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Are men getting Fed up? by Nobody: 6:58pm On Nov 19
Okay, so I meet one very fine girl on Sunday evening, I match am, whine am collect en No. but as I reach house say make I chat am up, I realize say I no dey ready for dat kind stress...I free am go light my weed. Since then, me and just dey view each other status, no comments.









Now I want to ask? Is it only me that is noticing how alot guys have become lazy in doing/chasing woman matters. I dey fear say if boys continue like this, come 2022, majority of girls go dey single.


Who else don notice this shit

Comment make me see

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Re: Are men getting Fed up? by Nobody: 7:04pm On Nov 19
Even most of my guys dey talk de same thing, Boys go just dey post things like: " I love you but I no get strength"


Nawa o...I just dey fear for how lonely the next two or three years go be for alot of girls

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Re: Are men getting Fed up? by Zzor(f): 7:05pm On Nov 19
You are just not mentally ready because weddings are still holding every Saturdays and Sundays. You will grow. Quit smoking weed it's dangerous to your health. shalom

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Re: Are men getting Fed up? by Aksnoopy: 7:09pm On Nov 19
This mumu girl above me again. Just know that you can't marry a Love Machine. undecided undecided

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Re: Are men getting Fed up? by Nobody: 7:10pm On Nov 19
Zzor:
You are just not mentally ready because weddings are still holding every Saturdays and Sundays. You will grow. Quit smoking weed it's dangerous to your health. shalom


Lol


Homeboy never the reason marriage for a very long-time...na just dey normal "I love you" "I love you" till we Bleep paroles...
Alotta homeboys don realise say de stress way dey matter too plenty

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Re: Are men getting Fed up? by Kenplay(m): 7:12pm On Nov 19
Zzor:
You are just not mentally ready because weddings are still holding every Saturdays and Sundays. You will grow. Quit smoking weed it's dangerous to your health. shalom
This man pretending to be a female.
You are quick to abuse others but cant stand when others critize you.
Bloody Hypocrise

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Re: Are men getting Fed up? by Shortyy(f): 7:16pm On Nov 19
You're unimportant.

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Re: Are men getting Fed up? by Kenplay(m): 7:18pm On Nov 19
Aksnoopy:
This mumu girl above me again. Just know that you can't marry a Love Machine. undecided undecided
Zzor is a man pretending to be a female, dont be deceived

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Re: Are men getting Fed up? by RedPanthar: 7:29pm On Nov 19
True. Happens to me too

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Re: Are men getting Fed up? by Nobody: 7:32pm On Nov 19
Shortyy:
You're unimportant.



I know say e dey pain you say alot guys no dey reason your matter. But sorry oh...e go worst pass like that after now.

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Re: Are men getting Fed up? by Samakus(m): 7:40pm On Nov 19
Thought I'm the only one that give up the chase easily. No time to be stressed

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Re: Are men getting Fed up? by Shortyy(f): 7:47pm On Nov 19
Roscoepound:




I know say e dey pain you say alot guys no dey reason your matter. But sorry oh...e go worst pass like that after now.

Ofcos you men's life revolve around women. Any woman that doesn't need a liability (men) is pained. Lol

Get out of that village and see women living happily and comfortably without liabilities (men).

And the real men, are getting married to real women on a daily. Not you poor urchins on this forum.

To those mentioning me and crying. Cry me a river.

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Re: Are men getting Fed up? by Nobody: 7:50pm On Nov 19
Shortyy:


Ofcos you men's life revolve around women. Any woman that doesn't need a liability (men) is pained. Lol

Get out of that village and see women living happily and comfortably without liabilities (men).

And the real men, are getting married to real women on a daily. Not you poor urchins on this forum.







Okay nwa, I don notice you, but you no dey Abj, I for dash you small money make you suuck ma dick

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Re: Are men getting Fed up? by Shortyy(f): 7:52pm On Nov 19
Roscoepound:








Okay nwa, I don notice you, but you no dey Abj, I for dash you small money make you suuck ma dick

No child, I'll dash you small money to get a soap and take a warm bath. You stink.

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Re: Are men getting Fed up? by Evolutionlove: 7:53pm On Nov 19
Shortyy:


Ofcos you men's life revolve around women. Any woman that doesn't need a liability (men) is pained. Lol

Get out of that village and see women living happily and comfortably without liabilities (men).

And the real men, are getting married to real women on a daily. Not you poor urchins on this forum.

All I have to say Is "A leopard can never shed It Spots. This Adage will remain Valid till the end of time.....

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Re: Are men getting Fed up? by Herrymax(m): 8:30pm On Nov 19
i collected a girl number from my area some weeks ago, i didn't call the girl until the third day, when i called her, she responded well, we fixed a date to meet the second day, when we meet the second day, i told the girl what i wanted from her, she said OK that she go give me reply the second day, second day come the girl don start to dey form (girl wey don fall for me already), nah so me self just lockup i no call her again.

following week nah so i dey go work in the morning and saw the girl coming towards my direction.
i just acted like have never Know her all my life and continue on my journey,
the girl just dey amaze say which kind guy be this.

