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Re: Pls Sincere Advice: Am In A Dilemma by Enigmatikchikala(f): 8:58am On Apr 05, 2011
Creamish link=topic=637151.msg8048328#msg8048328 date=tt1301913782:

You already know what d guy asking u out is like . . . .

Meet the other unknown guy first . . .(though i believe your decision will be biased because your accepting alot from him already) . . make up your mind based on your experience wit him. You alone can make dat decision cos we all dont know wat its rily been like between all 3 of u.

If u feel hez better than the one uv been seeing around . . . . fine . . . otherwise, revert to the other guy (d one asking u out).
thanks
Re: Pls Sincere Advice: Am In A Dilemma by NDelta(m): 9:11am On Apr 05, 2011
O girl hold ya sef ooh. Am not stingy, i do spend for girls i have it going with but wetin i de talk be say at least establish a proper relationship with a guy before the demands. All the PH girls wey i ever date na mony mony especially Kalabari chiks. Na me you de tell to chew gravel? Well i de laugh!!!
Re: Pls Sincere Advice: Am In A Dilemma by Nobody: 11:17am On Apr 05, 2011
@op, i stopped datin poor girls long time ago because of ur type. How on earth wud u base love on gifts and money? Kai, poor girls dnt knw wat luv truely is. .
Re: Pls Sincere Advice: Am In A Dilemma by forkadict(m): 11:52am On Apr 05, 2011
omo dis Op dey veeeeex me die.
You are such a greedy and selfish little beech. That's what the fork you are. You think you can pull a smart one ehn? ***Walks off to calm down a little bit***

OK. I'm back. Now i want to view this from a guy's perspective. Why the fork would i be spending my hard earned money (I assume the fone guy works hard for his money) on a chic for 6 straight months without pushing hard to see her And we two dey dis same naija?? Babe, many things stink in this setting. I feel the guy is either married, or with some form of disability so his 'nice' disposition is to get you hooked up to the point that you'll not be able to back off when you get to know the true picture. Besides, his source of income is highly suspect. Even if you travel down to abj or he comes to ph, assuming he's not handicapped, how will you get to know if he's married or not, what he does for a living etc. The chances are that you'll only take his words for whatever he tells you.And what happens if he lies?? How will you get to know the truth??I advice you to hire a private investigator ( i dont know if there's one in abj) and find out as much crap as you can about this guy.

On a last note. Na wa for naija chics sha. I know most naija guys want to date chics in order to sleep with them. We know that, they know that too. That's about the only thing we want in a relationship apart from company. But why is it that chics want sex, company, comfort, material things, favours etc. Bloody parasites!
Re: Pls Sincere Advice: Am In A Dilemma by forkadict(m): 11:55am On Apr 05, 2011
Please my sincere apologies to people with one form of disability or the other. The post above wasnt meant to slight you guys in ANY WAY. I got nothing but love for you guys. Nothing but LOVE. Peace.
Re: Pls Sincere Advice: Am In A Dilemma by Nobody: 12:37pm On Apr 05, 2011
fork adict:

omo dis Op dey veeeeex me die.
You are such a greedy and selfish little beech. That's what the fork you are. You think you can pull a smart one ehn? ***Walks off to calm down a little bit***

OK. I'm back.
LMFAO grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin Still rolling on the floor and laughing, Got up read this post again and fell down laughing, Tried covering my face and walk out of my room without looking @ this to stop d laughter but the UPS of my system sounded, so i laughed again. I can't stop laughing HELP!!!
Re: Pls Sincere Advice: Am In A Dilemma by SALady(f): 12:46pm On Apr 05, 2011
Guys can we learn to raise opinions without insulting each other.

@OP, i didnt meant to interrogate you, was just trying to understand some things.

In fact your situation got me asking myself a few question and also deparately trying to remain objective over the money matter.

Since this post I've been asking myself questions about how men have been socialized in terms of thier interaction with women and how they should assert themselves with women.

Its sad actually as It would seem men have been socialised to associate women with money, and that relatively comes down to how they perceive their position in their relationships.

I cant blame @OP, she may have asked for the money but guy should have had the sence to say "NO" again its his right. Once more guy could have volunteered to give her the money without being asked its his money he does what he wants with it.

Now, to be a bit subjective the fact that men use money to secure their position in a relationship, and that us women allow it is a bit disturbing.
Re: Pls Sincere Advice: Am In A Dilemma by SALady(f): 12:58pm On Apr 05, 2011
@OP let me ask you this.

WHAT ON EARTH DO YOU EXPECT YOUR MINISTER OF FINANCE TO SAY WHEN YOU TELL HIM YOU HAVE FOUND ANOTHER AND HAVE NO USE FOR HIM ANYMORE

Don't pick offense its a fair question.
Re: Pls Sincere Advice: Am In A Dilemma by HighChief4(m): 1:53pm On Apr 05, 2011
^^^The OP is not moved, she wouldnt know she is in the right track now to break somone's heart, but wait till a guy dumps her greedy a s s and she would run here to open another topic cursing men.
Re: Pls Sincere Advice: Am In A Dilemma by Ranoscky(m): 3:24pm On Apr 05, 2011
Lol.
Re: Pls Sincere Advice: Am In A Dilemma by Enigmatikchikala(f): 6:22pm On Apr 05, 2011
SA Lady:

@OP let me ask you this.

