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Re: Why Ladies Hardly Change Their Surnames After Marriage These Days by Brownpeanut(f): 10:46am On Feb 04, 2021 |
edoairways: That's the point. 1 Like |
Re: Why Ladies Hardly Change Their Surnames After Marriage These Days by Princedapace(m): 10:46am On Feb 04, 2021 |
Chii59: We also need to change our marriage traditional marriage system that put all the financial burden on men. In working society too, the financial burden is not on men alone 2 Likes |
Re: Why Ladies Hardly Change Their Surnames After Marriage These Days by Cutehector(m): 10:47am On Feb 04, 2021 |
Princedapace:thank you. All these useless simps chanting shittt 1 Like |
Re: Why Ladies Hardly Change Their Surnames After Marriage These Days by Brownpeanut(f): 10:48am On Feb 04, 2021 |
Princedapace: It is not hectic for a rich man who knows what he wants. 2 Likes |
Re: Why Ladies Hardly Change Their Surnames After Marriage These Days by STINOS(m): 10:48am On Feb 04, 2021 |
I did my wife's change of name myself. it costs not up 5k. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Why Ladies Hardly Change Their Surnames After Marriage These Days by Nobody: 10:49am On Feb 04, 2021 |
Princedapace:What a juvenile attempt at shifting the goalpost. Rest! 5 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Why Ladies Hardly Change Their Surnames After Marriage These Days by jpworld(m): 10:49am On Feb 04, 2021 |
Brownpeanut: More hectic process men go through to marry you. Carry drink and family members to go visit your family. Call friends and family, do small or big party to announce we are bringing new wife. You now come into the house want to keep your ex husband name or your father's name. We should have just phone ur dad, and inform him that me and ur daughter will be living together and we both going to have kids together. no need all these processes. Like that we won't have problem with the stress u will go through to change ur name. |
Re: Why Ladies Hardly Change Their Surnames After Marriage These Days by Champneys: 10:50am On Feb 04, 2021 |
What should be one's least of worries to be honest. As long as my kids have my name, the rest is irrelevant. 7 Likes |
Re: Why Ladies Hardly Change Their Surnames After Marriage These Days by GOOOGLE504(m): 10:51am On Feb 04, 2021 |
EmekaBlue: Simple. This thread is valid but just a bag of excuse for some ladies. I wish their husbands best of luck. 2 Likes |
Re: Why Ladies Hardly Change Their Surnames After Marriage These Days by NybenSBF101(m): 10:52am On Feb 04, 2021 |
My wife changed her surname o but my brother's wife didn't (because my brother no mind). My point is, if the couple no mind, that's it. The two must agree. No model ur family based on what people post online 5 Likes |
Re: Why Ladies Hardly Change Their Surnames After Marriage These Days by GOOOGLE504(m): 10:53am On Feb 04, 2021 |
STINOS: Exactly. If you want to do baby mama, fine, no need for name change but as e don marry you, the rest na story o except ur husband follow for pple wey no mind. |
Re: Why Ladies Hardly Change Their Surnames After Marriage These Days by Brownpeanut(f): 10:55am On Feb 04, 2021 |
jpworld: Just drop money, other things would be taken care of. No need to stress yourself. You'll just make phone calls and everything will be in place. 1 Like |
Re: Why Ladies Hardly Change Their Surnames After Marriage These Days by Funkybabee(f): 10:55am On Feb 04, 2021 |
when would I have time for all those process self 2 Likes |
Re: Why Ladies Hardly Change Their Surnames After Marriage These Days by jpworld(m): 10:57am On Feb 04, 2021 |
Brownpeanut: Probably we need to scrap marriage, we just put you for house, and you born the children. Just like the yoruba way. 1 Like |
Re: Why Ladies Hardly Change Their Surnames After Marriage These Days by Brownpeanut(f): 11:05am On Feb 04, 2021 |
jpworld: Yes, you can scrap yours. 3 Likes |
Re: Why Ladies Hardly Change Their Surnames After Marriage These Days by MightySparrow: 11:06am On Feb 04, 2021 |
BluntCrazeMan:Rather, blame the leaders with crippled minds 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Why Ladies Hardly Change Their Surnames After Marriage These Days by NoToPile: 11:06am On Feb 04, 2021 |
