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Re: My Boyfriend Stopped Calling And Picking My Calls by MASTAkiLLAh(m): 9:09pm On Jan 11, 2021 |
I believe you... Leave the insecure bastard 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Boyfriend Stopped Calling And Picking My Calls by frozen70(f): 9:12pm On Jan 11, 2021 |
Habby222: Some men gets scared of women who has prove of being independent, it makes them feel less a man If I were you, just leave that guy to find his way or rather should I say that you should find your way Four years of relationship with no plans from him to you Why not start planning to leave him so that you can find another person He knows what he is doing but you are just hoping on him and he had no plans for you Well, If you can't leave him be ready to deal with it 12 Likes |
Re: My Boyfriend Stopped Calling And Picking My Calls by Pk01(m): 9:16pm On Jan 11, 2021 |
U have a heart of gold. ...u re a good gf...the kind of one in a million... mark my words he will definitely come around..give him time...some guys dey lucky for this life sha!..me for over two yrs now Asma,u they whine me... there is god fa 3 Likes |
Re: My Boyfriend Stopped Calling And Picking My Calls by Tswata1992: 9:17pm On Jan 11, 2021 |
I think your guy is insecure, he is afraid of your success. He needs a woman he can control around...But you with financial stability, he thinks he won't get that . You have tried to mend fence and he is adamant. Let him be , if he is yours, he will surely come back. Be strong dear . 6 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Boyfriend Stopped Calling And Picking My Calls by boxer022(m): 9:25pm On Jan 11, 2021 |
From what I just read, I deduced the following, firstly as you said both of you are financially stable, secondly he doesn't assist you financially in return (though you said it was a test). I believe he loves or loved you sincerely but may be acting up based on advices from his friends. They may have told him that since you work and make your own money, which looking at it critically maybe more than his own money, you will not make a good wife and you will not be submissive. I believe what is best for you now is give it one final push (calling and texting him) and if it ends up the same way, know that he has decided to end the relationship. 7 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: My Boyfriend Stopped Calling And Picking My Calls by merieam16(f): 9:45pm On Jan 11, 2021 |
shantti:I wasnt contradicting anything, i just wana show u how foolish some people are with their comment |
Re: My Boyfriend Stopped Calling And Picking My Calls by Nobody: 9:49pm On Jan 11, 2021 |
You're on a much higher frequency than that dude. He can't handle you. Find your mate. 10 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Boyfriend Stopped Calling And Picking My Calls by Sixfeetbelle: 9:50pm On Jan 11, 2021 |
Nazgul: I've said this thing here before. Most guys love women 'crawling' to them for financial assistance. They love the feeling they get when they give you money they know won't even be useful to you and and expect you to be beyond grateful. And the minute you don't act as expected, they see it as a sign of rebellion. Men will always say they want independent women as wives but where have they seen an independent woman that is entirely dependent on a man. Like how is that even possible? 18 Likes |
Re: My Boyfriend Stopped Calling And Picking My Calls by Nobody: 9:52pm On Jan 11, 2021 |
Oluromantic:Story story. Yawns 10 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Boyfriend Stopped Calling And Picking My Calls by Nobody: 9:54pm On Jan 11, 2021 |
DaddyRochie1642:Keep quiet. Have you no shame? 9 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: My Boyfriend Stopped Calling And Picking My Calls by SpiritFree: 10:33pm On Jan 11, 2021 |
thebosstrevor1: This is good advice. OP listen to this 4 Likes |
Re: My Boyfriend Stopped Calling And Picking My Calls by Oluromantic: 10:36pm On Jan 11, 2021 |
Chii59:But you read through. That's good 2 Likes |
Re: My Boyfriend Stopped Calling And Picking My Calls by Adekaka12345: 10:40pm On Jan 11, 2021 |
