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Re: Guys, How Much Do You Spend On Your Girlfriends Monthly? by purples25(f): 1:39pm On Nov 25, 2020
lecturer50:




Sorry for what?
He is abusing her and she is sorry.
She should have asked him to go and hang himself.
Some men eh!
They like lying.
What beauty7 said is true.
Look at my mum.
The small millions globacom gave her for the mast in our compound.
If you see the number of men that came to friend her, to start a relationship with her, just because of the money.
My mum had been a widow for a long time,no one approached her for relationship or marriage.
Immediately she received the millions, you need to see the number of men that showed up for a relationship/marriage.
As a man,I have seen so many men who are only after rich women.
I am a man so I know what is happening.
But if someone talks now, they will deny and start cursing the person.
Instead of them to face the truth, they will rather live in useless self deception.

Some guys don't want to accept the truth. Keep your mom safe from these men o.

Truly they are calling women golddiggers , but it is so glaring now that they are also after the money and comfort. Some are asking, why can't it be turned around...

May we kuku turn am and be caring for them and they sit in the house. Which is already quite common anyway. They don't really want a 50 50 situation, they want women to care for them completely. I used to think it was 50 50, but nah, most hate the fact that the role men play is to be the major provider. They still want to be men, worshipped and also enjoying as men, but not to do anything for anybody.

Some are saying until i marry, i will spend on my wife.....this is not a new thing in Nigeria. Many do not suddenly become generous after marriage. Over years and long periods in this Nigeria, many of them leave the responsibilities to the wives. Their female children see what is happening, and therefore insist on finding a responsible man that shows how he will be in marriage , even during courtship/relationship. Because that's the only way they can be sure.

Well what can we do. This is how Nigerian men want to treat their women. I guess women just have to stop seeing men as a savior and helper, true lovers with a soft spot for their women, a compassion that will make them say no....we wont allow our women to suffer and sweat like men.

Leave matter for Mathias undecided

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Re: Guys, How Much Do You Spend On Your Girlfriends Monthly? by Happyguy201: 1:39pm On Nov 25, 2020
lecturer50:


Sorry for what?
He is abusing you and you are sorry.
Why not ask him to go and hang himself.
Some men eh!
They like lying.
What you said is true.
Look at my mum.
The small millions globacom gave her for the mast in our compound.
If you see the number of men that came to friend her, to start a relationship with her.
As a man,I have seen so many men who are only after rich women.
I am a man so I know what is happening.
But if someone talks now, they will deny and start cursing the person.
Instead of them to face the truth, they will rather live in useless self deception.
So next time you make your opinion and any stupid man come to abuse,abuse him back. Curse him if you like.


She is more home trained and well behaved you are the violent type that men/women has to look out for .
Re: Guys, How Much Do You Spend On Your Girlfriends Monthly? by ogbonti: 1:40pm On Nov 25, 2020
Basalt:
#0.00.

Because, I don't have a girlfriend.
I concentrate more, make more money and save alot for my future without incurring much expenses on my head.
If I show you how much I have saved so far at my age you will marvel even though I eat very well and wear moderately nice clothes .
All these money I have saved is because I don't have much expenses I make.
If you tell me to send you money, you are wasting your time because I will always politely give a well cooked excuse, at the end I won't send you shit.
I only send money to my parents and siblings when I have much and feel like helping.
If I have the urge for sex, I watch porn and masturbate and feel alright and even use time I should have wasted chasing girls to develop myself academically and technologically.



you are a beast and real niggur - best response so far - i have said it time and time again, if every guy in naija reasons like me, babes will have to save money good enough to enjoy one round of sex from me, they will look after me financially not the other way round - damn, see slow messed up men paying girl 30k to have sex - the same sex both parties enjoy ? even it is proven women enjoy consensual sex more than men - so why are you paying for it? why put any girl on minimum wage level allowee monthly? OP. let me clear you fast, i bet my 2 testicles - that 30k you send to her, another shareholder of her kpekus (a man like you, but not a dumb maga like you ) collects at least 10k in cash from that money you give her and she will use the balance to cook better egusi soup and pounded yam with correct goat meat for him after hitting her kpekus well to step down. and she will be begging him to manage the 10k pending when you (OP Mallam Mugu) send her another one

memory verse - Women can not genuinely love men who spend money on them recklessly- they will only tolerate you- women love financially needy men and will always want them in their hearts out of pity and feeling they own him- giving money to women like a monthly check makes them feel you are buying their love and secretly they will hate you for it, they will think you are not good enough that’s why you are trying so hard to compensate for something you lack -OP keep paying ooooo- maga sir, i greet you - thank you and goodbye

