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Re: Does My Brother's Wife Have The Right To Walk Me Out Of My Brother's House ? by pocohantas(f): 9:27am On Feb 17, 2021
SegFault:

I wish I had an aunty like this, na laugh I go de laugh everyday. Seriously, who would dare to leave in their brothers house.

You can very well live in your brother’s house and even access the kitchen, I really do not have issues with that- even though I would rather third parties stay away (and yes, it includes mine!). OP should drop his superiority complex for a start, else she is just starting with him. cheesy

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Re: Does My Brother's Wife Have The Right To Walk Me Out Of My Brother's House ? by phlame(m): 9:29am On Feb 17, 2021
Hotbutt:
When I get married to my husband, I will never drive my husband family out of the house becos the house is not my house. It is my husbands house.

The Woman should Be Humble And Prayerful and watch God lift her up


Wait till U get married before U assume.

When U go for marriage class, U would have a better understanding.

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Re: Does My Brother's Wife Have The Right To Walk Me Out Of My Brother's House ? by Nobody: 9:30am On Feb 17, 2021
pocohantas:


You can very well live in your brother’s house and even access the kitchen, I really do not have issues with that- even though I would rather third parties stay away (and yes, it includes mine!). OP should drop his superiority complex for a start, else she is just starting with him. cheesy
Na Nigerian men now, they believe Nigerian women are useless when they are just as useless as them.
Re: Does My Brother's Wife Have The Right To Walk Me Out Of My Brother's House ? by Maobichek: 9:35am On Feb 17, 2021
Nwodosis:
Everything is your brother's own and both you worked for it? How?
My friend allow your brother's wife to enjoy her marriage, which right do you have to go and open a married woman's pot to serve not even yourself but a friend? You owe her an apology.

All these home breakers quoting me, that he cooked the food by himself. In whose kitchen and with whose authority? Most problems in marriage is from husband's parents and relations mostly if the man is the family ATM. Marrying a family breadwinner makes one an automatic Bad Wife in the hearts of the husband's family.

It depends on the family OK, but I have come to realize that most wives that are happy in their homes are those who have good relationship with their in-laws.

in my family, we are not super rich but we are comfortable, my mum virtually taught all of us how to cook and everyone can go to the pot but don't take more than one meat except she permitted you. All my brothers, in their houses, I can go to their kitchen and when they come to my house, they are free to go to my kitchen (cos that was how we were trained and our wives understand very well)

This issue of women saying that kitchen is their own, no one (wife) tries that in our family. That is why I said: it depends on the family. The only place we don't enter is bedroom but not kitchen, pot, fridge, etc Everyone in my house can cook so we help our women (wives).
I say this again, most wives that are happy are those who relates well with their in-laws, pray and strive that everyone is comfortable and kitchen or food won't be an issue, thank you.

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Re: Does My Brother's Wife Have The Right To Walk Me Out Of My Brother's House ? by favinvest: 9:35am On Feb 17, 2021
how old are u first?

if u re less than 25yrs based in Nigeria.. it's wrong for the wife to do that...

but if u re above 25yrs, she very very right to do that.. because it's very wrong to still b chopping ur brother`s food above 25yrs..

and also it's wrong for any man to b chopping his parent's food above 30yrs oo..

Ladies, can b pardon and understood..but not a man..

try and take responsibility for ur life... ur mates in the western world at 18yrs have already started

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Re: Does My Brother's Wife Have The Right To Walk Me Out Of My Brother's House ? by Mom007(f): 9:39am On Feb 17, 2021
Entertaining a friend, cooking and serving him in your brother's house, in the presence of his wife...? And you think you have sense? You disrespected yourself, your brother, and your brothers wife. If your friend is hungry, escort him to a restaurant to buy food to eat. See how you just loose guard then you come here to post rubbish. Better go and apologize to that woman and try to do better. She even respected you sef, I would have walked that your hungry visitor out of my house before reporting you to your brother.

