virginprincess:
Low self esteem.

MEGA4BILLION:
Greed for money and material things

Fuckhypocrite:
That shit dey vex me like wtf

He get one of my neighboor wey dey beat him pregnant gf nt wife oo, make this gyal go her parent house she refused

The thing tire me, no be say the guy get money oo

Almost 4people wey i know wey dey beat dey gf anyhow and the gf refused to japa

Gyals matter strong ooo

FirstSon01:
I've been wondering all this while why it's hard for ladies to leave relationships where they are being abuse but would hold on even until the point of death

virginprincess:
Any lady i see in a toxic relationship i always avoid such lady, because when you try to advise her she takes you as an enemy, i have a friend like that she loves this guy like mad, even though the guy treat her like trash, anytime i see her i just shake my head.

FirstSon01:


exactly my point
like these guys got nothing to offer

those set of girls always put emotions before reason. that's why I like arguing with girls I like before anything, if they tend to answer my hardpill questions sentimentally instead of realistically I just know there's nothing in the brain

FirstSon01:


sorry to say I see it as stupidity.
the girl knows clearly that the guy doesn't like her cause a guy that really loves his woman will never hit her when provoked rather he will leave there and go somewhere else to cool off.

some even cut off people that tell them to leave their boyfriends that beat them claiming that those people are just jealous of them like wtf

coolsegun2002:


Women understand pain more than men....

They experience it during sex...
They experience during child birth..
A little pain and pleasure has always been their thing.... it will take a whole lot of pain to drive them from a man....

virginprincess:

Are you married?

Nazgul:

Some are naive, they're so young so the guy tries to brainwash them into thinking that their friends are their enemies (like the one you stated)

Some actually love the guy from the dept of their heart just that the person they ended loving turned out to be a monster.

For some, he's their first love, some girls have this mindset of trying to settle down with whoever popped their cherry, once the guy becomes aware of this, he begins to misbehave and abuse the girl knowing fully well that she wouldn't leave him.

Some it's money, they're from extremely poor backgrounds, they feel if they leave they'll loose all the benefits they enjoyed during their stay with him, and since they can't cope, they'll keep enduring and praying that he changes

Some it's good sex, take it or leave it, if a guy can make a woman cum, no matter how evil or cruel he is towards her, she'll always come back for more.

Whenever you find girls in such psychological trauma, try to help them. Don't ignore them, many have died because they were entangled in such web.

GodWrites:


Lol.. You haven't heard of fish brain before? About 95% of the female gender have it.

JovialJune:

This is not always true though, maybe for some that orgasm isn't a normal occurance sha.

Nazgul:

Nope...

virginprincess:
I'm ask because each time i read most of comments on nairaland, i'm also like wow, this guy comments are always full of wisdom, like seriously i admire most of your comments especially on romance section, keep it up, .

FirstSon01:
I've been wondering all this while why it's hard for ladies to leave relationships where they are being abuse but would hold on even until the point of death

Nazgul:
Thanks...