I have walked the walk it took me more than 6 months. My eye saw wheen, GTB was using me to play ping pong because of BVN change. First swear affidavit Newspaper NIMC - this one took less than a week for the change to be effected paid 1k charges. After NIMC came out took it to the bank as a valid ID containing the new name, thats where wahala start. BVN change, they frustrated me to the extent that I had to carry my little baby to the Bank. Everything is so stressful in this country. 7 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Why Ladies Hardly Change Their Surnames After Marriage These Days by tot(f): 11:09am On Feb 04, 2021 |
LexngtonSteele: Maybe not.... lol. |
Re: Why Ladies Hardly Change Their Surnames After Marriage These Days by Gideons708: 11:09am On Feb 04, 2021 |
I have never understood the reason why anyone would want to change their name after they get married. What is the reason for this? 3 Likes |
Re: Why Ladies Hardly Change Their Surnames After Marriage These Days by Princedapace(m): 11:18am On Feb 04, 2021 |
Brownpeanut: Changing of name is not hectic for a lady who knows what she wants and loves her husband |
Re: Why Ladies Hardly Change Their Surnames After Marriage These Days by Princedapace(m): 11:19am On Feb 04, 2021 |
Chii59: The point is: nothing is too stressful to be done for who u love. If men begin to look at the financial stress they encounter all in the name of marriage and wedding, they wouldnt be doing at all. |
Re: Why Ladies Hardly Change Their Surnames After Marriage These Days by Nezzjnr: 11:23am On Feb 04, 2021 |
omonighoblessing:I just changed mine of recent Your bank should change your name before NIN should do so Nigeria is so bleeped up 1 Like |
Re: Why Ladies Hardly Change Their Surnames After Marriage These Days by MummyD2020(f): 11:32am On Feb 04, 2021 |
How will you go about changing your name when you have already graduated from school that has all documents in your father's name? All documents bearing your fathers name remain valid while you go do the newspaper publication backing up the change of name. Or I'm I missing something? |
Re: Why Ladies Hardly Change Their Surnames After Marriage These Days by MummyD2020(f): 11:36am On Feb 04, 2021 |
[quote author=EmekaBlue post=98729798]Aside the system update issues they have no respect for men like our mothers respected our fathers then Ladies of nowadays think they are so equal to men..Bunch of scally wags[/quote Maybe u dont know the stress involved that's why u just spill thrash. See them men. Scaly wags like ur sisters. Ewu |
Re: Why Ladies Hardly Change Their Surnames After Marriage These Days by JOSH54: 11:37am On Feb 04, 2021 |
FOR ME, CHANGING SURNAME FOR A LADY AFTER MARRIAGE DOES NOT CHANGE ANYTHING. ALL I KNOW SHE IS STILL MY WIFE. 1 Like |
Re: Why Ladies Hardly Change Their Surnames After Marriage These Days by BluntCrazeMan: 11:39am On Feb 04, 2021 |
PROPHETmichael:This thing you typed here is trash. The man is no more owing the woman's family, so why on earth would they recall their daughter? 1 Like |
Re: Why Ladies Hardly Change Their Surnames After Marriage These Days by Tedpgrass: 11:42am On Feb 04, 2021 |
thebosstrevor1: Amongst the influential... There's no complaint because the boss ladies amongst such wives hardly change their names.. As most of these wives get married when young and have little to their names - - so fair game to change... But imagine 25 years of work, known globally by that name... Name change ko game change ni . 3 Likes |
Re: Why Ladies Hardly Change Their Surnames After Marriage These Days by Acidosis(m): 11:44am On Feb 04, 2021 |
Used to like the idea but right now, I can't be bothered. Asides the stress you go through, a change of name would not change anything. People would still address you as Mrs (your husband's name) whether you do a newspaper publication or not (not like anyone is going to read it anyway). The fact is that a change of name would make zero impact outside few paper works. The main and critical documents such as your wife's certificates/documents from birth, even your marriage certificate, would reflect her dad's name. So what's the point? Bank? However, for aesthetic purposes (e.g. to share same name with the children), a family may decide to consider a change of name. 2 Likes |
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