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Will You Love Your Wife More Than Your Mother? by Nobody: 10:31am On Dec 13, 2020
It is best to love your wife above your mother, but with this gold-digging, selfish and self-centered kind of ladies we have around, this can make some guys see their mum as a better brand...

Ladies, you cannot love a guy only for money and success and expect him to love you so deeply above his mum... You need to show some level of true love to make it easier for a guy to love you above his mum.

Guys will you love your wife above your mum?
Re: Will You Love Your Wife More Than Your Mother? by soundOsonic: 10:32am On Dec 13, 2020
Mr. Babatunde a newly wedded man, full of life energy and happiness, who wouldn't be Babatunde after marrying such a beauty like Omowunmi. Omowunmi truly was a beauty, so much endowed that it was impossible for any man not to steal a second glance at her. This was a woman that Babatunde just have to keep all to himself, the young men at his wedding would have called him a stingy bastard.
Vooooooom!!! The sound of a new Mercedes Benz the new edition, cruising along the Ore road, sitting at the back of the car is Omowunmi and her mother in-law chatting and laughing, such wonder rapport between mother in-law and daughter in law.
Gbam Gbam!!! The new mercedez Benz somersaulted after been hit by a Dangote trunk,
Splash splash it hit against the water just below the bridge the car was hit. The car slowly sank into the water. Omowunmi beauty was tainted with horrors has Babatunde gazed upon her while his eye brows was pushed up by the surprise of the accident, his mother also displayed such looks as her son, like the saying like mother like son.
The car was filled with silence and water, Babatunde undid his belt and reached out to save the two women in his life. He paused for what seemed like half a second to choose who he should save, he could only save one as he is racinng against time and death. His hand stretched forth and grabbed Omowunmi, he looked at his mother with eyes of pity, she reciprocated such gesture with eyes of betrayal. He broke through the windscreen and swam upward while holding Omowunmi hands just like the way he held her lovely hands as they walked down the aisle; followed by tears that was carried away from his eyes by the gentle current of the lagoon.
Years later Babatunde divorced his wife, he lost his mother now his wife.
Babatunde never for once regretted his decision, because he understood clearly some love cannot be expressed through action, and that kind of love is the purest of all, he do not need to save his mother to proof he actually love her, such love for his momma was already written in his DNA. Only a wife does he have to prove he loves so dearly and such does not go by only by action.
Love cannot be quantify but can be qualify not based on sacrifices alone but based on understanding.

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Re: Will You Love Your Wife More Than Your Mother? by Thattallgirl(f): 10:40am On Dec 13, 2020
The love u give your mom is different from the love you give your wife. Stop making it the same. Honour your mom and give her the respect she deserves but let her know there are boundaries in your marriage. The same goes with your wife too. Let her know your mom is like her second mom. When your wife treats her that way, your wife and mom won't have to fight for your love.

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Re: Will You Love Your Wife More Than Your Mother? by goldishays: 10:41am On Dec 13, 2020
Without a second thought! My mother won't be the mother of my kids.
So I'll love my wife more than my mom.
Re: Will You Love Your Wife More Than Your Mother? by MiVida(m): 10:45am On Dec 13, 2020
I will never ever ever ever love any woman close to how much I love my mum...

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Re: Will You Love Your Wife More Than Your Mother? by Nobody: 10:48am On Dec 13, 2020
You can't have the same feelings for your mother and wife.

The love for family (which the mother is a part of) is known as fillia love. Affectionate kinda love. While the one for your wife is Eros. Usually sex related.

Above all, if you must share the God's kinda love which is *Agape", The unconditional love that is sacrificial, then show it equally to all as God has commanded us.

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Re: Will You Love Your Wife More Than Your Mother? by Thattallgirl(f): 10:50am On Dec 13, 2020
CalliDora1:
You can't have same love for mothers and wife.

The love for family (which a mother is part of) is known as fillia love. Affectionate kinda love. Whole the one for your wife is Eros. Usually sex related.

Above all, if you must share the God's kinda love which is *Agape", The unconditional love that is sacrificial, then show it equally to all as God has commanded us.

Thank you o...it's questions like that that makes wives and MIL fight for love

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Re: Will You Love Your Wife More Than Your Mother? by yanabasee(m): 10:51am On Dec 13, 2020
The love you give your mother comes with total respect and regards..... And that of a wife comes with intimacy and feelings......

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Re: Will You Love Your Wife More Than Your Mother? by thebosstrevor1: 10:56am On Dec 13, 2020
spoked:
It is best to love your wife above your mother, but with this gold-digging, selfish and self-centered kind of ladies we have around, this can make some guys see their mum as a better brand...

