gregyboy:


He is, probably a teenager who is yet to understand life nairaland should be showcasing peoples age on every moniker so we can diagnose some People madness

daewoorazer

First of all, you’re a deranged goat...and yes, I’m old enough to father ur kind....

stayclearofme:

Why not shut up if you don't have any sensible thing to say.

Shut the fcvk up lil boy

Heartbrokengirl:


Nairalanders and insults. How exactly am I the side hoe here? Someone clearly looked me in the face and lied to me many times and I am the hoe?

Are you always like this or you are faking it?

I don’t need your advice, I advised myself and left him for his wife and family.

sorry you don't need to brodcast it again nah.if need be you should have used your real profile.Can you see the reason you hide behind a monika

daewoorazer:


You’re still a hoe with a hole.. who cares if you’ve had penetrative sex or not...if I realize u keep a battalion of Dildos in your closet, na to flog ur bumbum

You’re kinda stupid man

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Your stupidity is legendary...I doff my hat

Heartbrokengirl:


I understand marriage could be complicated, I have heard and read stories. If you read my post, you will see my major problem is the deception. He took me out to many places and some felt I was aware of his marital status...whereas I wasn’t. He said he knew I wouldn’t continue if I knew he was married, so he couldn’t tell me. Was that fair to me??

Can you imagine how painful it is giving your all to someone, only for her to tell you she is married? It is more painful because I asked and he lied to me.

Heartbrokengirl sorry about what that man did to you, thank God he didn't sleep with you with deceit or even marry you first then confess later.

You dodged a bad one.

What's your zodiac sign? You sound like a pisces, they are very trusting and they see the good in everyone unfortunately, even evil liars like this your married ex.

SavageBoy:


With all due respect sir, your head is not correct

With all due respect, your idiocy deserves an award

SenecaTheYonger:


Guy your previous comment was boring and cliche, unoriginal. Try to be original with your comment. Notice than you had only 4 likes because we have seen those kind of comments more 100 times in a day.

What else can be more original than one that clearly steers clear of licking asses, yours reeks of As$-licking. Now that you’ve made your stupidity registered, you can crawl back to your tiny enclave

toren:


You're somewhat like I. I'm so private and mind my business a lot. I don't do social media glam and don't know how to follow celebrities. I've never been on Linda Ikeji's blog. The only two celebs I follow are C. Ronaldo and one French actress like that. My FB posts since I joined many years ago can't be up to 30. It shocks me to find some NL users have up to 1000 posts. LIke how do they do it? What do they talk about? Lol.

Btw, pay no mind to people telling you the guy is nice. There's nothing nice about a deceitful person. He's a liar and betrayer of all sorts. A cheat who wants to eat his cake and have it.

People do not know some of us are like that. We
love to mind our business a lot. People that meet us one on one would think we are stupid, people like Nairalanders would think we were carried away by money or looks. I told him I don’t have social media accounts and he almost unscrewed my phone to find one, he couldn’t believe it. My main Nairaland account is 4yrs old with less than 200 comments. This is the most I have commented and that is because I needed to clear some things.

Thanks for your understanding

Goldie16:

What kind of rubbish is this oga. I can't believe that these things you're saying is from a human being with a father, mother, sisters, brothers etc. I feel such pity and heartbreak for you sir. Wow. Do people like you really exist. That's terrible of you

Shut the gutter u call mouth...what do you know about relationship, civilized phool

daewoorazer:


First of all, you’re a deranged goat...and yes, I’m old enough to father ur kind....

Are you not so foolish to even agree you are an old man with such a teens comment

Once again keep quite

You dont have to always reply particularly when you have nothing to say.....

CHoccolaTE:


Heartbrokengirl sorry about what that man did to you, thank God he didn't sleep with you with deceit or even marry you first then confess later.

You dodged a bad one.

What's your zodiac sign? You sound like a pisces, they are very trusting and they see the good in everyone unfortunately, even evil liars like this your married ex.

Thanks Chocolate, lolzzz. I am pisces and I am very trusting. My friend fears for me, she would talk and talk...I will just be laughing

uncleck:
well, ideally, giving head is sexual immorality, but I'm a realist. Most of the women you celebrate as virgins take head regularly, yet we call them virgins. So as long as he didn't penetrate her, the girl will continue to parade herself as a virgin and the man cannot be charged with rape

and you can't reason outside the box to see her lying game to vindicate herself from being a bad girl....

shortgun:

You need to learn to behave in a public forum like this.
Calling someone u don't know derogatory names will not add a penny to ur bank account, it will do u know good.

I am not after d OP or any girl on this forum, Never sent a PM to any female in my over 5yrs in this forum...I hv my hands full offline
Just stop calling someone's daughter and sister a hoe when u don't even know them., it makes u sound like a lunatic.
If u like follow wisdom

There is nothing wise about what you posted son. It only exposes the fact that you are a pampered lunatic and a mum’s boy who knows nothing about the street.

