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Re: You Earn #200k A Month But Your Boss Is Always Angry & Abusive? by Gamesmart: 3:59am On Oct 12, 2020 |
adioolayi: Don't mind the ignorance. Outside Lagos, even many Directors in state civil service don't make that as legitimate salary. 2 Likes |
Re: You Earn #200k A Month But Your Boss Is Always Angry & Abusive? by uvie66: 4:24am On Oct 12, 2020 |
dnapstar:this is like a chicken and egg situation, how can you have peace of mind and be mentally stable if you are unable to feed your family or put a roof over your head. 2 Likes |
Re: You Earn #200k A Month But Your Boss Is Always Angry & Abusive? by Vikalinda(m): 4:49am On Oct 12, 2020 |
I understand your point, I will swallow the insult and pocket the salary until am set to fire him. meanwhile 200k is not fat salary considering recent realities. 1 Like |
Re: You Earn #200k A Month But Your Boss Is Always Angry & Abusive? by halogate: 5:07am On Oct 12, 2020 |
..200k is not fat salary??. Tell that to the people I know earning 14k - 17k a month. As for me..as long as it's nothing physical, I'll just count the number of months I desire to work there and develop a thick skin till then. Secondly: Never display or hint to your bosses that u are afraid of being laid off..... gives them psychological power over u. 4 Likes |
Re: You Earn #200k A Month But Your Boss Is Always Angry & Abusive? by Rolexjerry(m): 5:22am On Oct 12, 2020 |
thesicilian:It's a fat salary by NIGERIA standard oooo. 2 Likes |
Re: You Earn #200k A Month But Your Boss Is Always Angry & Abusive? by lexy2014: 5:25am On Oct 12, 2020 |
Emmypure: Are u one of his mates that are earning 5m a month? 1 Like |
Re: You Earn #200k A Month But Your Boss Is Always Angry & Abusive? by lexy2014: 5:27am On Oct 12, 2020 |
slyfoxxjoe: So can u pay him d 200k every month? 1 Like |
Re: You Earn #200k A Month But Your Boss Is Always Angry & Abusive? by Gamesmart: 5:27am On Oct 12, 2020 |
blingxx: You might not know who the mates are. But one thing you can be guaranteed of is that they are not him and he probably does not make up N200K a month himself. 1 Like |
Re: You Earn #200k A Month But Your Boss Is Always Angry & Abusive? by lexy2014: 5:32am On Oct 12, 2020 |
ariesbull: From d things u said, its obvious u need more help with ur self esteem than d guy u are talking to 2 Likes |
Re: You Earn #200k A Month But Your Boss Is Always Angry & Abusive? by Abudu2000(m): 5:36am On Oct 12, 2020 |
As a civil engineer do u know what it means for ur career working under a phd engineer coren certified plus Nse etc ? Abuse would be the least of ur concern let alone a low pay check. 1 Like |
Re: You Earn #200k A Month But Your Boss Is Always Angry & Abusive? by mosesbola(f): 5:48am On Oct 12, 2020 |
The letter is something else bro.. Drsnives: |
Re: You Earn #200k A Month But Your Boss Is Always Angry & Abusive? by Abudu2000(m): 5:54am On Oct 12, 2020 |
I see this thread has been hijacked by motivational speakers, and u see that fool that said he walked away from an interview any soul here that follows ur advice as his life drops so your life with drop in multiple folds too. Deceiving innocent ppl online with fake stories, even some earning 100k are living big coz there are so many side business one can do now to support your income but one coming here saying 200k is a slim paycheck? Like i said any soul u decieve here so shall ur own life depreciate. 5 Likes |
Re: You Earn #200k A Month But Your Boss Is Always Angry & Abusive? by naijanaso: 5:55am On Oct 12, 2020 |
blackpanthar: The best piece I've read today. Good one bro! |
Re: You Earn #200k A Month But Your Boss Is Always Angry & Abusive? by aremusegun(m): 5:57am On Oct 12, 2020 |
Apparently.. We now live in a world where money is now exalted much more than self dignity and self worth... A case in point is the guys people have seen on blogs caught eating Excr.... With bread all for money... They endure it and feel the money is worth their person... You have to ask yourself... Are jobs finished on earth... If the employer sacks you now, won't you survive.... Between you and I.. You are not limited to an arrogant and brutish human who is also inhumane.. In life you have to watch what people do to you and speak to your life.... Words are indeed powerful.. They can make or destroy... Your self esteem and dignity is a major part of your intangible career capital and please be bold enough to stand up to that boss and tell him to his face that you are not okay with the daily harassment... Two things will happen.. It's either he changes after thinking about it or sacks you.. Whichever way You Move!!!! Survival must end for dominion to begin. This has happened to my younger Sis before so I can relate very vividly.. She comes home unhappy and grumpy daily.. Going to work the next morning with no joy for living, are self esteem was been battered all cos of money... But we made her know she can stand up to this. She later resigned the job and she was glad she did. It's now up to you to decide... Never let any one take your self worth to the gutter... You are much valuable to God and Humanity. God has also not tied your destiny to one man for life.. I also want to encourage employers.. This life is ding dong...you can be here today and be somewhere else tommorow.... Don't exhaust God's mercies and Grace on your life. Peace out.. 1 Like |
Re: You Earn #200k A Month But Your Boss Is Always Angry & Abusive? by dingbang(m): 6:11am On Oct 12, 2020 |
Endure till you build your business 1 Like |
Re: You Earn #200k A Month But Your Boss Is Always Angry & Abusive? by Nobody: 6:14am On Oct 12, 2020 |
