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Re: Does My Brother's Wife Have The Right To Walk Me Out Of My Brother's House ? by naijadrivablog: 6:25am On Feb 17, 2021 |
Nigerians and entitlement mentality Op has NO right to barge into the brother's wife's kitchen to cook, let alone serve a guest. Since your brother is married, why don't you look for a job and pack out so as to allow them enjoy their marriage If you must serve your guest something, why not tale permission from your bros wife? Or even buy it from outside? Before you know it, your type will tell your family members how "evil" she has been and create bad blood. Na so many innocent women take be "bad wife". I hope say no be babe or guy you bring to that house to form valentine cooking I hate people with entitlement mentality. |
Re: Does My Brother's Wife Have The Right To Walk Me Out Of My Brother's House ? by nigeriansamurai(m): 6:28am On Feb 17, 2021 |
Mokason288: Your right but legally woman has more rights than her in-laws in her husband's house |
Re: Does My Brother's Wife Have The Right To Walk Me Out Of My Brother's House ? by Dchampion65: 6:29am On Feb 17, 2021 |
Bros I have this feelings that you are not telling the whole truth. Flash back and rewrite your statement. From when your brother and his wife were in courtship. Your attitude then. Have you been playing second husband that must be respected? There is no smoke without fire 2 Likes |
Re: Does My Brother's Wife Have The Right To Walk Me Out Of My Brother's House ? by omoalaafin: 6:30am On Feb 17, 2021 |
Yes, she does. It is her home. |
Re: Does My Brother's Wife Have The Right To Walk Me Out Of My Brother's House ? by Kenturkey048(m): 6:31am On Feb 17, 2021 |
veave: Things like this you see vargina people with ridiculous comments.. 1 Like |
Re: Does My Brother's Wife Have The Right To Walk Me Out Of My Brother's House ? by kokomilala(m): 6:31am On Feb 17, 2021 |
What kind of question is this? Your brother and his wife are one.You don't belong in that union,my friend. You're only a transit passenger. 2 Likes |
Re: Does My Brother's Wife Have The Right To Walk Me Out Of My Brother's House ? by capitalzero: 6:33am On Feb 17, 2021 |
khia: Can wife brother overstay his welcome? Can she send her younger brother out? She overreacted. |
Re: Does My Brother's Wife Have The Right To Walk Me Out Of My Brother's House ? by magzey: 6:43am On Feb 17, 2021 |
ShobayoEmma:You need new sense aswaya, what concern Buhari and your brothers wife? |
Re: Does My Brother's Wife Have The Right To Walk Me Out Of My Brother's House ? by mustybobo(m): 6:47am On Feb 17, 2021 |
She can even throw your brother, her hubby out. Ask the likes of Emmanuel Ebue, former Arsenal player |
Re: Does My Brother's Wife Have The Right To Walk Me Out Of My Brother's House ? by YelloweWest: 6:47am On Feb 17, 2021 |
It's your entitlement mentality and is your problem op. Take your belongings and leave. Hustle on your own |
Re: Does My Brother's Wife Have The Right To Walk Me Out Of My Brother's House ? by Fozi(m): 6:47am On Feb 17, 2021 |
I have been through a situation like this and I was poisoned am happy not to have died, my brother some women once they get married to their husbands their evil side will show, don’t leave the house without seeing your brother and tell him all that happened his reaction will determine you staying or leaving then, stop eating food from that evil woman because she can kill you. Many people don’t have this experience they just talk do as I have told you bro. How long have she known your brother to throw you out of that house? She’s mad 1 Like |
Re: Does My Brother's Wife Have The Right To Walk Me Out Of My Brother's House ? by Nobody: 6:48am On Feb 17, 2021 |
Mokason288: I still don't get who made all these rules you people go about quoting; If the sister has no right to enter the kitchen then she has no business being in that house in the 1st place. She had a visitor, would she had call on the wife to go and cook for them. One fact i stumbled upon is that where there is no love, all kinds of rules & boundaries exist. The only reasonable boundary should be the couple bedroom. If you don't love my blood then how do you begin to justify loving me, there are things i don't do for my babe buh when her lil sis visit us i go extra mile to make her stay comfortable and i expect babe to do same to my younger ones tew. 1 Like |
