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Could She Be The Bad Luck In My Life. by Olayetan(m): 6:42pm On Jan 24, 2021
I met a girl recently through my job, I'm actually a bolt driver who's been doing fine since August last year, I had a girl whom i was dating since last year November and I realised the girl isn't my ideal woman so I began to search for my ideal woman.

I was still with my former girl when I met this girl, she requested me from Allen going to gbagada, I love her dress sense and love how she talks.

I asked if I can save her contact of which she didn't reject, I didn't message her since last year I saved her contact until this year I started having doubts about my former girl, i messaged her on WhatsApp and asked for a date with her, we talked about so many things and she talked about her past Ex's, I got to know from our discussion she isn't the wayward type, she's hard working and striving to be independent.

I love independent sound lady and I got attracted to her, we started with friendship and things were going fine in the 1st week, I started going to her place every night before heading home to sleep and we got so attached to each other, I was already thinking of how to leave the other girl for her since she's my ideal woman but the other girl is so attached to me that I don't want to break her heart. So I kept communication with her but not as usual as before.

The new girl is taking over my life and I even took her home to introduce to my mum since I made my decision she's the one I want.

On Thursday I invited her to come over to my house to keep my company since I wasn't in mood as I'm feeling so much emptiness in me, I ordered bolt ride for her on cash trip cux I had issue with bolt deducting more than trip fare on my card trips.
She messaged me that a container is blocking road from her to reach my street so I came down from my car to go and pay for her taxi where they parked, along that line, I couldn't feel my Samsung phone has fallen from pocket, we both went to greet her friend that lost her dad of recent and we intend to branch my friends place, on getting to my friends area, I wanted to bring out my phone to call him, that's when I realized my phone has lost, I couldn't even understand how the phone fell off me without me knowing.

Due to my job, I can't work without a phone and not just anyhow phone but a phone with high Ram to run bolt app smoothly, so I went to slot with my girl the next day and I bought another phone for 105k, that was on Friday 22nd of January, I was happy I was able to bounce back, I resumed work back on Saturday hoping to recoup from what I lost.

My girl asked me to come pick her up for her friends dad's burial ceremony and I went to pick and drop her while I resumed work back, it was time for her to leave and I was on island working but I told her to wait while I get trip to the mainland so I can take her home back but I didn't get on time and I don't want to waste fuel to the mainland, so I told her I will make an order for her while I will come see her before I go home, she was already angry cux I couldn't come pick her but I calm her down by saying I will be seeing her before going home.
I was able to get ikeja from island and I decided to visit her after dropping my rider, this was around 9:30pm, I got to her place by 10 and she was already giving me attitude cux I didn't drop her myself but I tried to talk to her.

We talked about our plans for the year, along the line, we shifted topic to sex, she wanted me to wait till we get married before we can have sex and I asked her what if it's next year we are both ready, are you saying I will have to wait till then, she said yes and I started laughing at her cuz I and her ain't virgin so how does she expect me or her to wait till that time, I then ask will she be okay if she hear I impregnate another woman and she was like why will I let it get to that if I sex another lady.
I later told her I wasn't ready for argument and I'm not ready to force her into what she doesn't want but she was already changing her face cuz I said I can't wait till then and I noticed it on her face so I told her I want to leave.
I went to drop her at home and left without her bidding me goodbye or giving me kiss, so I left not being in mood, on my way, I forgot to wine up my passenger window glass and I got to ile zik trying to cross to the other lane heading towards along but due to the speed of other cars, I couldn't cross immediately, I was waiting and flashing other cars to slow down, on waiting, a thief just shook hand inside my car thru the window and picked my phone, it was like a movie to me and I wanted to quickly cut my steering to chase the thief, that's how a Lexus Jeep speeding just hit my car and cuz minor accident.
Had to explain to the owner and begged him before he let me go, but at that moment, i lost in thought and was thinking why me in just 2days, I lost phone worth over 200k and both is because of this girl.
I drove back to her house to tell her what just happened to me and told her it's over between us cux it's been bad luck she brought into my life.

