i have a close friend that is a guy. he is tall, dark and handsome. i never really noticed until recently how handsome he is. i have noticed now and started liking him. i dont want him to find out because he is kind of arrogant, and also i dont like the way he treated his ex girlfriend. its like he doesnt have much respect for women. inspite of this, i am still attracted to him. what do i do?

so u know he doesnt respect women, and u saw first sense how he treated his ex, and u still want him, ok go for it,

Nuff said!

ignore ur feelings girl, it'll pass

You don't love him, is just attraction.


Give it a month or two. He wouldn't that appealing in your eyes trust me

let him get some azz then your curiosity would have been satisfied

Lol. . .Funny but true!

The flesh decieved but the spirit lead, if u give in you will be the next VICTIM trust me.
God give you the grace to notice those inch from him, so dont follow your lust.
Trust me if you give in to him you will be the next VICTIM.

@ poster
Its all about the bad boy attraction innit

It happens to the best of us. You better tell him.
AFTER he cleans up his attitude, unless you are attracted to azzholes. 

25omega:

let him get some azz then your curiosity would have been satisfied

Fck, them come back to tell us how it went.

Fck Him & let GO!

Tell him your feelings

its like he doesnt have much respect for women

So what exactly are you attracted to about him? Because he is tall,

dark and handsome? That's not enough. If he didn't respect his

first woman he probably, or more than likely, won't respect you either.

Plus you said he is arrogant. More negatives than positives to this man.

All that glitters ain't gold! I'd keep looking if I were you.

Been in your shoes, but mine was the other way round. Lol.
Do you want sex or a relationship. If you want sex, I believe he is ready to tender but if you want a relationship, . . .

@ poster, u`re more into his looks than his personality. Good for you to have seen some red flags. My sincere advice? BACK OFF or have your heart chopped into bits and pieces and fed to the dogs and come back to this forum to curse men.

bala3:

i have a close friend that is a guy. he is tall, dark and handsome. i never really noticed until recently how handsome he is. i have noticed now and started liking him. i dont want him to find out because he is kind of arrogant, and also[b] i dont like the way he treated his ex girlfriend[/b]. its like he doesnt have much respect for women. inspite of this, i am still attracted to him. what do i do?

You probably only noticed how attractive he was when you realized how much of a prick he was. It happens to some women.

You obviously wanna get down with him in bed & im sure u'll get watchu looking for :ocuz all u notice are his looks(tall&handsome)

Girls cannot help but love bad guys!!! I have never been able to understand that
Next thing that follows is heart break.