Ladies, you cannot love a guy only for money and success and expect him to love you so deeply above his mum... You need to show some level of true love to make it easier for a guy to love you above his mum.

Guys will you love your wife above your mum?

continue looking for love from your fellow human being.
Re: Will You Love Your Wife More Than Your Mother? by thebosstrevor1: 10:57am On Dec 13, 2020
yanabasee:
The love you give your mother comes with total respect and regards..... And that of a wife comes with intimacy and feelings......

Op, They have explain for you.
Re: Will You Love Your Wife More Than Your Mother? by Nobody: 10:59am On Dec 13, 2020
Thattallgirl:
Thank you o...it's questions like that that makes wives and MIL fight for love

You're welcome dear.

We really need understanding in matters like this to avoid clashes in the home.
Re: Will You Love Your Wife More Than Your Mother? by Twelfthman: 11:01am On Dec 13, 2020
They both important people in a man's life. I love them equally. When matter arises between them seek for Solomon wisdom and judge right.
Re: Will You Love Your Wife More Than Your Mother? by Thattallgirl(f): 11:04am On Dec 13, 2020
CalliDora1:


You're welcome dear.

We really need understanding in matters like this to avoid clashes in the home.
True

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Re: Will You Love Your Wife More Than Your Mother? by Ekejoestar(m): 11:11am On Dec 13, 2020
wrong question. the right question should be: can ur wife love u like the way your mom love(s) u? i guess u already know d ansa
Re: Will You Love Your Wife More Than Your Mother? by BlessedNuel: 11:19am On Dec 13, 2020
Na equal love I go give em
Re: Will You Love Your Wife More Than Your Mother? by Dissap: 12:09pm On Dec 13, 2020
Re: Will You Love Your Wife More Than Your Mother? by Observer11: 12:13pm On Dec 13, 2020
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Re: Will You Love Your Wife More Than Your Mother? by Uzomacharles: 1:51pm On Dec 13, 2020
Love For Your Wife Is Different From The Love You Give Your Mum...

All Na Love But Differs
Re: Will You Love Your Wife More Than Your Mother? by moradeke42109: 3:13pm On Dec 13, 2020
The love you give your mother comes with total respect and regards..... And that of a wife comes with intimacy and feelings......
Re: Will You Love Your Wife More Than Your Mother? by hashtagged(m): 3:14pm On Dec 13, 2020
My mom will always place higher than my wife in priority list.

Daughter>mom>wife.

Your mother has been and will be with you no matter what happens she is the only person who loves you genuinely.
Your wife is a bitch you allievated from poverty and is only with you for certain reasons.
While your daughter is your priceless jewel
Re: Will You Love Your Wife More Than Your Mother? by Lamanii22(f): 4:16pm On Dec 13, 2020
A mother's love is different, a wife's love should be different as well.... It cannot be compared....
Re: Will You Love Your Wife More Than Your Mother? by odinson1(m): 4:24pm On Dec 13, 2020
hashtagged:
My mom will always place higher than my wife in priority list.

Daughter>mom>wife.

Your mother has been and will be with you no matter what happens she is the only person who loves you genuinely.
Your wife is a bitch you allievated from poverty and is only with you for certain reasons.
While your daughter is your priceless jewel

The "Real men" will not like this
But seriously bro Some men are very very stupid! How can you love your wife(who married you to escape Poverty, Menopause, Stigmatization etc) more that your mother who has been with you since you Had your first Breath
My children will always come first before any body,my Mother Will be the 2nd,and my wife will be The 3rd
NO HOE WILL EVER COME BEFORE MY MOTHER BECAUSE I KNOW THE SARCRIFICE THAT WOMAN MADE FOR ME. IF I GET BROKE TODAY OR BECOME DISABLED,MY MOTHER WON'T ABANDON ME NO MATTER WHAT! BUT MY WIFE MIGHT BE BLEEPING MY GATEMAN IN MY MATRIMONIAL HOME,THE ONLY WOMAN A MAN CAN TRUST IS HIS MOTHER(NOT EVEN HIS SISTERS)

