mariahAngel:


Believe me, you'll lose that peace if you treat her unfairly by leaving her unjustly after keeping her all these years.

Are u God?

Trash... Only him and God can decide his peace...

DenreleDave:


Are u God?

Trash... Only him and God can decide his peace...

You can't leave another person troubled and expect to have peace.
It doesn't work that way.

mariahAngel:


You can't leave another person troubled and expect to have peace.
It doesn't work that way.

OK ma

mariahAngel:


You can't leave another person troubled and expect to have peace.
It doesn't work that way.

What if the lady is not bothered or troubled at all

DenreleDave:


What if the lady is not bothered or troubled at all

If that is so, then it's fair.

I'm surprised at many comments on this thread but then, their age and exposure might be the problem.

For both of you, your baby was born due to your carelessness. Women should learn to do better for themselves. Why would a woman willfully get pregant out of wedlock and even without a job?

If it is true that you were once sending money to her relatives despite not being married to her then you are just a means to an end. How can any relative with dignity accept such money?

You went broke by trying to put her on the path of entrepreneurship and she is still hiding things?

I'm not saying that you are a good man to deserve better because im sure you also have faults you hve not mentioned, but the right thing to do is to confront her with your brain and not your heart and move on if you have to.

A woman who cheats because you have not paid her bride price would cheat even if you have done so.. cheating is a result of a mindset.

If you do not open your eyes well next time, you may leave this woman and even end up with someone worse. Stop assuming spending on a woman can make her love you.

Teleprompter:
I'm surprised at many comments on this thread but then, their age and exposure might be the problem.

For both of you, your baby was born due to your carelessness. Women should learn to do better for themselves. Why would a woman willfully get pregant out of wedlock and even without a job?

If it is true that you were once sending money to her relatives despite not being married to her then you are just a means to an end. How can any relative with dignity accept such money?

You went broke by trying to put her on the path of entrepreneurship and she is still hiding things?

I'm not saying that you are a good man to deserve better because im sure you also have faults you hve not mentioned, but the right thing to do is to confront her with your brain and not your heart and move on if you have to.

A woman who cheats because you have not paid her bride price would cheat even if you have done so.. cheating is a result of a mindset.

If you do not open your eyes well next time, you may leave this woman and even end up with someone worse. Stop assuming spending on a woman can make her love you.

@bold:

This is gold.

I would have left your sorry behind. Years ago

Unless we both decided that marriage is not part of the deal

joseph1832:
I'm sure you're the type who always feel entitled to a man's money and his possession, yet without contributing anything other than your vagina, you'll see it as your business to chase his friends and family away.

If the OP likes, he can jump ship whenever he wants. It's his life and his life alone. Did he hold a gun to the woman's head? Nope. So he doesn't need any reason to give her the boot.

No. Before I met him, his family were and are there for him. So why will I chase his friends and family away? Same people we can go to when the problem of life seem overwhelming?

If the money ain't mine, I ain't freaked. If the car ain't mine, I ain't bothered. Don't think u know me based on my comments here.

cococandy:
I would have left your sorry behind. Years ago

Unless we both decided that marriage is not part of the deal

So,marriage can be part of a deal.
Anyway, I wonder if we can strike a bang-only deal.
Such a deal involves banging with nothing attached to it except what you want to add to it.
Are you in?

You have lived with her for 6 years and even have a son together, yet you keep shifting the goal post anytime she offends you simply to punish her?
Huncle, go to a bar, take a cold beer (just one glass) repeat this thing to yourself again and give yourself a befitting name. Oga the word here is "callous", "self-centered", "wicked", "inconsiderate". HOW DARE YOU?!!!
You kept punishing her for 6 good years? what rubbish shop did you rent for her that is making you fly in the sky? ohhh wiithin the 6 years, you never offended her abi? I don't want to conclude o but you do not sound like someone that have any plan to marry this lady anytime soon or even ever. You just enjoy using the word "wife" but have no intention to actually fulfil necessary requirements.

You want to leave her and move out? Please do her that favour. She needs to be set free of you and hopefully she will meet someone that would take her serious.

You keep postponing the wedding to punish her anytime she wrongs you (FOR 6 YEARS!) - na this part dey burst my head pass. HOW DARE YOU!!!

So she is already cheating because an ibo man sent 4k to her account? or she is cheating because she now knows how to kiss better?

What do you call a man that has been promising you wedding for the past 6 years but keep postponing it as punishment anytime you supposedly offend him? For the past 6 years?

No lady deserves to be treated like this regardless of her self esteem. Apparently the OP sees himself as one king and uses "wedding" as a tool to manipulate this woman.

6 years is too long a time to know if you want to marry this lady or not and not bringing up assumptions cos of money sent to her account or kissing. Imagine the excuses you are bringing up after 6 years?

Simply move on if you have to.

Teleprompter:
I'm surprised at many comments on this thread but then, their age and exposure might be the problem.

For both of you, your baby was born due to your carelessness. Women should learn to do better for themselves. Why would a woman willfully get pregant out of wedlock and even without a job?

If it is true that you were once sending money to her relatives despite not being married to her then you are just a means to an end. How can any relative with dignity accept such money?

You went broke by trying to put her on the path of entrepreneurship and she is still hiding things?

I'm not saying that you are a good man to deserve better because im sure you also have faults you hve not mentioned, but the right thing to do is to confront her with your brain and not your heart and move on if you have to.

A woman who cheats because you have not paid her bride price would cheat even if you have done so.. cheating is a result of a mindset.

If you do not open your eyes well next time, you may leave this woman and even end up with someone worse. Stop assuming spending on a woman can make her love you.

faithfull18:
Lol, chief adviser.

If you need advice, contact me. I charge per second

Yoruba Demon