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Re: Guys, How Much Do You Spend On Your Girlfriends Monthly? by phorget(m): 1:42pm On Nov 25, 2020
Mizfabulous18:
can u also deny the fact that most Nigerian men give out that so called money willingly and not through any form of blackmailing can u deny it ....women r everywhere nobody has ever forced a man to give her money if u dont want to give jump the wagon oga



And that was why I said "if all men should follow my path most ladies will die of hunger"
I admitted the fact that most Nigerian men are sissy when it comes to women matter hence the reason I stated that if men would take my path.

Women too do crave for sex and it wouldnt be a bad idea if men get payment for a service rendered abi you think say e dey easy to dey pound pussy?
Let all men stop the nonsense of chasing women around and let's see if women won't pay to have us.

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Re: Guys, How Much Do You Spend On Your Girlfriends Monthly? by purples25(f): 1:46pm On Nov 25, 2020
Happyguy201:



She is more home trained and well behaved you are the violent type that men/women has to look out for .

I think you dont really understand. What he is really saying is that she shouldn't even have apologized to the guy that insulted her. I don't think he is attacking the lady. Talked about how these men seeking rich ladies went after his mom too.

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Re: Guys, How Much Do You Spend On Your Girlfriends Monthly? by uni69(f): 1:47pm On Nov 25, 2020
Na wa o
When we never see anyone to spend for us, one person con dey complain say 30k no do. It is well

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Re: Guys, How Much Do You Spend On Your Girlfriends Monthly? by moorevic(m): 1:48pm On Nov 25, 2020
Praise the Lord everyone,
i want to thank God for breaking up my relationship of 3 years of deceit, lies and ashawolism. My dear brothers, since the wreckage I've been able to build my self financially and emotionally. May amadioha visit that lady

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Re: Guys, How Much Do You Spend On Your Girlfriends Monthly? by ogbonti: 1:48pm On Nov 25, 2020
phorget:




And that was why I said "if all men should follow my path most ladies will die of hunger"
I admitted the fact that most Nigerian men are sissy when it comes to women matter hence the reason I stated that if men would take my path.

Women too do crave for sex and it wouldnt be a bad idea if men get payment for a service rendered abi you think say e dey easy to dey pound pussy?
Let all men stop the nonsense of chasing women around and let's see if women won't pay to have us.



naija girls in europe pay naija men just to have access to the gbolops, FACT - while in naija men are willing to destroy their bank account to nack ? why - the Nigerian society makes men develop inferiority complex that they want to feel loved so desperately
Re: Guys, How Much Do You Spend On Your Girlfriends Monthly? by beauty7: 1:56pm On Nov 25, 2020
lecturer50:


Sorry for what?
He is abusing you and you are sorry.
Why not ask him to go and hang himself.
Some men eh!
They like lying.
What you said is true.
Look at my mum.
The small millions globacom gave her for the mast in our compound.
If you see the number of men that came to friend her, to start a relationship with her.
As a man,I have seen so many men who are only after rich women.
I am a man so I know what is happening.
But if someone talks now, they will deny and start cursing the person.
Instead of them to face the truth, they will rather live in useless self deception.
So next time you make your opinion and any stupid man come to abuse,abuse him back. Curse him if you like.

I only wanted to placate him.

I believe if someone is very angry with you,it is better to calm him or her down by cooling him or her down.

If you return anger for anger, you will actually spoil things and that anger could spread unknowingly and lead to someone innocent suffering and you could be held accountable.