Alexgman1: Had similar experience for almost 7months. My approach: Bring down your head and learn as fast/much as you can then launch out. Check yourself to see where you went wrong cos I’m pretty sure it didn’t start the very moment you were employed, be prayerful and never allow fear of the unknown to keep you grounded. Take the risk. Above all, never underestimate the God factor in all you do. 1 Like |
Re: You Earn #200k A Month But Your Boss Is Always Angry & Abusive? by Calazoto: 6:25am On Oct 12, 2020 |
EmperorFred: Chat up |
Re: You Earn #200k A Month But Your Boss Is Always Angry & Abusive? by Jimmyld231: 6:31am On Oct 12, 2020 |
Emmypure:Elenun. na u na type they come here come seek help 1 Like |
Re: You Earn #200k A Month But Your Boss Is Always Angry & Abusive? by Euegene100001: 6:40am On Oct 12, 2020 |
I hope he listens to you blackpanthar: |
Re: You Earn #200k A Month But Your Boss Is Always Angry & Abusive? by Jebolala(m): 6:42am On Oct 12, 2020 |
pooozeee:Come Oga wetin you smoke this morning? Abeg move one side 1 Like |
Re: You Earn #200k A Month But Your Boss Is Always Angry & Abusive? by AuwalYusuf812(m): 6:53am On Oct 12, 2020 |
Emmypure:Buy sense bros 1 Like |
Re: You Earn #200k A Month But Your Boss Is Always Angry & Abusive? by Nobody: 7:00am On Oct 12, 2020 |
better work hard and pray. 200k no b small money o, no let motivational speakers deceive u o. Save up, start your own business. work for 1year u would have enough to rely on once u quit 2 Likes |
Re: You Earn #200k A Month But Your Boss Is Always Angry & Abusive? by Bossman25(m): 7:01am On Oct 12, 2020 |
[Even when you are doing the job well...... quote author=pooozeee post=94806807] 200k isn't a well paid job, some people are having salary as much as 350k 400k, now you are paid 200k and your boss insult you, that is harassment, harassment is the personal insult and expression of disgust or intolerance towards certain people or person or race and this is punishable offense according to the labour law in nigeria, if you continue to keep that 200k job with insult, your boss will continue to issue you query and that you are incompetent in the discharge of your duty which might eventually lead to sack, so report any harassment at work place to the HR and make sure you have evidence to support your claims [/quote] |
Re: You Earn #200k A Month But Your Boss Is Always Angry & Abusive? by kastgeraldino: 7:02am On Oct 12, 2020 |
I get you. And people won't get the titles you're using. Though Senior Associate may not be a big position in the Big 4 world, in other industries like investment banking or private equity, it's a big position that takes over 8 years (in most cases) to acquire. So no need to use titles that most people reading your write-up won't understand. Contango: 1 Like |
Re: You Earn #200k A Month But Your Boss Is Always Angry & Abusive? by earthi(m): 7:06am On Oct 12, 2020 |
My few thoughts - you seem really okay with 200k monthly. I honestly believe it's okay but you can do better ( people who earn 500k and above no get 2 heads). Regarding the body shaming - I have 2 opinions to this. First, it tells so much about a person if he brings down others with words or actions. It smacks off insecurity and an inferiority complex. Change your mindset about his abuses. Do things differently; assure him with your own actions that he is 'the boss' In any case you're 'training' yourself. Secondly, if his abuses are work related, I think you should focus on making the changes he asks for. Thanks. 1 Like |
Re: You Earn #200k A Month But Your Boss Is Always Angry & Abusive? by Drsnives(m): 7:07am On Oct 12, 2020 |
mosesbola: I think they ( dangote's management) didnt include that alphabet. Las las its all scam |
Re: You Earn #200k A Month But Your Boss Is Always Angry & Abusive? by ultiliberty(m): 7:07am On Oct 12, 2020 |
Same thing happen to me too. They want you bring over 200,000,000 a month to the table, then, he/she would be happy & soft pedal |
Re: You Earn #200k A Month But Your Boss Is Always Angry & Abusive? by kastgeraldino: 7:07am On Oct 12, 2020 |
And covid-19 would have complicated her situation. How is she managing emotionally? lagosboy3: |
Re: You Earn #200k A Month But Your Boss Is Always Angry & Abusive? by Bossman25(m): 7:09am On Oct 12, 2020 |
You can't keep ignoring.....that's the problem we keep having in workplace..... The guy might be doing an excellent job, but yet to the Boss eyes he would try every means possible to degrade him, and shatter his confidence.....Once the boss keeps those acts its because he doesn't want him to stay long....he feel that #200k is too much to pay a person....so the boss does everything make the dude feel he doesn't know anything.......it won't even take up to 3-4 months before the boss stylishly lays him off...in the guise that the dude is incompetent.....which is a blatant lie....off course... So my advice his that, he should keep seeking for other avenue to make money....he should stay there for long.....,those kind of boss ruins peoples career and confidence....you might not know who will be there and be seeing him shouting at you in workplace for no just course..... DenreleDave: |
Re: You Earn #200k A Month But Your Boss Is Always Angry & Abusive? by Praktikals(m): 7:11am On Oct 12, 2020 |
Emmypure:Yea, and some graduates are earning less than 1/10 of 200,000. Any condition we find ourselves, we must thank God. 1 Like |
Re: You Earn #200k A Month But Your Boss Is Always Angry & Abusive? by afroxyz: 7:12am On Oct 12, 2020 |
cooltola: You are just quoting from textbook, not real life experience 2 Likes |
Re: You Earn #200k A Month But Your Boss Is Always Angry & Abusive? by Oyas1(m): 7:18am On Oct 12, 2020 |
I will subscribe to all jocks channels on youtube and save money to establish myself there. |
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