustle for yourself.

AuntRose:

And that's why most don't pass the age of 55-60 yrs unlike their counterpart in the West.

Yeah. It's a sad situation.