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Ur actions doesn’t harm him physically, but he can feel a little cringe..
we heterosexuals, especially in Nigeria are not used to the idea of being approached by another man....many of us don’t find it cool...
. infact we sometimes feel a little weird when heterosexual ladies approach us first let alone when a gay man does it....:

If he feels offended, just say sorry and something like, u were just kidding cos, u never can tell, he can be angry or wicked enough to report u to the police...just to teach u a bad lesson

With all the things going on in this country, this is your problem?

OK o. Go and approach first, then come tell us the outcome.

It doesn't him but be wise in your approach.

Make sure the person can handle such.

coolsegun2002:
Ur actions doesn’t harm him physically, but he can feel a little cringe..
we heterosexuals, especially in Nigeria are not used to the idea of being approached by another man....many of us don’t find it cool...
. infact we sometimes feel a little weird when heterosexual ladies approach us first let alone when a gay man does it....:

If he feels offended, just say sorry and something like, u were just kidding cos, u never can tell, he can be angry or wicked enough to report u to the police...just to teach u a bad lesson

I have already done it via whatsapp messages days ago and I got no reply.

I know that means rejection but now I am scared i must have caused him emotional harm in some way and i am very careful not to leave bad memories in people's life.


Right now I don't even know if he is angry or freaked out because he didnt say anything and likely would never say anything.

Before trying, I thought it would lead to something but I was wrong.

You can forget that police stuff though, wtf?

It's annoying and disgusting....

Which kain rubbish question be this ?

Durentt:
I have already done it via whatsapp messages days ago and I got no reply.

I know that means rejection but now I am scared i must have caused him emotional harm in some way and i am very careful not to leave bad memories in people's life.


Right now I don't even know if he is angry or freaked out because he didnt say anything and likely would never say anything.

Before trying, I thought it would lead to something but I was wrong.

You can forget that police stuff though, wtf?

In the spirit of not judging anyone based on their sexuality as being human transcends sexuality, you ought to have asked open-ended questions and can thus know what his view on the subject matter is.

Since you placed the Horse before the Cart as is obvious, if this is someone you would see physically, I'd advice you gather the courage to apologize for your erroneous presumption.

And get over yourself already!

PS: Nevertheless, your questions are rather too eccentric

If you treat people with respect, it's unlikely you'll ever have that impact, regardless of who you are.

horpeyemmi66:

In the spirit of not judging anyone based on their sexuality as being human transcends sexuality, you ought to have asked open-ended questions and can thus know what his view on the subject matter is.

Since you placed the Horse before the Cart as is obvious, if this is someone you would see physically, I'd advice you gather the courage to apologize for your erroneous presumption.

And get over yourself already!

PS: Nevertheless, your questions are rather too eccentric

thanks

Cousin9999:
If you treat people with respect, it's unlikely you'll ever have that impact, regardless of who you are.

true

So finally homo people don dey toast their fellow guy abi?

Chai.. God please dash this mumu some senses o..

Cousin9999:
If you treat people with respect, it's unlikely you'll ever have that impact, regardless of who you are.

I think it hurts the approacher not the approached especially when they're homophobic

Shortyy:
With all the things going on in this country, this is your problem?

OK o. Go and approach first, then come tell us the outcome.

what problems going on in the country that prevents me from starting a relationship with someone?

I have approached already so..... just you know.