BaddieFreak:


I got her a two bedroom apartment with weekly allowance too but she refused, she prefers to live with him. She truly loves him but her husband is an idiot.

What happened to your own Dad?
Could it be that it was her experience with your own Dad that is informing her decisions?
Just wondering aloud.

BaddieFreak:
My step dad is maltreating my mom. What should I do?

He comes back home very late and drunk and beats my mom almost everyday. I have told my mom to leave him but she is adamant, I even rented a house for her at a point so that she can leave him but my mom only spent about a week in the house before going back to my step father's house after my step dad called her and was crying on the phone that he will change.

Yesterday I went to meet her and I saw her face swollen. When I asked her what happened she dismissed it saying it's nothing, I knew my step dad has done it again. I have reported the case to the police several times but all to no avail. I don't know if my mom and my step father made a covenant reason why they can't leave themselves.

Why are men like this? I am confused and heart broken

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Unfortunately, there is no update on the matter, but I think the man married the woman in question being a single mother hoping that she would bear him children as she is perceived to be fertile.

Unknown to him, there is something called secondary infertility where a woman could find it difficult to conceive after the first child.

His drunkenness shows that he is trying to cope with a problem, even though it's the wrong way.

Beating his wife up shows that he thinks she's the problem and he wants to send her away so he could have kids with another woman.

BaddieFreak, what's going on.