What I said is the truth.

I have had men come to me whose only reason for wanting to start a relationship with me was so I could help them financially in one way or other.

Some will call me and asked to be bought a phone or to be given money for lunch, particularly University students.

This happened when my dad was still alive as a medical doctor and a business man, so we had money then.

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Re: Guys, How Much Do You Spend On Your Girlfriends Monthly? by Happyguy201: 2:00pm On Nov 25, 2020
purples25:


I think you dont really understand. What he is really saying is that she shouldn't even have apologized to the guy that insulted her. I don't think he is attacking the lady. Talked about how these men seeking rich ladies went after his mom too.

Oh I totally understand the girl that apologized is a home trained girl with morales instead of insulting the guy she said I am sorry please such a girl will make a wonderful wife and mother . Because she not a violent type

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Re: Guys, How Much Do You Spend On Your Girlfriends Monthly? by phorget(m): 2:01pm On Nov 25, 2020
ogbonti:




naija girls in europe pay naija men just to have access to the gbolops, FACT - while in naija men are willing to destroy their bank account to nack ? why - the Nigerian society makes men develop inferiority complex that they want to feel loved so desperately


Help me to tell them o my brother.

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Re: Guys, How Much Do You Spend On Your Girlfriends Monthly? by Happyguy201: 2:01pm On Nov 25, 2020
beauty7:


I only wanted to placate him.

I believe if someone is very angry with you,it is better to calm him or her down by cooling him or her down.

If you return anger for anger, you will actually spoil things and that anger could spread unknowingly and lead to someone innocent suffering and you could be held accountable.

What I said is the truth.

I have had men come to me whose only reason for wanting to start a relationship with me was so I could help them financially in one way or other.

Some will call me and asked to be bought a phone or to be given money for lunch, particularly University students.

This happened when my dad was still alive as a medical doctor and a business man, so we had money then.

You are home trained jare don't mind all these girls telling you otherwise they are wayward and lack home training
Re: Guys, How Much Do You Spend On Your Girlfriends Monthly? by purples25(f): 2:05pm On Nov 25, 2020
Happyguy201:


Oh I totally understand the girl that apologized is a home trained girl with morales instead of insulting the guy she said I am sorry please such a girl will make a wonderful wife and mother . Because she not a violent type

Well, you know this guy insulted her out of nowhere right? A violence response to her timid comment.

If you feel that is the best response, fine. I prefer not being violent yes, its good. But also, do not reward the abuser. It will only make him worse.

Still, everyone's opinion is to be respected.
Re: Guys, How Much Do You Spend On Your Girlfriends Monthly? by officialbeffinb(m): 2:10pm On Nov 25, 2020
Janet15:
Op...u spending 30k monthly on her... What have u gain from the 30k u are spending on her monthly..

Good question..
Re: Guys, How Much Do You Spend On Your Girlfriends Monthly? by lecturer50(m): 2:10pm On Nov 25, 2020
beauty7:


I only wanted to placate him.

I believe if someone is very angry with you,it is better to calm him or her down by cooling him or her down.

If you return anger for anger, you will actually spoil things and that anger could spread unknowingly and lead to someone innocent suffering and you could be held accountable.

What I said is the truth.

I have had men come to me whose only reason for wanting to start a relationship with me was so I could help them financially in one way or other.

Some will call me and asked to be bought a phone or to be given money for lunch, particularly University students.

This happened when my dad was still alive as a medical doctor and a business man, so we had money then.
Re: Guys, How Much Do You Spend On Your Girlfriends Monthly? by intruder15(m): 2:10pm On Nov 25, 2020
fuckaholic25:
big wahala for who get babe o!!

Big wahala for who get babe whe no get sense.

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Re: Guys, How Much Do You Spend On Your Girlfriends Monthly? by lecturer50(m): 2:11pm On Nov 25, 2020
purples25:


Some guys don't want to accept the truth. Keep your mom safe from these men o.

Truly they are calling women golddiggers , but it is so glaring now that they are also after the money and comfort. Some are asking, why can't it be turned around...

