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Re: How Much Should I Consider Safe To Have In My Bank Before Thinking On Wedding? by tightpussy156: 3:39pm On Nov 24, 2020 |
Guy you be learner. One million na change some spend 10 million or more than for wedding money gotten illegally an the baby go respect without mind the source. See with the current situation of the country na baby Mama sure pass because politicians have make life difficult for the masses. That is the real truth even a girl you love so much that will pressure you in to marriage claiming to support you that one na big lie. Once you marry you are on ur own. No girl is ready now to support her man for marriage. They keep there money why you spend yours an claim my money is mine why your money is our money. Be wise boy what an elder see why sitting a child cant see why standing. Who quote me hug transformer. 3 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: How Much Should I Consider Safe To Have In My Bank Before Thinking On Wedding? by Oracleforce: 3:41pm On Nov 24, 2020 |
Marriage on the side of the world is another means of alleviating or ameliorate poverty... Naija ladies don't mind being the 9th wife provided the man is loaded... No lady wants to reason with you....all they want to do is to test your financial capability.. And that why we have a lot of single ladies who might not have hope of getting married in their lifetime. Guys, if you have the opportunities to travel abroad, and marry a foreigner...they are better wives and in-law materials than those in Naija. Tueh.....god forbid that I should marry a Naija lady... 2 Likes |
Re: How Much Should I Consider Safe To Have In My Bank Before Thinking On Wedding? by victons(m): 3:48pm On Nov 24, 2020 |
LordVaiki:Lol, Baby Mamas are more loyal |
Re: How Much Should I Consider Safe To Have In My Bank Before Thinking On Wedding? by Chrisceejay: 3:50pm On Nov 24, 2020 |
me just select a girl of my choice and give her belle 1-3 children her parent will even beg me to bring anything i have for both traditional and wedding of a thing 2 Likes |
Re: How Much Should I Consider Safe To Have In My Bank Before Thinking On Wedding? by emmyrate1(m): 4:01pm On Nov 24, 2020 |
setobaba:my brother with one million, u can get marry and continue with your life. Just pay her bride price do introduction probably low key traditional marriage, go home with your wife and set out how things will work out for both of you. I don't believe in spending millions on top marriage. If Ur babe is an understanding woman she go apply wisdom because after marriage Dia are other responsibilities awaiting. And make sure Ur wife have something doing. |
Re: How Much Should I Consider Safe To Have In My Bank Before Thinking On Wedding? by JOBgame(m): 4:03pm On Nov 24, 2020 |
GUY GO relax your mind no rush sir everything is time but if you wan marry for now even 2million is not enough it is better to invest that money in some aspect inorder to get return that will make you smile all day sir |
Re: How Much Should I Consider Safe To Have In My Bank Before Thinking On Wedding? by dljbd1(m): 4:03pm On Nov 24, 2020 |
setobaba: I must confess, it was more. I know the major concern is bride prize. I wouldn't include that as wedding cost so let's leave that out. Actual wedding cost which I believe can be cut/done away with are: - Reception: we spend a lot of reception that wouldn't add any value to the marriage. Well, except you are sure of some friends who would come spray some cash sha. In that case if you extrapolate that cash sprayed will exceed the cost of having a reception then go ahead. In my case, I didn't do a full fleshed reception. I just had a small get together with friends. We were not more than 30 and luckily I got huge discount on deco and my friends supported wella. Good to have great friends. - Feeding: you shouldn't kill yourself on top this matter. Its not as if the people coming for your wedding do not have food at home. Its not as if they are relying on just the food you will share. So please budget within your pocket and work towards it. If budget no reach am abeg leave feeding. Anyone that's not happy better not come or go hug transformer. You are not FATHER CHRISTMAS. - Honeymoon: my brother from another mother. This one eh...just give her a lovely hotel room with flowers. Even if its just for a night. Just make it