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When A Girl Tells You-- Let's Just Be Friends by Pukkalolo: 7:44pm On Nov 20, 2020
One problem experienced by men: The ladies you're romantically interested in only view you as ATM machine or as just a friend.

Basically the ladies you have interest in say they prefer to be just friends with you. That's what we refer to as friend zone.

As a young man, If almost every attractive lady you woo tell you they are not interested in you or tell you they have a boyfriend or tell you they prefer you as just friend or they simply ignore you, then there's a problem...Yes, seriously, there's a "problem", which we are going to solve today.

Some random guys reading this now might say something like, "the problem is that I'm not as rich and famous as Davido."
Well, brothers, sorry to disappoint you; the problem is not that you're not as rich and famous as Davido.
But wait...let's think of it for a moment: If that was the problem, then almost all unmarried ladies above 18 would still be virgin up till now.

Why?

Because there not so many of the likes of Davido to go around for all the millions of young ladies all around the world. But guess what? There are many ladies who had lost their virginity even before the age of 18 years old; which means they didn't all lose their virginity to Davido and his likes. They lost it to normal looking guys like you. Even Davido didn't meet Chioma as a virgin. Chioma dated and slept with normal looking guys like you before meeting Davido.
So for you guys saying that the problem is that you're not as rich and famous as Davido, just FEM...


Let's continue...


Some guys that are reading this now might also say something like, "the problem is that I'm not spending enough for the ladies I'm wooing."

Again, sorry to disappoint you; that's not the problem.
But hey, wait a minute... what If the problem was that you're not spending enough for the ladies you're wooing? Then that means almost all men will have ladies chasing after them.

Why?

Because guys spend for ladies almost all the flipping time. But unfortunately, despite that, most of these guys still get the following lines being thrown at them by almost all the beautiful ladies they want. "I am not interested"; "I have a boyfriend"; "let's just be friends."

It surprises me that many guys think that if a girl is not interested in them, then simply being nice, agreeable and caring to her will get her to switch from harshly saying "I am not interested in you" TO passionately screaming "f**k me harder"... But sorry to disappoint you, the only time you will hear the later is if you mistakenly forget to turn down the volume of the porn video you're watching.



Back to the main gist.

As a young single guy, does almost all ladies you woo tells you they are not interested in you? Or they tell you they have a boyfriend Or maybe they are interested in you initially but after getting to know you, they suddenly change their mind and prefer to be just friends with you.

There are couple of reasons why this things are happening.

One of the reasons is that--when interacting with a lady you're attracted too, you put getting her to like you over everything else; Over your self-respect, over your time and over your value as a man. You interacts with her as though you're walking on egg shells.
The problem with this kind of behavior is that it validates the female ego.


The female ego says: “I expect every man to put me on a pedestal and treat me like a flawless goddess.”


The female ego is overblown as a result of constant praise, ass licking and undeserved attention from guys. Treating a lady like a flawless goddess and Putting her on a pedestal will make her feel on top of the world, but at the same time, she’ll feel pressured to live up to that standard.


You’ll never inspire a girl to bring out her true sexual and naughty side when you put her on pedestal and treat her like a flawless good girl. She'll assume that if she shows you her true sexual side quickly, you might bring her down from the pedestal.


Now, if you're ready to put an end to every "I have a boyfriend" or "Let's just be friends" line being thrown at you by the ladies you want and you want to become that admirable and sexy guy that ladies naturally crush on, then send me a PM let me send you a "free" copy of "the one" formula.


It's possible that you've dated so many hot and beautiful ladies in your imaginations and fantasies, but with "the one" formula you can turn that into reality.

"The one" formula is a concise e-book that contain effective wisdoms that will change your dating game totally.

PM me now...let me send you a "free" copy...
Re: When A Girl Tells You-- Let's Just Be Friends by Nazgul: 8:05pm On Nov 20, 2020
Why would I need your e-book to date a girl. If a girl tells me let's be friends, then we'll be friends. all these unnecessary formula to get a girl isn't relevant in this part of west Africa cos there are thousands of them readily available...all you have to do is to work hard and be successful and you can always get a positive response when you choose to make a move on anyone of your choice.

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Re: When A Girl Tells You-- Let's Just Be Friends by ttbaba(m): 2:54pm On Nov 30, 2020
Pukkalolo:
One problem experienced by men: The ladies you're romantically interested in only view you as ATM machine or as just a friend.

Basically the ladies you have interest in say they prefer to be just friends with you. That's what we refer to as friend zone.

