miniziter:
We are in a era where the world frown against physically abusing women not minding what she is doing to the husband.
Am into a mobile money business which I started with my wife, why she was working with me, I do daily contribution for her since it will not make sense for her to be asking me of what she needs always but some months ago, she quited and started her own business. Before then, she never wanted any lady near me as a staff as she is fond of driving away as she is doing it out of jealous. And now the same issue is persisting. She accusing my girl of coming to work on Sundays after church (which I see as a relief). Yesterday that happened to be Christmas, she rain all sorts of curses on this girl to the extent of shedding tears. Now I don't want to loose this girl because its not easy to get someone ready to do our because of insecurity. Also, it's not easy to train someone to the extent of leaving the work for them to do alone. If I get a tear gas and use it on her when next, have I abuse her? Will the law allow it? Should I inform the police about it as she is threatening the girl life.

Kiddogarcia:
Not married yet,I don't know if I'm in the best position to have a say in this matter. Jealousy is all part of love, but I'll implore you to sit her down and explain how important the lady is in the growth of your business. Remember that the growth of your business depends on the peace of mind your wife gives you,shalon

Kondomatic:
Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy , it does not boast, it is not proud. It is not rude, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs..





I am not trying to suggest anything but most times when people are unnecessarily jealous, it's not about their partner but lack of trust in themselves.


For instance, if I am cheating on my woman, I will think she's likely to do the same.

This means I will be uncomfortable seeing men around her.


Some may say it's love as jealous is a sign love but it is not always true.


Cheats are most times the most jealous humans on earth.

Zzor:
If you were a good and disciplined man,she won't do all these,maybe you are somehow responsible for her insecurities, talk your last truth here on this faceless forum, can you swear you don't have anything to do with that girl?

Kiddogarcia:
it is a simple life on paper bro,it is not even jealousy at times,it is protecting your territory,the woman probably knows his man's weakness, and she's here trying to prevent every unpleasant tales. Love does not get angry!!!!! Go and read the story of Romeo and Juliet,na we be your best plug for everything sexual enhancement no forget

Kiddogarcia:
it is a simple life on paper bro,it is not even jealousy at times,it is protecting your territory,the woman probably knows his man's weakness, and she's here trying to prevent every unpleasant tales. Love does not get angry!!!!! Go and read the story of Romeo and Juliet,na we be your best plug for everything sexual enhancement no forget

Kondomatic:
Romeo and Julie is a murder story and should not be mentioned when love is the topic.


How people think that a feeling that lasted for few days and took six lives is a love story is way beyond me.

Kiddogarcia:
it beats me also,but your definition of love is way beyond me Also. Love is the greatest form of injustice bro,it can't never be Balance,it is just people refusing to look at it ugly side,love has issues, and it seems to be blowing up in op marriage,l.

baralatie:

ok summary
a: you and your wife started a business

b: you are the active member of the business your wife is a passive member

c:she packed out of the business and established her business.

the above is understandable in terms of business
then you changed the plot....

d: your wife is against any employment of female staffs in the(your) business

e: your current female staff works on Sunday and on Christmas which lead to a banter

core questions?

f : which staff did she employ in her own business?

miniziter:

A girl too.

Zzor:
If you were a good and disciplined man,she won't do all these,maybe you are somehow responsible for her insecurities, talk your last truth here on this faceless forum, can you swear you don't have anything to do with that girl?

miniziter:
We are in a era where the world frown against physically abusing women not minding what she is doing to the husband.
Am into a mobile money business which I started with my wife, why she was working with me, I do daily contribution for her since it will not make sense for her to be asking me of what she needs always but some months ago, she quited and started her own business. Before then, she never wanted any lady near me as a staff as she is fond of driving away as she is doing it out of jealous. And now the same issue is persisting. She accusing my girl of coming to work on Sundays after church (which I see as a relief). Yesterday that happened to be Christmas, she rain all sorts of curses on this girl to the extent of shedding tears. Now I don't want to loose this girl because its not easy to get someone ready to do our because of insecurity. Also, it's not easy to train someone to the extent of leaving the work for them to do alone. If I get a tear gas and use it on her when next, have I abuse her? Will the law allow it? Should I inform the police about it as she is threatening the girl life.

Zzor:
If you were a good and disciplined man,she won't do all these,maybe you are somehow responsible for her insecurities, talk your last truth here on this faceless forum, can you swear you don't have anything to do with that girl?

Samabu07:

It's a lie. Whether you are responsible or not, they will always suspect you. Forget it, women are wired that way.

Patriarchy001:


It's beyond suspicion bro. Some women are just control freaks and evil to the core.

Zzor:
If you were a good and disciplined man,she won't do all these,maybe you are somehow responsible for her insecurities, talk your last truth here on this faceless forum, can you swear you don't have anything to do with that girl?

baralatie:

so what happens if you employed that girl and she gets another one!

will that suffice?

Patriarchy001:


It's husbands like OP who sit back and do nothing while their demonically possessed wives maltreat househelps even to the point of death in some cases..

Somebody is threatening a young girl's life and you are here asking us questions

miniziter:

So what am I supposed to do o? Is there anything wrong with seeking opinion on nairaland?

Patriarchy001:


You know the right thing to do bro. If that girl was your sister and her boss's jealous wife abused her & threatened her life what would you do?

Kondomatic:
The problem is not love bro, the problem is people's selfishness.

Everyone has a different opinion of what love should be bro, and it all revolves around serving their needs

People expect you to do stuffs and take sh!ts if you love but will not do same for you.


Makes love appear like the absence of common sense.

miniziter:

I was not supposed to state the nature of my work in my write up but I wanted you guys to understand that its not the kind of work anybody can do.