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My Fiancee is making Life hell for me!!! by Nobody: 12:59pm On Dec 14, 2020 |
I have a fiancee, we have been together for a while now and plan on getting married by February 2021. She lives in America (her dad is white American while her mum is Nigerian), while I'm here in Nigeria. Due to the pandemic I lost my job earlier in the year. Luckily for my fiancee she landed a job over there as an Investment Banker with a Fortune 500 Company were she earns over $18,000 a month (benefits inclusive). The issue is that since she got this new job over there she has been acting up assisting me with peanuts every month. I'm sick and tired of her attitude. But I really love her. I have been advised by friends that American ladies are a pain in the neck so I'm confused. Please what should I do? Should I continue with the marriage plans (cause she will be coming in February 2021 for the marriage ceremony)? Or I should just look elsewhere. I'm 34 she is 27. |
Re: My Fiancee is making Life hell for me!!! by EdricBond: 1:01pm On Dec 14, 2020 |
Continue abeg! You are even lucky that she is Working sef! Continue before you meet the *2k urgent* type of girls. 36 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Fiancee is making Life hell for me!!! by Nobody: 1:10pm On Dec 14, 2020 |
though I don't support relationship or marriage but if at all you need to, the independent woman is far better than the urgent 2k squad 21 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Fiancee is making Life hell for me!!! by Fvckhypocrite(f): 1:15pm On Dec 14, 2020 |
You said she's misbehaving but you did nt open up for us Op whats her major problem if she can agjust go ahead and marry her 5 Likes |
Re: My Fiancee is making Life hell for me!!! by amiibaby(f): 1:18pm On Dec 14, 2020 |
Hmmm |
Re: My Fiancee is making Life hell for me!!! by Juliusmomoh: 1:22pm On Dec 14, 2020 |
If u like, don't go and marry dat lady..... You are just looking for trouble where there is no trouble. 2 Likes |
Re: My Fiancee is making Life hell for me!!! by Juliusmomoh: 1:25pm On Dec 14, 2020 |
amiibaby:What is hmmm ? . . . . Are you farting over this small case ? |
Re: My Fiancee is making Life hell for me!!! by EdricBond: 1:27pm On Dec 14, 2020 |
amiibaby:Who is fvcking you? |
Re: My Fiancee is making Life hell for me!!! by Juliusmomoh: 1:30pm On Dec 14, 2020 |
EdricBond:Bad guy 1 Like |
Re: My Fiancee is making Life hell for me!!! by Freestainworld(m): 1:35pm On Dec 14, 2020 |
pls op, share with your neighbor if you are no longer interested, I am available sir. 10 Likes |
Re: My Fiancee is making Life hell for me!!! by Nobody: 2:14pm On Dec 14, 2020 |
Fvckhypocrite: She complains endlessly about money when infact she earns a fortune and has this terrible narcissistic attitude that drives me Crazy!! |
Re: My Fiancee is making Life hell for me!!! by Fvckhypocrite(f): 2:18pm On Dec 14, 2020 |
TysonsCorner:Mehn it's serious have you talk to her or her parent about the issue? |
Re: My Fiancee is making Life hell for me!!! by DaudaTheSexyGuy(m): 2:51pm On Dec 14, 2020 |
You're just mad cos you can't get your pudgy little fingers on her money I hope you've banged her sha cos I don't see a future in that relationship! 5 Likes |
Re: My Fiancee is making Life hell for me!!! by Nobody: 3:08pm On Dec 14, 2020 |
Fake story. 18k dollars a month 12 Likes |
Re: My Fiancee is making Life hell for me!!! by OmoOduduwa01: 3:26pm On Dec 14, 2020 |
I'm here to read comments, cuz I'll soon be in the OP's shoes 1 Like |
Re: My Fiancee is making Life hell for me!!! by Sailorsoldier1: 3:29pm On Dec 14, 2020 |
U are jobless....she sends u money and u think she will respect u? Hell no 1 Like |
Re: My Fiancee is making Life hell for me!!! by Nobody: 3:30pm On Dec 14, 2020 |
op some guys are advising u here to go ahead with the relationship since it will prevent u meeting the urgent 2k girls but u should ask urself an honest question the allowance she is giving u with attitude or ur self respect..which is more important to u? would u rather a lady disrespects u cos of the stipends she gives to u or u would rather have ur self respect? better go and look for job instead of depending on a woman for ur daily bread 14 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Fiancee is making Life hell for me!!! by Nobody: 3:36pm On Dec 14, 2020 |
