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My Girlfriend Of 4 Months Just Broke Up With Me by Everrich96: 5:57pm On Feb 10
I'm insecure, lonely and depressed . I've had my hopes all raised . She was my best friend and only friend. I always thought for 2 and did for 2.
I did everything to make her stay, I was convinced she loved me to a fault. She would do anything for me.

But my insecurity was my biggest flaw. I didn't want to lose her Cuz I was scared and unknowingly pushing her away. In my previous thread, I stated that 'everyone I've loved ended up leaving eventually', and I almost never let anyone in, but In Her case, I did . I have always felt alone all my life till I met her.

All of a sudden she said she was busy with life , she was stressed and tired of my insecurity and she wanted to leave me in the relationship. This came after we had a slight misunderstanding and we didn't communicate for a week Cuz she wouldn't talk to me. It came as a shock. I'm broken and I'm still wondering where I went wrong. I need someone to talk to . I just wanna make money and work on myself. I'm about to round off school, in my final year... With all the pressure and depression I might misplace my priorities.


Someone help me. I need therapy. I want to move on but I dunno how to start.

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Re: My Girlfriend Of 4 Months Just Broke Up With Me by Jackyz(m): 6:04pm On Feb 10
rule 1- Fear woman

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Re: My Girlfriend Of 4 Months Just Broke Up With Me by ILovebigyansh(m): 6:05pm On Feb 10
4 months? Are you okay, better stand up and go live your life before i sound you.

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Re: My Girlfriend Of 4 Months Just Broke Up With Me by arsenal444(m): 6:06pm On Feb 10
Congratulations, you just remove wahala from you life like dis so....

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Re: My Girlfriend Of 4 Months Just Broke Up With Me by Shelumiel: 6:08pm On Feb 10
Brother what you are passing through is common in today's society. But you should not let that weigh you down ; rather you should see it as a stepping stone to move yourself.

A wise man once said "success is the best revenge ". So my dear brother, focus on graduating and become successful. Sooner or later someone who values you will come by, and the ones that left you(thinking you will be nothing) will be regretting.

Peace.

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Re: My Girlfriend Of 4 Months Just Broke Up With Me by Zendinho(m): 6:08pm On Feb 10
Carry out this three Rs of self first.

RE-EVALUATE,
RE-ASSES and
RE-EXAMINED your self.

Don't be in a hurry for another relationship..

Ask your self what exactly you want in a relationship....is it
Sex,
Companion, or
Benefits?
Then be plain with whoever you intend to start the new relationship and stay focused.....

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Re: My Girlfriend Of 4 Months Just Broke Up With Me by SmellingAnus(m): 6:15pm On Feb 10
It's part of development.... The only problem is when you don't learn from it... Let me help you with some words that will be useful to you in the future... Read the below diary

https://www.nairaland.com/4189254/words-wisdom-experience-surely-need

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Re: My Girlfriend Of 4 Months Just Broke Up With Me by yanabasee1(m): 6:35pm On Feb 10
You're insecure, that isnt the reason she left....


Anybody that have doubts about it's partner is totally working on instincts....


OP, you have a whole lot of good days ahead of you...You are barely done with your schooling....The labor market is waiting for you and all you're worried about is a woman that you can't sincerely tell if she loved you...

I had kept a relationship for 7years and I fought to keep it and tried to have things work for good but I had to let go as you don't have to keep people who don't want to be in your life, because they'll always leave when the have the chance.....

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Re: My Girlfriend Of 4 Months Just Broke Up With Me by baralatie(m): 6:37pm On Feb 10
Everrich96:
I'm insecure, lonely and depressed . I've had my hopes all raised . She was my best friend and only friend. I always thought for 2 and did for 2.
I did everything to make her stay, I was convinced she loved me to a fault. She would do anything for me.

But my insecurity was my biggest flaw. I didn't want to lose her Cuz I was scared and unknowingly pushing her away. In my previous thread, I stated that 'everyone I've loved ended up leaving eventually', and I almost never let anyone in, but In Her case, I did . I have always felt alone all my life till I met her.

All of a sudden she said she was busy with life , she was stressed and tired of my insecurity and she wanted to leave me in the relationship. This came after we had a slight misunderstanding and we didn't communicate for a week Cuz she wouldn't talk to me. It came as a shock. I'm broken and I'm still wondering where I went wrong. I need someone to talk to . I just wanna make money and work on myself. I'm about to round off school, in my final year... With all the pressure and depression I might misplace my priorities.


Someone help me. I need therapy. I want to move on but I dunno how to start.
what do you mean by insecurity

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Re: My Girlfriend Of 4 Months Just Broke Up With Me by baralatie(m): 6:40pm On Feb 10
what is exactly this misunderstanding

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Re: My Girlfriend Of 4 Months Just Broke Up With Me by RedChiefPriest: 6:40pm On Feb 10
I understand how you feel bro
Right now you feel scared and so so sad,it is like you have lost a part of your soul and you can't be happy again,you loose appetite and you will wish you can just see her.
I'm sorry man but she's gone forever
You have to know and tell yourself that and it's not your fault she's just making it look like it's your fault.
Just try to heal,it won't be easy and can take months but just try to get busy,learn new things,meet new people and always avoiding thinking about her.
Soon your heart and mind will stop playing tricks and will stop hurting you over her and before you know it, you will start feeling better.

