Zeal0000007:
Pals I'm really fade up on my woman, next year supposed to be our marriage introduction, we've been together for 5years now. I engaged her last 3month ego. over two years now I've been struggling so hard to have sex with her she barely allowed me touch her. she gives allot of excuses during sex, she almost like write down the number of times we have sex in a week. should we have time table for sex?

I can't have access to her body when I want to, and we're staying together, I'm not a wood. It's always one excuse or the other just to avoid sex, she's really frustrating me, and this is someone I want to get married to in months, and I don't want to Cheat on her either because I love her and want the best for us. we're having issues like this now that we are not married what about when we are married. l'm thinking of quitting. she's 22 while I'm 29, she love sex before ,even more than I do, l'm just surprised at this development for the past 2year now, why is it different now, women do all they can to keep their men to themselves, why is mine pushing me away, from my observation there's no one or anything distracting her, she just being wicked to me and stubborn, pals I don't know if there's another option, I wanted to quit or give her a competition by bringing in another woman if that will make her sit up, I'm just fade up.

Zeal0000007:
Pals I'm really fade up on my woman, next year supposed to be our marriage introduction, we've been together for 5years now. I engaged her last 3month ego. over two years now I've been struggling so hard to have sex with her she barely allowed me touch her. she gives allot of excuses during sex, she almost like write down the number of times we have sex in a week. should we have time table for sex?

I can't have access to her body when I want to, and we're staying together, I'm not a wood. It's always one excuse or the other just to avoid sex, she's really frustrating me, and this is someone I want to get married to in months, and I don't want to Cheat on her either because I love her and want the best for us. we're having issues like this now that we are not married what about when we are married. l'm thinking of quitting. she's 22 while I'm 29, she love sex before ,even more than I do, l'm just surprised at this development for the past 2year now, why is it different now, women do all they can to keep their men to themselves, why is mine pushing me away, from my observation there's no one or anything distracting her, she just being wicked to me and stubborn, pals I don't know if there's another option, I wanted to quit or give her a competition by bringing in another woman if that will make her sit up, I'm just fade up.

IDERAWOLE:


Sometimes you read interesting stories here.

All I can say is that you've put your marital life on gear 4 approaching a valley, who will deliver you?

It's almost impossible advising people like you, who must test and taste what will eventually be yours while it's still on the way. Poor you!

Continue with your sex before marriage philosophy, it's useless advising you against it, you'll never understand what you're missing, even right now that you're not married.

Sex makes no meaning to ladies if all you want is their body and not their heart, you can't understand that statement.

That lady has lost all the excitement in sex and what you are doing is just wasting your sperm.

It is very clear like most ladies in the shoe of that lady that she'll look for another man even when she's in your house. You've destroyed her love for sex with your ignorance.

For you, after 3yrs of marriage, you'll look for new lady to explore again. You've almost ruined your sex life without knowing. Unfortunately, you can't stop except you get help. The only person that can help you is the oga of all spirits which is the Holy Spirit.

Without knowing Jesus, forget it you can't get the Holy Spirit.

It is the Holy Spirit that can reprogram you back to factory settings.

I pray you take this path back to sexual enjoyment in marriage.

However, the choice is always yours.

Bola146:
I'm just speechless!!!! You never marry her, but your body no be fire wood That girl don suffer!!! Marry her legally and then see that she will be happy

RisenPhoenix1:


It's a natural power play. Women do not naturally like giving sex away for free, so she's trying to discover to what extent you will go to obtain sex from her, and in future, use it to blackmail you for the rest of your life; or at least until you are too old to sustain her financially and your children take over the task; when you will not even smell sex even from 100m distance. Polygamy is the only path which keeps wives in line. Our ancestors were very aware of this, and that is why they married many rival wives to hustle for their love and attention. (The fake story is that they only did so to have more children to work on the farm, but that is a lie). In those days, the wife that was chosen to share her husband's bed for the night will be taunting the others and eager to go over and beyond her wifely duties. That is when men were men.