She called me later when I got home but I kept swearing for her not to ever call me again with the bad luck following her, and before all this happened, I had a nightmare where I helped a lady in the dream and the lady was later accusing me of what I particularly helped her with.

So I started linking the dream to what happened to me.

With all this I narrated, could it mean it's the girl that brought bad luck to me or it's the former girl I gilted or all it's just a coincidence...

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Re: Could She Be The Bad Luck In My Life. by MickzyDonald: 6:47pm On Jan 24, 2021
The story is long but i don't think she's responsible for it, maybe it's a pay back for breaking the previous girl's heart or Maybe someone has sworn for either of you

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Re: Could She Be The Bad Luck In My Life. by Deborah98(f): 6:56pm On Jan 24, 2021
Go closer to God in prayers and if possible connect with a genuine man of God for prayers too. She might not be the cause of your misfortunes anyways.

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Re: Could She Be The Bad Luck In My Life. by felong(m): 6:57pm On Jan 24, 2021
Hmmm... Yahoo boys don use this one destiny cash out, yes op she's a bad luck. Stay away from her. Her destiny has been used so anyone who comes close to her will start experiencing losses which will be going back to those who used her. Stay away from her for your own good.

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Re: Could She Be The Bad Luck In My Life. by Icyexpressions: 7:00pm On Jan 24, 2021
You are just harassing the lady for nothing. do you know if it's your former girlfriend that vow that you won't be successful if you double or cheat on her?


On a serious note, it might just be coincidence. You shouldn't have gone to that level of that harassment.

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Re: Could She Be The Bad Luck In My Life. by tundchip2: 7:01pm On Jan 24, 2021
Maybe, maybe not.
Might be a coincidence, might not be...
Stuffs like that happens too, just move closer to God.
But accusing her of being the bearer of badluck, that's gotta hurt her. You shouldn't have gone that far


And to the mf above me, not everything is yahoo boys

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Re: Could She Be The Bad Luck In My Life. by Olayetan(m): 7:03pm On Jan 24, 2021
Icyexpressions:
You are just harassing the 'ady for nothing. do you know if it's your former girlfriend that how that you won't be successful if you double date her or what?


On a serious note, it might just be coincidence. You shouldn't have gone to that level of that harassment.

I'm kinda regretting why I reacted like that towards her but I don't know why it's happening and I felt it could be her since I've never experienced anything like that all my life...

And on the other side, I felt maybe it's because I'm double dating too, I really don't know but this really made me cry cux I hustle day and night to acquire little I have..

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Re: Could She Be The Bad Luck In My Life. by Molahnelson(m): 7:05pm On Jan 24, 2021
Did you promise your former girlfriend marriage if yes, then I think you restrain yourself

Go back to her now and reconcile your differences

Take heeds to wisdom instruction

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Re: Could She Be The Bad Luck In My Life. by Ginaz(f): 7:12pm On Jan 24, 2021
No bad luck. You are simply a careless person in a coincidental way.

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Re: Could She Be The Bad Luck In My Life. by DarkGrey: 7:14pm On Jan 24, 2021
You're fvcked. You'll still go back to her trust me... Toxic girls are thrilling. You'll miss the charm and after a while you'll be back to the narcissistic beauty... gradually you'll fade into nothingness...

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Re: Could She Be The Bad Luck In My Life. by candyguyofficia(m): 7:15pm On Jan 24, 2021
Op you were careless though but what happened could be deeper than meet the eyes. I am very concerned about your dream before the series of event that happened afterward. It's very obvious that your wall of natural/supernatural defence is almost broken you should be more concerned about building that wall. Also try as much as possible to exercise extra care at the stage and also try to stay away from female. Nothing physical happen without the spiritual

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Re: Could She Be The Bad Luck In My Life. by Yusufisraelj(m): 7:17pm On Jan 24, 2021
OP I read you clearly, firstly what you did to your initial babe was wrong, you should not be asking another lady out while still in a relationship, it's wrong, that kind of tendency shows you may cheat on your wife, learn to end things before you begin new ones.

