i miss my best friend terribly, my bestie who i rejected his proposal for a relationship cos i was scared of losing our bond, the pure friendship we had. (check through my topics, I've written about us previously)

things haven't been the same, he started acting weird. i had to give him some personal space, we didn't talk to each other for 3 excruciating boring months, i changed my sim too.

he found a way to get my number and immediately i heard his voice, i felt this intense joy within but it wouldn't last as he started acting up( won't pick my calls, won't call back) oh lord! so many issues.

i let him go finally. i understand the situation, the emotions and him wanting to stay away from me. I'm in so much pain. I'm just gonna focus on my work, my business, myself.

it's just me , myself and I now. I'm never doing this friendship thing with the opposite sex again.

Shai sorry

He's just a baby..you should be glad he left ya for good..me feel ya.. I mean the bond and all..but me still feel that any dude who can't handle rejection shouldn't be there in the first place..

focus pan yuhself as yuh seh a tap bothering yourself..the issue shouldn't badda yuh cos yuh did wah yuh feel did right..and mi si no reason wah mek yuh should feel bad bout it..
^Understood?

blazingblender:
Shai sorry

thanks. I'd be fine. must we be in a relationship? huh? what if the relationship crashes and we ended becoming each other nightmares?

make i go play * Akon lonely * first

I've been there myself, its not easy. Trust me.
We have been friends for close to 2 years, I noticed she had a boyfriend, I even prayed to God that if they break up, let my proposal go through smoothly,

They broke up, finally (God pick my call) I was so happy,then I poured out my heart, because I really liked her and hoping it will work out the way I want

It didn't work out. so I stopped calling and visiting, I moved on.

She still calls me, saying why I stopped chatting with her.

FERNANDEZISBACK:
He's just a baby..you should be glad he left ya for good..me feel ya.. I mean the bond and all..but me still feel that any dude who can't handle rejection shouldn't be there in the first place..

focus pan yuhself as yuh seh a tap bothering yourself..the issue shouldn't badda yuh cos yuh did wah yuh feel did right..and mi si no reason wah mek yuh should feel bad bout it..
^Understood?

ya. thanks. but he's not a baby though... we have come a long way.

Ginaz:


ya. thanks. but he's not a baby though... we have come a long way.

Baby not necessarily ^baby..

what do women want

cumoverna:
I've been there myself, its not easy. Trust me.
We have been friends for close to 2 years, I noticed she had a boyfriend, I even prayed to God that if they break up, let my proposal go through smoothly,

They broke up, finally (God pick my call) I was so happy,then I poured out my heart, because I really liked her and hoping it will work out the way I want

It didn't work out. so I stopped calling and visiting, I moved on.

She still calls me, saying why I stopped chatting with her.

so sorry.

Charismatic107:
what do women want

this your question

About three years ago I was in the guy's shoe. I have been friends with this particular lady, a very dear and genuine friendship we had. I supported her dreams, she was my adviser and I never took the friendship for granted. Then the feeling set in and she confessed she wasn't in any relationship, but then she turned down my proposal when I asked her out.

The friendship crashed and we became familiar strangers.

Ginaz:


so sorry.

don't blame the guy, I saw a future with her back then, I was so hurt when it didn't play out the way I wanted back then, and I think the guy got hurt too.

Man propose, God dispose.
But time is the greatest healer.

Demigod22:
About three years ago I was in the guy's shoe. I have been friends with this particular lady, a very dear and genuine friendship we had. I supported her dreams, she was my adviser and I never took the friendship for granted. Then the feeling set in and she confessed she wasn't in any relationship, but then she turned down my proposal when I asked her out.

The friendship crashed and we became familiar strangers.

it always end this way. sensitivity and awkward movements suddenly creep in to break it all.

I don't know why a male and a female will be doing bestie.Like why??
Along the line,feelings start coming in and the best thing to do is for everyone to be on his/her own if the feeling is not mutual.But wait what happen to that fu**ing talk of "marry your best friend".One stupid guy here called him a baby,SMH.Do bestie with your gender for god sake to avoid stories like this.It's simple as ABC

Well, I don't advice Nigerian girls because it's a total waste of my time and energy

My own is that... Incase you need a shoulder to cry on please I'm kindly available.

The friendship ended anyway, so why not agree to giving a relationship a try?
You no longer have anything to lose.

Ginaz:


thanks. I'd be fine. must we be in a relationship? huh? what if the relationship crashes and we ended becoming each other nightmares?

make i go play * Akon lonely * first

In my own case, i would date my own bestie over nd over again. Cause she knows me better than anyone and we wouldnt need to be playing catch up..

So you just decided to break that innocent guy's heart just like that even before the love story began??
You should have seen it coming from the very beginning babe
You fall my hand small sha. Maybe you didn't value the guy as much as you thought you did.
If not the best person to marry is your best friend!

Una sha Bleep ABI?

Wotoporiously speaking

Me I get bestie sef, 4 years and still counting, friendship waxing stronger everyday.

She dey date one of my tight manchi sef and na me set am up..

She dey give me shenkes sometimes make I knack wetin no good..

Everywhere good.

FERNANDEZISBACK:
He's just a baby..you should be glad he left ya for good..me feel ya.. I mean the bond and all..but me still feel that any dude who can't handle rejection shouldn't be there in the first place..

focus pan yuhself as yuh seh a tap bothering yourself..the issue shouldn't badda yuh cos yuh did wah yuh feel did right..and mi si no reason wah mek yuh should feel bad bout it..
^Understood?

