Greetings guys.
There's this lady I asked to be my girl friend some months back, she didn't accept nor declined but she kept telling me that she's not ready for any serious relationship, that we guys like toying with ladies heart.
On her 2nd visit to my house, we had s*x, which didn't end well because she left my house immediately out of annoyance. I was confused since I didn't force her in any way. we just kissed and one thing lead to another. she even bared my mobile line and declined any call suspected to be coming from me.
I involved a female friend of mine, they both talked and she later unbared my line. I called her & apologized for what happened & she accepted my apologies. On her next visit, I didn't try anything funny cuz I didn't want to give her de impression that all I want is her body. 'I just dey on my own jeje' as we gist, I noticed she was pulling her self closer to me & at some point, she tried kissing me, I declined and she persisted. I didn't want to make her look stupid, so I reciprocate & we ended up having S*x again. this time, she no vex again.
LONG STORY SHORT
I noticed that this girl likes s*x more than anything else. sometimes, I just want to enjoy her company without getting down with her but she's never okay with that alone. She would avoid me for few days anytime she visits and refused to get down with her. She has refused to reason with me.
Funny enough, she still reminds me that she hasn't said yes to me yet on her being my girlfriend. Guys, I could have just walked away but I really love the girl and I need a way out of this s*x s*x cuz de stuffs no de freak me frequently. I could go months without it. what I need most is her genuine care and concern and others not s*x s*x..
Pls I really need ur advice my people.
Thanks

MrCliff:
Greetings guys.
There's this lady I asked to be my girl friend some months back, she didn't accept nor declined but she kept telling me that she's not ready for any serious relationship, that we guys like toying with ladies heart.
On her 2nd visit to my house, we had s*x, which didn't end well because she left my house immediately out of annoyance. I was confused since I didn't force her in any way. we just kissed and one thing lead to another. she even bared my mobile line and declined any call suspected to be coming from me.
I involved a female friend of mine, they both talked and she later unbared my line. I called her & apologized for what happened & she accepted my apologies. On her next visit, I didn't try anything funny cuz I didn't want to give her de impression that all I want is her body. 'I just dey on my own jeje' as we gist, I noticed she was pulling her self closer to me & at some point, she tried kissing me, I declined and she persisted. I didn't want to make her look stupid, so I reciprocate & we ended up having S*x again. this time, she no vex again.
LONG STORY SHORT
I noticed that this girl likes s*x more than anything else. sometimes, I just want to enjoy her company without getting down with her but she's never okay with that alone. She would avoid me for few days anytime she visits and refused to get down with her. She has refused to reason with me.
Funny enough, she still reminds me that she hasn't said yes to me yet on her being my girlfriend. Guys, I could have just walked away but I really love the girl and I need a way out of this s*x s*x cuz de stuffs no de freak me frequently. I could go months without it. what I need most is her genuine care and concern and others not s*x s*x..
Pls I really need ur advice my people.
Thanks

both of you are silly..


by the way congrats.

you both need sex and sex you guys are getting.

Stop giving a fùck!

Abeokuta

Jeon:

both of you are silly..

by the way congrats.
you both need sex and sex you guys are getting.

I don't hate sex but it's never my priority in a relationship. thanks

slan87:
Abeokuta

how please

MrCliff:
Greetings guys.
There's this lady I asked to be my girl friend some months back, she didn't accept nor declined but she kept telling me that she's not ready for any serious relationship, that we guys like toying with ladies heart.
On her 2nd visit to my house, we had s*x, which didn't end well because she left my house immediately out of annoyance. I was confused since I didn't force her in any way. we just kissed and one thing lead to another. she even bared my mobile line and declined any call suspected to be coming from me.
I involved a female friend of mine, they both talked and she later unbared my line. I called her & apologized for what happened & she accepted my apologies. On her next visit, I didn't try anything funny cuz I didn't want to give her de impression that all I want is her body. 'I just dey on my own jeje' as we gist, I noticed she was pulling her self closer to me & at some point, she tried kissing me, I declined and she persisted. I didn't want to make her look stupid, so I reciprocate & we ended up having S*x again. this time, she no vex again.
LONG STORY SHORT
I noticed that this girl likes s*x more than anything else. sometimes, I just want to enjoy her company without getting down with her but she's never okay with that alone. She would avoid me for few days anytime she visits and refused to get down with her. She has refused to reason with me.
Funny enough, she still reminds me that she hasn't said yes to me yet on her being my girlfriend. Guys, I could have just walked away but I really love the girl and I need a way out of this s*x s*x cuz de stuffs no de freak me frequently. I could go months without it. what I need most is her genuine care and concern and others not s*x s*x..
Pls I really need ur advice my people.
Thanks

She's just a drama queen. Keep on getting her laid. When you are tired of her, just leave her like a shot.

Lies.

Dearest brother @MrCliff

You will be most hurt if all goes down south under this current arrangement, look the lady is healing from a loss hence her erratic emotions, how did her last relationship ended, pls find out.

She is afraid of commitment find out what is sponsoring that thought, what experience or mindset, find out, communicate better.