Now crawl back to your mum’s kitchen and do the chores alloted to u... until a strand of hair grows in your pubes, then maybe you can come back to learn

Lucky you didnt became his evening newpaper. . the one use to wrapp SUYA meat

Heartbrokengirl:


Thanks Chocolate, lolzzz. I am pisces and I am very trusting. My friend fears for me, she would talk and talk...I will just be laughing

Ok

Heartbrokengirl:


Thanks Chocolate, lolzzz. I am pisces and I am very trusting. My friend fears for me, she would talk and talk...I will just be laughing

I knew it, lol

The most pure hearted people I have ever met in life were pisces, they are kind to a fault and very compassionate.

I would like to have more as friends but they are hard to find, they like staying indoors.

Just stop trusting people before you do background check on them, very evil and heartless people are many in this world.

Sanchez01:

Some of you are not properly brought up and it is troubling because the number multiplies across cyberspace on a daily basis.

What’s proper upbringing to you? That you’re a loser who doesn’t have a voice? Or that you’re a coward with zero balls?

Don’t ever mention me in your miserable life again ever. You may however when u have a strand of hair on ur chin

Heartbrokengirl:


We never had penetrative sex, I have never had penetrative sex. The messages are from our past chat, I only cleared the chat after creating this thread. I have not set my eyes on him since then. He has called with other numbers, but that has been it.

Plz, you can reserve the “hoe” tag for your loved ones if it is such a pleasant name. Using it randomly on people you do not know is a not a sign of good upbringing.

You guys here are all about the dick, dick is everywhere, but I have lived 25yrs of my life without it and I didn’t die. I was only hurt he lied to me and led me on. Some of us are trusting. I know people that would have ransacked his house and social media pages, but I didn’t do that. I am not even on Facebook and Instagram. He preyed on the fact that I am quite private and trusting, direct your misgivings to him!!

you don't have to reply every troll here...you have actually made your point and I love your sincerity and simplicity. just try and be more careful before giving your heart to another man. move on and hope for the best. wishing you all the best.

gregyboy:



Are you not so foolish to even agree you are an old man with such a teenager comment

Once again keep quite

You dont have to always reply particularly when you have nothing to say.....

This is actually the part that’s stupid and dumb. Now that I know you’re incapable of simple and correct sentences, I’ll never reply you again.

uncleck:
well, ideally, giving head is sexual immorality, but I'm a realist. Most of the women you celebrate as virgins take head regularly, yet we call them virgins. So as long as he didn't penetrate her, the girl will continue to parade herself as a virgin and the man cannot be charged with rape

she's a virgin technically but her innocence is gone

haryomikun:

You’re kinda stupid man

Your dad is actually more stupid

Oyiboman69:
and you can't reason outside the box to see her lying game to vindicate herself from being a bad girl....

why are you being too serious? Am I supposed to investigate her before I advise her? If you break your knee bone but tells the Orthopaedic it's your ankle, who is fooling who? Besides do you expect her to tell you she's a bad girl? But what if she's not?

Oga drop your comment and stop being too critical of people

daewoorazer:


You’re still a hoe with a hole.. who cares if you’ve had penetrative sex or not...if I realize u keep a battalion of Dildos in your closet, na to flog ur bumbum

frustrated f000000l. matured g.oat.

Liposure:
she's a virgin technically but her innocence is gone

there is no human being from 15 years upward that is sexually moral; virgin or no virgin. So forget the innocence. Mouth action and giving head same as masturbation, will not give you pregnancy.

99% of humans who do not engage in penetrative sex, still satisfy their urge one way or the other

gregyboy:



Are you not so foolish to even agree you are an old man with such a teenager comment

stano2:
frustrated f000000l. matured g.oat.

Your papa is the phool, and ur mum a demented pig

Heartbrokengirl:


I don’t have high expectations, the person I dated before him was nothing like him in looks and finance, but I loved and respected him till his father said his son would never marry me for religious reasons. I started keeping to myself and avoided social gatherings.

Apart from his looks and his caring nature, he was the average man. He is definitely not richer than my senior colleagues who ask me out daily.

Our first conversation was intriguing, I decided to let my guard down and be friendly again. My mistake wasn’t my standard, my mistake was being carried away with love and trust not to check. My mistake was avoiding all the warnings

Hmmmm. Good you admitted making mistake. Think about what led to the mistake. Maybe what I mentioned?
My post was intended to let you know that when we point finger, the remaining fingers are pointing at us.

If I were you, I would have saved my relationship and turn to a Catholic. It is that simple. Marriage is about give and take. It is still the expectations I talked about. Some people are just spoilers so it is your duty to make sure you don't allow them to destroy your relationship under any guise. Nobody is perfect but there must be minimum standard. Meaning that you don't have to be desperate and take or do anything. Just saying that asking you to be a Catholic shouldn't ruin your relatioship.

