bukhety:

Babe, nobody should cheat, both men and women! Loyalty is vital in marriage for both spouses.

The children are doing well, and what happened was no fault of theirs, I feel telling them is unnecessary. It might do more harm than good!

Yeah my advice goes for both men and women. Nobody should cheat. Though this issue of birthing another mans child for your hubby is way too devastating and evil. The women should just stop it!

Why I feel the children should know is so they can have an idea of the kind of things that happen in this life and therefore tread cautiously so they don't fall victim like "their father". And also to know the kind of person third mum was.

They need to be aware of these things even if the man will end up adding them to his will.

Lalasticlala Dominique abeg come and read what I just read.

Redpiller will be happy with this kinda post

You guys need to do DNA test for your kids asap.

The matter tie gele o.

Anyway, I'd advised you call the eldest or the most sensible one, explain it to her before disclosing it to the rest.

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IceColdVeins:
you stay around Lawanson?