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Is It WISE To Be 100% TRUTHFUL In A RELATIONSHIP? by RSVP: 8:58am On Dec 11, 2020
Morning Fellas smiley


So me and my guys were into an argument about if it's right be totally honest in a relationship.

A discussion leads to another and we were talking about how being honest (like telling your girl EVERYTHING about you including you having let's say 2 other girl friends after her ) to her to the extent that you could pickup their calls right in front of her and chat them up anytime just to be transparent btw them and his excuse for being that way is bcuz the girls won't be disappointed in case they did not ended up together... At least all of them would understand undecided and he would be spare for being a good boy cheesy

My argument was this is totally BS and stupid.. I personally would never let any girl know she's not the only one I'm dating or she's not the main chick cuz its just stupid! Things happens and you might ended up getting married to anyone of them so why letting her feel insecure with Nengi, Tolani and Erica?!
You could get yourself fk up big time if you do such thing. No one on this earth like sharing especially when it comes to relationship. So it's better to just play your way around then respect each and everyone of them by acting as a real husband wey you be and let the future decide whatever...... But now, I met an area brother who told me something that shocked me recently undecided

He is married with no kids but there is one particular girl serving somewhere in another state she's also dating. This girl doesn't know brother is married (I think it's over 8 years relationship) and they both talk almost every hour..probably they been promising each other marriage so I was shocked.
Told him to be honest with the girl and come out clean so she doesn't waste her time chasing shadow cuz that one is far more brutal..
So is it a good thing to be 100% honest in a relationship??

I'm of the opinion relationship is bad for our health. Why we no kuku just dey phuck anyhow make everybody dey alright. That is why animals no get problem especially chicken. I phuck you phuck just like the time of Adam and Eve. cool
Re: Is It WISE To Be 100% TRUTHFUL In A RELATIONSHIP? by johnhood(m): 9:11am On Dec 11, 2020
For me I have been 101% truthful to my girl but me been a sensitive person still feels she deceiving me in a way. Something I ponder why I am that honest with her.
Re: Is It WISE To Be 100% TRUTHFUL In A RELATIONSHIP? by Oluromantic: 10:10am On Dec 11, 2020
Truthfulness and discretion are different things. Both of them are 100% needed in a relationship

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Re: Is It WISE To Be 100% TRUTHFUL In A RELATIONSHIP? by virginprincess(f): 10:15am On Dec 11, 2020
Nowadays, many relationship don't last because they are not built on trust, relationship only last when they are built on trust, but many people especially men don't tell the truth, if i am in a relationship with you and you don't tell me the whole truth about yourself, the day i find know that relationship is offically over because i can never trust you again.

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Re: Is It WISE To Be 100% TRUTHFUL In A RELATIONSHIP? by RSVP: 5:33pm On Dec 11, 2020
johnhood:
For me I have been 101% truthful to my girl but me been a sensitive person still feels she deceiving me in a way. Something I ponder why I am that honest with her.

It's good you're being honest with her.. I just hope she won't take that for granted.

virginprincess:
Nowadays, many relationship don't last because they are not built on trust, relationship only last when they are built on trust, but many people especially men don't tell the truth, if i am in a relationship with you and you don't tell me the whole truth about yourself, the day i find know that relationship is offically over because i can never trust you again.

Not only men actually, It always go both ways smiley
But, let's assume we are in a relationship right now and I told you there is one Bola which is of course also my girlfriend as you are....
would you still be with me?

I personally fill there are some things you dear not tell you girlfriend if you love yourself.. If it's my wife then that's another ball game entirely.
Re: Is It WISE To Be 100% TRUTHFUL In A RELATIONSHIP? by virginprincess(f): 5:51pm On Dec 11, 2020
RSVP:


It's good you're being honest with her.. I just hope she won't take that for granted.



Not only men actually, It always go both ways smiley
But, let's assume we are in a relationship right now and I told you there is one Bola which is of course also my girlfriend as you are....
would you still be with me?

I personally fill there are some things you dear not tell you girlfriend if you love yourself.. If it's my wife then that's another ball game entirely.
Before i enter into a relationship with you, you must tell me everything about yourself, after then, it now let for me to decide if i want to still date you or not.

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Re: Is It WISE To Be 100% TRUTHFUL In A RELATIONSHIP? by Mart1994(m): 5:55pm On Dec 11, 2020
If you happen to be dating a lady who is not matured, or a lady u just wanna bang and go, then u have no business telling such a lady all about urself.

But if it's a serious relationship, well, I will say spill some and leave some.
Re: Is It WISE To Be 100% TRUTHFUL In A RELATIONSHIP? by josephevergreen(m): 5:56pm On Dec 11, 2020
virginprincess:
Nowadays, many relationship don't last because they are not built on trust, relationship only last when they are built on trust, but many people especially men don't tell the truth, if i am in a relationship with you and you don't tell me the whole truth about yourself, the day i find know that relationship is offically over because i can never trust you again.


hmmmm...hope you re honest too ... because you girls of this days are something else..

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Re: Is It WISE To Be 100% TRUTHFUL In A RELATIONSHIP? by johnhood(m): 8:49pm On Dec 11, 2020
RSVP:


It's good you're being honest with her.. I just hope she won't take that for granted.



Not only men actually, It always go both ways smiley
But, let's assume we are in a relationship right now and I told you there is one Bola which is of course also my girlfriend as you are....
would you still be with me?

I personally fill there are some things you dear not tell you girlfriend if you love yourself.. If it's my wife then that's another ball game entirely.
Me too.
Re: Is It WISE To Be 100% TRUTHFUL In A RELATIONSHIP? by Nazgul: 8:55pm On Dec 11, 2020
A man who has never lied to a girl has no respect for her feelings.

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Re: Is It WISE To Be 100% TRUTHFUL In A RELATIONSHIP? by hollah123: 9:27pm On Dec 11, 2020
though I didn't read d post but I believe atimes the best words are d words left unsaid...... probably to avoid see finish
Re: Is It WISE To Be 100% TRUTHFUL In A RELATIONSHIP? by RSVP: 7:05am On Jan 02, 2021
josephevergreen:



hmmmm...hope you re honest too ... because you girls of this days are something else..

Lol..
Na so dem dey take deceive us to believe they are SU and one bros is serious drilling the P somewhere sad

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