Baldwretch:
whom you live with.

I live with my mom. Late 20s.

If you were in my shoes and you earn 40k, 3k transport, eat only once, sometimes you would not eat for four straight days.

You earn on the web but it is not consistent. Sometimes $50 in three months and sometimes nothing sef.

If you were in my shoes, how much would you give your mom who is divorced and whom you live with. She sells provision.

dumahi:

Nothing since she sells provision. From what you said, you are not even earning anything. 40k and still talking about giving your mom who is self-employed?

Cholls:
My brother any amount will do...most important thing is to take care of her.

Cholls:
My brother any amount will do...most important thing is to take care of her.

Baldwretch:
whom you live with.

MickzyDonald:
The money is very little but mother's and their greed at times, I'd sudden maybe 5k or below

Shoodboi:


I understand your situation of wanting to help out, but you need to consider your condition first...

Have you ever seen a blind man leading a blind man?

No!

You need to get your finances in check first before you can support your mom, else you'll keep living from hand to mouth, surviving from day to day, and running around in circles.

Baldwretch:


Yes that's right because if you do the maths, that's less than 1, 500 in a day. If you can't give me exact amount, give me a percentage range. What would you give.

MickzyDonald:

5k I can't give more than that because there might some cases where you'll need to drop cash in the house

Baldwretch:


Lol. 5k on a 40k salary? Are you fucking kidding?

Baldwretch:
I want to know what would be considered okay. It is going to be different by individuals but let me know what you would give if you earn 40k and live with your mom or do not live with mom or mom lives with dad who provides her needs and she doesn't have to pay rent as she now does.

These conditions are different obviously and the amount would also differ too, right?

What would you give. I am not going to tell what I give yet, I want to hear genuine opinions because right now, she's saying I do almost nothing for her because of my spending habits.

Baldwretch:
I want to know what would be considered okay. It is going to be different by individuals but let me know what you would give if you earn 40k and live with your mom or do not live with mom or mom lives with dad who provides her needs and she doesn't have to pay rent as she now does.

These conditions are different obviously and the amount would also differ too, right?

What would you give. I am not going to tell what I give yet, I want to hear genuine opinions because right now, she's saying I do almost nothing for her because of my spending habits.

OGWILLS123:
If we say now nigerian girl's her useless, you people will be ranting nonsense. Just take a good look at the level of entitlement mentality the op mom is having . Op if you can, dump that demanding b*tch called "your mom" , after all you owe no one anything in this life . Bottom line: Any nigerian being that have hole in between is two legs is useless

Baldwretch:
whom you live with.

I live with my mom. Late 20s.

If you were in my shoes and you earn 40k, 3k transport, eat only once, sometimes you would not eat for four straight days.

You earn on the web but it is not consistent. Sometimes $50 in three months and sometimes nothing sef.

If you were in my shoes, how much would you give your mom who is divorced and whom you live with. She sells provision.

Baldwretch:


Lol. 5k on a 40k salary? Are you fucking kidding?

OGWILLS123:
If we say now nigerian girl's her useless, you people will be ranting nonsense. Just take a good look at the level of entitlement mentality the op mom is having . Op if you can, dump that demanding b*tch called "your mom" , after all you owe no one anything in this life . Bottom line: Any nigerian being that have hole in between is two legs is useless

shege45:
If you eat therr and don’t pay rent, it’s right for you to drop something monthly. Not only that, if things finish for house, you can buy without looking at anyone’s face. This shows sign of responsibility because if you were on your own, you’d spend more than that. I used to stay with my mom until almost 2 years ago when i left the country. Then I earned 35k but gave her 5k monnthly. I planned myself around 30k every month. Though e no dey do me I also took it upon myself to buy water for the house weekly. It just depicts responsibility

OGWILLS123:
If i may ask op where is your dad

kalu61:
ops let me help you since almost nobody wants to attend to you.

Forget the online business since it's not consistent.

Now you earn 40k -3k Tfare. ( 37)

You said you eat once a day( l guess from your mum's pot) then sometimes you can 4 days eating( I guess from your mum's pot)

Baldwretch:


Hmm, 5k? Did your mom live with your dad?

MickzyDonald:

Wait if shes the one feeding you and you are still staying with her that isn't much, considering you are paying house rent and you are eating outside everyday then calculate that for 30 days But you probably need to also save up, so the money might not be on that same level always

shege45:
Na my papa dey pay rent. See just imagine that you stay alone or stay with a friend. You dey look am like this because say na your mom. Once you’re above a certain age, see it like your parents are doing you a favour by allowing you stay with them. If you stayed alone or with someone, you’d save a portion of your income for rent, and other bills. You’d also eat from that money. Staying with your mom just subsidize these things. Just remove the entitlement mentality and you’d understand what I am saying. When know things hard na why most of us still dey parents house at certain age but you also have to help.

Baldwretch:


I was living rent free in my father's purchased house when she called me to come over. I didn't have to pay for anything in my dad's house where I live.

Baldwretch:


Nnmadi what would you give. I have to mention that I just got this job and I have not failed to give the said amount since September, I think.