Secondly she may have issues controlling herself from sex with people she care about. You solve this by physically avoiding places that catalyse sex, mental and more importantly spiritually discipline.

Very good you want something defined and committed, let her know that that's what you want and if her priority is sex, then both of you need to part ways is as simple as that,let her know your stand point, be very defined about it.

Above all pray for her, you see some ladies pass through a lot, build capacity to be a covering for her.

Both of you should come for spiritual cleansing and bathing inside ogbognojumopo evil forest
There's something wrong with both of you.


I dey suspect she's from marine kingdom better protect your glory before she tap it for us.
The redchiefpriest has spoken!

Girls sef... Thats all they can offer.

Buy cucumber and give her when you don't have strength

Nigerian girls are useless.

Collegelove:
She's just a drama queen. Keep on getting her laid. When you are tired of her, just leave her like a shot.

bro, honestly, I'm not completely after what's under her shirt. I just don't know how to deactivate her sex drive

Wyry:
Nigerian girls are useless.

Guy

Yusufisraelj:
Dearest brother @MrCliff

You will be most hurt if all goes down south under this current arrangement, look the lady is healing from a loss hence her erratic emotions, how did her last relationship ended, pls find out.

She is afraid of commitment find out what is sponsoring that thought, what experience or mindset, find out, communicate better.

Secondly she may have issues controlling herself from sex with people she care about. You solve this by physically avoiding places that catalyse sex, mental and more importantly spiritually discipline.

Very good you want something defined and committed, let her know that that's what you want and if her priority is sex, then both of you need to part ways is as simple as that,let her know your stand point, be very defined about it.

Above all pray for her, you see some ladies pass through a lot, build capacity to be a covering for her.

Thanks a bunch bro. u really nailed it. I most appropriate man

RedChiefPriest:
Both of you should come for spiritual cleansing and bathing inside ogbognojumopo evil forest
There's something wrong with both of you.


I dey suspect she's from marine kingdom better protect your glory before she tap it for us.
The redchiefpriest has spoken!

Abeg oh. this one pass solution. lol.

Wyry:
Nigerian girls are useless.

hmm. this one hard oh

I hope you wouldn't be surprise that the girl is using you to satisfy herself sexually, just be ready to be dumped because she will tell we were never dating.
best thing to do is let her go, I have say my own

Yusufisraelj:
Dearest brother @MrCliff

You will be most hurt if all goes down south under this current arrangement, look the lady is healing from a loss hence her erratic emotions, how did her last relationship ended, pls find out.

She is afraid of commitment find out what is sponsoring that thought, what experience or mindset, find out, communicate better.

Secondly she may have issues controlling herself from sex with people she care about. You solve this by physically avoiding places that catalyse sex, mental and more importantly spiritually discipline.

Very good you want something defined and committed, let her know that that's what you want and if her priority is sex, then both of you need to part ways is as simple as that,let her know your stand point, be very defined about it.

Above all pray for her, you see some ladies pass through a lot, build capacity to be a covering for her.

Mr Yusuf,
do u know that this lady for once never asked me for a kobo before. I do decide to get her stuffs on my own and she's always appreciating. She's working but still, unlike many girls out there. It's just this S*x thing.
I will really work with ur advice my brother

MrCliff:

Thanks a bunch bro. u really nailed it. I most appropriate man

My pleasure Sir

extol1:
I hope you wouldn't be surprise that the girl is using you to satisfy herself sexually, just be ready to be dumped because she will tell we were never dating.
best thing to do is let her go, I have say my own

That's a valid point bro.
thanks

MrCliff:

Mr Yusuf,
do u know that this lady for once never asked me for a kobo before. I do decide to get her stuffs on my own and she's always appreciating. She's working but still, unlike many girls out there. It's just this S*x thing.
I will really work with ur advice my brother

Eya, that's a good woman.

I believe you will overcome whatever obstacle, I like your determination for a committed relationship. You are a guy deserving of a good lady. Cheers

Yusufisraelj:


Eya, that's a good woman.

I believe you will overcome whatever obstacle, I like your determination for a committed relationship. You are a guy deserving of a good lady. Cheers

U got my respect sir..
thanks and Cheers

Cutehector:
Girls sef... Thats all they can offer.

lager percentage of them abi..
it's well oh

you both are sex freaks.if truly u dot like sex why do u reciprocate whenever she initial it.

ikeno:
you both are sex freaks.if truly u dot like sex why do u reciprocate whenever she initial it.

Did u see this part 'She would avoid me for few days anytime she visits and refused to get down with her'.
Meaning that I don't reciprocate always.
thanks thgh

Take this my simple advice brother.
Nigerian Girls Are Useless...All Of Them

What do you mean by "you love her"? Explain that one first, let's take it from there.

Damn this is the kind of relationship I like .... no string attached we enjoy each other.... No promises and the likes ...... Bro forget like ,, she leaves ur place and goes to another .....

She's been f u c k i n g you without defining what kind of relationship you guys are into.lol don't feel like a play boy maybe she wants to hang pregnancy on you think am

towtow people are mischievous and cunning