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Re: Are men getting Fed up? by DaInferno(m): 8:45pm On Nov 19
Herrymax:
i collected a girl number from my area some weeks ago, i didn't call the girl until the third day, when i called her, she responded well, we fixed a date to meet the second day, when we meet the second day, i told the girl what i wanted from her, she said OK that she go give me reply the second day, second day come the girl don start to dey form (girl wey don fall for me already), nah so me self just lockup i no call her again.

following week nah so i dey go work in the morning and saw the girl coming towards my direction.
i just acted like have never Know her all my life and continue on my journey,
the girl just dey amaze say which kind guy be this.
grin careful man... naso Methuselah do live over 900yrs

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Re: Are men getting Fed up? by Nobody: 8:47pm On Nov 19
Herrymax:
i collected a girl number from my area some weeks ago, i didn't call the girl until the third day, when i called her, she responded well, we fixed a date to meet the second day, when we meet the second day, i told the girl what i wanted from her, she said OK that she go give me reply the second day, second day come the girl don start to dey form (girl wey don fall for me already), nah so me self just lockup i no call her again.

following week nah so i dey go work in the morning and saw the girl coming towards my direction.
i just acted like have never Know her all my life and continue on my journey,
the girl just dey amaze say which kind guy be this.





I talk am ...Nobody want dat kind stress again

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Re: Are men getting Fed up? by Kondomatic(m): 8:55pm On Nov 19
Zzor:
You are just not mentally ready because weddings are still holding every Saturdays and Sundays. You will grow. Quit smoking weed it's dangerous to your health. shalom
It's not about being mentally ready or not, most relationships these days ain't worth the stress, especially if you're not financially okay. Girls will frustrate you.


When my last relationship ended in late 2013, I asked myself one question.


"Why do you need a girlfriend?"


No reasonable answer so I stopped dating and I am happy that I made that decision.

A good female friend fills the place of a girlfriend, bestie gives free sex so why do one need a girlfriend?


This is 2020, if you need sex and you don't want a confirmed prostitute then chat with a girl online and sex will happen. It's so easy if you're into it.


But then sex too isn't worth the time and stress.


I stopped that too.


Sometimes when I am out with friends and they're with their babes, I do feel jealous a little but when I check my wallet and see what's there, I will be very happy.


I have also found a beautiful girl for hanging out purpose, nothing else.


If I am going out with friends, I will call her and if she's free, she will come with me. She will chill with us and go home. Life is easier that way.


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Re: Are men getting Fed up? by Vexedkid(m): 8:58pm On Nov 19
Abeg na who chop dey reason love matter, op pass me one tie make I blaze abeg.

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Re: Are men getting Fed up? by Zzor(f): 9:45pm On Nov 19
Kondomatic:
It's not about being mentally ready or not, most relationships these days ain't worth the stress, especially if you're not financially okay. Girls will frustrate you.


When my last relationship ended in late 2013, I asked myself one question.


"Why do you need a girlfriend?"


No reasonable answer so I stopped dating and I am happy that I made that decision.

A good female friend fills the place of a girlfriend, bestie gives free sex so why do one need a girlfriend?


This is 2020, if you need sex and you don't want a confirmed prostitute then chat with a girl online and sex will happen. It's so easy if you're into it.


But then sex too isn't worth the time and stress.


I stopped that too.


Sometimes when I am out with friends and they're with their babes, I do feel jealous a little but when I check my wallet and see what's there, I will be very happy.


I have also found a beautiful girl for hanging out purpose, nothing else.


If I am going out with friends, I will call her and if she's free, she will come with me. She will chill with us and go home. Life is easier that way.


but you can't continue with the way you are living,its still boils down to mental and emotional readiness

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Re: Are men getting Fed up? by Malawian(m): 10:07pm On Nov 19
Kondomatic:
It's not about being mentally ready or not, most relationships these days ain't worth the stress, especially if you're not financially okay. Girls will frustrate you.


When my last relationship ended in late 2013, I asked myself one question.


"Why do you need a girlfriend?"


No reasonable answer so I stopped dating and I am happy that I made that decision.

A good female friend fills the place of a girlfriend, bestie gives free sex so why do one need a girlfriend?


This is 2020, if you need sex and you don't want a confirmed prostitute then chat with a girl online and sex will happen. It's so easy if you're into it.


But then sex too isn't worth the time and stress.


I stopped that too.


Sometimes when I am out with friends and they're with their babes, I do feel jealous a little but when I check my wallet and see what's there, I will be very happy.


I have also found a beautiful girl for hanging out purpose, nothing else.


If I am going out with friends, I will call her and if she's free, she will come with me. She will chill with us and go home. Life is easier that way.


If we check now, one of your biceps big pass the other one.

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Re: Are men getting Fed up? by jornwhite: 10:14pm On Nov 19
Shortyy:


Ofcos you men's life revolve around women. Any woman that doesn't need a liability (men) is pained. Lol

Get out of that village and see women living happily and comfortably without liabilities (men).

And the real men, are getting married to real women on a daily. Not you poor urchins on this forum.




your short comings are way beyond any man's height. Smh

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Re: Are men getting Fed up? by Purplekush(m): 10:14pm On Nov 19
Malawian:

If we check now, one of your biceps big pass the other one.


