vivilafrosh:



The ones that married guys with money did they die.

If my love for money irritates you.

Go and die

jamesharryson:

Three hundred thousand?⁷
My own in laws took 956k and are still saying that that I am stingy. it is well

JOACHINpedro:
Propose to person wey get sense.
Do a lowkey wedding
Manage una assets
No born pikins wey you no fit Carter for.
Work smart, live good and retire better.



It has never been easy for anyone

Yamiriflathead:


Why you dey preach?

lathrowinger:


U don marry?...

horlique:

they forgot to make it N1M

fatymore:
dec 5

womenareapes:
Mr man you shouldn't be thinking of getting married to those black apes called Naija women but rather you should be thinking of how to date foreign women

you see! these pieces of shiit don't have have anything to offer other than there 1000 diameter blackhole!

the disadvantages of marrying a Naija women far outweigh the advantages!

no economical value, NOTHING!

walking into marriage with Naija women is like signing life contract with the Devil!

stillmaticOG:
How much you have shouldn't determine when to get married.

The important thing is having a steady cash flow and getting married when u think you're ready.

I have more than 10m in my account but believe me I'm still not ready or even thinking about marriage yet

Chrisceejay:
me just select a girl of my choice and give her belle 1-3 children her parent will even beg me to bring anything i have for both traditional and wedding of a thing

mastermaestro:


See the second idiot! You are urging him on to degrade a woman to what you scum lots call baby mama? Cursed generation!

SavageMaster:


Hmm...

If you really want to get married, do a quiet traditional marriage, just few people invited.

Also do a quiet church wedding. You don't need the whole world there. You don't need to organize a trending wedding. I can't even remember the food I ate or some of the things that happened at most weddings I've attended. All I know is that the couple are now married.

Don't let society and its "expectations" keep you from getting married. You only need an understanding woman.

2dice01:
Except you are marrying a guy
Then he understand the logic

A women don't care
She & her friends wanna slay and Pepper dem

lathrowinger:


Am I invited?

LordVaiki:
Have a baby mama instead,she will remain loyal while waiting for marriage... maybe? But if you go for them pussy people,guy life go tire you. #1M go dissolve for your eye under few months...no risk am

setobaba:

None bro, none
Ladies get married today to secure the future of their families and themselves

Bulshits
The reasons for getting married have changed overtime

Majestybaba92:


the best! even Davido own na baby mama
just give the girl belle

humilitypays:
Your savings is not as important as your continuous income. What you need most is steady means of income, not a static savings. You need a steady, sustainable income of at least NGN200,000 every month for the first 5 years of marriage if you live in Lagos, Abuja, Portharcourt....and an increase to like NGN400,000 - NGN600,000 within the next 6 - 10 years of your marriage to run a healthy, truly comfortable family.


If you are talking about wedding, you can plan wedding with NGN500,000.....in fact plan the wedding now that COVID-19 restricted number of gathering and don't center the success of your marriage around flamboyant wedding. Wedding day does not define how great a marriage would be.


I have a friend whom I was his best man some 7 years ago.....the wedding was so dull like it was a burial ceremony - all thanks to lack of money.....but today, this guy is worth over NGN200million from his legal business deals not through crime.

He married a deserving lady....a virtuous lady who helped to push him to greatness. Whoever he is today, owe tribute to his wife. His wife turned his life around. His wife provided the capital he used to catapult his business empire today....not that his wife was rich though, but she came from a well to do family and she cried to her family members to help her husband and they helped him with no-interest loans that turned his business fortune around.


Marry such lady!

To lessen the burden, make sure your wife-to-be is earning monthly income too.

Be it from her own sustainable business with growth prospect or from a well defined career path or handwork.


Never you make the mistake of marrying an unemployed, lazy, not-making-effort-to-earn lady. That is the beginning of solidifying family poverty.



Marry a lady of vision. Marry a lady who have zeal and burns for success!


Marry a lady who is working to earn a living...a lady who aspires to be like some great women, don't marry a lady who reminds you that so so and so man married and told his wife to stop working because he is rich enough to take care of his family.


Run from ladies with this dirty, foolish mentality......it is the mentality of ladies who land men into perpetual poverty with time, flee from them no matter how pretty she is!

NOwazobia:
The men should start advocating for the women to start footing the expenses of the white wedding if the women so wanted it, except the man wants it likewise.

Oracleforce:
Marriage on the side of the world is another means of alleviating or ameliorate poverty...
Naija ladies don't mind being the 9th wife provided the man is loaded...

No lady wants to reason with you....all they want to do is to test your financial capability.. And that why we have a lot of single ladies who might not have hope of getting married in their lifetime.

Guys, if you have the opportunities to travel abroad, and marry a foreigner...they are better wives and in-law materials than those in Naija.

Tueh.....god forbid that I should marry a Naija lady...

Sixfeetbelle:


I think you guys should, while you're doing this one, also advocate for women to become the head of the house instead. If expenses of the home keeps shifting to the women-folk at every turn, shouldn't the title also move to her?

Yesterday was about women taking equal responsibilities in relationships. Today is about women taking equal/more responsibilities in wedding plans and execution. Who knows what you'll suggest tomorrow?

I mean with the way you guys are going, we'll gradually get the point where you guys would want women to foot the whole wedding since apparently we're the one who "want" the wedding.

Nonsense and alpha males.

LordVaiki:
Your biological father and cursed pastor and his prostitute wife were the first idiots for making you believe that Jesus will save your humanly worthless self hiding in the stupidity of religion. Loser! May you lose your life to poverty!! Scondrel.