nysc allowee 33k... u for add 3k na, idiot

Sixfeetbelle:


My point of asking that question was to see how much of a "virtuous woman" your girlfriend is. I can't imagine being in a sexual relationship and having to make all these expenses by myself. Never. Transport to and fro to see the guy, have pvssy destruction during my visit, possibly buy food items to cook for him, and not forgetting the endless calls just because we're in a "relationship" only to now have the guy to give me money or spend on me only when he 'feels' like it? Wow.


Please, marry her fast. She's a real gem.

It will never be me.

Lol pussy destruction indeed. Something that ladies enjoy than men.

I do give tfare, make them feel at home during visit and anything food, I take care of all that. But what I don't like is giving them money whether they need it or not.

That's because I don't want to be using money as a tool to influence their minds. I don't want to condition her or their minds towards that direction in which the day I do not give, her attitude will change.

That's what I don't want. If she is patient enough, I will reward her maybe later in the future for not having that money entitlement mindset. It's good I am doing this to filter the just gold diggers from the genuine ones.

Once I meet a lady, ask her out, just after the first visit, billing will start. For some I flow along leading them on but nothing will fall from my pocket. Some still like hanging around though after giving them good treats but not money.

Even though I am not giving them money, they still find my other aspect of my personality irresistible making them to still hang around. But I place them as side chicks cuz of that money mentality they already displaced. Sometimes I feel like helping out but ladies always turn generousity to foolishness.

That was how one day I just decided to help one with 1k airtime. Can you imagine the next day, she went on asking me for her house rent? Seriously? That's just because I helped her with airtime.

I usually sub with N3500 and she has been video calling me on WhatsApp, so I just decided to transfer her 1k airtime directly from my account. But she was too greedy to want to use that good gesture to start to bill me for her house rent. I simply told her I don't have. From that day, her video calling and chat reduced. Though she still chat me up once a while.

That mentality is truly not a good one. For some, they don't even wait enough before starting to bill a guy. Just because a guy is fresh , that will immediately activate their money hormone. For their mind, this guy go hold bar o. My hand don catch this one. I will bill am his eyes go clear. Unknown to them, I don't like using money to buy the interest of a girl.

I treat them well of course, but I don't find it interesting dashing them money or giving in to their money demands cuz there is a more important aspect I am fulfilling order than just using money as a tool to attract their interests.

beauty7:


That is what I have been wondering about.

Sorry about how that guy replied you. Guys here are brutal. I think you shouldn't keep apologizing because it hypes them to do more. Just ignore if anyone replies you in a rude way.

Uniquekriss:
Let's call a spade a spade, many of us spend double of that amount without recognizing it, hmmmm, we're talking about a whole month o, she visits you, while seeing her off u buy suya, or barbecue fish or shawarma, u spend almost #400 airtime talking to her on the phone daily, u sub for her and sometimes recharge her line, sometimes u send her money for hairdo and nails, u go to visit her with gifts or takeaway, on Sundays u both sit out or see movies, all these don pass 30k monthly bros.

you are on point. most don't keep record of their expenses. that's why they don't know this...

purples25:


Sorry about how that guy replied you. Guys here are brutal. I think you shouldn't keep apologizing because it hypes them to do more. Just ignore if anyone replies you in a rude way.

Thanks my sister.

I think that is what I have to be doing.

WTF....OP pls let's date, u won't spend your money on me and I won't spend my money on u...sincerely u guys are the ones making ladies feel entitled....30k?...as per laundry woman or cook?...or maybe she's handicapped....really ladies let's put a stop to this...this is the same reason y we have too many poor widows because they were overly dependent on their late husbands

Bellfun:


God will not help him!(I understand your sarcasm)
He's plain stupid...spending 30k on his girlfriend, is she a business that will generate profit?

Some guys sha!

U have said it all my bro,u have said it all

benqo01:
Wow its funny how some guys reason....... Spending on a lady doesnt keep her faithful bro... If you like give her 100k monthly,the idiot go still dey F around,
money dont keep women take note

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Niggaz don't know thisD

jaelz:
So I decided to ask this question here because I have a lady that is overly demanding, I mean I tried pegging my monthly spending for her at 30,000 Naira per month including her hair, light, data and cable TV subscription plus one or two outings and hangouts.

But I noticed she never seems satisfied with my little efforts as she demands unimaginable things from me like buying her iPhone 12 and etc.

Guys pls how do you control spending on your women and how much do you spend on them monthly.

how much do you give your own mother and sister(s) monthly? Maybe by then, you can get a good answer from me.

wirinet:

False premise.

Fine responsible or rich guys are in short supply. Their demand far outstrip demand.

Most Girls are only gorgeously attractive in their bloom years - between 16 and late 20s. After 30 they require lots of make up and body enhancements to look attractive. Men on the other hand matures with age. Guys are still attractive well into their 40s, some into their 50s.

U are right

Skepticus:


If you follow the slawormiir moniker's comments on threads relating to women, you go know say the guy na another loud-mouthed simp like most nairaland noisy clowns.

Yahoo boys simping is on another level. Most of them are usually not that smart when dealing with women regardless of their streetwise appearance.