ANY MAN WHO PRIORITIZES HIS WIFE ABOVE HIS MOTHER,THAT MAN IS A BIG FOOL

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Re: Will You Love Your Wife More Than Your Mother? by odinson1(m): 4:31pm On Dec 13, 2020
soundOsonic:
Mr. Babatunde a newly wedded man, full of life energy and happiness, who wouldn't be Babatunde after marrying such a beauty like Omowunmi. Omowunmi truly was a beauty, so much endowed that it was impossible for any man not to steal a second glance at her. This was a woman that Babatunde just have to keep all to himself, the young men at his wedding would have called him a stingy bastard.
Vooooooom!!! The sound of a new Mercedes Benz the new edition, cruising along the Ore road, sitting at the back of the car is Omowunmi and her mother in-law chatting and laughing, such wonder rapport between mother in-law and daughter in law.
Gbam Gbam!!! The new mercedez Benz somersaulted after been hit by a Dangote trunk,
Splash splash it hit against the water just below the bridge the car was hit. The car slowly sank into the water. Omowunmi beauty was tainted with horrors has Babatunde gazed upon her while his eye brows was pushed up by the surprise of the accident, his mother also displayed such looks as her son, like the saying like mother like son.
The car was filled with silence and water, Babatunde undid his belt and reached out to save the two women in his life. He paused for what seemed like half a second to choose who he should save, he could only save one as he is racinng against time and death. His hand stretched forth and grabbed Omowunmi, he looked at his mother with eyes of pity, she reciprocated such gesture with eyes of betrayal. He broke through the windscreen and swam upward while holding Omowunmi hands just like the way he held her lovely hands as they walked down the aisle; followed by tears that was carried away from his eyes by the gentle current of the lagoon.
Years later Babatunde divorced his wife, he lost his mother now his wife.
Babatunde never for once regretted his decision, because he understood clearly some love cannot be expressed through action, and that kind of love is the purest of all, he do not need to save his mother to proof he actually love her, such love for his momma was already written in his DNA. Only a wife does he have to prove he loves so dearly and such does not go by only by action.
Love cannot be quantify but can be qualify not based on sacrifices alone but based on understanding.

Babatunde in your story is a very big fool!

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Re: Will You Love Your Wife More Than Your Mother? by Nobody: 4:36pm On Dec 13, 2020
that's how some of y'all create unnecessary rivalry between your mother and wife

as a married man, your wife must comes first,
BUT the love for your mother needn't decrease.

you can love two people simultaneously but differently.
now that is the best way for a married man to approach
the love for his mom, and the love for his wife.

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Re: Will You Love Your Wife More Than Your Mother? by odinson1(m): 4:54pm On Dec 13, 2020
Nuyokoi:
that's how some of y'all create unnecessary rivalry between your mother and wife

as a married man, your wife must comes first,
BUT the love for your mother needn't decrease.

you can love two people simultaneously but differently.
now that is the best way for a married man to approach
the love for his mom, and the love for his wife.

Why love your wife more when you Aren't completely sure of her loyalty or love for you?

Between your mother and your wife,who was there for you when you literally had nothing?

Who do you trust more?

And who do you think love you more? Your wife just married you for the financial benefits, security and Your sperm to make kids! Nothing more,she doesn't love you,you are just a means to an end(Retirement After hoe phase)
Re: Will You Love Your Wife More Than Your Mother? by Nobody: 5:11pm On Dec 13, 2020
odinson1:


Why love your wife more when you Aren't completely sure of her loyalty or love for you?
you shouldn't have married her then. point of marriage is to marry someone whose love and loyalty you're sure of.


odinson1:

Between your mother and your wife,who was there for you when you literally had nothing?

Who do you trust more?
you should have married your mom then.

like i said above, if the love, loyalty, and now trust
didn't exist between you and the woman, you shouldn't have marry her.

since you think your mom is such a better candidate,
you should've married her instead.

rubbish.


odinson1:
And who do you think love you more? Your wife just married you for the financial benefits, security and Your sperm to make kids! Nothing more,she doesn't love you,you are just a means to an end(Retirement After hoe phase)
i can't with you.

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Re: Will You Love Your Wife More Than Your Mother? by Oghenerobo2002(m): 6:30pm On Dec 13, 2020
A mother's love cannot be compared to that of a partner. I love all siblings and mother d same. But love for a partner is on a whole different level. In summary, I'll always love my mother no matter what, and for my partner, she will have to earn it
Re: Will You Love Your Wife More Than Your Mother? by Oghenerobo2002(m): 6:33pm On Dec 13, 2020
Thattallgirl:
The love u give your mom is different from the love you give your wife. Stop making it the same. Honour your mom and give her the respect she deserves but let her know there are boundaries in your marriage. The same goes with your wife too. Let her know your mom is like her second mom. When your wife treats her that way, your wife and mom won't have to fight for your love.
U get sense
Re: Will You Love Your Wife More Than Your Mother? by Thattallgirl(f): 6:43pm On Dec 13, 2020
Oghenerobo2002:

U get sense
Lol thank you
Re: Will You Love Your Wife More Than Your Mother? by RedPanthar: 6:50pm On Dec 13, 2020
Oghenerobo2002:

U get sense


She get serious big sense. I Don look that comment almost 5 times today dey smile

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