190:

Yeah my favourite ex ran after a banker after dating her for 2yrs ( Infact i trained her from her 1st year in the uni to her finals )

except paying her school fees the rest came in from me, she got 2 her finals and ran after a banker ( I ALMOST DIED )

Meldrick:

Guy I really can feel you strongly. It almost happened to me. I felt like breaking her neck. After investing my time, money, emotions and when she graduated she started seeing men. Those guys were not there when I was building her. Ahhhhh Woman bad sha. woman woman. Heartbreak is an understatement for what I was suffering. My heart was scattered and shattered.

Lol, I died and came back

I tried to look tough but the more i pretended the more i wept deep inside of me

Make GOD PUNISH THAT GIRL E NOR GO BETTER FOR AM!!

190:

Yeah my favourite ex ran after a banker after dating her for 2yrs ( Infact i trained her from her 1st year in the uni to her finals )

except paying her school fees the rest came in from me, she got 2 her finals and ran after a banker ( I ALMOST DIED )     

tope2011:

who wouldnt dump your aRse.since i joined nl,all i hear is every girl dumping your arse.it must really be pathetic being u.

Listen OLD FOOL::

Im talking bout some real poo not some Online MERRY GO ROUND!!

Look at your old backside, how aint i sure you did the same thing 2 a dude who trained you through school   

U joined NL some days back and u know about me already ( Talk 2 the hands )

190:

Listen OLD FOOL::

Im talking bout some real poo not some Online MERRY GO ROUND!!

Look at your old backside, how aint i sure you did the same thing 2 a dude who trained you through school   

U joined NL some days back and u know about me already ( Talk 2 the hands )

pro01:

Could be either men or women. Depends on who invested the most (financially and/or emotionally), or who stands to lose the most. I've discovered that women move on very quickly and without remorse or gratitude if the guy they broke up with is pretty much an 'average joe' in terms of money, status and all else. But they nearly die of heartbreak if the guy they broke up with is a very desirable guy (rich, etc.). When they remember all the awoof suya, isiewu, point-and-kill peppersoup, cash hand-outs, endless 'trips', gifts, rain of recharge-cards, gettaways to exotic places, and so on which they enjoyed from the guy. . .all of which made her the envy of her friends. . .they would nearly commit suicide when the relationship ends (unless she was lucky enough to meet an even 'bigger boy' shortly before or after the break-up).

NeroPapas:

I think its not about being a man or a woman in this case. If it's the man that puts in more into the relationship and it still collapse, he's going to have a hard time recovering. The woman on the other hand, contributed little or nothing so there's no heartbreak. It could be the other way round too. Conclusively, whoever hold the relationship in high esteem suffers more after breakup while the other party recover faster.

pro01:

Could be either men or women. Depends on who invested the most (financially and/or emotionally), or who stands to lose the most. I've discovered that women move on very quickly and without remorse or gratitude if the guy they broke up with is pretty much an 'average joe' in terms of money, status and all else. But they nearly die of heartbreak if the guy they broke up with is a very desirable guy (rich, etc.). When they remember all the awoof suya, isiewu, point-and-kill peppersoup, cash hand-outs, endless 'trips', gifts, rain of recharge-cards, gettaways to exotic places, and so on which they enjoyed from the guy. . .all of which made her the envy of her friends. . .they would nearly commit suicide when the relationship ends (unless she was lucky enough to meet an even 'bigger boy' shortly before or after the break-up).

ifyalways:

Whoever that invested more . . .emotionally especially.

harakiri:

Personally, i believe women recover faster. Check out these scenarios :

(1)Woman : If she's dumped by the guy, she might cry buckets of tears and by evening, she's already gotten a couple of phone numbers and within 2 weeks, she's madly in love with one of her admirers. If she dumps the guy, she's already dumped him emotionally earlier on and most times, she's already been seeing someone else and therefore, the breakup up discussion is just a formality.

(2)Man : If he's dumped by a woman, he goes on remission for a while ranging from months to years wondering where he went wrong and where he can make adjustments. During this phase, having casual sex takes great effort. If he dumps the girl, he's probably dumping her for some other girl or he just wants time to be himself.

Either way you look at it, it's much easier on the woman you sheds all the tears and that's it. On the other hand, the guy's heart bleeds for a much longer period.

My 2 cents!

chiozor:

for women saying here it depends on who invested much, they are saying bullcrap .
even devil know that a man invest more in all relationship.

tit_squeez:

i think men feel it more for sure. even the ones that regularly cheat on their babes take it very bad when they are dumped. its almost like 'how dare she dump me'

ZIM DRILL:

its actually the opposite

women take time recover especially if she is the one who has been dumped

women use emotions when it comes to sex they fall hard when dumped

men we dont use emotion hence we can fc.uk 20 women in a 3 weeks with no emotional attachment

on overall it depends on how deep one was in love, men may not show emotions on recovering since we play macho

women stay indoors stay off man for while etc i say woman tend to take time to recover based on how deep she was in love

I can see how you've come to that conclusion. . .interesting. I agree however that is what we see
as the 'norm' we both know there are women who are able to s3x with no strings and men who
will kill themselves if dumped after having that 'passionate moment'

but overall i dig it!