How is one supposed to handle rejection? By hanging around the person that rejected you? I am textbook simp. I have several female friends with no strings attached. Of course I also have several acquaintances that we both know our boundaries. However, if any of them starts behaving as if I need to give them gap, then I will give them plenty of it. I will still be their friends just that I'll be friends from a good, safe distance that can not be misinterpreted by either party.

Ginaz:
i miss my best friend terribly, my bestie who i rejected his proposal for a relationship cos i was scared of losing our bond, the pure friendship we had. (check through my topics, I've written about us previously)

things haven't been the same, he started acting weird. i had to give him some personal space, we didn't talk to each other for 3 excruciating boring months, i changed my sim too.

he found a way to get my number and immediately i heard his voice, i felt this intense joy within but it wouldn't last as he started acting up( won't pick my calls, won't call back) oh lord! so many issues.

i let him go finally. i understand the situation, the emotions and him wanting to stay away from me. I'm in so much pain. I'm just gonna focus on my work, my business, myself.

it's just me , myself and I now. I'm never doing this friendship thing with the opposite sex again.

the odd motivations you girls, feel is right is what render you girls emotional broken. And toxic. I am very sure you don't even have friends the way you are, now that one person that has distanced himself from you, you feel its okay for him to have done so. And that putting in extra efforts to bring him back is not worth it. Now you said you aren't doing any bestie with the opposite sex, like you are the only girl in this life, who cares. You will just render your life boring and dull by your self

toujurs:
the odd motivations you girls, feel is right is what render you girls emotional broken. And toxic. I am very sure you don't even have friends the way you are, now that one person that has distanced himself from you, you feel its okay for him to have done so. And that putting in extra efforts to bring him back is not worth it. Now you said you aren't doing any bestie with the opposite sex, like you are the only girl in this life, who cares. You will just render your life boring and dull by your self

. Leave the mumu, na to do lesbo better pass. Abeg make she getout.

toujurs:
the odd motivations you girls, feel is right is what render you girls emotional broken. And toxic. I am very sure you don't even have friends the way you are, now that one person that has distanced himself from you, you feel its okay for him to have done so. And that putting in extra efforts to bring him back is not worth it. Now you said you aren't doing any bestie with the opposite sex, like you are the only girl in this life, who cares. You will just render your life boring and dull by your self

I'm introverted and you know nothing about my life same way i know nothing about yours!

i don't even know the direction you're coming from, you are all over the place with your assumption. did i, in anyway suggest to you that i was the only girl in his life? i rarely bond with people let alone let them into my world, i bonded with him and we became best friends. he had girlfriends at some point so what are you saying? pls move on, i don't have time for this.

Ginaz:


I'm introverted and you know nothing about my life same way i know nothing about yours!

i don't even know the direction you're coming from, you are all over the place with your assumption. did i, in anyway suggest to you that i was the only girl in his life? i rarely bond with people let alone let them into my world, i bonded with him and we became best friends. he had girlfriends at some point so what are you saying? pls move on, i don't have time for this.

Your world? Like there is anything fun being with you. It's not like you are even fun tobbe with, you can't even keep a conversation going. Boring freak .

It seem this forum was created for introverts. Bunch of wierd people

But I think say them dey tell us make we marry our bestfriend..... Wetin kon change again
Make nobody stress me oo

Bestie when dey Bleep

Nigga has finally decided to be useful with his time. No more time for bullshits.

GenBuhari:
The friendship ended anyway, so why not agree to giving a relationship a try?
You no longer have anything to lose.

She is not sexually attracted to him, he is just there for entertainment and companionship....if she was physically attracted and aroused by him she'll risk it

We don't care about your so-called pain. Hell, I feel like beating that your nonsense bestie now. Who but a fool would be a woman's bestie while having feelings for her?

A male bestie to a woman is the most useless man on earth. Simps and incels who get used for their resources in hope they get love,attention or the used up pussy of their female counterparts. And you know the funny/sad thing? Most times, THEY NEVER EVEN GET THE COOKIE!!!

OP says and I quote 'When I heard his voice, I was filled with so much Joy... but I realised I have to end things between us bla bla bla' ... Sounds familiar? Yes!!! That's Hollywood, Korean Drama with a touch of Filipino Novella!!! All equals Premium Bullshiit!!! Kai! That nigga don suffer for OP hand!!!


I have no pity for male besties!!! Every male here reading this, if your gf has a male bestie or you are a male bestie....you are on a premium lager tears journey. Join the redpill and let your open up for life.

cumoverna:
I've been there myself, its not easy. Trust me.
We have been friends for close to 2 years, I noticed she had a boyfriend, I even prayed to God that if they break up, let my proposal go through smoothly,

They broke up, finally (God pick my call) I was so happy,then I poured out my heart, because I really liked her and hoping it will work out the way I want

It didn't work out. so I stopped calling and visiting, I moved on.

She still calls me, saying why I stopped chatting with her.

Jesus Christ!!!
All this on a woman who has been ran through? You even prayed they break up and thanked God after they broke up?
Why can't men just be like men for Fuq sakes? Why can't these dudes open their eyes and see the truth of the goddamn matrix they are in?

How can I have a son who is grateful to God for breaking his so-called bestie's relationship, so he can date her.... Is she the only one in the universe for you or what?

This is becoming a pandemic, I swear