I can relate with this, it is a bad experience, I hope this stops.

The first sexual experience of most Nigerian men is with older women who abused them when they were minors. Usually an extended family member or the "house girl" or one random "aunty" in the neighborhood.



The sad thing is that most men who were victims of such childhood sexual abuse grew up to see it as normal. They sort of "relish" the experience. Some grow up festishing older women (MILF) as a way of recreating that rather traumatic early sexual encounter.


In fact, most men carryover such trauma in their subsequent sexual relationship. Sexually abusing minor girls then becomes kind of normal (because they had their first sex at such a young age). It also goes as far as skewing their understanding of sexual assault as adults.


We have a lot of work to do in healing as an entire gender. Because a lot of us are carrying around trauma without even knowing it. Importantly, we need to start acknowledging that experience as sexual assault. It was not fun, you shouldn't fetishize it. It is violation.


And some of those who carried out such evil act? They need to be held accountable. They owe you recompense, apologies. And most importantly: protect the little boys around you. These abusers still roam around in sheep's clothing.

Lalasticlala, Rocktation, farano let's do more in protecting the boy child.


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She did it when my manhood could bearly stand, I wonder if she even enjoy it cuz her toto is way bigger than my size.
If not that she is a married woman now, I will have take my revenge in destroying her hole with my huge bazuka.




Thunder fire Ruth

pastie:
She did it when my manhood could bearly stand, I wonder if she even enjoy it cuz her toto is way bigger than my size.
If not that she is a married now, I will have take my revenge in destroying her hole with my huge bazuka.

Eeyah, this issue is really bad and what makes it even worst is that people don't think it is wrong but if reverse is the case and it happened that a man violated a female kid, people will want the man's head and call him a pedophile.

I can't even find the lady who sexually harrased me anymore. I don't know if she is dead or alive all I can remember about her is her first name.

I am still looking for her though, I was less than 5 years when she started messing with me. If I catch am ehn, no make I talk wetin go happen

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Had my first sexual experience when i was barely 8yrs old, though he didn't had his way, we were about 5 playing hide and seek game, any time it wasn't my turn to be hidden this guy hidding us will alway tell me where he hid the other person just because he want me to be the next person to hid, when it my turn to hide he will always happy, innocent me didn't know what was happening, but he didn't suceed, anyway that a story for another day.

virginprincess:
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virginprincess:
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What do you have to say about this?


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She deflowered me when I went to visit my best friend, she was watching porn when I came inside the house,, she assaulted me and raped me I enjoyed it, it was very sweet but it's quite unfortunate I never saw after that day up till now..
Wish I could see her even one more time to say thank you

Why do ladies do this to our poor little boys .

All the whole Aunties who molested young boys then, they will born young boys too, something will happen to them too

virginprincess:
Had my first sexual experience when i was barely 8yrs old, though he didn't had his way, we were about 5 playing hide and seek game, any time it wasn't my turn to be hidden this guy hidding us will alway tell me where he hid the other person just because he want me to be the next person to hid, when it my turn to hide he will always happy, innocent me didn't know what was happening, but he didn't suceed, anyway that a story for another day.

Eeyah sorry about that. You have the same story as mine, exactly the same experience I had. She use to make me hide in her bedroom so while others would be looking for me outside, she was messing with me.



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MrTAnonymous:


Eeyah sorry about that. You have the same story as mine, exactly the same experience I had. She use to make me hide in her bedroom so while others would be looking for me outside, she was messing with me.



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Chai, such a horrible experience.

Freestainworld:
All the whole Aunties who molested young boys then, they will born young boys too, something will happen to them too

Those aunties are probably viewing this thread but they are refusing to comment


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virginprincess:
Chai, such a horrible experience.

Yes it is.


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This is why I'll protect my children at all cost...I don't care who yhu are relatives... friends etc....but I'm not joking with my children at all...


I go carry them like egg....they don't deserve to be traumatized..

I'm only here to read comments...

Jodha:
This is why I'll protect my children at all cost...I don't care who yhu are relatives... friends etc....but I'm not joking with my children at all...


