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Why Is It That Most Naija Ladies Don't Appreciate Their Boyfriends(Pics) by marvelck: 6:30am On Oct 18
A lot of Naija ladies find it difficult 'remembering' and appreciating their boyfriends or any other man, despite all the wonderful things he might have done for her.

Cos anytime they quarrel, the first words that would come out from her mouth most times are "what has he done for me". Chisos! Despite all the goodies she's been collecting from him o. Some would still have the nerves to utter such words just cos of a small quarrel o. Mbanuu!

We need to stop having such mindset.. even if he hasn't really done much for you, still appreciate him. At least he is trying.

Learn to appreciate people, your boyfriend or husband, no matter what!

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Re: Why Is It That Most Naija Ladies Don't Appreciate Their Boyfriends(Pics) by MejiLoyon: 6:32am On Oct 18
Just answer the question
Tell her what you have done for her
Count her blessings name them one by one.

If at all you no do anything which is impossible tell her about your constant kpekus servicing. Without you it might have cobwebs and eventually rust and break to pieces.

Count her blessings

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Re: Why Is It That Most Naija Ladies Don't Appreciate Their Boyfriends(Pics) by uniqueboi1(m): 6:33am On Oct 18
On Sunday grin
Re: Why Is It That Most Naija Ladies Don't Appreciate Their Boyfriends(Pics) by dheaven: 6:43am On Oct 18
Don't you know the grass is always greener in the other side until you get there?

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Re: Why Is It That Most Naija Ladies Don't Appreciate Their Boyfriends(Pics) by blazepascal(m): 6:49am On Oct 18
its in their blood
Re: Why Is It That Most Naija Ladies Don't Appreciate Their Boyfriends(Pics) by WowSweetGuy(m): 6:59am On Oct 18
They want to be collecting all the time and easily forget all the ones you have given her with your sweat as if to make money is easy. Something your mum haven't enjoyed from you before sef.

I dont mind them these days...thats how they are, they bring nothing to the table other than their body

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Re: Why Is It That Most Naija Ladies Don't Appreciate Their Boyfriends(Pics) by Godoverevery: 7:15am On Oct 18
is one thing that really get me annoyed......most Ladies are ingrates that why i tell men to do things that is convenient for them never inconvenient yourself for lady who isn't your wife
Re: Why Is It That Most Naija Ladies Don't Appreciate Their Boyfriends(Pics) by Freelane33(m): 7:20am On Oct 18
IN THE CITY OF DREAM , searching for love can be the greatest night mare grin... love is just a word it doesn’t mean anything to some Nigerian ladies . They see relationship as another form of investment
Re: Why Is It That Most Naija Ladies Don't Appreciate Their Boyfriends(Pics) by Ikillbrokehoes(m): 7:22am On Oct 18
If dey tell you that, ask them also what dey have done for you, dating Naija girls these days is like taking care of an orphan and to think dey hv nothing to offer beats me

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Re: Why Is It That Most Naija Ladies Don't Appreciate Their Boyfriends(Pics) by BigDawsNet: 7:44am On Oct 18
If you want that appreciation them you have to do more...

That the mentality
Re: Why Is It That Most Naija Ladies Don't Appreciate Their Boyfriends(Pics) by AmazingELixir: 7:51am On Oct 18
marvelck:
A lot of Naija ladies find it difficult 'remembering' and appreciating their boyfriends or any other man, despite all the wonderful things he might have done for her.

Cos anytime they quarrel, the first words that would come out from her mouth most times are "what has he done for me". Chisos! Despite all the goodies she's been collecting from him o. Some would still have the nerves to utter such words just cos of a small quarrel o. Mbanuu!

We need to stop having such mindset.. even if he hasn't really done much for you, still appreciate him. At least he is trying.

Learn to appreciate people, your boyfriend or husband, no matter what!


Op what have you done for your girlfriend lately..abi the kpekus she dey offer you no reach you ni..
Re: Why Is It That Most Naija Ladies Don't Appreciate Their Boyfriends(Pics) by Shortyy(f): 8:50am On Oct 18
Lol you're an alpha male. You don't need the appreciation of a woman.