Fvckhypocrite:are u suggesting he reports the issue to her parents? he would even make the issue worse telling on her to her parents babe is using her sweat to finance him and he now goes to report her to her parents cos she is showing some attitude she will start reasoning what is she gaining in the relationship and later ditch op altogether. anyway the story sounds fantastic cos 18k dollars is a hell lot of money in nigeria when converted to naira some sharp niggas in op"s shoe would save that money and as the girl is showing attitude they will ditch the relationship and go start their life afresh with the money.Op is complaining when he actually has no problem. 1 Like |
Re: My Fiancee is making Life hell for me!!! by Nobody: 3:37pm On Dec 14, 2020 |
Continue with your own money or hers? Is it with the peanuts she's sending you you hope to run a family as a man? If that's what you're relying on, just know that after marriage, na automatic houseboy you go become. How about waiting until you get a job and are financially stable before going ahead? My 2 cents, don't ever rely on a woman's money cos you'll end up depressed. At least you can already see it unfolding now that you're still dating. Now imagine what it it will be like when you have to deal with it every day. 5 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Fiancee is making Life hell for me!!! by Camelot65: 3:43pm On Dec 14, 2020 |
TysonsCorner:She does this and you're still in that relationship? it seems you enjoy what she does or you don't care about your sanity and life..... People see red flags in relationships but still delve into marriage, why is that? Go and look for a job, no-one should hope to be in a situation where he'll be fed by a lady 3 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: My Fiancee is making Life hell for me!!! by Fvckhypocrite(f): 3:44pm On Dec 14, 2020 |
lefulefu:Ekun lefulefu himself i thnk op dey after the relationship nt after the money |
Re: My Fiancee is making Life hell for me!!! by ichidodo: 3:45pm On Dec 14, 2020 |
You have been struck with that disease called Oneitis..needling,meowing, grasping and whining has made you feminine thus she has become b***tchy and just downwright inconsiderate....Bros you have lost the trousers in the relationship... Please don't come and go and kill yourself over the matter. What you need to do is to grow some balls....Find your frame and maintain the sh**t out of it.. 1 Like |
Re: My Fiancee is making Life hell for me!!! by Fvckhypocrite(f): 3:45pm On Dec 14, 2020 |
Juliusmomoh:Chai |
Re: My Fiancee is making Life hell for me!!! by Kalatium(m): 3:54pm On Dec 14, 2020 |
CalliDora1: This is deep @ bolded. I wonder why when it comes to money women are something else. 2 Likes |
Re: My Fiancee is making Life hell for me!!! by Nobody: 3:58pm On Dec 14, 2020 |
Kalatium: All I'm saying is both of them need to be financially independent. That's all. 1 Like |
Re: My Fiancee is making Life hell for me!!! by Nobody: 4:00pm On Dec 14, 2020 |
someone is making life a hell for you and you still call am fiancee fools everywhere 1 Like |
Re: My Fiancee is making Life hell for me!!! by Kalatium(m): 4:06pm On Dec 14, 2020 |
CalliDora1:Had it been reverse was the case you won't say such things. 2 Likes |
Re: My Fiancee is making Life hell for me!!! by akinloye19995: 4:11pm On Dec 14, 2020 |
pls op, share with your neighbor if you are no longer interested, I am available sir. |
Re: My Fiancee is making Life hell for me!!! by Nobody: 4:13pm On Dec 14, 2020 |
Kalatium: Why won't I say it? Do you know me? 1 Like |
Re: My Fiancee is making Life hell for me!!! by Judybash93(m): 4:20pm On Dec 14, 2020 |
It's her money, she can do whatever she wants with it.... 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Fiancee is making Life hell for me!!! by Nobody: 4:20pm On Dec 14, 2020 |
Fvckhypocrite:haba guy we are nigerians u actually believe op is just dere for the relationship cos he said so? ok ooo Anyway when a girl don start to dey insult u and talk crap cos na she dey spend on the relationship thats the right time for u to pull the plug off the relationship tell the girl to her face that u no longer interested and that make she carry her money go..dat u no longer need am again u dont need to do reporting to parents or uncles cos after all she is not ur wife she is just an ordinary gf or fiancee d only time wen a guy go find am hard to do such is when u depend totally on her for food and other needed items 3 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: My Fiancee is making Life hell for me!!! by Nobody: 4:23pm On Dec 14, 2020 |
Camelot65:best advice ever 1 Like 1 Share |
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