Secondly, people carry presence, so all you see in a person is not just that person, have you wandered why when you come close to certain people certain good or bad things happen to you? Its not them mostly, its what they carry that they can't see (what's on you commands what happens around you), again mostly these are very nice and sincere lady's or gentlemen but anything good does not seem to stay long with them.


You see you too carry a presence, but it's glaring that what you carrying is not hot enough to subdue what is behind the woes on the lady's life, she is a good Lady, I can tell you that for free.

Apologize To the lady you jilted and let her forgive you, if you like this new girl, then its time to build capacity in the supernatural and run away from sinful lifestyles, serving God sincerely, not with perfection but a heart that wants to be right always, the first place to begin is your prayer life, find out how to make effective prayers. Nothing just happens.

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Re: Could She Be The Bad Luck In My Life. by Yusufisraelj(m): 7:20pm On Jan 24, 2021
Icyexpressions:
You are just harassing the lady for nothing. do you know if it's your former girlfriend that vow that you won't be successful if you double or cheat on her?


On a serious note, it might just be coincidence. You shouldn't have gone to that level of that harassment.


Absolutely, blaming innocent girl. So wrong!

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Re: Could She Be The Bad Luck In My Life. by helinues: 7:33pm On Jan 24, 2021
Stop blaming the innocent girl about your carelessness

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Re: Could She Be The Bad Luck In My Life. by merieam16(f): 7:48pm On Jan 24, 2021
Lolzz, shebi she's ur ideal woman....continue

No be only badluck na misfortune u go see
Re: Could She Be The Bad Luck In My Life. by jadyclem(m): 8:02pm On Jan 24, 2021
Whatever happened to you were as a result of your carelessness. When dem tell guys not to use their work time to chase woman or retire to a woman place immediately after work na to avoid dis kind story. You meet girl for not up to a month and you don go introduce am to your mum sharp sharp. Hmm...funny guys full this naija o! Watin dey vex me sef na pple like you go come nairaland come dey form James bond on top woman matter! Abegi count ur loss make u move on jare! U get luck say no be the motor wey u take dey hustle dem obtain

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Re: Could She Be The Bad Luck In My Life. by Nobody: 8:04pm On Jan 24, 2021
No, she's not responsible for your carelessness
Re: Could She Be The Bad Luck In My Life. by fineboynl(m): 8:18pm On Jan 24, 2021
Olayetan:
I met a girl recently through my job, I'm actually a bolt driver who's been doing fine since August last year, I had a girl whom i was dating since last year November and I realised the girl isn't my ideal woman so I began to search for my ideal woman.

I was still with my former girl when I met this girl, she requested me from Allen going to gbagada, I love her dress sense and love how she talks.

I asked if I can save her contact of which she didn't reject, I didn't message her since last year I saved her contact until this year I started having doubts about my former girl, i messaged her on WhatsApp and asked for a date with her, we talked about so many things and she talked about her past Ex's, I got to know from our discussion she isn't the wayward type, she's hard working and striving to be independent.

I love independent sound lady and I got attracted to her, we started with friendship and things were going fine in the 1st week, I started going to her place every night before heading home to sleep and we got so attached to each other, I was already thinking of how to leave the other girl for her since she's my ideal woman but the other girl is so attached to me that I don't want to break her heart. So I kept communication with her but not as usual as before.

The new girl is taking over my life and I even took her home to introduce to my mum since I made my decision she's the one I want.

On Thursday I invited her to come over to my house to keep my company since I wasn't in mood as I'm feeling so much emptiness in me, I ordered bolt ride for her on cash trip cux I had issue with bolt deducting more than trip fare on my card trips.

She messaged me that a container is blocking road from her to reach my street so I came down from my car to go and pay for her taxi where they parked, along that line, I couldn't feel my Samsung phone has fallen from pocket, we both went to greet her friend that lost her dad of recent and we intend to branch my friends place, on getting to my friends area, I wanted to bring out my phone to call him, that's when I realized my phone has lost, I couldn't even understand how the phone fell off me without me knowing.