Bola146:
I'm just speechless!!!! You never marry her, but your body no be fire wood That girl don suffer!!! Marry her legally and then see that she will be happy

Frustrated007:
guys please is ngcard a scam site? I saw their advert on nairaland.
Has anyone here traded with them ?

oga go hustle for tinder
I no be mugu

Baller45653:
I can trade for you with 1000 naira difference....can I have your digits

Bola146:
I'm just speechless!!!! You never marry her, but your body no be fire wood That girl don suffer!!! Marry her legally and then see that she will be happy

Frustrated007:
oga go hustle for tinder
I no be mugu

IDERAWOLE:

It is very clear like most ladies in the shoe of that lady that she'll look for another man even when she's in your house. You've destroyed her love for sex with your ignorance.

For you, after 3yrs of marriage, you'll look for new lady to explore again. You've almost ruined your sex life without knowing. Unfortunately, you can't stop except you get help. The only person that can help you is the oga of all spirits which is the Holy Spirit.

Without knowing Jesus,

I can't believe that after saying the truth that the said girl is probably cheating on the guy, you still have the boldness to call the Holy Trinity in your post.
If woman hate sex as you lie about, why is she cheating when it is very glaring that the next guy will still ask of sex
Or do you believe that the next guy doesn't have prick?
I'm not too surprised Sha Because I still remember how I use to Bleep my ex to stupor and after that she will wear her cloths and be heading to church for choir practice, I will just lied on my bed feeling disgusting and she will be the first person to post her pictures after church the next day

Zeal0000007:
Pals I'm really fade up on my woman, next year supposed to be our marriage introduction, we've been together for 5years now. I engaged her last 3month ego. over two years now I've been struggling so hard to have sex with her she barely allowed me touch her. she gives allot of excuses during sex, she almost like write down the number of times we have sex in a week. should we have time table for sex?

I can't have access to her body when I want to, and we're staying together, I'm not a wood. It's always one excuse or the other just to avoid sex, she's really frustrating me, and this is someone I want to get married to in months, and I don't want to Cheat on her either because I love her and want the best for us. we're having issues like this now that we are not married what about when we are married. l'm thinking of quitting. she's 22 while I'm 29, she love sex before ,even more than I do, l'm just surprised at this development for the past 2year now, why is it different now, women do all they can to keep their men to themselves, why is mine pushing me away, from my observation there's no one or anything distracting her, she just being wicked to me and stubborn, pals I don't know if there's another option, I wanted to quit or give her a competition by bringing in another woman if that will make her sit up, I'm just fade up.

MJBOLT:

the op is not wise,the girl that is giving him conditions for sex is a serial cheat.

https://www.nairaland.com/5947429/guys-never-trust-woman-not

Orjioorji:
don't be stupid if you want to be sleeping with her uncontrollable go and pay her bride price and Mary her proper. Hope if she is your sister you will support her sleeping with a guy that have not paid anything on her head any how .

Frustrated007:
guys please is ngcard a scam site? I saw their advert on nairaland.
Has anyone here traded with them ?

Zeal0000007:
Pals I'm really fade up on my woman, next year supposed to be our marriage introduction, we've been together for 5years now. I engaged her last 3month ego. over two years now I've been struggling so hard to have sex with her she barely allowed me touch her. she gives allot of excuses during sex, she almost like write down the number of times we have sex in a week. should we have time table for sex?

I can't have access to her body when I want to, and we're staying together, I'm not a wood. It's always one excuse or the other just to avoid sex, she's really frustrating me, and this is someone I want to get married to in months, and I don't want to Cheat on her either because I love her and want the best for us. we're having issues like this now that we are not married what about when we are married. l'm thinking of quitting. she's 22 while I'm 29, she love sex before ,even more than I do, l'm just surprised at this development for the past 2year now, why is it different now, women do all they can to keep their men to themselves, why is mine pushing me away, from my observation there's no one or anything distracting her, she just being wicked to me and stubborn, pals I don't know if there's another option, I wanted to quit or give her a competition by bringing in another woman if that will make her sit up, I'm just fade up.