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Re: 3 Graves To Bury One Man: How My Late Father's Kinsmen Hijacked Burial — Lady by yommen: 7:20am On Oct 24, 2020 |
buchisom1: Her dad's family wouldn't allow her dad to be hurried on his land for their own selfish gain. They therefore dug other places where they want to forcefully bury the man. She sued them but they begged her to withdraw the case that her wish will be granted only for them to later carry out their own initial greedy plan. Which one is it you don't understand? Or what's new in that story that now seem strange to you now? She confirmed that those stories she has heard and even watched on movies are true. Shikena 2 Likes |
Re: 3 Graves To Bury One Man: How My Late Father's Kinsmen Hijacked Burial — Lady by Ekpekaycee: 7:20am On Oct 24, 2020 |
This story is one sided. What was the relationship between you and your uncles before now. ? The Land, is it exclusively your dad's? Why were 3 graves dug? 5 Likes 1 Share |
Re: 3 Graves To Bury One Man: How My Late Father's Kinsmen Hijacked Burial — Lady by zachanalysis: 7:22am On Oct 24, 2020 |
BruncleZuma:Hope you are not trying to justify this barbaric act. I don't think she is trying to gain anything other bring to our notice how sick some cultural practice are. Greed permeate every fiber of an average igbo man's nature. Over emphasis on monetary success as a yardstick for measuring how much respect and dignity you get is the main reason why they hate one another so much. Anything to earn that respect is considered good even if it brings pain to others. They say Yoruba and Hausa are jealous of them because of their commercial successes across the country. But an average Yoruba and Hausa is more United than the Igbos can ever be. A saying among the Yoruba has it that" Owo ma tan, Eyan Loma kun' . Translated roughly, good relationship is more valuable than wealth. Igos need to learn that money is not everything. 7 Likes 1 Share |
Re: 3 Graves To Bury One Man: How My Late Father's Kinsmen Hijacked Burial — Lady by Sammyblack87: 7:22am On Oct 24, 2020 |
OhBiafra:na dem dem... No truth can come out of their mouth 1 Like |
Re: 3 Graves To Bury One Man: How My Late Father's Kinsmen Hijacked Burial — Lady by CallMeAthena(f): 7:23am On Oct 24, 2020 |
Pharaoh4rin:It's simple nah.Just go to "create new topic" on the section you want to post in. |
Re: 3 Graves To Bury One Man: How My Late Father's Kinsmen Hijacked Burial — Lady by DawnEden(m): 7:23am On Oct 24, 2020 |
What of an Anambra woman marrying a yoruba man. Is there any problem of kinsmen or whatnot? |
Re: 3 Graves To Bury One Man: How My Late Father's Kinsmen Hijacked Burial — Lady by mrkings84(m): 7:24am On Oct 24, 2020 |
dapbims: My dear, from the write-up, I didn't see a case of tradition playing out, I only saw a set of wicked and jealous family oppressors trying to exibit their wickedness on their victims!! 2 Likes |
Re: 3 Graves To Bury One Man: How My Late Father's Kinsmen Hijacked Burial — Lady by Samysearch(m): 7:24am On Oct 24, 2020 |
Angrykidd: Show respect. You can do better than this. 2 Likes |
Re: 3 Graves To Bury One Man: How My Late Father's Kinsmen Hijacked Burial — Lady by okpalaAnambra: 7:24am On Oct 24, 2020 |
pwettyme:Is your husband from there?? |
Re: 3 Graves To Bury One Man: How My Late Father's Kinsmen Hijacked Burial — Lady by NoToPile: 7:24am On Oct 24, 2020 |
PowerGlory: So you are saying they killed their father? How did you know how much they are giving to wife and children Is it culturally wrong to bury someone at the back of his house as long as its the same compound 4 Likes |
Re: 3 Graves To Bury One Man: How My Late Father's Kinsmen Hijacked Burial — Lady by Sammyblack87: 7:24am On Oct 24, 2020 |
yommen:No hope for Nigeria because 90℅ of the human in it don't like truth. 3 Likes |
Re: 3 Graves To Bury One Man: How My Late Father's Kinsmen Hijacked Burial — Lady by Sunsets: 7:25am On Oct 24, 2020 |
I feel your pain and ignorance at the same time. So sorry that you had to go through that to bury your dad. Why throw an entire ethnic group under the bus. For your information, there are bizarre cultural processes in every ethnic group world over. A little investigation would reveal that to you. Abdulazeez99: 2 Likes |
