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Re: Are men getting Fed up? by baiaon(m): 4:57pm On Nov 20
MISSCONGENIALITY:
Not only guys. Girls are tired of guys too
I told my people the other day that they should.not be disappointed if I don't marry
and the only person that has a problem with it was granny. She said I must marry whether I like it or not.
Me, I'm.not someone like like stress. I don't like people telling me we need to see and talk or let's hang out. I prefer to even hang out on my own or with my sister or cousins and female friend than with a guy whos trying to woo me. I have male friend who have complained that I'm too principled for guys who approach me to stay and that I'm too blunt.
I've counted myself among ladies that might end up single cos o sont have power
@Emboldened
10 years ago,when you had suitors climbing over themselves just to get their claws on you,you snarkily hissed and waddled away.Like most young women,you believed those days would last forever but here you are today,aged out and single.The long trail of up-mobile suitors gone .Soon you'll start talking about remaining single for life and adopting some parentless child like it is your personal choice and not the circumstance you've found yourself in.No sympathies here.Enjoy

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Re: Are men getting Fed up? by JONNYSPUTE(m): 4:59pm On Nov 20
baiaon:

@Emboldened
10 years ago,when you had suitors climbing over themselves just to get their claws on you,you snarkily hissed and waddled away.Like most young women,you believed those days would last forever but here you are today,aged up and single.The long trail of up-mobile suitors gone .Soon you'll start talking about remaining single for life and adopting some parentless child like it is your personal choice and not the circumstance you've found yourself in.Enjoy
....You Sabi her before?
Re: Are men getting Fed up? by baiaon(m): 5:06pm On Nov 20
JONNYSPUTE:
....You Sabi her before?
These women think they are slick.From western women to westernized Nigerian women,the narrative is always thesame.Live their lives sloppily/recklessly in their younger years,decide to settle down when they are used up,no suitors available,become feminist/lesbian/overly religious/a single parent.I've seen this story play out a thousand and one times.Nothing new to see here

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Re: Are men getting Fed up? by Oturatetuala(m): 5:08pm On Nov 20
Brokenness dey kill me for here ooo.
Re: Are men getting Fed up? by Bizibi(m): 5:10pm On Nov 20
Kondomatic:
It's not about being mentally ready or not, most relationships these days ain't worth the stress, especially if you're not financially okay. Girls will frustrate you.


When my last relationship ended in late 2013, I asked myself one question.


"Why do you need a girlfriend?"


No reasonable answer so I stopped dating and I am happy that I made that decision.

A good female friend fills the place of a girlfriend, bestie gives free sex so why do one need a girlfriend?


This is 2020, if you need sex and you don't want a confirmed prostitute then chat with a girl online and sex will happen. It's so easy if you're into it.


But then sex too isn't worth the time and stress.


I stopped that too.


Sometimes when I am out with friends and they're with their babes, I do feel jealous a little but when I check my wallet and see what's there, I will be very happy.


I have also found a beautiful girl for hanging out purpose, nothing else.


If I am going out with friends, I will call her and if she's free, she will come with me. She will chill with us and go home. Life is easier that way.


love this comment.... even when you are successful,one will still feel the same way until you are mentally ready for marriage.

Honestly dating these days has never been on my mind even when you get the green light....

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Re: Are men getting Fed up? by Silentgroper(m): 5:13pm On Nov 20
Sixfeetbelle:


Same thing I said just days ago grin grin

Instead of being in relationships where getting money for ordinary hair is now a problem for you guys, girls can turn to full time high-grade hoes and be collecting money from well-to-do guys in exchange for sex.


That way broke ass men who can only afford 500 will never ever have a girlfriend, just oloshos to be holding body till things normalise.
As a broke boy, mke i use u hold body dz weekend till things normalise.

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Re: Are men getting Fed up? by kalufelix(m): 5:32pm On Nov 20
Dunno-bout-others...but-me-think-w33d-is-inverse-to-womanizing...alcohol-maybe-directly-proportionate-as-most-womanizers-are-drunks...life-too-hard-to-add-woman-wahala-ontop...
Re: Are men getting Fed up? by Herrymax(m): 6:21pm On Nov 20
luminouz:


Lmaoooo.... You are a G!!! I have done this before. The geh almost entered the ground in confusion

yea bro, no time for stress, pussy full everywhere
Re: Are men getting Fed up? by Herrymax(m): 6:22pm On Nov 20
DaInferno:
grin careful man... naso Methuselah do live over 900yrs

life nah jeje my brother, can't come and kill myself untop pussy

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Re: Are men getting Fed up? by MISSCONGENIALITY(f): 6:31pm On Nov 20
baiaon:

@Emboldened
10 years ago,when you had suitors climbing over themselves just to get their claws on you,you snarkily hissed and waddled away.Like most young women,you believed those days would last forever but here you are today,aged out and single.The long trail of up-mobile suitors gone .Soon you'll start talking about remaining single for life and adopting some parentless child like it is your personal choice and not the circumstance you've found yourself in.No sympathies here.Enjoy
10yrs ago I was in secondary school.
In your little mind you think it's because Ive passed marriage age that's why I think this way.
Anyways it's my life..live yours and let me live mind. If you want to marry all the girls in your area food and fine. Don't make it look like we are in a competition. We aren't. You don't know me and till we die, we might never meet. Don't quote like you decide for me when to sleep and wwhen to wake up.