May we kuku turn am and be caring for them and they sit in the house. Which is already quite common anyway. They don't really want a 50 50 situation, they want women to care for them completely. I used to think it was 50 50, but nah, most hate the fact that the role men play is to be the major provider. They still want to be men, worshipped and also enjoying as men, but not to do anything for anybody.

Some are saying until i marry, i will spend on my wife.....this is not a new thing in Nigeria. Many do not suddenly become generous after marriage. Over years and long periods in this Nigeria, many of them leave the responsibilities to the wives. Their female children see what is happening, and therefore insist on finding a responsible man that shows how he will be in marriage , even during courtship/relationship. Because that's the only way they can be sure.

Well what can we do. This is how Nigerian men want to treat their women. I guess women just have to stop seeing men as a savior and helper, true lovers with a soft spot for their women, a compassion that will make them say no....we wont allow our women to suffer and sweat like men.

Leave matter for Mathias undecided
Re: Guys, How Much Do You Spend On Your Girlfriends Monthly? by Mizfabulous18(f): 2:12pm On Nov 25, 2020
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Re: Guys, How Much Do You Spend On Your Girlfriends Monthly? by lecturer50(m): 2:17pm On Nov 25, 2020
Happyguy201:



She is more home trained and well behaved you are the violent type that men/women has to look out for .

It is not a matter of being violent or not.
Look at it yourself.
If you are making your opinion known here in nairaland and someone replies with very rude words, how will you react?
Particularly if the suggestion you are making is not harmful but is only trying to balance the argument.

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Re: Guys, How Much Do You Spend On Your Girlfriends Monthly? by Nobody: 2:25pm On Nov 25, 2020
jaelz:
So I decided to ask this question here because I have a lady that is overly demanding, I mean I tried pegging my monthly spending for her at 30,000 Naira per month including her hair, light, data and cable TV subscription plus one or two outings and hangouts.

But I noticed she never seems satisfied with my little efforts as she demands unimaginable things from me like buying her iPhone 12 and etc.

Guys pls how do you control spending on your women and how much do you spend on them monthly.

You SIMPS lot are great threat to we "Real Men and the Universe" I'm certain Nature has a way of eliminating "Emasculated Weak Male Adult Babies" See the amount of Hoes the Suganmu Is even following sef. I SPIT on you.......

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Re: Guys, How Much Do You Spend On Your Girlfriends Monthly? by Nobody: 2:29pm On Nov 25, 2020
Pierocash:
There were years I didn't spend 30k for her for a whole year. You better dump that gold digger before she sends you back to your village.

How much do you spend for your parents monthly, hunm,Owolabi?

Guy forget. This one na Mumulabi, Oshilabi and Didirinlabi......
Re: Guys, How Much Do You Spend On Your Girlfriends Monthly? by Pierocash(m): 2:32pm On Nov 25, 2020
Evolutionlove:


Guy forget. This one na Mumulabi, Oshilabi and Didirinlabi......
lol
Re: Guys, How Much Do You Spend On Your Girlfriends Monthly? by Drenix(m): 2:53pm On Nov 25, 2020
jaelz:
So I decided to ask this question here because I have a lady that is overly demanding, I mean I tried pegging my monthly spending for her at 30,000 Naira per month including her hair, light, data and cable TV subscription plus one or two outings and hangouts.

But I noticed she never seems satisfied with my little efforts as she demands unimaginable things from me like buying her iPhone 12 and etc.

Guys pls how do you control spending on your women and how much do you spend on them monthly.



U need deliverance
Re: Guys, How Much Do You Spend On Your Girlfriends Monthly? by phorget(m): 2:54pm On Nov 25, 2020
Mizfabulous18:
then u must be oblivious to the fact that other things in this era have replaced that penis u guys are wagging around.....we cn do without it we r nt sex hungry like u men that get hard at the slightest show of provocative features trust me we dont get hard early in the morning nd we certainly dont feel the need to pour out semen ....vibrators full market oga ..maybe because In Nigeria we dont use it always but an era is coming when ur penis will be invalid getting pregnant sef we have sperm donors everywhere in hospitals d main fact that u Nigerian men think ur so important is what I hate ....each gender has it role and function it importance to the society and each other but when u act and talk like women are not necessary in ur life because they collect money from u nd to u it makes them tagged hoes then I need to help u expand ur thinking faculty which is without men women can very well survive but imagine a world of no woman nd tell me how that even feels



Now that you towed along masturbation, do you actually know that it is easier for men to masturbate than it is for women? Have you heard the song "soapy" by Naira Marley? That is how masturbation is so easy for men,with just soap or lubricant we can just wag off like that.