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Re: Does My Brother's Wife Have The Right To Walk Me Out Of My Brother's House ? by od501: 9:39am On Feb 17, 2021
Nwodosis:
Everything is your brother's own and both you worked for it? How?
My friend allow your brother's wife to enjoy her marriage, which right do you have to go and open a married woman's pot to serve not even yourself but a friend? You owe her an apology.

All these home breakers quoting me, that he cooked the food by himself. In whose kitchen and with whose authority? Most problems in marriage is from husband's parents and relations mostly if the man is the family ATM. Marrying a family breadwinner makes one an automatic Bad Wife in the hearts of the husband's family.

Which kin mumu reasoning be this?

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Re: Does My Brother's Wife Have The Right To Walk Me Out Of My Brother's House ? by Myself2(m): 9:42am On Feb 17, 2021
Nwodosis:
Everything is your brother's own and both you worked for it? How?
My friend allow your brother's wife to enjoy her marriage, which right do you have to go and open a married woman's pot to serve not even yourself but a friend? You owe her an apology.
.

I agree with you, whether the guy cooked the food himself or not. Whose foodstuff/condiments did he use, whose utensils and kitchen did he use a d with whose permission.
From the OP's language, it's obvious he's been taking the sister in law for granted.
Watch how he said when the guest left his brother's wife started "ranting'. Can you imagine? I woman waits courteously for your guest to leave before confronting you about your invasion of her kitchen and you say she was ranting', there are so many women who will confronting you even with your friend around.
Bia nwokem go rent your own house, then marry your own wife, that way you can go in and out of her kitchen and pot of soup without qualms
Re: Does My Brother's Wife Have The Right To Walk Me Out Of My Brother's House ? by chris51(f): 9:42am On Feb 17, 2021
Going to cook for your visitor without discussing with your brother's wife, is wrong. It's her home and her kitchen.

What you could have done could have been to buy drinks for your visitor. She respected you by not embarrassing you in the presence of your visitor.

If you want to entertain visitors, go and rent a place and move out.

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Re: Does My Brother's Wife Have The Right To Walk Me Out Of My Brother's House ? by chris51(f): 9:42am On Feb 17, 2021
chris51:
Going to cook for your visitor without discussing with your brother's wife, is wrong. It's her home and her kitchen.

What you could have done could have been to buy drinks for your visitor. She respected you by not embarrassing you in the presence of your visitor.

If you want to entertain visitors, go and rent a place and move out.
Re: Does My Brother's Wife Have The Right To Walk Me Out Of My Brother's House ? by HRMK: 9:43am On Feb 17, 2021
YES,SHE HAS EVERY RIGHT BCS ITS HER HOME!UR BRO WULD ONLY OVERRULE HER AT HIS OWN RISK!!
Re: Does My Brother's Wife Have The Right To Walk Me Out Of My Brother's House ? by chris51(f): 9:43am On Feb 17, 2021
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Re: Does My Brother's Wife Have The Right To Walk Me Out Of My Brother's House ? by Maobichek: 9:44am On Feb 17, 2021
freetheking:
I'm so sorry that she throw your belongings out of the house of which I know it's not good. Secondly,you did not behave well by going to her pot without her concent. Let me tell you this and every other person reading thread, there are two things that women don't tolerate.

(1) Going to her pot without her concent.

(2) Interfering in the matter that concerns her and her husband.
You will be a good brother in-law or sister in-law.

Don't generalize OK, some wives are happy when their husbands can cook and dish out the food. Kitchen is not a wife's birthday right in my own understanding, pls don't relegate women to kitchen, let responsibility be flexible even in the kitchen, thank you.
Re: Does My Brother's Wife Have The Right To Walk Me Out Of My Brother's House ? by kennyz247(m): 9:52am On Feb 17, 2021
chris51:
Going to cook for your visitor without discussing with your brother's wife, is wrong. It's her home and her kitchen.

What you could have done could have been to buy drinks for your visitor. She respected you by not embarrassing you in the presence of your visitor.