[quote author=Habby222 post=97958122]Advice needed pls. I've been with this guy for close to four years now and its not really been a perfect relationship. Lots of ups and downs due to what I can term insecurity. At some point we're cool and the next minute issues arises just like every other relationship. He's a good guy to some extent as he showers me with love ( my thoughts)and a lot of times he gives gifts not money though. I've had to give financial assistance to him alot of times, he returns some if he deemed it necessary and doesn't return if he so wishes. I've never complained about this and still always willing to help him out whenever he is in need. Pls note that we're both financially ok. This gesture of me offering him financial help stopped when I realise he doesn't do same to me. I've had to test him on serval occasions that I needed financial help and he has never for once helped out on those request despite knowing he has. I never needed the money though, I made those request to know if I could actually fall back to him if I'm in need. Last year October, I told him about my plans of getting a new car as I got tired of the one I was using. Pls note that I did not request him to buy for me neither did I ask for any support whatsoever. I contacted my source in the US with my budget and spec, was able to find one in a short time and I paid for it. All of this moves were known to him. By December, the car arrived and cleared accordingly with every expenses incurred payed by me. He gave some moral support though. A week after getting the car, he called me one morning and started apologising for not supporting financially in getting the car which I told him I had no issues with that. I told him I wasn't expecting more than moral support from him since I could afford getting the car on my own. I also made him realise he doesn't owe me no apology as I wasn't t his responsibility since we weren't married and that even if we were married, ill always want to get my stuffs myself as long as I can afford it. The next I heard was him ranting on phone that he doesn't expect less from me, said I'm a proud and that he knew I wasn't going to be a good wife. He said he has always known I wasn't going to be a submissive wife and a whole lot of other derogatory words despite not having issues whatsoever prior to that time. I ended the call as I was so surprised he could say those mean words to me. All through that day he didn't call back and I did not as well cos I was expecting him to realise I was hurt by his actions. A week pass and still no call from him so I decided to call him and he didn't pick. I'd sent a lot of of messages to him and has not replied to any. I'd gone to his house to check up on him and not met him too. Its been three weeks now and we haven't spoken and seen despite all of my effort to talk to him and or see. Guys please I'm confused and do not know how to handle the issue. Pls advice.[/quote I need a woman... A good woman... |
Re: My Boyfriend Stopped Calling And Picking My Calls by OGWILLS123: 10:40pm On Jan 11, 2021 |
A typical 9ja desparate evening news paper looking for a young nigga to enslave in the name of marriage or relaSiOnSip ![]() 4 Likes |
Re: My Boyfriend Stopped Calling And Picking My Calls by Erkhalifa(m): 10:49pm On Jan 11, 2021 |
Though, don't have much to say, regardless of the situation just remember "LIFE GOES ON"... if he pick fine and if he no pick fine sef. LIFE GOES ON |
Re: My Boyfriend Stopped Calling And Picking My Calls by Molahnelson(m): 11:27pm On Jan 11, 2021 |
Go and pick an ambitious young man in the street with a lot of charisma, and clean him up and see the kind of help you can render to him to rise up, he Will be forever loyal to you That is my Carly piece of advice Then Thanks me later Something worthy of note make sure you don't act as if you are rich when doing that, just act like an average lad 1 Like |
Re: My Boyfriend Stopped Calling And Picking My Calls by DaddyRochie1642: 1:51am On Jan 12, 2021 |
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Re: My Boyfriend Stopped Calling And Picking My Calls by kunkelhanspeter(m): 2:14am On Jan 12, 2021 |
God when When will I start meeting ladies that can take care of themselves I rather remain single than going into relationship that only offer sex which with 5k I can do hook up on tinder 5 Likes |
Re: My Boyfriend Stopped Calling And Picking My Calls by Ishilove: 3:55am On Jan 12, 2021 |
Aunty talk true and tell us what really happened because no sane man will just go off on you because you bought a car with his knowledge. You people come online to paint the other person bad in order to reduce the guilt of fücking up. When you give us the true picture of what happened then I will know what to tell you. 27 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: My Boyfriend Stopped Calling And Picking My Calls by Angelacruz: 6:03am On Jan 12, 2021 |