Bro I have to disagree with you On this! I don't think Slawomiir is a simp,he's actually a Bad guy.. He just smokes,drinks,bangs different pussy and he doesn't even pay them.
Ubunja Explained that On one of his Miseducations

Janet15:
Op...u spending 30k monthly on her... What have u gain from the 30k u are spending on her monthly..

TOTO

wirinet:

False premise.

Fine responsible or rich guys are in short supply. Their demand far outstrip demand.

Most Girls are only gorgeously attractive in their bloom years - between 16 and late 20s. After 30 they require lots of make up and body enhancements to look attractive. Men on the other hand matures with age. Guys are still attractive well into their 40s, some into their 50s.

U are very right. Buh know dat some ladies like to utilize n maximize dere opportunity at young age, buh wen de couldn't achieve dere aims , de will manage anything that comes dere way at older age.
Dats y as I want to marry I didn't go for any small gal in University bcus I knw de stress, u jst went straight to a matured lady , no stress , everything was jst on point

I used 32k monthly for my utility bill, data and TV subscription it's give me peace of mind.

LightAunt:
Although the question is meant for guys. But giving your girlfriend 30% of your monthly income is reasonable.


Anyways, check my profile for business deals.

why not make it 50%.the more the better.

kick her ass out. Do you now you can be a house owner if you save the 30k monthly for 3 years.

jaelz:
So I decided to ask this question here because I have a lady that is overly demanding, I mean I tried pegging my monthly spending for her at 30,000 Naira per month including her hair, light, data and cable TV subscription plus one or two outings and hangouts.

But I noticed she never seems satisfied with my little efforts as she demands unimaginable things from me like buying her iPhone 12 and etc.

Guys pls how do you control spending on your women and how much do you spend on them monthly.

hehehehe 30k ke

Pierocash:
There were years I didn't spend 30k for her for a whole year. You better dump that gold digger before she sends you back to your village.

How much do you spend for your parents monthly, hunm,Owolabi?

Bamss1:
OP, whoever advise you not to spend money on your babe only wants you to loose her, dey maintain your babe with money, no just do pass yourself.

loosing a babe is the least of my fears at a time like this.

#0.00
She is not my wife , has a father , she has work
Only gifts and taking her out on occasions that cost me

odinson1:


Bro I have to disagree with you On this! I don't think Slawomiir is a simp,he's actually a Bad guy.. He just smokes,drinks,bangs different pussy and he doesn't even pay them.
Ubunja Explained that On one of his Miseducations

Anybody can smoke weed and bang pussy. We all do. I don't want to be petty bringing out someone's old post, but go check his old moniker and read the posts that are related to dating, and you'll see traces of high-grade simping.

You might not understand but your opinions are welcome.

I wish enough to spend on my girlfriend; but me self didn't have any good income yet.... So to answer nah zero monthly and she never for once complain

LightAunt:
Although the question is meant for guys. But giving your girlfriend 30% of your monthly income is reasonable.


Anyways, check my profile for business deals.

Yaba Left V.I.P spotted.

To even ask this question shows how uintelligent you are. What are you benefiting from the relationship? Why do you think that she would leave you if you stop sending on her? And most importantly, why do you care? You can do better bro, if you know how to play your cards, girls would spend on you. The money that you can spend on orphans, and God would be happy with you, you are spending on a parasite at your obvious detriment...

Close to 30k

Aboy even if you spend 100k monthly on her swears she will still not be satisfied brah, girls are liability believe it or not. But brah you dump AF , NEPA bill, data, cable , hair niggq wtf

Skepticus:


Anybody can smoke weed and bang pussy. We all do. I don't want to be petty bringing out someone's old post, but go check his old moniker and read the posts that are related to dating, and you'll see traces of high-grade simping.

You might not understand but your opinions are welcome.

These guys got the whole alpha, and red pill thing wrong. Smoking, drinking and banging lots of pussy doesn't make you an alpha male or a bad guy sef... I mean all these things are after the life and strength of a man. Continuous smoking leads to sterility in man, drinking cause diabetes, and too much women, gets you STDs. So tell me how can something that will kill you make you a man?

No bother reply that guy, he will not understand.

But some guys can be very funny sha. Is there any stipulated amount to spend for a girlfriend in a month? Besides your girl is a leech. She no dey work ni? Her papa go die if she pay her bills? I hate to see write ups like this in this 21st century. Na wa oo.

OP.. U ARE A FOOL IN CAPITAL LETTER.

Onyitina:
If u ❤️ her; why pained on spending on her?�

Mumu.. U didn't see she isn't satisfied shey?

jaelz:
So I decided to ask this question here because I have a lady that is overly demanding, I mean I tried pegging my monthly spending for her at 30,000 Naira per month including her hair, light, data and cable TV subscription plus one or two outings and hangouts.

But I noticed she never seems satisfied with my little efforts as she demands unimaginable things from me like buying her iPhone 12 and etc.

Guys pls how do you control spending on your women and how much do you spend on them monthly.

HOW MUCH DO YOU SPEND ON YOUR PARENTS MONTHLY?

Afodot0022:
OP.. U ARE A FULL IN CAPITAL LETTER.

*fool