Keep your heads up and forget those half brain morons abusing you, most of them don't know love or raised to love.

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Re: My Girlfriend Of 4 Months Just Broke Up With Me by baralatie(m): 6:41pm On Feb 10
Jackyz:
rule 1- Fear woman
since you are in school and still a student don't bug your head about it

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Re: My Girlfriend Of 4 Months Just Broke Up With Me by Knighty12: 7:45pm On Feb 10
Congratulations bro, you don't know what just left you!

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Re: My Girlfriend Of 4 Months Just Broke Up With Me by Nobody: 7:50pm On Feb 10
Everrich96:
I'm insecure, lonely and depressed . I've had my hopes all raised . She was my best friend and only friend. I always thought for 2 and did for 2.
I did everything to make her stay, I was convinced she loved me to a fault. She would do anything for me.

But my insecurity was my biggest flaw. I didn't want to lose her Cuz I was scared and unknowingly pushing her away. In my previous thread, I stated that 'everyone I've loved ended up leaving eventually', and I almost never let anyone in, but In Her case, I did . I have always felt alone all my life till I met her.

All of a sudden she said she was busy with life , she was stressed and tired of my insecurity and she wanted to leave me in the relationship. This came after we had a slight misunderstanding and we didn't communicate for a week Cuz she wouldn't talk to me. It came as a shock. I'm broken and I'm still wondering where I went wrong. I need someone to talk to . I just wanna make money and work on myself. I'm about to round off school, in my final year... With all the pressure and depression I might misplace my priorities.


Someone help me. I need therapy. I want to move on but I dunno how to start.


premium tears activated.

how old are you sef ?

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Re: My Girlfriend Of 4 Months Just Broke Up With Me by jirehUB: 8:03pm On Feb 10
You have mouth odor grin








E shock you abi?
Treat mouth odor and your next relationship go last.
Re: My Girlfriend Of 4 Months Just Broke Up With Me by Robertgreene1(m): 8:04pm On Feb 10
intresting...very intresting indeed..but I'm js waiting 4 mosdii 2 show up wit dt his GRAIL MESSAGE...mosdii nigga ti take over...

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Re: My Girlfriend Of 4 Months Just Broke Up With Me by Doortun(m): 8:09pm On Feb 10
@Everrich96
Your fear is real and that is the way men are being designed by the modern society. You are ideally supposed to be vetting your partner or atleast her reassuring you of her commitment.

Sadly, your babe left you long time ago, you just figured out.


Take the redpill bro, you will have your sanity with women.

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Re: My Girlfriend Of 4 Months Just Broke Up With Me by CandyOps(m): 8:18pm On Feb 10
No one likes an insecure man braa. I hope say you collect break-up knacks shaa

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Re: My Girlfriend Of 4 Months Just Broke Up With Me by Everrich96: 8:20pm On Feb 10
SmellingAnus:
It's part of development.... The only problem is when you don't learn from it... Let me help you with some words that will be useful to you in the future... Read the below diary

https://www.nairaland.com/4189254/words-wisdom-experience-surely-need


Thanks Boss, will go through them right about now .
Re: My Girlfriend Of 4 Months Just Broke Up With Me by Everrich96: 8:23pm On Feb 10
yanabasee1:
You're insecure, that isnt the reason she left....


Anybody that have doubts about it's partner is totally working on instincts....


OP, you have a whole lot of good days ahead of you...You are barely done with your schooling....The labor market is waiting for you and all you're worried about is a woman that you can't sincerely tell if she loved you...

I had kept a relationship for 7years and I fought to keep it and tried to have things work for good but I had to let go as you don't have to keep people who don't want to be in your life, because they'll always leave when the have the chance.....

You're right ...

Secondly, 7years is a whole lot , I wouldn't stand a chance... You must be very strong.

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Re: My Girlfriend Of 4 Months Just Broke Up With Me by helinues: 8:24pm On Feb 10
Someone is already in line for Valentine

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Re: My Girlfriend Of 4 Months Just Broke Up With Me by Everrich96: 8:26pm On Feb 10
RedChiefPriest:
I understand how you feel bro
Right now you feel scared and so so sad,it is like you have lost a part of your soul and you can't be happy again,you loose appetite and you will wish you can just see her.
I'm sorry man but she's gone forever
You have to know and tell yourself that and it's not your fault she's just making it look like it's your fault.
Just try to heal,it won't be easy and can take months but just try to get busy,learn new things,meet new people and always avoiding thinking about her.
Soon your heart and mind will stop playing tricks and will stop hurting you over her and before you know it, you will start feeling better.

