What's that behaviour that can make u lose interest in ur partner?

When it's no more tight

Abudu2000:
When it's no more tight

When what's no more tight?

Too much ideological difference.

Nothing, I just like catching cruise in all relationships , when the fun reduces I move out. I can't be committed to anyone, I Know it's not possible.

Just as a child graduates from high school into college, his priorities shift. The courses he takes become more narrow. He drops some classmates behind and retain few classmates who share the same college preference and same course. We do not go remain in high school out of loyalty to our friends.


As we age, our values, hobbies job etc changes. This is a sign of growth.one whose priority remain constant is stagnant like a child who fails to learn . Our choice of life partner also change.


A partner is one who embark on a similar journey with us. As our priority changes, that of our partner may remain the same or change in a different direction. One partner is taking a leap in one direction and the other partner is watching while giving her full support . There are other relationship where the other partner discourage you from keeping up to your new ideal.you no longer feel connected. You become incompatible . Just because you are in a union does not mean you must follow our partner as he/ she changes her priorities

https://tobechispeaks./2020/11/16/relate-dont-marry/

If I am stagnant in life at that time o

Na to murveee

Fxck relationship

Lack of trust and communication

boring sex






MEANWHILE, ARE YOU AN ARTIST? CHECK MY SIGNATURE

Lack of maturity

Insolent

Lies

Ignoring hygiene

When you stop believing in God

Boredom.

BigDawsNet:
Lack of maturity

Insolent

Lies

Ignoring hygiene

When you stop believing in God

You are inconsistent, today you are married, tomorrow you are very single, another day you are.......

Alot. I'm quite meticulous, yet easy to get along with, super playful, but can ghost instantly if one cross the line, and very benevolent, but can be the most selfish person youll ever know when one try to exploit.

What turns me off in a relationship is useless pride, acting like I should be lucky for having you, I don't care if you're Dangote's daughter, you gotta drop your pride out the door, so we can relate like two equal humans. Relationship is a place of peace, where each other recognises their intrinsic value outside materialism, and pride is a direct assault to this phenomena. Luckily, all these are common with teenagers, and I've grown past that age, but some adult still do these, but well, okay.

Immaturity is the second one. Such as, leaving my message on read for an unreasonable amount of time to form busy, that you're valuable, and keep my mind wrestling why. Or being selfish, like can't even pay for yourself when we go out, and for me sometimes. How about discussing all our relationship issues with your friends, and listening to advices from social media influencers, and also operating from a position of perfection, that it is always me at fault and not you? Really? Oh and lacking of self-awareness. For example, beint offended for same thing you do, double standards etc.

Being crass. You know, the Cardi B kind of behaviour. Using the word "nigga" in every sentence, dressing sexually provocative, smoking like naira marley, being loudmouthed, too sensitive that every innocent joke becomes offensive and the imaginary "oppression", lacks individuality in thinking, you know, your typical social media obsessed 21st century women.

There are more, but these are the worse I can't stand.

SyrusdeHansome:
What's that behaviour that can make u lose interest in ur partner?

Well I lose interest if the relationship lasts too long like more than 3months. I don't like long relationships, I usually break up before 3months

Her nagging attitude and lack of respect.

Fountainofyouth:



You are inconsistent, today you are married, tomorrow you are very single, another day you are.......

What Can Suddenly Make U Lose Interest In Ur Relationship?

It's a simple generally question

The question is generally for both married or single...

I answered it because it's a generally question

And for your info...

I'm not married
I'm in a serious relationship

Maybe you have saw my previous post that contains "my wife" ...

You need to read once again...they are meant to be fun jokes...and I get a lot of likes from them...I mean people with sense of humor...

Thank you

pansophist:
Alot. I'm quite meticulous, yet easy to get along with, super playful, but can ghost instantly if one cross the line, and very benevolent, but can be the most selfish person youll ever know when one try to exploit.