memorable even if na inside your house. There will be many times for honeymoon in the future trust me. But the first sha should be something memorable and not necessarily expensive. You can work something nice out on this. In all these, it is important to have a woman who understands. I know parents can be a bit stretchy especially when its a first son/daughter doing the wedding. While they bring in their opinions, make them understand its your wedding and you do not have funds for all the extras they are suggesting. If they will assist then its fine...and stand on your word. See eh....after everything if you and your spouse enter begging-mode cos of too much debt eh nobody go look una side. Always remind your spouse of this. What do I know....I just get wedding. I'm less than 1wk old and haven't see life....abeg make I read other comments jare. 1 Like |
Re: How Much Should I Consider Safe To Have In My Bank Before Thinking On Wedding? by Funkyswagzz(m): 4:03pm On Nov 24, 2020 |
Passionate1: I might not have it cash buh it's to my investment |
Re: How Much Should I Consider Safe To Have In My Bank Before Thinking On Wedding? by Nobody: 4:15pm On Nov 24, 2020 |
Chinemeremjosh0: Real niggas ain't gat no problem with marital status |
Re: How Much Should I Consider Safe To Have In My Bank Before Thinking On Wedding? by Heavance(m): 4:17pm On Nov 24, 2020 |
2dice01:Must there be a white wedding? Why can't people do the normal wedding here (which is called traditional) where you pay the bride price? Putting on suit and all that is the traditional way it is done for the western world. Do registry with less than 30k, just 2 people should be there, pay bride price and move ahead. |
Re: How Much Should I Consider Safe To Have In My Bank Before Thinking On Wedding? by Sarita01(f): 4:18pm On Nov 24, 2020 |
setobaba:Depend on where you choose to settle down,in the north 1mil is enough to start a family COS of the low cost of living compared to the South. Seriously what you need in addition to that 1mil is a very good wife who has managerial capabilities,that's the most important thing. Even if you have millions and you marry the wrong woman,you'll be more broke than when you first started hustling. There are many good women out there but u need to shine your eyes and pray for wisdom,so that you would be able to identify her when the time comes 1 Like |
Re: How Much Should I Consider Safe To Have In My Bank Before Thinking On Wedding? by aAK1(m): 4:35pm On Nov 24, 2020 |
It has nothing to do with how much you have in your account but how much regularly comes into the account. I had less than 60k in my account on my wedding day yet, we still slept in a 100k a night room for 4 days. You get the gist ? |
Re: How Much Should I Consider Safe To Have In My Bank Before Thinking On Wedding? by Nobody: 4:40pm On Nov 24, 2020 |
No think am oooo NA TRAP OOOO setobaba: |
Re: How Much Should I Consider Safe To Have In My Bank Before Thinking On Wedding? by bassdow: 4:45pm On Nov 24, 2020 |
2dice01: Sorry am using a Colleague's account to visit Nairaland. Now to matter, my Own is I never would spend above 1% of my Total Worth on anything Marriage Ceremony whether Traditional or Cultural or Black or White or Green Wedding or whatever name they choose to give it. If I manage find you worthy of my small time and your People come want Hammer on top ma head, I go just call their Daughter (the Bae) aside and tell her to speak with her people and I would let her in on the Maximum amount possible for everything. If dem do strong Head, I take a Pass; People need understand there's life after the Ceremonies most of which are not just unnecessary but redundant. People are afraid of Marriage but to Me, Marriage carries no burden; the real Burden arrives with the arrival of the Babies. Anything else, na You allow am. 4 Likes |
Re: How Much Should I Consider Safe To Have In My Bank Before Thinking On Wedding? by 2dice01: 4:51pm On Nov 24, 2020 |
Heavance:Except you are marrying a guy Then he understand the logic A women don't care She & her friends wanna slay and Pepper dem 1 Like |
Re: How Much Should I Consider Safe To Have In My Bank Before Thinking On Wedding? by Chinemeremjosh0(m): 4:53pm On Nov 24, 2020 |
Anakojum:lol.. Dey Dia dey speak big grammar!! No go marry! 3 Likes |
Re: How Much Should I Consider Safe To Have In My Bank Before Thinking On Wedding? by 2dice01: 4:53pm On Nov 24, 2020 |