Re: Does My Brother's Wife Have The Right To Walk Me Out Of My Brother's House ? by Sunkyapogee(m): 6:49am On Feb 17, 2021 |
[quote author=Nwodosis post=99098131]Everything is your brother's own and both you worked for it? How? My friend allow your brother's wife to enjoy her marriage, which right do you have to go and open a married woman's pot to serve not even yourself but a friend? You owe her an apology. All these home breakers quoting me, that he cooked the food by himself. In whose kitchen and with whose authority? Most problems in marriage is from husband's parents and relations mostly if the man is the family ATM. Marrying a family breadwinner makes one an automatic Bad Wife hearts of the husband's bro, even your friends can visit and decide to prepare a meal for the family in the kitchen... it's a cooking place for anyone.. it's not owned by anybody,just that we are blacks. |
Re: Does My Brother's Wife Have The Right To Walk Me Out Of My Brother's House ? by West2019(m): 6:49am On Feb 17, 2021 |
You mean the kitchen is a general kitchen? You went in to dish a food for ur friend in what way . If she isn't not around is a defferen case but she is at home . Why not take permission from her , you have the right and go in the kitchen to dish food for yourself .not for your so call friends. Get your fuckin bags of clothes out of the house is totally not acceptable |
Re: Does My Brother's Wife Have The Right To Walk Me Out Of My Brother's House ? by Fozi(m): 6:54am On Feb 17, 2021 |
iamGholdaniel:Try and read the message I dropped for you bro many people have not seen shit in their life on naira land they just talk. How long has she known your brother that she will disrespect him and you because she married him ? You are superior to her in that house and the respect she gives him is supposed to be awarded to you she’s mad 1 Like |
Re: Does My Brother's Wife Have The Right To Walk Me Out Of My Brother's House ? by Nobody: 6:57am On Feb 17, 2021 |
mariahAngel: Naa dem dem ! team all husband family should go n die. before marriage they will be all over there inlaw the moment they get ring na to carry ruler they draw line all over the place. i blame men that can't handle there home nonsense. |
Re: Does My Brother's Wife Have The Right To Walk Me Out Of My Brother's House ? by Sunkyapogee(m): 6:57am On Feb 17, 2021 |
just that we are Africans.nobdoy own a kitchen.you live with them for years and don't have to take a permission to prepare meal for your friend,since you didn't touch her meal and prepared yours. she is totally wrong.. Nigerian wives with, it's my kitchen..make una find career than to stay house dey mount guard for kitchen. |
Re: Does My Brother's Wife Have The Right To Walk Me Out Of My Brother's House ? by BRATISLAVA: 7:00am On Feb 17, 2021 |
Richy4: Thank you for your last two paragraphs. Women tend to be hostile to their in-laws in Nigeria, like it's some kind of manual they give them. Suddenly he's their husband, theirs alone, they own him, he's theirs, and nobody should interfere; but once there's a problem they go seeking his family. This could be why the in-laws are never sympathetic to her. In staking her territory on the man, she must have done a lot of stupid things that make them hate her. In this case it's a bit difficult, because the person being thrown out contributed to the brothers life, perhaps even the kitchen utensils. We can't rule out if the person was arrogant and annoying himself, but I don't understand all these wives being hostile. Will she react the same way if it were her sibling? The brothers should sort out themselves and the wife should be given her limits. One doesn't have to become stupid and inconsiderate just because they are married women and an inlaw is living with them. I think it's best married people stay on their own, and they don't bring any issues to their families for mediation, since they want to be islands of their own. That way they are for themselves and nobody will interfere. Just them and their children alone. |
Re: Does My Brother's Wife Have The Right To Walk Me Out Of My Brother's House ? by Initial1: 7:02am On Feb 17, 2021 |