What turns me off in a relationship is useless pride, acting like I should be lucky for having you, I don't care if you're Dangote's daughter, you gotta drop your pride out the door, so we can relate like two equal humans. Relationship is a place of peace, where each other recognises their intrinsic value outside materialism, and pride is a direct assault to this phenomena. Luckily, all these are common with teenagers, and I've grown past that age, but some adult still do these, but well, okay.

Immaturity is the second one. Such as, leaving my message on read for an unreasonable amount of time to form busy, that you're valuable, and keep my mind wrestling why. Or being selfish, like can't even pay for yourself when we go out, and for me sometimes. How about discussing all our relationship issues with your friends, and listening to advices from social media influencers, and also operating from a position of perfection, that it is always me at fault and not you? Really? Oh and lacking of self-awareness. For example, beint offended for same thing you do, double standards etc.

Being crass. You know, the Cardi B kind of behaviour. Using the word "nigga" in every sentence, dressing sexually provocative, smoking like naira marley, being loudmouthed, too sensitive that every innocent joke becomes offensive and the imaginary "oppression", lacks individuality in thinking, you know, your typical social media obsessed 21st century women.

There are more, but these are the worse I can't stand.

You already sound like a difficult person to live with.



Your future wife must be a strong person oh.

Sixfeetbelle:


You already sound like a difficult person to live with.



Your future wife must be a strong person oh.

The future is now lol, she no de complain. She de enjoy am infact

pansophist:


The future is now lol, she no de complain. She de enjoy am infact

I'm glad she's a strong person. Me, I'm not strong oh so I can't deal.

Thumbs up to her.

A man who can stay days without talking to me, without replying my messages, picking my calls..
A man who is an unrepentant liar
I can't deal with any of the above.

Sixfeetbelle:


I'm glad she's a strong person. Me, I'm not strong oh so I can't deal.

Thumbs up to her.

But wetin de difficult for wetin I write up there? I even think say you de play sef. Abi you want agbero as a hubby? Me no want micki minaj type na

pansophist:


But wetin de difficult for wetin I write up there? I even think say you de play sef. Abi you want agbero as a hubby? Me no want micki minaj type na

It's like I'll have to pick out your comment to send my point home.

Can ghost if she crosses the playful line. How would she know she's crossed this line? Why is there even a line when we're being playful?

Pride is relative though. It helps to build up selfesteem. Dropping it completely is never adviced but that's what you want her to do?

Define immaturity so I'm sure it means same thing to everyone. What you term immature might just be the person's way of handling things. Do you know of "accommodation" in relationships?

Selfish. Jeez. If you want your meals to be paid for, point it out. That's simple courtesy. If you invite her out without talking about bills, you handle bills. However, if you want her to pay, you fvcking say so.

Discussing issues on social media has its positives and negatives, I agree, but if she has doubts and don't think you're the best person to thrash it out with, there might be something missing in your relationship.

Okay, I'll concede on the "Miss Perfect" syndrome.

Being crass? What? That's like another name for being street smart. You, Mr, are a nigga. Deal with it.

Wait, what? Is this the 50s? Is she your grandmother? If she feels "womanly" in what she wears, she should be allowed to express it. Feminine beauty comes in women loving what they wear and feeling confident about it.

Smoking and loud-mouthed? I agree with you too.

Being sensitive to jokes depends on how frequent you do it. That's like you crossing the "joke" line. Tone it down, Soldier.

What nonsense behavior of typical socia media obsessed woman are you referring to? Are you dating a teenager? Besides, not all "social media obssesed" females act like that. There are exceptions to this as not everyone on there use social media for the same purpose.



Anyway, you already said you got a lady who ticks all the right boxes so I don commot hand for your matter.

Boredom like when there is no more spark

@sixfeetbelle

Every reasonable human with a properly developed brain should know when they crossed the line, especially after being warned, if they continue then proper ghosting is well-deserved.

Nothing wrong with pride in itself, that was why I further explained that earthly possesions should not give her a superiority over a man, that should have clarified it for you. For fukc sake, the man (in this case, me) can have more earthly possessions and status than her, but I will not, and do not use it against anyone, especially my beloved, so I do not expect it from her. Respect is reciprocal. I am referring to pride in the meaning of ego, boastfulness, looking down on people, etc.