I go carry them like egg....they don't deserve to be traumatized..

Please do, it is very important.



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Nazgul:
I'm only here to read comments...

Welcome brother.

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Na my older cousin ooo she is very beautiful mehn very very light bAck in 2006 if Nepa take light for night laidis na to go passage dey lick her toto

but when I see her now she don fine like she even don get BF but I no get mind to dey tell her make we do another round

life goes on shaar

MRTanonymous

Most men who are rapist today were once victims of rape but the society is so malfunctioning to the extent men have turn themselves into women worshippers.
A Woman will commit felonious offense and goes guts free but not the same with male folks.

If you are a man, I urge you to stop this nonsense preferential treatment going on in our society.
Woman is not a less human being therefore women shouldn't be given waivers when they commit crimes but should be punish exactly as to men folks.

You are not to worship woman but love your woman don't be cajole into worshipping women this madness is going to far.

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DukeJoe17:
Most men who are rapist today were once victims of rape but the society is so malfunctioning to the extent men have turn themselves into women worshippers.
Women will commit felonious offense and goes guts free but not the same with male folks.

If you are a man, I urge you to stop this nonsense preferential treatment going on in our society.
Woman is not a less human therefore women shoushoul be given waivers when they commit but should be punish exactly as to men folks.

You are not to worship woman but love your woman don't be cajole into worshipping women this madness is going to fair.

[/s] shey we complain say them rape us

NOnsense

themainman600:
[s][/s] shey we complain say them rape us

NOnsense

I don't blame you, I blame the rottening society that have brainwashed your little brain.
It's glaring that you are a victim of a malfunctioning society.

Maybe you are waiting to learn the hardest way kiddo.

DukeJoe17:



I don't blame you, I blame the rottening society that have brainwashed your little brain.
It's glaring that you are a victim of a malfunctioning society.

Maybe you are waiting to learn the hardest way kiddo.

what the hardest way oooh

DukeJoe17:
Most men who are rapist today were once victims of rape but the society is so malfunctioning to the extent men have turn themselves into women worshippers.
A Woman will commit felonious offense and goes guts free but not the same with male folks.

If you are a man, I urge you to stop this nonsense preferential treatment going on in our society.
Woman is not a less human being therefore women shouldn't be given waivers when they commit crimes but should be punish exactly as to men folks.

You are not to worship woman but love your woman don't be cajole into worshipping women this madness is going to far.

You made some good points here bro.


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thebosstrevor1:
This nairaland is really boring...everyday, they recycle old topics

Seun should I show him the exit?

All the whole Aunties who molested young boys then, they will born young boys too, something will happen to them too

I can remember 3 at least. It's an epistle for another day,,,, but,,,

The baddest of them would even take me to the bathroom, bathe only my stick of happiness & gave mouth-washing. Weytin I know sef I go just dey look like mumu boy. We practically had playlet at every nook & cranny of the face-me-I-face-you house & proceeded to using uncompleted building. Anytime NEPA take light, in the dark, na so auntie go dey use my tool play. She took after her mom though coz her mom really served the married men in the environs. We once caught the mom in an uncompleted building with Baba Wale & that one japaaa . She claimed we came to look at her unclothedness where she was peeing . The elders took it lightly on us because they understood the drama . Las las, na on top promiscuity matter the mom take kill her husband. The pitiful gentleman (May his soul continue to rest in peace) was hacked to death by the piza-rivals.

Ghetto life,,, definitely not for my unborn child(ren)

she sexually molested me and i enjoyed it,my pee pee was so small then,I wonder how she enjoyed it

wish i could meet her one more time to thank her

I was sexually exploited sometimes when I was below 10yrs...but I don't see it as traumatising. cos at some times I was fascinated or curious by it....no trauma abeg. Na vagina people dey get trauma from sex abuse

There is this aunty folake then that use take me to passage when it's dark,plays with my dick nd later proceed to inside toilet forcing my dick into her vj,I wish I could see her to swear for her life