WTF?!?!?!?!?
Probably coming from someone who has not faced racism or job bias outside naija b4. Useless

blacklion:

If you ashamed to identify with your husband's nationality that you even hide it, I strongly advise and encourage you to divorce your husband and marry your fellow SA man so you will not have to hide your shame any more.

As for your wimp of a husband that denies his fatherland just so that he can eat for today, tell him to stay back in SA. We don't need his type back in Nigeria.

Nonsense and ingredient!

blacklion:

LOL! You think every one in Nigeria is a desperate rat like the manchild you call a husband? The wimp who prolly lied on his mother's head to get SA visa? I just hope he did not marry you for residency papers.

Pls spare me your BS. I know your country and people too well. Your heads are still too messed up from apartheid. You just can't bring yourself to acknowledge reality.

Look at the way your people treat the Mozambicans and Zimbabweans who suffered so much for your freedom. Their countries were destroyed in order for your people to enjoy your freedom today. Yet, your leaders are forever busy thanking the Scandinavians and Australians but never bother to even acknowledge the Zimbabwe and Mozambique that gave them shelter and succour during apartheid.

You black SA people are all just a bunch of ingrates, including your god Mandela.

The worst thing about South Africa for me is that the best experiences I have ever had while visiting South Africa or interacting with South Africans abroad in other parts of Africa or in Europe and North America is when I am with white South Africans. Its a shame to say but almost all of my negative experiences were with black South Africans. The most silly comments about Africa I have ever heard from South Africans is from black South Africans. Even with white former members of the SADF and NP, I still have positive engagements but the blacks? They actually think South Africa is an island off the coast of Europe!!! Its utterly unbelievable amazing!!!

blacklion:



And you know this how?

You think every one is like you that lied for visa/green card/residency and your entire life is now a perpetual lie?

Some of us would rather die on our feet as Nigerians than live on our knees apologizing for being Nigerian.

2buff:

I understand the guy. But instead of lying, he should have politicianed the question away until a time when she's already comfortable with him.  

I have seen first-hand the shear terror in a girl's face when I told her I was Nigerian  

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2buff:

^^ kpele don't mind them.
They just need to step out of naija from time to time is all.

But seriously, shouldn't you have sued those police? Your's seems to be even more serious than I ever knew.
You should always have a recordable phone with you, the type that as you record it already throws it on YouTube. that way you have more evidence of these things cuz I'm sure, wherever you are, those people acting like that towards you are in violation of law.

People can only really get away with that jazz if they were living in North Korea.

X_factor:

Any yet somehow you missed to see everything you just said in my first post when I spoke about Xenophobia - yes silly is as silly does. You probably one of those lil ppl who love the sounds of their voices too much. An you doing the derogatory thing on me and my husband only serves only to confirm that you so small and insecure you need to insult someone else to feel better about you and justify your state of failure as a man if that's what you are. Have a good life.

9jafetish:

but again yeah it is hard to be nigerian ,and i'd hate to be a full one. thank the lord i am only half.

so goodluck to rest of u guys.
btw x-factor is right.
lol