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Re: Help Anytime I Get Angry I Destroy Things by Victor6998: 5:34pm On Dec 21, 2020 |
Freestainworld:� |
Re: Help Anytime I Get Angry I Destroy Things by Okoroawusa: 5:42pm On Dec 21, 2020 |
As long as the things you destroy are yours... Carry go!! |
Re: Help Anytime I Get Angry I Destroy Things by Juliusmomoh: 6:00pm On Dec 21, 2020 |
bigcee:No mind am |
Re: Help Anytime I Get Angry I Destroy Things by codeKart(m): 6:02pm On Dec 21, 2020 |
craigkoel1989: Please reach out to a therapist before you do something that ends your marriage or worse. Here's a thread with a list of therapists in Nigeria https://twitter.com/H_L_MA/status/1340797653198757889 Personally, my therapist is a lady named Amanda (http://ndidi.me ) and she's amazing. |
Re: Help Anytime I Get Angry I Destroy Things by cevek11: 6:14pm On Dec 21, 2020 |
Anytime you destroy things, repair them fast and then credit your wife with 500k (like 3 months of your salary)... Nobody go tell you the next time to cool down |
Re: Help Anytime I Get Angry I Destroy Things by colestephan86: 6:26pm On Dec 21, 2020 |
craigkoel1989:It's true that ladies can get you really mad. But if you start destroying things you carry your money buy, it means cease dey your head o. Don't worry , when you beat her well, the people on the internet will thank you and probably give you endorsement. |
Re: Help Anytime I Get Angry I Destroy Things by wacoj(m): 6:38pm On Dec 21, 2020 |
Why are you destroying small things? Don't you have a car? You are still a boy in destroying science! |
Re: Help Anytime I Get Angry I Destroy Things by romunu(m): 6:51pm On Dec 21, 2020 |
Next time she gets you angry ,just look for an old Coca Cola bottle and smash I on your head. |
Re: Help Anytime I Get Angry I Destroy Things by Holuwatomi: 6:59pm On Dec 21, 2020 |
When next ur Angry Smash ur head on the wall instead of destroying things in the house...so u feel the pain and Gain. |
Re: Help Anytime I Get Angry I Destroy Things by munachiso58(m): 7:27pm On Dec 21, 2020 |
my brother u hv money in my house if u just do mistake break any breakable plate eh........ forget how e go end for u |
Re: Help Anytime I Get Angry I Destroy Things by upower123(m): 7:36pm On Dec 21, 2020 |
Fuckhypocrite:old I need should I drop my mail |
Re: Help Anytime I Get Angry I Destroy Things by Litmus: 7:40pm On Dec 21, 2020 |
craigkoel1989: Here are words of wisdom from our Nigeria traditional cultures; simple words but they helped me solve a similar character to yours in me. Nigerian Elders i knew in the village posit that majority of our anger as men are informed be self pity that are in turn derived from pride. Once you understand that this is true, you’ll go a long way towards managing your anger, if, that is, your anger is not pathological. It is basic, all basic: next time your partner has a go at you and you start feeling anger welling up, look into yourself and you’ll see that you’re thinking along the lines of self pity, for instance, ‘just look at me, taking this nonsense, a whole me, if it wasn’t because of this or that, I wouldn’t be standing here taking this- kai! Who does she think she is; talking to me like that; just because I’m understanding and a humble person; if not for, was it because; if only etc. once these sorts of self-pitying thoughts enter your mind, stop! And the anger will subside or freeze. Apart from all the above, just watch what you eat, drink plenty of water, go to bed early, take up vigorous activities, leave the house, stay off drugs. 1 Like |
Re: Help Anytime I Get Angry I Destroy Things by Eaglesence: 8:36pm On Dec 21, 2020 |
obiekunie2: Which one come be insult ontop your advice na?? Your tongue need help o. Dont you think? |
Re: Help Anytime I Get Angry I Destroy Things by tunize(m): 8:39pm On Dec 21, 2020 |
Bros keep praying for God to take away spirit of anger and destruction from you. Bros if ur wife too vex your as a man just strol out but when you feel its late, you can move to anoda room key the door put some music on and let her be. |
Re: Help Anytime I Get Angry I Destroy Things by ayodejisure: 9:01pm On Dec 21, 2020 |
craigkoel1989: You need deliverance and you have to work on your temper. It is foolishness to use your hand to destroy what you gathered |
Re: Help Anytime I Get Angry I Destroy Things by tall4real(m): 9:20pm On Dec 21, 2020 |
First and foremost the first step in this is you blaming your getting angry on your wife. You have to be self-aware so that people cannot influence your own mood. Yes, your wife may have acted a certain way but the reaction is up to you. Realise first that as a person you need to be in control of your emotion. Once you get that out of the way seek anger counselling. Finally remember that people may do something to me, the way I react is entirely up to me. craigkoel1989: 1 Like |
Re: Help Anytime I Get Angry I Destroy Things by IHIEGOD: 9:22pm On Dec 21, 2020 |
Na madness go for psychiatrist's. Attention |
Re: Help Anytime I Get Angry I Destroy Things by Tohsynetita1: 9:28pm On Dec 21, 2020 |
Fuckhypocrite:I also need,can I get? |
Re: Help Anytime I Get Angry I Destroy Things by armyofone(m): 9:31pm On Dec 21, 2020 |
It is about time your wife leaves that toxic environment/relationship. You are a scary somebody!! You have to go see a therapist on anger management! craigkoel1989: |
Re: Help Anytime I Get Angry I Destroy Things by Fuckhypocrite: 9:36pm On Dec 21, 2020 |
Tohsynetita1:@upower123 Yeah u can get Get this - the secret by rhonda byrne * the secret the power by- rhonda byrne Let me check the remainin one author name! |
Re: Help Anytime I Get Angry I Destroy Things by Pat081: 10:10pm On Dec 21, 2020 |
If better be careful so that ur children will not be father by other man when you are in jail or 6 feet I think you know 6feet ooo |
Re: Help Anytime I Get Angry I Destroy Things by SeunNotOwner: 10:27pm On Dec 21, 2020 |
craigkoel1989: Start learning JavaScript ... you will stop getting angry at people forever |
Re: Help Anytime I Get Angry I Destroy Things by laluski(m): 10:32pm On Dec 21, 2020 |
craigkoel1989: Simple just take a knife and slit her throat..you’ll get your desired help there trust me Oh..And as for the 16 remaining fools supporting you liking your post Yaba left is not far |
Re: Help Anytime I Get Angry I Destroy Things by armyofone(m): 10:48pm On Dec 21, 2020 |
You are not well upstairs, you know right ? craigkoel1989: |
Re: Help Anytime I Get Angry I Destroy Things by Hathor5(f): 11:18pm On Dec 21, 2020 |
craigkoel1989: Do you do the same thing when you get angry with your boss/parents/siblings/bus driver/banker? |
Re: Help Anytime I Get Angry I Destroy Things by Nobody: 11:38pm On Dec 21, 2020 |
you have great anger my advice buy q punching bag no go kill pesin pikin |
Re: Help Anytime I Get Angry I Destroy Things by Coolgent(m): 1:03am On Dec 22, 2020 |
craigkoel1989:Oga. Answer me sincerely before i advise you... Do you smoke or drink? |
Re: Help Anytime I Get Angry I Destroy Things by brainpowerng(m): 6:54am On Dec 22, 2020 |
Your help is not on nairaland, find a psychiatrist fast. |
Re: Help Anytime I Get Angry I Destroy Things by upower123(m): 6:36am On Dec 23, 2020 |
Fuckhypocrite:my mail... kotorese8686@gmail.com |
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