Nairalanders lady over to u

Not with my grandma..who eat,pack ur plate and wash.

Sameazy15:
Nairalanders lady over to u

It is not!

If you come to my house and I serve you I pack my plates!

It's called respect in nigeria lol �.I dated a guy sometimes ago we used to eat in one plate so this particular day m ful nd I decided to stop eating � I almost got hot slap, he said come nd eat the food I was like shu Im ful na he said are we mate, why will I eat nd remain for him, can't forget that day

debbydams:
It's called respect in nigeria lol �.I dated a guy sometimes ago we used to eat in one plate so this particular day m ful nd I decided to stop eating � I almost got hot slap, he said come nd eat the food I was like shu Im ful na he said are we mate, why will I eat nd remain for him, can't forget that day

but if it was money he will not say that......

doyin01:
but if it was money he will not say that......

yes � na

doyin01:
but if it was money he will not say that......

debbydams:
It's called respect in nigeria lol �.I dated a guy sometimes ago we used to eat in one plate so this particular day m ful nd I decided to stop eating � I almost got hot slap, he said come nd eat the food I was like shu Im ful na he said are we mate, why will I eat nd remain for him, can't forget that day

i laugh

Lol.....when I and my wife finish eating, I do pack the plates sometimes

Anybody can pack plates, if for example, you being the man and you somehow find yourself going to the kitchen after eating, will you leave the plates and say honey bring them when you are coming?

Growing up, I watched my mum pack the plates, if any family member is close by, she will call the person to do so and say thank you.

If you want to serve your man, serve him with your heart. If you are not there, the guy will pack his plate by him self.

No need for the tussles, we all should know our roles, at least he brought the money for the meal.

If you reduce your husband to the role of carrying plates in front of your siblings or friends, they will loose respect for him and if they don't respect him, you will be trash.

Have you bothered asking why single women are prone to assault than married women? Its because they have no man who the assulter will answer to.

debbydams:
It's called respect in nigeria lol �.I dated a guy sometimes ago we used to eat in one plate so this particular day m ful nd I decided to stop eating � I almost got hot slap, he said come nd eat the food I was like shu Im ful na he said are we mate, why will I eat nd remain for him, can't forget that day

This one definitely has issues and needs urgent therapy

Because is their job to do so. That is why we married dem.

nothing wrong with it and they aint complaining..

In relationships and marriages, if you serve your husband or guy food, courtesy demands that you clear up the dishes when he's done. Most especially if he's the one that provided the money for that food.

Normally, it's nothing special, it's just an African culture. Most females are brought up that way to clear up and wash the dishes, and most guys are trained to believe that it's not their duty to clear up after eating.