Make peace with her |
Re: Does My Brother's Wife Have The Right To Walk Me Out Of My Brother's House ? by shegzydave(m): 7:04am On Feb 17, 2021 |
This are some of the reason why I dont visit my sister after she got married abd also my brother too, my brother's wife do think I dislike her because she said I have never visit them after marriage, then my sister husband too always want me around but me dont fancy all those stuff, although when she gave birth I visited her and spend two weeks, but as for my brother wife she get jealous that I visited my sis but have not visited them..... No time to check time 1 Like |
Re: Does My Brother's Wife Have The Right To Walk Me Out Of My Brother's House ? by BRATISLAVA: 7:05am On Feb 17, 2021 |
24kmagic: Ah, hope you're not the OP? |
Re: Does My Brother's Wife Have The Right To Walk Me Out Of My Brother's House ? by TemmyT002(m): 7:06am On Feb 17, 2021 |
She and her husband are one. It is her home now, not yours. You are just a special guest now. Go and marry and have your own home. She runs the place. |
Re: Does My Brother's Wife Have The Right To Walk Me Out Of My Brother's House ? by Nobody: 7:07am On Feb 17, 2021 |
veave: It has nothing to do with economy cos wives in rich homes do it. such intolerant act is borne out of hatred or dislike. If those two had good rapor/relationship before now, who cooks in the kitchen won't be an issue. 1 Like |
Re: Does My Brother's Wife Have The Right To Walk Me Out Of My Brother's House ? by BRATISLAVA: 7:10am On Feb 17, 2021 |
Lexusgs430: What some females are still doing in their father or siblings homes. You people act like life is Rosy for everyone and as if marriage means cutting off entirely from your families. This is why widows suffer, because they were always staking claims on their husbands and acting like their in-laws are useless people to be living with them. What is he still doing there? Waiting for his own life to happen. 1 Like |
Re: Does My Brother's Wife Have The Right To Walk Me Out Of My Brother's House ? by folake4u(f): 7:15am On Feb 17, 2021 |
pocohantas: Poco! I've missed your comments for a while. Where have you been, sis? . Another holidaying again? . |
Re: Does My Brother's Wife Have The Right To Walk Me Out Of My Brother's House ? by IAMPEDRO: 7:17am On Feb 17, 2021 |
Nwodosis:I love people who speaks the truth even if they're not truthful to themselves lol............. would have requested for your cellphone number but I don't know how you may take it. I LOVE THE TRUTH IN YOUR WRITE-UP. 1 Like |
Re: Does My Brother's Wife Have The Right To Walk Me Out Of My Brother's House ? by cricifixo: 7:19am On Feb 17, 2021 |
Tell that to your father ume1000: |
Re: Does My Brother's Wife Have The Right To Walk Me Out Of My Brother's House ? by Ahmedalee(m): 7:19am On Feb 17, 2021 |
It depends on what you do.........!!!!!! |
Re: Does My Brother's Wife Have The Right To Walk Me Out Of My Brother's House ? by payloader(m): 7:20am On Feb 17, 2021 |
God and Adam were having a good time in a garden they built and tended together, until Eve came; boom, everything scatter. Women have the propensity to destroy any relationship. Much more women are in hell than men. They can do and undo. |
Re: Does My Brother's Wife Have The Right To Walk Me Out Of My Brother's House ? by Nobody: 7:21am On Feb 17, 2021 |
Katier00: whatever makes it right for her to stay in the house, automatically gives her the right to the kitchen .... she is a woman she can't depend on the wife to cook for her whenever she is hungry. Its obvious the wife & sis inlaw don't have good relationship ... i don't know why some of you are so decisive he will chose the wife, only a foolish man would all women barricade him in such angle. |
Re: Does My Brother's Wife Have The Right To Walk Me Out Of My Brother's House ? by donsheddy1(m): 7:24am On Feb 17, 2021 |
Mokason288:Nope. It's her home now. The husband will be an a$$ when he can't reason with his wife on this issue. |
Re: Does My Brother's Wife Have The Right To Walk Me Out Of My Brother's House ? by payloader(m): 7:26am On Feb 17, 2021 |
cricifixo:He doesn't understand that his brother's wife is the madam of the house. |
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