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Re: My Husband Doesnt Spend Money On Me And Wont Show Me What He Spends On by cristy149: 10:13pm On Dec 09, 2020 |
BaddieFreak:all those "pressuring" is uncalled for...if she wants her husband to tell her that type of classified information, she sould instead show why she must know it. |
Re: My Husband Doesnt Spend Money On Me And Wont Show Me What He Spends On by cristy149: 10:15pm On Dec 09, 2020 |
BaddieFreak:some men are really uncomfortable sharing those type of stuff |
Re: My Husband Doesnt Spend Money On Me And Wont Show Me What He Spends On by Jodha(f): 10:15pm On Dec 09, 2020 |
collinsuchendu:Meaning |
Re: My Husband Doesnt Spend Money On Me And Wont Show Me What He Spends On by Nobody: 10:19pm On Dec 09, 2020 |
BaddieFreak: No ma'am. That's not what I mean, but hope if she eventually gets to see it she won't try to use it against the man. You knows how you ladies behave.. like when she sees that her hubby is fairing better in financial aspect, she might change the attitude of "I do pay most of his bills." like she said. |
Re: My Husband Doesnt Spend Money On Me And Wont Show Me What He Spends On by Xxx123xxx(m): 10:24pm On Dec 09, 2020 |
Ijeoma2008:..Dear Nigerian men stop behaving like idiots especially when you have a gem of a partner who works her ass off not just for herself but for the well being of her family. Here is a woman who though stressed-out ,suspicious and irked remains loyal to her family and husband. Tell Oga Emeka to embrace financial fair play or you should change the rules of the game for you own well being. 1 Like |
Re: My Husband Doesnt Spend Money On Me And Wont Show Me What He Spends On by Nobody: 10:28pm On Dec 09, 2020 |
UndauntedYOCA: What evidence do you have that he's cheating? non I guess or is it because he's sending female wears back home.. who knows it might even be for his female relations. but you're now advising her to save without her husband's consent. It's alright. |
Re: My Husband Doesnt Spend Money On Me And Wont Show Me What He Spends On by Nobody: 10:29pm On Dec 09, 2020 |
Jodha: Ok. |
Re: My Husband Doesnt Spend Money On Me And Wont Show Me What He Spends On by Ijeoma2008: 10:30pm On Dec 09, 2020 |
Fvckhypocrite: Its not to the point where elders are needed but what is it hes hiding? I am very transparent. I could not think of doing bad to my family in anyway. But i am getting grey hairs, working more hours and I have scars and weight. I want shoes and nice things. I think I deserve it. If someone is so savvy to buy such nice girl things for other women and this is my husband, why cant I get any shoes? Car? Something. I stress over money constantly. When i was young i had good income as well I had a car, I could go out to eat, go spend money at the mall and not bother. Now every ounce of money goes to my family. I dont feel good when I look in the mirror. I see a woman who once was. I would like to feel beautiful again. I would like my husband to hustle to buy me nice shoes, a pedicure. 1 Like |
Re: My Husband Doesnt Spend Money On Me And Wont Show Me What He Spends On by Xxx123xxx(m): 10:30pm On Dec 09, 2020 |
collinsuchendu:..Put this lady for your own shoe if na you how you go take handle the matter especially if she eventually finds out that the husband earns way more n contributes little , how you go feel. 1 Like |
Re: My Husband Doesnt Spend Money On Me And Wont Show Me What He Spends On by Samakus(m): 10:31pm On Dec 09, 2020 |
If what that woman wrote there is the truth, then she's a good woman. Remember I said 'IF' Coming out clean to your own wife cannot be overemphasized. Remember I said 'WIFE'. Coming out clean financially to your girlfriend will most likely end in tears unless you guys are engaged and already making plans for marriage To the op, try using the carrot. Obviously, stick is not working. Use your womanly charm. There are so much a woman can achieve when she uses her charm instead of shouting and fighting 1 Like |
Re: My Husband Doesnt Spend Money On Me And Wont Show Me What He Spends On by Fvckhypocrite(f): 10:36pm On Dec 09, 2020 |
Ijeoma2008:Eiyyaaa i feel your pain pele But your husband is somehow wicked oo he can't even care for a good wife like you, can't you buy those shoes by yourself or u prefer he get it 4 u? |
Re: My Husband Doesnt Spend Money On Me And Wont Show Me What He Spends On by Nobody: 10:37pm On Dec 09, 2020 |
Xxx123xxx: But it has not yet been proven nw. Like I said, till you hear from both parties. |
Re: My Husband Doesnt Spend Money On Me And Wont Show Me What He Spends On by BaddieFreak(f): 10:41pm On Dec 09, 2020 |
collinsuchendu: You are just trying hard to defend your gender and you are failing at it |
Re: My Husband Doesnt Spend Money On Me And Wont Show Me What He Spends On by Nobody: 10:46pm On Dec 09, 2020 |
BaddieFreak: How am I trying to defend him? |
Re: My Husband Doesnt Spend Money On Me And Wont Show Me What He Spends On by Ijeoma2008: 10:47pm On Dec 09, 2020 |
