ooooooooooohhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh that pissed me the Bleep up i im not talking to him

y are u gettin so worked up cos ur man went to d club, its not like u were diein or sometin,u just had a flu,pls dont be a nag.D guy loves u already, if not he would not asked u to marry him. Stop all dat talk about givin him a break o, u already no d type of friends he has, so dont just go there.Dont worry he will change when u guys are married and when d kids starts rollin in, he wont have d time to go clubin cos he will be workin his ass out 4 u and d kids.MY advice to u is to stop been a nag and be sure of urself, even if he goes to all d club in town he is urs. goodluck

I dont think thats right,i will feel insecure with that type of guy,to me,he's not caring at all.

whats d case when your girl goes to club without you (Note you dont club and she nevr clubbed wt u) she says just hanging out and easing boredom. Nothing else

You are sick and BF leaves you to go clubbing, sorry but are you terminally sick? Don't be so clingy

did u say it was ok for him to go clubbing?
If u 2 are in a serious relationship, than yes it is unfair for him to go clubbing when u wanted him to be with u. However, if u pretended to be alright with him going out, and wanted him to be a mind reader, than its not his fault.

Does he go clubbing every week?

Why should i stay?

@ Topic
So you're a , Geez! I thought you're a male. Anyways i would have given ya the ultimate answer but i must ask a couple of similar questions first.
What is a club? Who goes clubin? What happens while clubin?
I know you're very capable in providing the best answers to the questions above cuz you club right? Aiight, Answer 'em and i'll give you the gist.

i think what girls should always know about guys is that they r humans and guys fot that matter. They should be allowed to hang out with their friends. A man is no spiderman or superman that u expect too much from. U were not feeling well but not dying. (which of course if u decide to get to that stage, just to see whqat happens) So please, allow him breathe so he wont get too choaked up around u

Execpt in a case where he lives wit u, there probably is nothing wrong. If u lived 2 geda, that wld b insensitivity of a very high degree. But otherwise, he's just trying 2 catch some fun it doesn't mean he doesn't care may be he's just trying 2 cheer himself up. Think of how miserable he wld b staying at home alone doing nothing.

locia: Is it right for your boyfriend or girlfriend to go to the club without you? I need your opinion because I'm sick and my boyfriend went to the club without me instead of staying with me at home. Also is it right for a girlfirend and a boyfriend to go a club separately.

It's normal only a bit normal if he requested you follow him and you refused.
But if he didn't request you go with him and left without you, then there's something wrong because if he really loves you, he wouldn't like to go anywhere without you. Anyone who does that has something they're hiding.

My advice: If he has done this more than once, just walk away now. The more time you waste in a bad relationship is the more vital time you lose in having a new good relationship with a better person.

locia: well im not saying he was wrong i did it too.

You did too? Then why are you complaining?
You fit each other!