bassdow:in Nigeria they say you are marrying the family So they expect you to fund all the irrelevant spending |
Re: How Much Should I Consider Safe To Have In My Bank Before Thinking On Wedding? by deavicky(m): 4:57pm On Nov 24, 2020 |
2dice01:someone spent less than a hundred thousand naira for marriage in Benue state and one idiot is referring to the wife as aba made. So what do we do now. 1 Like |
Re: How Much Should I Consider Safe To Have In My Bank Before Thinking On Wedding? by EmekaA125(m): 5:01pm On Nov 24, 2020 |
Everything depends on how you want it to be. U can do both traditional and white wedding same day to cut down cost or you do them separately but you have to be mindful of incuring unnecessary expenses to yourself because once the ceremony is over, reality sets in. Just have up to #800K depending on the State or town you are marrying from. Good luck bro |
Re: How Much Should I Consider Safe To Have In My Bank Before Thinking On Wedding? by 2dice01: 5:01pm On Nov 24, 2020 |
deavicky:Lol i rather have an aba made wife with an amoeba account Then a 5star wedding with no money Then the suffering will be Pro max with hard labour 2 Likes |
Re: How Much Should I Consider Safe To Have In My Bank Before Thinking On Wedding? by Olami1759: 5:05pm On Nov 24, 2020 |
Go and do trad n court wedding...if u like spend like 500k on that the remaining money keep am for ya account make u and ur wife dey spend am,white weddings is for white people not a must for our own culture.. |
Re: How Much Should I Consider Safe To Have In My Bank Before Thinking On Wedding? by usb2016(m): 5:11pm On Nov 24, 2020 |
If you think baby Mama is the easiest route, ask David what he is paying as child's support . Oh! I remember Haunty Kemi gave the breakdown in the previous post here . My guy just kee amu gi eriri ( Just tie your John Thomas) before it puts you into financial recession like the one we now wittiness in Nigeria. You better sereutu seseko!! If you know what I mean You see what I’m saying, thanks I’m going back to my hustle. No more wedding for now baby mama can do [/quote] 3 Likes |
Re: How Much Should I Consider Safe To Have In My Bank Before Thinking On Wedding? by vivilafrosh(f): 5:55pm On Nov 24, 2020 |
2dice01: The ones that married guys with money did they die. If my love for money irritates you. Go and die |
Re: How Much Should I Consider Safe To Have In My Bank Before Thinking On Wedding? by vivilafrosh(f): 5:56pm On Nov 24, 2020 |
olu122: Spit on your children not me |
Re: How Much Should I Consider Safe To Have In My Bank Before Thinking On Wedding? by Forexfocus: 5:58pm On Nov 24, 2020 |
Just invest and save don’t rush marriage coz the woman will end up disrespectful when you are broke |
Re: How Much Should I Consider Safe To Have In My Bank Before Thinking On Wedding? by jamesharryson(m): 6:05pm On Nov 24, 2020 |
NOwazobia:My dear, only God knows what will happen when any of them will call me for anything in this life 1 Like |
Re: How Much Should I Consider Safe To Have In My Bank Before Thinking On Wedding? by Tersue: 6:06pm On Nov 24, 2020 |
Getting married nowadays is like looking for capital to start a business.Nonsense. |
Re: How Much Should I Consider Safe To Have In My Bank Before Thinking On Wedding? by jamesharryson(m): 6:08pm On Nov 24, 2020 |
2dice01: I wish she is an Igbo lady. I felt Igbos were the costliest till I saw Kwale Women. They don't even remove a pin for u. Their list is fixed. Especially when the father of the lady is late 1 Like |
Re: How Much Should I Consider Safe To Have In My Bank Before Thinking On Wedding? by jamesharryson(m): 6:08pm On Nov 24, 2020 |
Bbbwings: Imagine that |
Re: How Much Should I Consider Safe To Have In My Bank Before Thinking On Wedding? by jamesharryson(m): 6:10pm On Nov 24, 2020 |
MhisTahrah: That's exactly what it is |
Re: How Much Should I Consider Safe To Have In My Bank Before Thinking On Wedding? by Blackdisciple(m): 6:21pm On Nov 24, 2020 |
setobaba: Bro if u really wanna marry , then with that 1m wey em dey talk about u can do something besides u are still working and which I believe u are not getting married to a lazy woman cos u know her well, do ur simple marriage, if 1m no do u to marry certainly 100m no go do u.. cut ur coat according to ur size ooo ehhe 1 Like |
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