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Re: Why Is It That Most Naija Ladies Don't Appreciate Their Boyfriends(Pics) by fati2001(f): 9:15am On Oct 18
Shortyy:
Lol you're an alpha male. You don't need the appreciation of a woman.

Re: Why Is It That Most Naija Ladies Don't Appreciate Their Boyfriends(Pics) by S1MP: 9:21am On Oct 18
Because Nigerian boys are not doing enough.
If you do enough on your responsibilities as a MAN, she will surely appreciate
Re: Why Is It That Most Naija Ladies Don't Appreciate Their Boyfriends(Pics) by Blackmoran(m): 9:39am On Oct 18
because there a lot of manginas that will do ridiculous things to please a woman, so they are always bombarded with attention and favour..
ask a guy when you broke can you list a fellow friend that will send you money? but as a girl she as diaries of names to call, infact most girls can live there entire lives without working simply by guys paying her bills...
Re: Why Is It That Most Naija Ladies Don't Appreciate Their Boyfriends(Pics) by Dayoebe(m): 9:53am On Oct 18
Just as we don't appreciate God in our daily lives
Re: Why Is It That Most Naija Ladies Don't Appreciate Their Boyfriends(Pics) by Liposure(m): 10:02am On Oct 18
S1MP:
Because Nigerian boys are not doing enough.
If you do enough on your responsibilities as a MAN, she will surely appreciate
ehen
Re: Why Is It That Most Naija Ladies Don't Appreciate Their Boyfriends(Pics) by Shortyy(f): 10:13am On Oct 18
[quote author=fati2001 post=95054306][/quote]
Lmao my sister, what do u want me to say na. Are they not alpha males again? grin
Re: Why Is It That Most Naija Ladies Don't Appreciate Their Boyfriends(Pics) by fati2001(f): 10:22am On Oct 18
Shortyy:

Lmao my sister, what do u want me to say na. Are they not alpha males again? grin

make l laugh then.
the thing dy shock me pass BUHARI

ALPHA MALES BUT NO DAY WER EM" NO GO CREATE THREADS BASED ON FEMALES

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Re: Why Is It That Most Naija Ladies Don't Appreciate Their Boyfriends(Pics) by Thermodynamics(m): 11:29am On Oct 18
my own concern is that, why do act as if they are doing you a favour if they allow you to have sec with them? you find them saying things like, I offered you sex when clearly they enjoyed it more than you.
even married women are not spared from this nonsense
Re: Why Is It That Most Naija Ladies Don't Appreciate Their Boyfriends(Pics) by Akinbahm(m): 12:00pm On Oct 18
marvelck:
A lot of Naija ladies find it difficult 'remembering' and appreciating their boyfriends or any other man, despite all the wonderful things he might have done for her.

Cos anytime they quarrel, the first words that would come out from her mouth most times are "what has he done for me". Chisos! Despite all the goodies she's been collecting from him o. Some would still have the nerves to utter such words just cos of a small quarrel o. Mbanuu!

We need to stop having such mindset.. even if he hasn't really done much for you, still appreciate him. At least he is trying.

Learn to appreciate people, your boyfriend or husband, no matter what!

From Messenger of Allah (PBUH) he said it 1400 years ago

"I was shown Hell and I have never seen anything more terrifying than it. And I saw that the majority of its people are women.” They said, “Why, O Messenger of Allah?” He said, “Because of their ingratitude (kufr).” It was said, “Are they ungrateful to Allah?” He said, “They are ungrateful to their companions (husbands) and ungrateful for good treatment. If you are kind to one of them for a lifetime then she sees one (undesirable) thing in you, she will say, ‘I have never had anything good from you.’” (Narrated by al-Bukhari, 1052).

Don't over do, just do your best and leave the rest
Re: Why Is It That Most Naija Ladies Don't Appreciate Their Boyfriends(Pics) by whiteseed(m): 8:37am On Oct 19
Freelane33:
IN THE CITY OF DREAM , searching for love can be the greatest night mare grin... love is just a word it doesn’t mean anything to some Nigerian ladies . They see relationship as another form of investment
good day bro.. I sent you a mail. Sorry for the inconviniency...

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