Re: 3 Graves To Bury One Man: How My Late Father's Kinsmen Hijacked Burial — Lady by okpalaAnambra: 7:26am On Oct 24, 2020 |
sammirano3:No people are perfect.. They still suffer in a Yoruba man's hand who doesn't understand monogamy.. Shey no be this my neighbour who married yoruba yet the husband is sleeping outside like goat, even brought back a child from another woman.. Leave that thing jor 6 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: 3 Graves To Bury One Man: How My Late Father's Kinsmen Hijacked Burial — Lady by harmony75: 7:27am On Oct 24, 2020 |
sorry for your loss..aame thing happened to me when my dad died Igbos are full of wickedness in all their traditions. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: 3 Graves To Bury One Man: How My Late Father's Kinsmen Hijacked Burial — Lady by okpalaAnambra: 7:27am On Oct 24, 2020 |
FuckOsuPigs:Which state did your cousin married from bc not all the igbo states are notorious |
Re: 3 Graves To Bury One Man: How My Late Father's Kinsmen Hijacked Burial — Lady by seniorgozman(m): 7:29am On Oct 24, 2020 |
And the babe fine oo |
Re: 3 Graves To Bury One Man: How My Late Father's Kinsmen Hijacked Burial — Lady by humilitypays(m): 7:30am On Oct 24, 2020 |
Heavensent01:market what A public poll was conducted on Wazobia fm radio some years back asking Nigerian ladies which Nigerian tribe's men they would love to marry and why 90% of the ladies that called and gave their names all said Igbo. I mean Hausa, Yoruba, I jaw, Urhobo, etc women phoned in and said Igbo men, and their reason is that Igbo men take very good care of their wife and children and don't joke with the welfare of their wife or kids. They said why they wouldn't want to marry Yoruba men is because of their open promiscuity and marrying multiple wives openly and secretly which their main wife usually find out when he dies. They said Yoruba men prefer to take care of themselves first before thinking of caring for their wife and kids. Many Yoruba ladies married to Igbo men phoned in and said they bless the day they met their Igbo husband. Don't take an opinion of a wayward girl, an efulefu who thinks bad mouthing her own tribe will make other tribes love and cherish her. Just look at it, is the girl not foolish Yes some communities and families in Igbo land have some horrible practice or culture that is no longer healthy for 2020 lifestyle, it's not common in all Igbo communities and families. My only advice to ladies is, before you agree to marry any man from any tribe, look at his family members, his siblings especially, their personality matters a lot. I have a Yoruba lady friend whose father was a rich man, but unfortunately they were only girls; 2 girls, so when their father died, her father's siblings told their mom to take only their fathers house in abuja and forget the ones in Ibadan, Lagos, Abeokuta and in their hometown. That how can she take everything their brother acquired when she doesn't have a male child for their brother. Are they also Igbos This thing is a common greed among Africans and mostly dependent on families and communities not a whole tribe. Me personally, one thing I would like Igbos to change in their culture is the tradition that makes it that a woman cannot inherit her father's landed properties, but this is applicable to village lands because they believe she is supposed to be married and don't need to own any land in her father's place after she is married. But I would love this to change and my family have already made up our minds to change such nonsense tradition anyway. 4 Likes |
Re: 3 Graves To Bury One Man: How My Late Father's Kinsmen Hijacked Burial — Lady by okpalaAnambra: 7:30am On Oct 24, 2020 |
Oracleforce:To each his own.. If Hausa and yoloba like they can continue burying their people like chicken as u acclaimed, is no one's business afterall the abokiiii behave like one while alive 6 Likes 1 Share |
Re: 3 Graves To Bury One Man: How My Late Father's Kinsmen Hijacked Burial — Lady by madridguy(m): 7:30am On Oct 24, 2020 |