Due to my job, I can't work without a phone and not just anyhow phone but a phone with high Ram to run bolt app smoothly, so I went to slot with my girl the next day and I bought another phone for 105k, that was on Friday 22nd of January, I was happy I was able to bounce back, I resumed work back on Saturday hoping to recoup from what I lost.

My girl asked me to come pick her up for her friends dad's burial ceremony and I went to pick and drop her while I resumed work back, it was time for her to leave and I was on island working but I told her to wait while I get trip to the mainland so I can take her home back but I didn't get on time and I don't want to waste fuel to the mainland, so I told her I will make an order for her while I will come see her before I go home, she was already angry cux I couldn't come pick her but I calm her down by saying I will be seeing her before going home.
I was able to get ikeja from island and I decided to visit her after dropping my rider, this was around 9:30pm, I got to her place by 10 and she was already giving me attitude cux I didn't drop her myself but I tried to talk to her.

We talked about our plans for the year, along the line, we shifted topic to sex, she wanted me to wait till we get married before we can have sex and I asked her what if it's next year we are both ready, are you saying I will have to wait till then, she said yes and I started laughing at her cuz I and her ain't virgin so how does she expect me or her to wait till that time, I then ask will she be okay if she hear I impregnate another woman and she was like why will I let it get to that if I sex another lady.
I later told her I wasn't ready for argument and I'm not ready to force her into what she doesn't want but she was already changing her face cuz I said I can't wait till then and I noticed it on her face so I told her I want to leave.
I went to drop her at home and left without her bidding me goodbye or giving me kiss, so I left not being in mood, on my way, I forgot to wine up my passenger window glass and I got to ile zik trying to cross to the other lane heading towards along but due to the speed of other cars, I couldn't cross immediately, I was waiting and flashing other cars to slow down, on waiting, a thief just shook hand inside my car thru the window and picked my phone, it was like a movie to me and I wanted to quickly cut my steering to chase the thief, that's how a Lexus Jeep speeding just hit my car and cuz minor accident.
Had to explain to the owner and begged him before he let me go, but at that moment, i lost in thought and was thinking why me in just 2days, I lost phone worth over 200k and both is because of this girl.
I drove back to her house to tell her what just happened to me and told her it's over between us cux it's been bad luck she brought into my life.

She called me later when I got home but I kept swearing for her not to ever call me again with the bad luck following her, and before all this happened, I had a nightmare where I helped a lady in the dream and the lady was later accusing me of what I particularly helped her with.

So I started linking the dream to what happened to me.

With all this I narrated, could it mean it's the girl that brought bad luck to me or it's the former girl I gilted or all it's just a coincidence...
na them oh, although it might be coincidence. but still you are lucky you didn't even sleep with the girl, by now you wouldn't even have the mouth to take say you don't want to do again. once you start seeing a girl and she is talking about marriage and giving you condictions make you sujie urself sharply. go back to your previous girl and thank God you are still alive.

if you must go back to that girl. you need to certify yourself and observe from distance. becareful and don't be careless. some girls carry good and bad luck. That's why when I make contact with a girl the first thing I observed is to check which of them she belong to.

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Re: Could She Be The Bad Luck In My Life. by LordKO(m): 8:41pm On Jan 24, 2021
You're simply a man who takes pleasure in avoiding acceptance of the outcome of his actions. Start to assume the full outcome of your actions because it's one major hallmark of a responsible adult.

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Re: Could She Be The Bad Luck In My Life. by Nyamiri: 8:47pm On Jan 24, 2021
There are girls with good luck and there are girls with bad luck. I have an experience which is the direct opposite. I shared it here 2 years ago.

There's this girl I have. Whenever we have sex, I get money and favour. More than 3 times, I noticed the same pattern. When I noticed, there was a day I tried something.

After we had sex, she told me she was looking for 60k to complete her rent. I told her I would give her 50k and she said it was too much, I should give her 30k. I insisted on giving her 50k. She collected it and was very grateful.