Keep your heads up and forget those half brain morons abusing you, most of them don't know love or raised to love.


Thanks alot man. I truly appreciate . I believe I will be better soon.

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Re: My Girlfriend Of 4 Months Just Broke Up With Me by CapitanPan: 9:48pm On Feb 10
Everrich96:
I'm insecure, lonely and depressed . I've had my hopes all raised . She was my best friend and only friend. I always thought for 2 and did for 2.
I did everything to make her stay, I was convinced she loved me to a fault. She would do anything for me.

But my insecurity was my biggest flaw. I didn't want to lose her Cuz I was scared and unknowingly pushing her away. In my previous thread, I stated that 'everyone I've loved ended up leaving eventually', and I almost never let anyone in, but In Her case, I did . I have always felt alone all my life till I met her.

All of a sudden she said she was busy with life , she was stressed and tired of my insecurity and she wanted to leave me in the relationship. This came after we had a slight misunderstanding and we didn't communicate for a week Cuz she wouldn't talk to me. It came as a shock. I'm broken and I'm still wondering where I went wrong. I need someone to talk to . I just wanna make money and work on myself. I'm about to round off school, in my final year... With all the pressure and depression I might misplace my priorities.


Someone help me. I need therapy. I want to move on but I dunno how to start.

Focus on your schooling. Try to take your mind off the problem.

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Re: My Girlfriend Of 4 Months Just Broke Up With Me by Fero24(m): 10:06pm On Feb 10
Richard!!! Come on man... Man up

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Re: My Girlfriend Of 4 Months Just Broke Up With Me by Asekhamid: 10:18pm On Feb 10
The moment you are scared of loosing a girl,you have already lost her....
Girls are like cat,you just have to leave them to do what they want...they come and go as they please and if you try to force them towards you,they will bite.
Be a man and accept your loss..it might be hard but within 3 weeks you would be fine..your heart just needs to accept the fact that she has left you..
Nobody is permanent in life and the only person who will always be there for you(whether you are insecure or not) is YOU..
My tips to get you back on track:

-delete anything that reminds you of her like pics and contact
-start exercising or lifting weights
-do things you love doing(your hobbies)
-Hang out with friends
-engage in one or two sports like football
-talk to other girls (even flirt with most of them)
-DONT STALK HER

If you do this,you will be fine and back to your feet in less than two months..work on yourself for a better future relationship

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Re: My Girlfriend Of 4 Months Just Broke Up With Me by nexttag: 10:30pm On Feb 10
yanabasee1:
You're insecure, that isnt the reason she left....


Anybody that have doubts about it's partner is totally working on instincts....


OP, you have a whole lot of good days ahead of you...You are barely done with your schooling....The labor market is waiting for you and all you're worried about is a woman that you can't sincerely tell if she loved you...

I had kept a relationship for 7years and I fought to keep it and tried to have things work for good but I had to let go as you don't have to keep people who don't want to be in your life, because they'll always leave when the have the chance.....

How did it end I will like to hear more about this
Re: My Girlfriend Of 4 Months Just Broke Up With Me by extol1(m): 10:43pm On Feb 10
if the world could have my kind of man, women will die as a single.
back to op, I feel like giving a resounding slap, so you are depressed because of a man. shame on me

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Re: My Girlfriend Of 4 Months Just Broke Up With Me by Stephenmoka4(m): 10:53pm On Feb 10
Insecurity eh.
Re: My Girlfriend Of 4 Months Just Broke Up With Me by paulolee(m): 11:02pm On Feb 10
guy man up and move ahead..
Re: My Girlfriend Of 4 Months Just Broke Up With Me by Olakunleyakub(m): 11:10pm On Feb 10
You have low self worth.


You need some form of redpill lesson to be a strong man.

Never allow any relationship or even marriage control your sanity and peace of mind!

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Re: My Girlfriend Of 4 Months Just Broke Up With Me by blinking001(m): 11:36pm On Feb 10
Mosdii over to you

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Re: My Girlfriend Of 4 Months Just Broke Up With Me by Everrich96: 11:57pm On Feb 10
Asekhamid:
The moment you are scared of loosing a girl,you have already lost her....
Girls are like cat,you just have to leave them to do what they want...they come and go as they please and if you try to force them towards you,they will bite.
Be a man and accept your loss..it might be hard but within 3 weeks you would be fine..your heart just needs to accept the fact that she has left you..
Nobody is permanent in life and the only person who will always be there for you(whether you are insecure or not) is YOU..
My tips to get you back on track:

-delete anything that reminds you of her like pics and contact
-start exercising or lifting weights
-do things you love doing(your hobbies)
-Hang out with friends
-engage in one or two sports like football
-talk to other girls (even flirt with most of them)
-DONT STALK HER

If you do this,you will be fine and back to your feet in less than two months..work on yourself for a better future relationship


Thanks sir. I had tears in my eyes after reading the emboldened.. Its the truth and I will heed.

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