Madam check ya dictionary, you will see the definition of immaturity there, and that is my definition and what I meant. For example, getting angry I did not like your pics on Instagram, then concluding falsely, and amplifying rubbish in your head.

If she goes out with her friends, they all both pay for their meals as a rule, unless someone then decided to pay for the other. Madam don't talk as if you live under a rock, or, do you live under a rock?. For me it's either I pay for myself, or for both of us. I do not let anyone, talk more of a woman to pay for me. But the effort of trying to pay for yourself is important, and not leeching on another man's son, even when you are a working class.

Hope you don't mind if your man asks his followers on Instagram that his GF (you) is too heavy to lift and that they should recommend diet. Na solution he de find, hope you understand. If you like that, good for you, I DONT.

Street smart is knowing how to converse in pidgin with the agbero and walk through a bad neighborhood with the body language of a local man, being smart is also that, but incorporate education, experience, know-how, and more. Calling someone nigga or any name they do not like is not street smart, it is being offensive, and disrespectful. Could land you in kirikiri.

If you wear clothes that expose the camel toe, that I can see the color of your ass cheek and panties through your trousers, that you can't even bend down to tie your shoelace and all your undies would be exposed to the world, then hell no, it reeks of low self-esteem, not feminine beauty. You can dress graceful and be beautiful, not half-naked.

As per the rest, na you sabi.

BigDawsNet:



What Can Suddenly Make U Lose Interest In Ur Relationship?

It's a simple generally question

The question is generally for both married or single...

I answered it because it's a generally question

And for your info...

I'm not married
I'm in a serious relationship

Maybe you have saw my previous post that contains "my wife" ...

You need to read once again...they are meant to be fun jokes...and I get a lot of likes from them...I mean people with sense of humor...

Thank you

You clearly did not remember my moniker, I specifically asked you if you are single, you said you are very very very single, reason for my previous comment.

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pansophist:
Alot. I'm quite meticulous, yet easy to get along with, super playful, but can ghost instantly if one cross the line, and very benevolent, but can be the most selfish person youll ever know when one try to exploit.

What turns me off in a relationship is useless pride, acting like I should be lucky for having you, I don't care if you're Dangote's daughter, you gotta drop your pride out the door, so we can relate like two equal humans. Relationship is a place of peace, where each other recognises their intrinsic value outside materialism, and pride is a direct assault to this phenomena. Luckily, all these are common with teenagers, and I've grown past that age, but some adult still do these, but well, okay.

Immaturity is the second one. Such as, leaving my message on read for an unreasonable amount of time to form busy, that you're valuable, and keep my mind wrestling why. Or being selfish, like can't even pay for yourself when we go out, and for me sometimes. How about discussing all our relationship issues with your friends, and listening to advices from social media influencers, and also operating from a position of perfection, that it is always me at fault and not you? Really? Oh and lacking of self-awareness. For example, beint offended for same thing you do, double standards etc.

Being crass. You know, the Cardi B kind of behaviour. Using the word "nigga" in every sentence, dressing sexually provocative, smoking like naira marley, being loudmouthed, too sensitive that every innocent joke becomes offensive and the imaginary "oppression", lacks individuality in thinking, you know, your typical social media obsessed 21st century women.

There are more, but these are the worse I can't stand. [/s]

Negative energy. I can't stand it. It irks me

Maybe she's not...ahhh let me be in one first

Maybe she's not...ahhh let me be in one first

Fountainofyouth:



You clearly did not remember my moniker, I specifically asked you if you are single, you said you are very very very single, reason for my previous comment.

Yea I did, i remember your moniker

I'll admit, you we're skeptical that faithful day..

Well for the record

I'm not married

I'm in a valid relationship

I actually told you I'm single because it's doesn't matter if you have the right details....


It's only a friendly chat...

I cant cope with a woman that snore. That shit disgust me.