After going to drop her, on my way back, a customer called me for my services. What I usually charge 90k for, I billed him 300k and he paid. I mean transferred the 300k to me before getting home. I didn't mean to charge 300k, just wanted to confirm my suspicions about the babe.

Your mistake is that you shouldn't have told that babe about what she's carrying. You should have observed her and strategically pulled away.

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Re: Could She Be The Bad Luck In My Life. by FalseProphet1(m): 8:51pm On Jan 24, 2021
Nyamiri:
There are girls with good luck and there are girls with bad luck. I have an experience which is the direct opposite. I shared it here 2 years ago.

There's this girl I have. Whenever we have sex, I get money and favour. More than 3 times, I noticed the same pattern. When I noticed, there was a day I tried something.

After we had sex, she told me she was looking for 60k to complete her rent. I told her I would give her 50k and she said it was too much, I should give her 30k. I insisted on giving her 50k. She collected it and was very grateful.

After going to drop her, on my way back, a customer called me for my services. What I usually charge 90k for, I billed him 300k and he paid. I mean transferred the 300k to me before getting home. I didn't mean to charge 300k, just wanted to confirm my suspicions about the babe.
That girl is an obanje. Usually when you date them, they try to make you succeed, however, you might run into financial problems if you jilt them.

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Re: Could She Be The Bad Luck In My Life. by LadyTianna(f): 9:12pm On Jan 24, 2021
Lol I'm tempted to insult you op. That girl didn't bring you bad luck, it was your own carelessness. How does one drive around Lagos at night with windows down? Do you leave your car doors unlocked too? Moving around without paying attention to safety measures, na so dem go soon thief your car.
Imagine trying to manipulate the girl into having sex with you. Someone who hasn't even known you for that long. She should fĂșck you because you said you'll marry her. Stupid man. Sorry about your phones sha. Once again na your carelessness cause am. No dey blame other people for your rubbish mistakes

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Re: Could She Be The Bad Luck In My Life. by Cholls(m): 9:17pm On Jan 24, 2021
Deborah98:
Go closer to God in prayers and if possible connect with a genuine man of God for prayers too. She might not be the cause of your misfortunes anyways.

Re: Could She Be The Bad Luck In My Life. by Sonnobax15(m): 9:18pm On Jan 24, 2021
shocked

Op,you should be thankful to your God you didn't have sex with her,if not,it wouldn't have been only your phone that got missing but your entire life would have been a replica of "MISERABLE"...
Re: Could She Be The Bad Luck In My Life. by extol1(m): 9:31pm On Jan 24, 2021
Deborah98:
Go closer to God in prayers and if possible connect with a genuine man of God for prayers too. She might not be the cause of your misfortunes anyways.
gbam, the prophetess has spoken
Re: Could She Be The Bad Luck In My Life. by Nobody: 9:36pm On Jan 24, 2021
Maybe you're just unusually disorganized and not your usual self. Like you said you're double dating and also planning to settle down with the new chick.
Maybe the unprecedented swing in events is just disorganizing you dats all. The losses were completely avoidable and basically boils down to not being very careful.
So it's not bad luck, you just need to re-organize yourself and slow shit down a little bit.

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Re: Could She Be The Bad Luck In My Life. by Deborah98(f): 9:44pm On Jan 24, 2021
extol1:

gbam, the prophetess has spoken
oga mi, good evening how have you been?
Re: Could She Be The Bad Luck In My Life. by bigjackass: 9:47pm On Jan 24, 2021
omo guy you are careless simple

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Re: Could She Be The Bad Luck In My Life. by Olakunleyakub(m): 10:21pm On Jan 24, 2021
You acted way too much!

I think the law of karma was at play couples with the fact that the lady came at a wrong time too!!
Re: Could She Be The Bad Luck In My Life. by ayodele17893: 11:05pm On Jan 24, 2021
Did you promise your former girlfriend marriage if yes, then I think you restrain yourself Go back to her now and reconcile your differencesTake heeds to wisdom instruction

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