Fvckhypocrite: I want him to be able to buy me things. It bothers me he invests time contacting women with sexy shoes at their house goes to their house sometimes at night to get them, come home leave them in my closet ... and I dont see any money we have gotten from this "investment" so some girls shoes are in my closet from a strange woman my husband sent money, then he sends back home to Nigeria, to what girls I wonder? How can he hustle so hard and he cant buy me one thing after all the bills I pay? Why does he have to buy sexy womens things go to their apartments? And why cant I see the bank account statement? It pains me every time. One time he left a chat open I saw at 10pm at night he went to some young womens house. I cried so much that night I went into labor. He should know how much I hate it and now it comes up again because he has done this for one year now knows it put me in labor two years ago but he still goes? Now he wont show me the bank statement And also which girls are getting them in Nigeria? Are they just exes? My mind goes everywhere because the burden is becoming heavy He should know I just work come home pay bills pay all bills and my physical health has suffered and so to have these sexy womens items in my closet that are not mine, while I just feel more stressed, dont feel beautiful at all. Why do I have to be in pain like this? |
Re: My Husband Doesnt Spend Money On Me And Wont Show Me What He Spends On by Fvckhypocrite(f): 10:50pm On Dec 09, 2020 |
[quote author=Ijeoma2008 post=96909752] I want him to be able to buy me things. It bothers me he invests time contacting women with sexy shoes at their house goes to their house sometimes at night to get them, come home leave them in my closet ... and I dont see any money we have gotten from this "investment" so some girls shoes are in my closet from a strange woman my husband sent money, then he sends back home to Nigeria, to what girls I wonder? How can he hustle so hard and he cant buy me one thing after all the bills I pay? Why does he have to buy sexy womens things go to their apartments? And why cant I see the bank account statement? It pains me every time. One time he left a chat open I saw at 10pm at night he went to some young womens house. I cried so much that night I went into labor. He should know how much I hate it and now it comes up again because he has done this for one year now knows it put me in labor two years ago but he still goes? Now he wont show me the bank statement . |
Re: My Husband Doesnt Spend Money On Me And Wont Show Me What He Spends On by Fvckhypocrite(f): 10:56pm On Dec 09, 2020 |
Mehn Don't allow this issue to affect your health or get deppressed my dear If anything happen to you now their is properbility that ur husband may replace u with new lady. Just be strong enough to open up to him let him know your pain, let him know that you also deserved those caring and you must be cared for also that's part of his responsibility. |
Re: My Husband Doesnt Spend Money On Me And Wont Show Me What He Spends On by Silentgroper(m): 10:59pm On Dec 09, 2020 |
BaddieFreak:*her husband's income* dumbo.. All u knw to do, is what is on ur d.p |
Re: My Husband Doesnt Spend Money On Me And Wont Show Me What He Spends On by BaddieFreak(f): 11:02pm On Dec 09, 2020 |
Silentgroper: Mine was a typo, what will you call yours? Yeye |
Re: My Husband Doesnt Spend Money On Me And Wont Show Me What He Spends On by dollytino4real(f): 11:55pm On Dec 09, 2020 |
so am not alone on this side of the journey! husband will go to work and return at night with 'no money talk' 1 Like |
Re: My Husband Doesnt Spend Money On Me And Wont Show Me What He Spends On by Silentgroper(m): 3:19am On Dec 10, 2020 |
BaddieFreak:what! .. So u are even as blind as u are dumb. |
Re: My Husband Doesnt Spend Money On Me And Wont Show Me What He Spends On by Nobody: 3:39am On Dec 10, 2020 |
BaddieFreak: @OP Please don't take this divorce option, it's evil |
Re: My Husband Doesnt Spend Money On Me And Wont Show Me What He Spends On by Nobody: 3:45am On Dec 10, 2020 |
If your write up is true then your husband no try at all at all. |
Re: My Husband Doesnt Spend Money On Me And Wont Show Me What He Spends On by Wyry: 3:54am On Dec 10, 2020 |
Nigerian girls are useless. |
Re: My Husband Doesnt Spend Money On Me And Wont Show Me What He Spends On by ebhaleleme51490: 6:02am On Dec 10, 2020 |
:Lol are you saying she doesn't deserve to know his husband income. I thought when two flesh come together it becomes one abi? some men are really uncomfortable sharing those type of stuff |
Re: My Husband Doesnt Spend Money On Me And Wont Show Me What He Spends On by mrblessed(m): 6:42am On Dec 10, 2020 |
Even with a good, globally recognised and celebrated attorney, it would difficult for a judge not a throw your husband behind bars based on what you have submitted. However, we have since learnt how to read with caution, apply wisdom in passing judgement or forming an opinion, since we cannot verify the position of your husband. Assuming that all you have stated is the truth, I think there is a missing link, a sort of loose connection between you and your husband. And my rational self cannot declare him blame-free, even though I know his behaviour towards you, as presented by you, is not without basis, neither is it unbridle. The actions you have decided to take are commendable, but always ensure that you discover his reason (s) for being seemingly uncaring and "selfish." |
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