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Re: My Brother's Marriage Is About To Collapse. by njele: 8:01pm On Jan 20, 2021 |
Am a father, if my teenage sons refused to wash my car then they should be ready to leave my house and fent for themselves. Nonsense 1 Like |
Re: My Brother's Marriage Is About To Collapse. by Nobody: 8:02pm On Jan 20, 2021 |
omojesu202:Na Who Marry Who? |
Re: My Brother's Marriage Is About To Collapse. by ImaIma1(f): 8:05pm On Jan 20, 2021 |
omojesu202: Seems your brother didn't bond with his children as they were growing up. Every parent has that obligation and responsibility to build relationships with their kids. It goes beyond paying school fees and bills. Once that bond is there, no one can just turn them against him. Let your brother discuss with his wife how he feels about it. If he can't handle the situation, there's not much you can do. You have your own wife and family to mind. 4 Likes |
Re: My Brother's Marriage Is About To Collapse. by NaijaSumigan: 8:10pm On Jan 20, 2021 |
cutiedave:AMEN |
Re: My Brother's Marriage Is About To Collapse. by EUEA: 8:10pm On Jan 20, 2021 |
u need 2 pray abt it,meet a marriage counsellor show her dat u need and luv her nd d children,u call ur boys talk 2 dem lik man3 to man,remember prayer is d key 1 Like |
Re: My Brother's Marriage Is About To Collapse. by Romanoff(f): 8:12pm On Jan 20, 2021 |
CodeTemplar: As long as you don't pay for anyone's data and you're not mentioned or insulted, kindly offer your own opinion and look away. Mr. Intelligent. 1 Like |
Re: My Brother's Marriage Is About To Collapse. by Preciouschinwe(f): 8:13pm On Jan 20, 2021 |
omojesu202:I pity for your wife 4 Likes |
Re: My Brother's Marriage Is About To Collapse. by benydy(f): 8:14pm On Jan 20, 2021 |
please most problem in home today are caused by unforgiveness from both parties when you do your findings very you see that your brother might have offended his wife when he has cash and she found out and now is pay back time 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Brother's Marriage Is About To Collapse. by BRATISLAVA: 8:16pm On Jan 20, 2021 |
omojesu202: Of course he won't. He knows exactly what he did to begin it. He's leading you on. If you think you can step into 20 years of their business, with what he told you, only his side of their story, then you have a lot to learn about longer marriages. It's obvious you want him to divorce her. Or kill her, like you postulated in your first post. But neither will happen. Because the lies that men tell about women turning their children against them is the oldest lie in the book. 5 Likes |
Re: My Brother's Marriage Is About To Collapse. by CodeTemplar: 8:17pm On Jan 20, 2021 |
Romanoff:I hope you are paying for OP's data then. If not you are just foóling no one else. |
Re: My Brother's Marriage Is About To Collapse. by oyejideogunjumo: 8:18pm On Jan 20, 2021 |
omojesu202:Some women are fair-whether. They obey when things are rosey but change if things turn bad. The issue of whether the children are his or not may not be the problem. Your brother needs to take it easy with her and take time to pray and work on how he will get back on his feet again. He should ignore her and her taunting and focus on his life and destiny now. Leave the wife and the children otherwise they will frustrate him to death and continue without him. Time and tide waits for no one. Good time awaits him. All the best |
Re: My Brother's Marriage Is About To Collapse. by Romanoff(f): 8:20pm On Jan 20, 2021 |
CodeTemplar: I have said my bit. He should focus on fixing his own marriage. And please, don't mention me again. It's okay to not agree with what I said but just don't mention me cause I stand by all I said. 2 Likes |
Re: My Brother's Marriage Is About To Collapse. by BluntTheApostle(m): 8:22pm On Jan 20, 2021 |
Enugupikin: Even if you are married, you have zero experience with regards to many other marriages. That is why we have the results of researches to give us an approximation of marriage experiences. |
Re: My Brother's Marriage Is About To Collapse. by CodeTemplar: 8:24pm On Jan 20, 2021 |
Romanoff:I shouldn't mention you because you pay for my data or I don't pay for yours. Instead of contributing intelligently towards what the OP was after you took it upon yourself to set his priority for him then started talking about your new found priority for him. Emotional issues isn't for everyone to come put mouth o. |
Re: My Brother's Marriage Is About To Collapse. by Enugupikin: 8:25pm On Jan 20, 2021 |
BluntTheApostle:Atleast you will have to start with your own experience if married than taking about something you absolutely know nothing about |
Re: My Brother's Marriage Is About To Collapse. by BluntTheApostle(m): 8:27pm On Jan 20, 2021 |
Enugupikin: How can you say I know absolutely nothing about marriage? As a theologian, I have certificates in marriage counseling. I don't need to be married to know. Are Reverend fathers married? And yet they have a license to give marriage counseling. |
Re: My Brother's Marriage Is About To Collapse. by Goldie16(f): 8:27pm On Jan 20, 2021 |
cocolacec:Exactly. The irony is that this child will cling to his mom even tighter and will be closer to her in old age. The best way to win the favour of your children is to love their mother. 2 Likes |
Re: My Brother's Marriage Is About To Collapse. by wisdomkid: 8:28pm On Jan 20, 2021 |
Brooke60: 1. He's scared. 2. He's afraid his wife will do same, which is why he is more concerned about his brother's own. Humans are naturally afraid, and since it's his elder brother, that is the position he's seeing himself in 20 years' time. 2 Likes |