I'm so sorry if I'd been given you a very wrong impression about myself but the truth is that you don't really know what it is to be a man.
How can you meet a lady today and tomorrow she'll start demanding money to make hair?
Have you ever heard the "urgent 2k" stories?
Have you ever been disturbed by a demand of birthday celebration even when the relationship is not even up to a week?

The fact is that most ladies are always needing one favor or the other while when a guy is in deep shit you can't even run to them for any assistance cos they've spent their money on frivolities knowing fully well that another sucker would cross their path and continue paying other bills.

My dear you don't and can't understand how men feel. It is women that always feel that men can't do without them. We should be a helping hand to each other and not becoming a burden.

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Re: Guys, How Much Do You Spend On Your Girlfriends Monthly? by fuckaholic25(f): 3:04pm On Nov 25, 2020
intruder15:

Big wahala for who get babe whe no get sense.
that one sef dey
Re: Guys, How Much Do You Spend On Your Girlfriends Monthly? by Teymanhenry(f): 3:09pm On Nov 25, 2020
you are dating a broke ass girl who isn't contempt with 30k. Men ditch dat babe and she'll come back pleading for a lower budget
Re: Guys, How Much Do You Spend On Your Girlfriends Monthly? by ceaser: 3:20pm On Nov 25, 2020
lecturer50:


Sorry for what?
He is abusing you and you are sorry.
Why not ask him to go and hang himself.
Some men eh!
They like lying.
What you said is true.
Look at my mum.
The small millions globacom gave her for the mast in our compound.
If you see the number of men that came to friend her, to start a relationship with her.
As a man,I have seen so many men who are only after rich women.
I am a man so I know what is happening.
But if someone talks now, they will deny and start cursing the person.
Instead of them to face the truth, they will rather live in useless self deception.
So next time you make your opinion and any stupid man come to abuse,abuse him back. Curse him if you like.

How many years have you had that glo mast in your compound?
Re: Guys, How Much Do You Spend On Your Girlfriends Monthly? by Happy2020: 3:59pm On Nov 25, 2020
Nigerian women need to learn independence. Take care of your damn self. If you travel abroad, you will see there are independent women everywhere. Doesn’t mean you don’t need a man because we need each other, it just levels the playing field.
Prostituting yourself for hair, nails and a dinner is low self esteem and low self worth.
Get your own bag and watch your life change for the better.
Yes I’m a women & I happily have my own bag and a good man next to me.

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Re: Guys, How Much Do You Spend On Your Girlfriends Monthly? by Nobody: 4:33pm On Nov 25, 2020
Janet15:
Op...u spending 30k monthly on her... What have u gain from the 30k u are spending on her monthly..

Toto water to use as anointing oil
Re: Guys, How Much Do You Spend On Your Girlfriends Monthly? by Ladymofnaija(f): 4:40pm On Nov 25, 2020
I spend same on 'him' and I gladly do it because I can afford it. So please hush up and see giving as giving and not a rant. Shior

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Re: Guys, How Much Do You Spend On Your Girlfriends Monthly? by Youngzedd(m): 4:49pm On Nov 25, 2020
zyzxx:
What ever money your spend on your babe, you are spending it on yourself grin

Boyfriend of Instagram >>
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=1g347ZF72xE


Watch the video.

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Re: Guys, How Much Do You Spend On Your Girlfriends Monthly? by lecturer50(m): 5:08pm On Nov 25, 2020
ceaser:


How many years have you had that glo mast in your compound?

I think it is more than 15 years.

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