LoL. Guy you no get sense �

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Re: Are men getting Fed up? by Purplekush(m): 10:14pm On Nov 19
Vexedkid:
Abeg na who chop dey reason love matter, op pass me one tie make I blaze abeg.

Still pass am come your left abeg

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Re: Are men getting Fed up? by 2rez: 10:15pm On Nov 19
Malawian:

If we check now, one of your biceps big pass the other one.

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Re: Are men getting Fed up? by Vexedkid(m): 10:27pm On Nov 19
Purplekush:

Still pass am come your left abeg
I dey with you my gee
Re: Are men getting Fed up? by ongback: 11:01pm On Nov 19
Roscoepound:
Okay, so I meet one very fine girl on Sunday evening, I match am, whine am collect en No. but as I reach house say make I chat am up, I realize say I no dey ready for dat kind stress...I free am go light my weed. Since then, me and just dey view each other status, no comments.









Now I want to ask? Is it only me that is noticing how alot guys have become lazy in doing/chasing woman matters. I dey fear say if boys continue like this, come 2022, majority of girls go dey single.


Who else don notice this shit

Comment make me see


Bro it's normal, this is what happens when you start understanding women and how they function. I don't hate or dislike women, no, but the wahala ehn undecided sometimes when you weigh the stress ahead, you'll just decide that you can't go through it at the moment. Just light up your weed and let her thought gradually evaporate off your mind.

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Re: Are men getting Fed up? by zanshi: 11:12pm On Nov 19
I think the crux of the problem is the Media "Nollywood and Hollywood". Nollywood has distorted our minds on what romance really is. knowing fully well that everyday is not romance, champagne and lullaby. Someday's, you spend time most of your time understanding who your partner really is, and this is regardless of how many years you must have spent together. I feel a lot of young men may not have the drive to chase women as they get into their 20's and30's because there isn't really any incentive for trying to woo ladies knowing fully well you may not experience the level of romance you see in the movies. Because of modernity, the ME TOO movement and the rise of feminism, trying to "Woo" a stranger regardless of how beautiful she is can almost be termed as "Sexual harrassment" so every man is trying to be on their best behaviour.

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Re: Are men getting Fed up? by Okoroawusa: 11:16pm On Nov 19
Kondomatic:
It's not about being mentally ready or not, most relationships these days ain't worth the stress, especially if you're not financially okay. Girls will frustrate you.


When my last relationship ended in late 2013, I asked myself one question.


"Why do you need a girlfriend?"


No reasonable answer so I stopped dating and I am happy that I made that decision.

A good female friend fills the place of a girlfriend, bestie gives free sex so why do one need a girlfriend?


This is 2020, if you need sex and you don't want a confirmed prostitute then chat with a girl online and sex will happen. It's so easy if you're into it.


But then sex too isn't worth the time and stress.


I stopped that too.


Sometimes when I am out with friends and they're with their babes, I do feel jealous a little but when I check my wallet and see what's there, I will be very happy.


I have also found a beautiful girl for hanging out purpose, nothing else.


If I am going out with friends, I will call her and if she's free, she will come with me. She will chill with us and go home. Life is easier that way.


You remind me of myself.

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Re: Are men getting Fed up? by Effulgent(m): 11:17pm On Nov 19
Kondomatic:
It's not about being mentally ready or not, most relationships these days ain't worth the stress, especially if you're not financially okay. Girls will frustrate you.


When my last relationship ended in late 2013, I asked myself one question.


"Why do you need a girlfriend?"


No reasonable answer so I stopped dating and I am happy that I made that decision.

A good female friend fills the place of a girlfriend, bestie gives free sex so why do one need a girlfriend?


This is 2020, if you need sex and you don't want a confirmed prostitute then chat with a girl online and sex will happen. It's so easy if you're into it.


But then sex too isn't worth the time and stress.


I stopped that too.


Sometimes when I am out with friends and they're with their babes, I do feel jealous a little but when I check my wallet and see what's there, I will be very happy.


I have also found a beautiful girl for hanging out purpose, nothing else.


If I am going out with friends, I will call her and if she's free, she will come with me. She will chill with us and go home. Life is easier that way.



so no be only me dey reason am

since I left all relationships wahala like 5 or 4 years ago,i get peace of mind

still I never see any reason to have a girlfriend to be candid. Sex sef no dey my mind, nothing dey there.
I no want stress Biko, I cannot call anybody's daughter two times a day or even one time sef, e no dey body..

I've ignored every green light, declined any direct shot. I love my sanity, I cannot be having relationships problems with my current financial status, I'm not satisfied with how I am

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Re: Are men getting Fed up? by millionboi2: 11:37pm On Nov 19
Shortyy:


Ofcos you men's life revolve around women. Any woman that doesn't need a liability (men) is pained. Lol

Get out of that village and see women living happily and comfortably without liabilities (men).

And the real men, are getting married to real women on a daily. Not you poor urchins on this forum.
hahahaha
While you typed this, someone just ran out of her husband home.

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