blesoh:

I made him see reasons why we should add one and finally i convinced him.

Smart move

SweetCunt97:
Simply go to the lord with a contrite heart and ask, you'll see the magic. Take care

Thanks alot

mezico96:


3 and all boys if possible

I no get strength to train women abeg

.
Ur wish will be granted

Most folks here don't have the financial capacity to cater for the numbers they're mentioning. I'm cocksure of that.

When will the black man ever learn?

mezico96:


Asif marrying a good woman is a guarantee to having a responsible daughter.

Why? because parents will be working their ass-off to make their girl-child a responsible woman while some useless dudes created from unprotected sex will be plotting how to lay her.

The thought of that gives me headache

You shouldn't marry then because if you do...God will give you all female children...

blesoh:

I made him see reasons why we should add one and finally i convinced him.

Ok, guess he wasn't sure if he wanted to increase the family size initially. I just don't know why I can't deal with more than two children.

GboyegaD:


Ok, guess he wasn't sure if he wanted to increase the family size initially. I just don't know why I can't deal with more than two children.

Seriously it's not easy especially for introvert like us, sometimes i just want my space.
I had two girls initially, and finally i had my boy through this last round

gbosah91:
Only 1 girl I'm done.

who will continue your bloodline

Gentle0wavez:


I for like twelve too oh but as na only one woman I go marry make her womb no swear for me

no worry you go born twelve disciples

Raychee:
2

you dont like stress. Just 2

anuofGod:
Just one. My beautiful daughter is enough for me.

something tells you will have another

Liposure:
you dont like stress. Just 2

By God's grace. I can adopt more but only want to birth 2

Ghozky:
I'd like to have three children; 2 sons and a daughter, by the grace of God.

and one of my sons will marry your daughter

Diamondsaheed:
3 set of twins

baba beji

ImaIma1:
1 down, two to go.

God should just give me twins and let it be complete fast

i see triplets coming

Liposure:
and one of my sons will marry your daughter

I don get future in law, already.

blesoh:
My husband wanted 2 but i pressed the last button and now we have three
Two girls and a boy, we are done

so you toppled ur husband

blesoh:

Seriously it's not easy especially for introvert like us, sometimes i just want my space.
I had two girls initially, and finally i had my boy through this last round

Glad you got that which you wanted. I understand the space thing but I guess one of my major concern is being able to split my time and be available to them equally. I want to be involved in their lives and I feel the more they are, the difficult it might seem.

Liposure:
i see triplets coming

Haaaa..i don't know whether to receive it o

Dead man don't know anything about bloodline.

Liposure:
who will continue your bloodline

Kaimaonyeana:
. Ur wish will be granted

Thanks brother

Candycrushy:

You shouldn't marry then because if you do...God will give you all female children...

Madam I will marry and she dare not give me more than one daughter.

2 boy Sons and 2 girl Daughters
But God knows all

Raalsalghul:
Most folks here don't have the financial capacity to cater for the numbers they're mentioning. I'm cocksure of that.

When will the black man ever learn?

That is the black man mentality, not moving with trend. Not thinking ahead before taking decisions.
Most who say 3,4 or more kids are barely making 500k per month. I guess the black man is used to suffering.
FYI, the world need lesser and lesser humans to run it.
Machines and softwares are been used to carry out tasks effectively that hundred of humans won't be able to do.

Before, it takes hundreds of people to farm the foods we eat per hectare but now a tractor been run by one person can clear 5 to 10 hectares in 8 hours.
It takes many people to work in the bank - depositing and paying out but ATM replaced a lot of people and working more effectively 24hrs round the clock without regularly crying for salary increment nor engaged in shady deals/theft.
I can give more and more examples but it's okay.
I enrolled my kids in monthly education insurance that am paying 20k per kid so that incase of untimely death (God forbid and i don't pray for that), they can effectively finish their education without feeling the impact of a dad loss.
I did family yearly health insurance of 120k so that we can walk effectively into most hospitals and get treated.
Please tell me, if i have more kids, won't it put more strain on my life and plans? people just born anyhow without any plans for the kids or themselves.
Life is to be enjoyed and not hustling hustling and hustling for family and look haggard and worn out.
I see a lot of junior staff and colleagues working with me with many kids, always afraid to go home, always asking for extension and working overtime for a thing they could have easily avoided by effective planning.

emmaodet:


That is the black man mentality, not moving with trend. Not thinking ahead before taking decisions.
Most who say 3,4 or more kids are barely making 500k per month. I guess the black man is used to suffering.
FYI, the world need lesser and lesser humans to run it.
Machines and softwares are been used to carry out tasks effectively that hundred of humans won't be able to do.

Before, it takes hundreds of people to farm the foods we eat per hectare but now a tractor been run by one person can clear 5 to 10 hectares in 8 hours.
It takes many people to work in the bank - depositing and paying out but ATM replaced a lot of people and working more effectively 24hrs round the clock without regularly crying for salary increment nor engaged in shady deals/theft.
I can give more and more examples but it's okay.
I enrolled my kids in monthly education insurance that am paying 20k per kid so that incase of untimely death (God forbid and i don't pray for that), they can effectively finish their education without feeling the impact of a dad loss.
I did family yearly health insurance of 120k so that we can walk effectively into most hospitals and get treated.
Please tell me, if i have more kids, won't it put more strain on my life and plans? people just born anyhow without any plans for the kids or themselves.
Life is to be enjoyed and not hustling hustling and hustling for family and look haggard and worn out.
I see a lot of junior staff and colleagues working with me with many kids, always afraid to go home, always asking for extension and working overtime for a thing they could have easily avoided by effective planning.

Sir,

You have said it all. With the look of things, I don't expect the unemployment rate to recede anytime.

Rather it will increase: and at a geometric pace.

emmaodet:


That is the black man mentality, not moving with trend. Not thinking ahead before taking decisions.
Most who say 3,4 or more kids are barely making 500k per month. I guess the black man is used to suffering.
FYI, the world need lesser and lesser humans to run it.
Machines and softwares are been used to carry out tasks effectively that hundred of humans won't be able to do.

Before, it takes hundreds of people to farm the foods we eat per hectare but now a tractor been run by one person can clear 5 to 10 hectares in 8 hours.
It takes many people to work in the bank - depositing and paying out but ATM replaced a lot of people and working more effectively 24hrs round the clock without regularly crying for salary increment nor engaged in shady deals/theft.
I can give more and more examples but it's okay.
I enrolled my kids in monthly education insurance that am paying 20k per kid so that incase of untimely death (God forbid and i don't pray for that), they can effectively finish their education without feeling the impact of a dad loss.
I did family yearly health insurance of 120k so that we can walk effectively into most hospitals and get treated.
Please tell me, if i have more kids, won't it put more strain on my life and plans? people just born anyhow without any plans for the kids or themselves.
Life is to be enjoyed and not hustling hustling and hustling for family and look haggard and worn out.

I see a lot of junior staff and colleagues working with me with many kids, always afraid to go home, always asking for extension and working overtime for a thing they could have easily avoided by effective planning.

Hard fact

Most people dont plan, strategise according to the realities of the present times we are living.

mezico96:


Madam I will marry and she dare not give me more than one daughter.

Tell that your creator not her

Candycrushy:
Tell that your creator not her

Aunty why fighting her battle?

Candycrushy:
Tell that your creator not her

Aunty why fighting her battle?

Liposure:
something tells you will have another

I'm not sure.
I've never thought of it. I think I'm satisfied with my baby girl.

anuofGod:

I'm not sure.
I've never thought of it. I think I'm satisfied with my baby girl.

your husband would want a son. Sorry for prying

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