As a young man, If almost every attractive lady you woo tell you they are not interested in you or tell you they have a boyfriend or tell you they prefer you as just friend or they simply ignore you, then there's a problem...Yes, seriously, there's a "problem", which we are going to solve today.

Some random guys reading this now might say something like, "the problem is that I'm not as rich and famous as Davido."
Well, brothers, sorry to disappoint you; the problem is not that you're not as rich and famous as Davido.
But wait...let's think of it for a moment: If that was the problem, then almost all unmarried ladies above 18 would still be virgin up till now.

Why?

Because there not so many of the likes of Davido to go around for all the millions of young ladies all around the world. But guess what? There are many ladies who had lost their virginity even before the age of 18 years old; which means they didn't all lose their virginity to Davido and his likes. They lost it to normal looking guys like you. Even Davido didn't meet Chioma as a virgin. Chioma dated and slept with normal looking guys like you before meeting Davido.
So for you guys saying that the problem is that you're not as rich and famous as Davido, just FEM...


Let's continue...


Some guys that are reading this now might also say something like, "the problem is that I'm not spending enough for the ladies I'm wooing."

Again, sorry to disappoint you; that's not the problem.
But hey, wait a minute... what If the problem was that you're not spending enough for the ladies you're wooing? Then that means almost all men will have ladies chasing after them.

Why?

Because guys spend for ladies almost all the flipping time. But unfortunately, despite that, most of these guys still get the following lines being thrown at them by almost all the beautiful ladies they want. "I am not interested"; "I have a boyfriend"; "let's just be friends."

It surprises me that many guys think that if a girl is not interested in them, then simply being nice, agreeable and caring to her will get her to switch from harshly saying "I am not interested in you" TO passionately screaming "f**k me harder"... But sorry to disappoint you, the only time you will hear the later is if you mistakenly forget to turn down the volume of the porn video you're watching.



Back to the main gist.

As a young single guy, does almost all ladies you woo tells you they are not interested in you? Or they tell you they have a boyfriend Or maybe they are interested in you initially but after getting to know you, they suddenly change their mind and prefer to be just friends with you.

There are couple of reasons why this things are happening.

One of the reasons is that--when interacting with a lady you're attracted too, you put getting her to like you over everything else; Over your self-respect, over your time and over your value as a man. You interacts with her as though you're walking on egg shells.
The problem with this kind of behavior is that it validates the female ego.


The female ego says: “I expect every man to put me on a pedestal and treat me like a flawless goddess.”


The female ego is overblown as a result of constant praise, ass licking and undeserved attention from guys. Treating a lady like a flawless goddess and Putting her on a pedestal will make her feel on top of the world, but at the same time, she’ll feel pressured to live up to that standard.


You’ll never inspire a girl to bring out her true sexual and naughty side when you put her on pedestal and treat her like a flawless good girl. She'll assume that if she shows you her true sexual side quickly, you might bring her down from the pedestal.


Now, if you're ready to put an end to every "I have a boyfriend" or "Let's just be friends" line being thrown at you by the ladies you want and you want to become that admirable and sexy guy that ladies naturally crush on, then send me a PM let me send you a "free" copy of "the one" formula.


It's possible that you've dated so many hot and beautiful ladies in your imaginations and fantasies, but with "the o hene" formula you can turn that into reality.

"The one" formula is a concise e-book that contain effective wisdoms that will change your dating game totally.

PM me now...let me send you a "free" copy...

hello....pls send me the free copy to this email topefelix11@gmail.com or send my wasap 08036537472
Re: When A Girl Tells You-- Let's Just Be Friends by Bellotelli: 9:01pm On Nov 30, 2020
Fwb abi
Re: When A Girl Tells You-- Let's Just Be Friends by Nobody: 11:32pm On Nov 30, 2020
Epistle of Paul to the Corinthians. Ain't reading this shit bruh. grin

If a lady friendzones you,eave her alone or just become her "friend" with your senses of cause.
Re: When A Girl Tells You-- Let's Just Be Friends by Kolawoleodukoya5(m): 11:33pm On Nov 30, 2020
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Re: When A Girl Tells You-- Let's Just Be Friends by tobechi74: 3:55am On Dec 01, 2020
I accept. But whenever she asks for money,vtell her the previledges is only for your girlfriend.

She should ask her boyfriend
Re: When A Girl Tells You-- Let's Just Be Friends by Isaacakin76(m): 8:22am On Dec 01, 2020
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Re: When A Girl Tells You-- Let's Just Be Friends by AKAyomide(m): 9:37am On Dec 01, 2020
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