Lastly, I sense you want to go back into your shelf and I don't want you to hence my post. So pls keep learning while you mingle. There are still good people out there seaching for good people and you only honestly get to meet them out there when you keep an open mind and mingle.
I will be 54years in a few months. Been married now for almost 19yrs. But then at a point I almost gave up on meeting a good woman. I had to keep trying while I kept working on myself too. The more I work on myself, the more I realized my mistakes. I found that I caused most of the things that happened to me. This is the essense of my post. Nothing more.

daewoorazer:


Shut the gutter u call mouth...what do you know about relationship, civilized phool

Lols. I didn't expect any better

Heartbrokengirl:
I have always hated the idea of dating married people, but here I am...the ex-girlfriend of a married man.

It started sometime during the lockdown, I went somewhere to get groceries and ran into this man. Let’s call him Mr X. His smile and sense of humour was the attraction. He was putting on a nice senator material and when I stood for us to leave, he towered above me. I am a 6ft tall lady and ladies with my height can tell the happiness when you meet a taller man.

We started chatting regularly and we were in a competition to give ourselves treats. On our second date which I initiated, I asked his age and he replied 36, he asked mine and I told him. He expressed his doubts and I showed him my drivers license. Started asking many questions about my background and I answered all of them. I asked about him too, including his marital status.

I had just gotten out of a relationship, his father said he wouldn’t marry outside the Catholic church and he started drifting, I had to let him go. It was tough for me, but after months of keeping to myself, my friend encouraged me to go on dates and give another man a chance. I decided to give Mr X a chance.

It was beautiful. We were in a competition to please ourselves, take ourselves out and we both had a healthy sense of humour...chatting was fun!!! Everywhere we went, people stared. We were all over ourselves even in public and till date I wonder how he pulled that off.

One day his office had a party and he asked if I could come, I said yes. Got there and the guys were looking at me with lust, the ladies were looking at me with pity. He said the ladies were jealous of my looks and some of them have been crushing on him. If you see him and see me, you’ll understand why this explanation made little sense.

After the party that day, it was late to go back to my house and his house was farther, so we decided to book a hotel around. That night was our most intimate night. We kissed, he gave me leg massages, a head and said he is ready when I am ready. I was blown away. Could this be real?

I always noticed he would be lost in thoughts whenever we are together and blame it on work. Other times he will start feeling sick and I would have to close earlier to go give him food and drugs. This became a regular occurence until one day…

He had fallen sick as usual. I made him promise to take pain relievers and we should consider going to the hospital. He didn’t do this and I had to make out time within the week to go check on him. He said it is because he was missing me, how sweet!

He didn’t get better, it was obvious something was bothering him. I decided I will take him for lunch so we can talk about it, but he couldn’t wait. That night he said he has something to tell me, he kept apologizing but still couldn’t say it. He asked if he could send a voice note and I told him to go ahead.

At about 3mins into the voice note, I felt my world crumbling. He told me he was married and has been married for almost 10years with kids. His family was not in the country, that is why I never saw traces of them. He said he had been battling with the guilt and was scared to tell me because some other girl left when she found out and the last was with him for money. He knew I would leave and was scared, his best friend told him to give it time, another told him to ghost me but I have been good to him and his conscience won’t let him. Other friends said he should never mention it to me.


When my friend saw him, she told me he was going to hurt me. I asked her how and she said I was too innocent for him. She didn’t say further not to be termed hater, but since he made me happy again...she wished me well.

I kept replaying the audio while he kept asking me to say something. I wondered if he treated his wife the way he treated me. He was such a gentleman. Held my hands when I had to walk in heels, opened the car door for me, checked on me at work, gave me handmade customized gifts...he made them himself. He said his wife is bad and he wants divorce her, lolz. I told him they all say that. I told him how much he has hurt me, but I forgive him and appreciate him telling me when he did.

It has been almost 3months but the pain lingers. I know I will be fine…

Can I help you mend your broken heart ?

shortgun:

You need to learn to behave in a public forum like this.
Calling someone u don't know derogatory names will not add a penny to ur bank account, it will do u know good.

I am not after d OP or any girl on this forum, Never sent a PM to any female in my over 5yrs in this forum...I hv my hands full offline
Just stop calling someone's daughter and sister a hoe when u don't even know them., it makes u sound like a lunatic.
If u like follow wisdom

The guy was looking for likes, in Nairaland bashing women usually gives automatic 'likes'

Saccharine:


I can assure you that you're not the only girl he's been seeing,the whole point of cheating is sex,he wasn't having sex with you so he must have been getting it from somewhere seeing as his so called ' evil 'wife is abroad.

Heartbrokengirl this guy nailed it.