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Re: Are men getting Fed up? by MISSCONGENIALITY(f): 6:31pm On Nov 20
brian91:


You reside where?
At my house
Re: Are men getting Fed up? by Jack005(m): 6:42pm On Nov 20
This is exactly what I'm also passing through right now. I don't just think it is worth the stress. My ex just came back after months of leaving, I just dey look her. Make I use her dey cure konji. My mind no dey relationship again until further notice.

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Re: Are men getting Fed up? by Twizzy30(m): 6:59pm On Nov 20
Men are fed up trust me. Just get yourself a babymama to give u kids. Don’t tie the knot or else you’re gonna sign your freedom and half of your possessions away and it’s likely you die young from the stress she’s gonna give you.
There’s a story on front page, where the husband said his wife has been treating him like shitt and denying him sex for years. it got so bad she couldn’t spend 30 mins in same space without getting irritating of him.

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Re: Are men getting Fed up? by Ryan03(m): 7:01pm On Nov 20
Roscoepound:
Even most of my guys dey talk de same thing, Boys go just dey post things like: " I love you but I no get strength"


Nawa o...I just dey fear for how lonely the next two or three years go be for alot of girls
the girls are not scared, na you come dey fear for them. Lol
Re: Are men getting Fed up? by NNEWIsuper: 7:24pm On Nov 20
MISSCONGENIALITY:
If a woman decides she doesn't want to marry, and you still remind her about menopause, is it that when she marries she wont experience menopause again or she will die before menopause.
Do you think everyone who is married with kids have birth to the kids themselves? Theres are many ways a woman could have kids without getting pregnant.
So don't use menopause to scare people. Bedsides, no be to born, na to take care of the child. With the way Nigeria is going, I won't be bothered not giving birth cos life is worthless is this country.
Don't forget everything is vanity. Money, kids, life, everything.
I lost my mom 13yrs ago and they didn't bury her with any of my siblings. She was burried alone. Without her property or her mother or father.
Reality is different from this your bull story.. Everywhere on earth is hell, why not die now since you have no motivation to live a proper life
Re: Are men getting Fed up? by Truvel(m): 7:28pm On Nov 20
No ComeMess.
Re: Are men getting Fed up? by MISSCONGENIALITY(f): 7:48pm On Nov 20
NNEWIsuper:

Reality is different from this your bull story.. Everywhere on earth is hell, why not die now since you have no motivation to live a proper life
Lol. Don't tell.me the only motivation one should have to live is getting.married?
If you want to marry and you.meet someone you can be happy with,that's great..but don't expect people to be what you want to be cos you are not them and they are not you. Marry if it makes you complete. But if you are not convinced, don't.do it because everyone is doing so or just because you want to bear children. marry for companionship not to.please people.
Leave me alone. I will die when death chooses me. And whether single of not, happiness is the what we all seek for. If yours comes fr.an opposite sex or same sex, marry them.

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Re: Are men getting Fed up? by NNEWIsuper: 8:04pm On Nov 20
MISSCONGENIALITY:
Lol. Don't tell.me the only motivation one should have to live is getting.married?
If you want to marry and you.meet someone you can be happy with,that's great..but don't expect people to be what you want to be cos you are not them and they are not you. Marry if it makes you complete. But if you are not convinced, don't.do it because everyone is doing so or just because you want to bear children. marry for companionship not to.please people.
Leave me alone. I will die when death chooses me. And whether single of not, happiness is the what we all seek for. If yours comes fr.an opposite sex or same sex, marry them.
Who's talking about marriage here.. You mentioned other bullcraps in the previous statement I quoted like someone who was depressed and tired of life
Re: Are men getting Fed up? by Activist001(m): 8:06pm On Nov 20
NNEWIsuper:

Reality is different from this your bull story.. Everywhere on earth is hell, why not die now since you have no motivation to live a proper life
Mr Man, free the lady. What's your own?

When men say they don't want wives and marriage, you applaud but when women say they don't want the same marriage and husband, you're here saying rubbish. I'm a guy and this is pure hypocrisy!

Free the lady (and every other lady in your life) and let them live their lives. It's not that hard isn't it? undecided

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Re: Are men getting Fed up? by NNEWIsuper: 8:22pm On Nov 20
Activist001:

Mr Man, free the lady. What's your own?

When men say they don't want wives and marriage, you applaud but when women say they don't want the same marriage and husband, you're here saying rubbish. I'm a guy and this is pure hypocrisy!