WHAT ON EARTH DO YOU EXPECT YOUR MINISTER OF FINANCE TO SAY WHEN YOU TELL HIM YOU HAVE FOUND ANOTHER AND HAVE NO USE FOR HIM ANYMORE

Don't pick offense its a fair question.
did i ever mention a 'minister of finance'in my post or u jst bin sarcastic?nyways,i'v NEVER said i wnt 2 drop dis guy.mayb u shd go bk 2 my post,pls
Re: Pls Sincere Advice: Am In A Dilemma by Enigmatikchikala(f): 6:37pm On Apr 05, 2011
fork adict:
guy,u'r jst freaking out 4 no jst cause.y u taking dis personal?lmao, guess u'v jst bin dumped?eh ya,sowie, u jst an animal wu doesn't dserve 2 touch d mouse nt alone d pc,i dnt blame u,i blame d inability of d piple arnd u 2 teach u manners.pls,wen nxt u'r nt wit ur senses,try nt 2 touch d mouse, inamú
omo dis Op dey veeeeex me die.
You are such a greedy and selfish little beech.

On a last note. Na wa for naija chics sha. I know most naija guys want to date chics in order to sleep with them. We know that, they know that too. That's about the only thing we want in a relationship apart from company. But why is it that chics want sex, company, comfort, material things, favours etc. Bloody parasites!
Re: Pls Sincere Advice: Am In A Dilemma by Enigmatikchikala(f): 6:41pm On Apr 05, 2011
High_Chief:

^^^The OP is not moved, she wouldnt know she is in the right track now to break somone's heart, but wait till a guy dumps her greedy a s s and she would run here to open another topic cursing men.akidanidani!hw on earth did dis post pronounce ur name?
Re: Pls Sincere Advice: Am In A Dilemma by NDelta(m): 9:47pm On Apr 05, 2011
@ SA LADY.
Guys can we learn to raise opinions without insulting each other.

@OP, i didnt meant to interrogate you, was just trying to understand some things.

In fact your situation got me asking myself a few question and also deparately trying to remain objective over the money matter.

Since this post I've been asking myself questions about how men have been socialized in terms of thier interaction with women and how they should assert themselves with women.

Its sad actually as It would seem men have been socialised to associate women with money, and that relatively comes down to how they perceive their position in their relationships.

I cant blame @OP, she may have asked for the money but guy should have had the sence to say "NO" again its his right. Once more guy could have volunteered to give her the money without being asked its his money he does what he wants with it.

Now, to be a bit subjective the fact that men use money to secure their position in a relationship, and that us women allow it is a bit disturbing.

[i][/i] Men can hardly say NO if a lady they like ask for money, reason : she may never come back if you do. I dont know how it is over there but in N. Even if you are both students they will still want to get every thing they can from you. buy me this buy me that, i dont have credit in my fone etc Amost every Nigerian guy will have their own story. You will only realize you've spent so much at the end of the relationship. We've all falling prey in the past.
DONT GET ME WRONG IT IS ABSOLUTELY OK FOR A MAN TO SHARE WITH HIS LOVER
Re: Pls Sincere Advice: Am In A Dilemma by otokx(m): 1:18am On Apr 06, 2011
you cannot drop some one who was never on board.
Re: Pls Sincere Advice: Am In A Dilemma by SALady(f): 2:58pm On Apr 06, 2011
Enigmatikchikala:

did i ever mention a 'minister of finance'in my post or u jst bin sarcastic?nyways,i'v NEVER said i wnt 2 drop dis guy.mayb u shd go bk 2 my post,pls


@Enigma, I dont have a problem with comprehension please. Arent you the girl who's who's caught in a dilemma involving two men?? One you've never met and gives you money and the other who is pursuing you and you get to see when you can

So now what's the dilemma about, let alone the topic

In case you dont have a problem with the questions above then I'd say you've mamaged to waste our time.

Just for the record I never use sarcasm, I always prefer true talk simply because its a lot cuter, on point and wont allow me to beat around the bush.

My opinion about your situation is that, you dont love this man you've never met, dont get love confused. Just admit you LOVE receiving money from him. simple

Again you havent answered my question on the MINISTER OF FINANCE PART. I am trying to get you to tell us the answer you already know about your topic.

We all know that you are going to cheat on the guy who sends money, so dont worry about us, we wont judge you.
Re: Pls Sincere Advice: Am In A Dilemma by beeman80: 3:10pm On Apr 06, 2011
Money aint love my dear. Picture ur life with the both of them(thats after u must have seen this other invisible guy) without the money.I know thats hard for most people this days.Above all love is very key.

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