D guy has insecurity problem... He has moved on ,so u should do same.He thinks that u wont be submissive as an independent lady.That alone is a slap on his ego.Some men are so confused 2 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: My Boyfriend Stopped Calling And Picking My Calls by femi4: 6:04am On Jan 12, 2021 |
Habby222:Let me profile your guy. He's egoistic He wants your total submission including your money ![]() Be careful with this type of guy, he lacks financial security. He can tell you to stop working when you guys eventually married just to reduce your level of financial independence and improve his ego 6 Likes |
Re: My Boyfriend Stopped Calling And Picking My Calls by SarutobiEky(m): 6:08am On Jan 12, 2021 |
This story is not even from Nairaland. I'm not wasting my strength. ![]() 1 Like |
Re: My Boyfriend Stopped Calling And Picking My Calls by Kingluqman(m): 7:18am On Jan 12, 2021 |
shantti:You say what? ![]() 1 Like |
Re: My Boyfriend Stopped Calling And Picking My Calls by anochuko01(m): 7:38am On Jan 12, 2021 |
If youre strong enough to move on pls do. if you arent strong enough to move, then wait till he comes and them accept him, hoping he would have learnt. Too much of redpill and stingy men association has made this one loose a good girl |
Re: My Boyfriend Stopped Calling And Picking My Calls by walepackage(m): 8:00am On Jan 12, 2021 |
Ishilove:you are the only one seeing it from this angle.the story did not add up at all.maybe she makes the guy felt lesser and irrelevant in her talks to the guy on phone.forget about "I don't need his financial support to buy the car".there's more to it. 8 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Boyfriend Stopped Calling And Picking My Calls by Artzdanielsz(m): 8:16am On Jan 12, 2021 |
2special:I dey teh you. 1 Like |
Re: My Boyfriend Stopped Calling And Picking My Calls by Artzdanielsz(m): 8:17am On Jan 12, 2021 |
Oluromantic:Take this advice. 3 Likes |
Re: My Boyfriend Stopped Calling And Picking My Calls by Dreyton36: 8:39am On Jan 12, 2021 |
I hardly comment on topics like this but when I do , I make it short and sharp for the wise only Hey gurl stop trying to lights up wet woods From ur write up the guy in question is just stuck in the middle of nowhere He has no single love for you , yes I said so You love him way more than he loves u He wants a bitchhh who will give him problems and a bitchhh who can fight him back and put words back into his mouth You're the cool type but get triggered up when you're fed up My dear cry now and be happy later , he doesn't deserve u , and when he comes back don't dare accept else be ready for premium tears Go and share biscuits to children around u and celebrate the good thing God has done for you Lights up my kpoli in peace 7 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Boyfriend Stopped Calling And Picking My Calls by GoldStick(m): 8:48am On Jan 12, 2021 |
My sister life no easy to survive no be crime, ur guy don pile all this taytay and sure him don get another lussy some where else already so him just use the little fight tek Japa move in please |
Re: My Boyfriend Stopped Calling And Picking My Calls by nitoriolohun(m): 8:54am On Jan 12, 2021 |
Your story is so close to my story at a point I was like finally I know ur (my ex ) nairaland handle The truth is that you are not saying the whole truth because I strongly believe it was not that singular act that let him just ghost you . You said you put him to test about needing money but I can bet you the guy is smart enough to know you are not sincere reason why he's not just responding,(I might be wrong though) Most women can't handle financial prowess When a man has money he thinks he needs a woman or even more but when a woman has money she thinks she doesn't need a man anymore But to be fair, your man may really be insecured or you are over exercising your independence TBH I give it to you still trying to reach out to him even after three weeks you av a soft spot, you can involve his close friend Most importantly choosing a partner is beyond logic, always involve God . Shalom !!! 8 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Boyfriend Stopped Calling And Picking My Calls by Collegelove: 9:23am On Jan 12, 2021 |
Habby222:He is not comfortable with your attitude. You sounded a little bit bossy and it's a big turn off on us. 2 Likes |
Re: My Boyfriend Stopped Calling And Picking My Calls by iLegendd(m): 9:32am On Jan 12, 2021 |
Collegelove: Case closed. 2 Likes |
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