Free the lady (and every other lady in your life) and let them live their lives. It's not that hard isn't it? undecided
Busy body.. Go find something doing ediot, I'm having a conversation with someone else and you have carried your miserable self to this place.. You're just a cursed worthless illiterate miscreant looking for attention.. Ediot
Re: Are men getting Fed up? by ABlAstate: 8:24pm On Nov 20
NNEWIsuper:

Busy body.. Go find something doing ediot, I'm having a conversation with someone else and you have carried your miserable self to this place.. You're just a cursed worthless illiterate miscreant looking for attention.. Ediot


Useless cursed frustrated hopeless jobless bastard, see where you are needed to discuss your useless worthless shithole Abia state. cheesy


https://www.nairaland.com/6269022/umuahia-most-backward-state-capital
Re: Are men getting Fed up? by etrange: 8:25pm On Nov 20
NNEWIsuper:

Busy body.. Go find something doing ediot, I'm having a conversation with someone else and you have carried your miserable self to this place.. You're just a cursed worthless illiterate miscreant looking for attention.. Ediot

You couldn't even counter his points. You're just cursing. Nawa o.
Re: Are men getting Fed up? by Frustrated007: 9:04pm On Nov 20
Who cares? What value can you possibly bring into a man's life that he already can't get by himself? undecided
Alot of you modern women think you are more valuable than you actually are!

Make una no worry..una go hear am as time goes by
MISSCONGENIALITY:
Not only guys. Girls are tired of guys too
I told.my people the other day that they should.not be disappointed if I don't marry and the only person that has a problem with it was granny. She said I must marry whether I like it or not.
Me, I'm.not someone like like stress. I don't like people telling me we need to see and talk or let's hang out. I prefer to even hang out on my own or with my sister or cousins and female friend than with a guy whos trying to woo me. I have male friend who have complained that I'm too principled for guys who approach me to stay and that I'm too blunt.
I've counted myself among ladies that might end up single cos o sont have power.
Re: Are men getting Fed up? by MISSCONGENIALITY(f): 9:23pm On Nov 20
Frustrated007:
Who cares? What value can you possibly bring into a man's life that he already can't get by himself? undecided
Alot of you modern women think you are more valuable than you actually are!

Make una no worry..una go hear am as time goes by
Odimma.

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Re: Are men getting Fed up? by MISSCONGENIALITY(f): 9:23pm On Nov 20
NNEWIsuper:

Who's talking about marriage here.. You mentioned other bullcraps in the previous statement I quoted like someone who was depressed and tired of life
Odimma.
Re: Are men getting Fed up? by ModelX(m): 10:42pm On Nov 20
Sixfeetbelle:


Same thing I said just days ago grin grin

Instead of being in relationships where getting money for ordinary hair is now a problem for you guys, girls can turn to full time high-grade hoes and be collecting money from well-to-do guys in exchange for sex.


That way broke ass men who can only afford 500 will never ever have a girlfriend, just oloshos to be holding body till things normalise.
Getting money for ordinary hair? I said it. You're either a bastard or poverty-stricken ho. So money for hair na your issue? God, dis wan na pesin pikin? What a waste!

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Re: Are men getting Fed up? by brian91(m): 11:28pm On Nov 20
MISSCONGENIALITY:
At my house

Really!! You being sarcastic, right
Re: Are men getting Fed up? by Liposure(m): 3:54am On Nov 21
A lot of relationship these days can be likened to a regular trade by barter arrangement. Here selfish interest is the driving force base on what you bring to the table be in cash or in kind
Re: Are men getting Fed up? by MISSCONGENIALITY(f): 2:56pm On Nov 21
brian91:


Really!! You being sarcastic, right
I'm not being sarcastic. Where's is the sarcasm in my reply telling you I'm at my house.
That's where I am nah.
Re: Are men getting Fed up? by brian91(m): 8:47pm On Nov 21
MISSCONGENIALITY:
I'm not being sarcastic. Where's is the sarcasm in my reply telling you I'm at my house.
That's where I am nah.

ENJOY!!!

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Re: Are men getting Fed up? by Kevsmart88(m): 9:25pm On Nov 21
One of the so many ills of westernisation. There were times when men saw having a family as an accomplishment, something to be proud of. Times have truly changed, partly due to the unfriendly economic situation we find ourselves in this clime. So many bills/ responsibilities, it takes the average Nigerian youth so much time to attain financial stability coupled with the stress of dating most Nigerian girls who see relationships as a means of livelihood. But like a lady rightly pointed out, it goes both ways. I have few female friends who don't find the marriage thing appealing anymore. With this mindset of the greater percentage of our youths, it's really a scary future to envisage cos we may begin to see an unprecedented number of kids born out of wedlock.
Re: Are men getting Fed up? by etrouble: 9:46pm On Nov 21
Roscoepound:




I know say e dey pain you say alot guys no dey reason your matter. But sorry oh...e go worst pass like that after now.

I just checked her profile picture, she is quite pretty nah, so many guys go dey reason her matter.

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