Re: My Brother's Marriage Is About To Collapse. by Enugupikin: 8:31pm On Jan 20, 2021 |
BluntTheApostle:@ emboldened, that generated a heated debate in the Catholic Church of which I'm a member and it was concluded the rev frs don't give counselling and talks of what they know nothing about or have practical experience about. So the marriage people organise and talk at the seminars. Paper work is different from practice, reason most university graduates know nothing on practice other than what's in book, so it makes no difference Thanks for keeping the discussions civil |
Re: My Brother's Marriage Is About To Collapse. by Goldie16(f): 8:35pm On Jan 20, 2021 |
njele:Thank you. A man should know how to discipline his children. 2 Likes |
Re: My Brother's Marriage Is About To Collapse. by TrueChristians: 8:42pm On Jan 20, 2021 |
femifemi1:thank God for your life 1 Like |
Re: My Brother's Marriage Is About To Collapse. by Jaqenhghar: 8:42pm On Jan 20, 2021 |
omojesu202:LMAO. See reply abeg 1 Like |
Re: My Brother's Marriage Is About To Collapse. by luminouz(m): 8:44pm On Jan 20, 2021 |
Sixfeetbelle: Ermmmm....you are not sounding convincing Mai dear. My dad ain't always around. My mom sure has been. But she never rebuked him in front of us. NEVER. So he saw him as the sword of Justice for every wrongdoing we committed that she reported to him. Even when he won't even beat us but chastise us,we still feared him |
Re: My Brother's Marriage Is About To Collapse. by IgboWarlord(m): 8:47pm On Jan 20, 2021 |
cutiedave: Because you are FTC?? |
Re: My Brother's Marriage Is About To Collapse. by FirstCounsel(m): 8:47pm On Jan 20, 2021 |
NextD18: A very bitter paternity case I once handled for a male client started exactly this way. After 27 years of marriage,madam turned the 3 kids against oga. Guess what? It turned out 2 out of the 3 kids were not ogas and madam bolted away. |
Re: My Brother's Marriage Is About To Collapse. by luminouz(m): 8:48pm On Jan 20, 2021 |
megareal: You love me like that jare 1 Like |
Re: My Brother's Marriage Is About To Collapse. by Beey(f): 8:49pm On Jan 20, 2021 |
omojesu202:I think your brother needs to exercise tough love. I don’t see how children living under my roof & depending on me fully will disobey me. In this life, no relationship can thrive without reciprocity. If someone is always taking and adding nothing, the other party will soon get exhausted. With that said, he needs to come out of his shell & be a man. Seems like he lets the wife have her way. He should just stop giving money in that house & meeting their demands. As a matter of fact, he should let the children know that since they are old enough not to listen to him, they are also old enough not to need his support. He should even disappear on them for a while & cut Communication. How can someone be disrespectful to you & expect kindness in return? If he lets the those children run the house now, he’ll never talk in that house again. |
Re: My Brother's Marriage Is About To Collapse. by IgboWarlord(m): 8:49pm On Jan 20, 2021 |
Romanoff: You've seen a marriage scale through after Infidelity...yen yen yen..See as e dey sweet you for mouth..
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Re: My Brother's Marriage Is About To Collapse. by GrandFinale2021(m): 8:50pm On Jan 20, 2021 |
Sixfeetbelle:my friend shut up and read the thread again and stop ranting carelessly with your empty skull |
Re: My Brother's Marriage Is About To Collapse. by ZIMDRILL(m): 8:52pm On Jan 20, 2021 |
omojesu202: the problem with us africans is that what we call respect is actaully commands and fear Most parents inflict fear as way of displine and that fear is taken as respect and through tradition and culture fathers dont bond much with their kids, because of fear of the father and the father playing the traditional role of being tough and serious about everything in life, therefore kids stay away from playing around with the father hence the bonding child to son is lost someone @ 20 the son can wash the car either way, being asked or by showing his father some maturity by washing without being asked, but i think 7am its a bit too much, @20 both son and father should be starting to treat each other as man showing respect to each other than the father, always treating the son as a boy. Yes he is the father paying the fee etc but walking someone to wash the car at 7am its bit too far. You would feel that you are being treated as a worker. The mom is not helping either as couple dont send conflicting messages, it shows that you are not working as unity and kids pick that up and in this case @ 20 he is not a kid but a man and for sure he will use it to his advantage. And he has because he listen more to mum than daddy and the daddy now thinks that the woman is poisoning the children again him. The father should take his son for drive or whatever and have a man to man talk for them to understand each other. As parents we fail to realise that if you fail to (train) raise your child in basic home and social skills etc you are actually putting a bad foundation for your child's marriage, as those lacking skills will contribute to the fights in your child's marriage 2 Likes |
Re: My Brother's Marriage Is About To Collapse. by Romanoff(f): 8:54pm On Jan 20, 2021 |
IgboWarlord: Na truth I tell you so. A lot of women have stayed in marriages with unfaithful husbands. I've seen marriages where even after their fidelity of the wife, the narrative still went on. Why I wan lie 1 Like |
Re: My Brother's Marriage Is About To Collapse. by luminouz(m): 8:54pm On Jan 20, 2021 |
FirstCounsel: What DAFUQ!!!! 2 Likes |
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