Feel like crying now reading what the man passed through before his death. A man that has labored for his wealth only to be treated as trash in his old days when he should be enjoying his life. I swear, I dey pity any man with good money but married only one wife. I don't want to talk more before ladies start attacking me but many men are going through what this man passed through. I think you need to open a thread to counter this. PowerGlory: 4 Likes |
Re: 3 Graves To Bury One Man: How My Late Father's Kinsmen Hijacked Burial — Lady by ipobarecriminals: 7:30am On Oct 24, 2020 |
Why not CURSE the money b4 u gave dem? Anyway,dem go don finished the money on ogogoro, snuff and diabolical lifestyle Heavensent01: 1 Like |
Re: 3 Graves To Bury One Man: How My Late Father's Kinsmen Hijacked Burial — Lady by Sunsets: 7:30am On Oct 24, 2020 |
One side of the story loaded,; can someone load the other side. Then we'll load the truth. Abdulazeez99: 2 Likes |
Re: 3 Graves To Bury One Man: How My Late Father's Kinsmen Hijacked Burial — Lady by perestroika19: 7:31am On Oct 24, 2020 |
PowerGlory:Your other points might be correct but I find the bolded hard to believe. Someone furking out 150k can't be starved by his wife and children. He'd rather eat out at worst 8 Likes |
Re: 3 Graves To Bury One Man: How My Late Father's Kinsmen Hijacked Burial — Lady by okpalaAnambra: 7:31am On Oct 24, 2020 |
Sonnobax15:That's why they're many single ladies in their 40s still doing prostitution there 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: 3 Graves To Bury One Man: How My Late Father's Kinsmen Hijacked Burial — Lady by Ndipe(m): 7:31am On Oct 24, 2020 |
There are two sides to a story. But I do have to ask though, didnt the man have sons to resolve this conflict? 1 Like |
Re: 3 Graves To Bury One Man: How My Late Father's Kinsmen Hijacked Burial — Lady by Sunsets: 7:32am On Oct 24, 2020 |
I like this humilitypays: 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: 3 Graves To Bury One Man: How My Late Father's Kinsmen Hijacked Burial — Lady by Redstone(m): 7:32am On Oct 24, 2020 |
It's not about tradition, in fact when a man dies, he should be buried in his property whether land or house. This is share wickedness from your father's relatives. |
Re: 3 Graves To Bury One Man: How My Late Father's Kinsmen Hijacked Burial — Lady by Sunsets: 7:33am On Oct 24, 2020 |
Watch your brain. Ndipe: |
Re: 3 Graves To Bury One Man: How My Late Father's Kinsmen Hijacked Burial — Lady by Ekpekaycee: 7:33am On Oct 24, 2020 |
My observation is your mom is probably not Igbo or from a different part. Probably you have been brought up by your mom to believe your uncles are envious of your dad and will hurt you cos they don't have their own children. You have probably had nothing to do with them. Probably you and your parents have not gone to the village in many years. Upon his death you realize that you have a family burial ground somewhere in the village. Did he build a house in the Land or in your mom's place. Tell the full story for me, I am very conversant with Igbo culture and something must have caused that attitude of your dad's people. 5 Likes |
Re: 3 Graves To Bury One Man: How My Late Father's Kinsmen Hijacked Burial — Lady by Sunsets: 7:34am On Oct 24, 2020 |
The other side has loaded. It seems the kinsmen were rooting for the dead. PowerGlory: 2 Likes |
Re: 3 Graves To Bury One Man: How My Late Father's Kinsmen Hijacked Burial — Lady by Sunsets: 7:36am On Oct 24, 2020 |
She wont tell us the whole gist. Her rant is obviously slanted to suit her purpose. Ekpekaycee: 2 Likes |
Re: 3 Graves To Bury One Man: How My Late Father's Kinsmen Hijacked Burial — Lady by okpalaAnambra: 7:36am On Oct 24, 2020 |
PowerGlory:I knew it was going to be imo state.. Them fuckersss. . That's the only thing their people are good at, collecting unmerited pride price for non virgin gals and dragging burial rites.. Nonsense 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: 3 Graves To Bury One Man: How My Late Father's Kinsmen Hijacked Burial — Lady by Kingzeez10: 7:36am On Oct 24, 2020 |
humilitypays:Your brain need evaluation. You don't even ask him for any proofs to back up his claim, you just believe instantly. 1 Like |
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