If you want to entertain visitors, go and rent a place and move out.
ur thinking really need updating
Re: Does My Brother's Wife Have The Right To Walk Me Out Of My Brother's House ? by kennyz247(m): 9:57am On Feb 17, 2021
this can never happen with a well cultured Yoruba home.....d very day my wife will try such with my blood broda without my permission,den she too must b ready to leave my house before I come back home... what's wrong with my brother going to kitchen,if he feels like cooking for hmself,....

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Re: Does My Brother's Wife Have The Right To Walk Me Out Of My Brother's House ? by wayodude(m): 10:00am On Feb 17, 2021
short answer is yes. sorry my guy.
Re: Does My Brother's Wife Have The Right To Walk Me Out Of My Brother's House ? by Nobody: 10:00am On Feb 17, 2021
Lexusgs430:



Rain go fall for everyone head....... Just step out from under roof.........


Poco or others got nothing on me....... tongue



keep furmin, no worry poco will be back someday from where we sent her undecided to cumma post reciepts. e go do you like churchhill
Re: Does My Brother's Wife Have The Right To Walk Me Out Of My Brother's House ? by Lexusgs430: 10:02am On Feb 17, 2021
MLTR:




keep furmin, no worry poco will be back someday from where we sent her undecided to cumma post reciepts. e go do you like churchhill


I am a free giver........ tongue


If Samson could fall for delalia, siena could fall for missmercedes........ Who ayam not to fall for poco........... grin
Re: Does My Brother's Wife Have The Right To Walk Me Out Of My Brother's House ? by NikAustine: 10:03am On Feb 17, 2021
thymm50:


There is nothing wicked in what you have said. It is just the fruit of the seed that she sowed
I guess so but others might see it so
Re: Does My Brother's Wife Have The Right To Walk Me Out Of My Brother's House ? by khia: 10:06am On Feb 17, 2021
capitalzero:


Can wife brother overstay his welcome? Can she send her younger brother out?
She overreacted.

Yes to all questions asked.
Re: Does My Brother's Wife Have The Right To Walk Me Out Of My Brother's House ? by LawyerEmilord(m): 10:12am On Feb 17, 2021
Teleprompter:
Are you make or female ?

If you are female, it is so wrong of you to serve a make friend without permission and if you are a male, it is still wrong but not as wrong as the previous.

A cultured woman who respects her husband would not react the way she did packing your belongings and locking the door. She has no regard for her husband even if she is paying the rent, she does not need to act that way.

For you as a person, learn to respect boundaries. Even if your brother owes all his wealth to you, you must not be flaunting that to third parties.

Let's hear how your brother reacted when he found out about this.
This is it. Well painted. I think there are many wise and smart people on Nairaland than any other social media.

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Re: Does My Brother's Wife Have The Right To Walk Me Out Of My Brother's House ? by Nobody: 10:13am On Feb 17, 2021
I'm only here to read what the females have to day
Re: Does My Brother's Wife Have The Right To Walk Me Out Of My Brother's House ? by bukhety(f): 10:18am On Feb 17, 2021
pocohantas:


One extremely useless alfa male crossed my path as usual, as I reply am- small reply o, ban. Though the ban expired days ago, na just the OP matter annoy me to comment. As for the alfa male, trap wey I set for am be like the one wey OP SIL set for kitchen grin. I missed you too nne, I always with you. kiss kiss




I wonder why they are conveniently ignoring that part. Would we be having this argument if Op was a female and had same issue with the sister’s husband, let alone talking back at him?

By the way, na him o. We ladies no dey mumu like this abeg. grin grin




OP’s mates are also working hard to be the next Zuckerberg, if they are not already Zuckerbergs. He is there exchanging words with his brother’s wife. Nonsense EBSU boy.
I followed you on nairaland for a reason. May your wisdom never fade!

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Re: Does My Brother's Wife Have The Right To Walk Me Out Of My Brother's House ? by Lovelyperson(m): 10:31am On Feb 17, 2021
iamGholdaniel:
I am angry right now,
My brother’s wife is so full of pain, whenever she sight me.
I don’t know where this hatred is coming from, today she did worst than before.
a male friend visited, and I went to the kitchen to cook and serve him.

After my friend left she started ranting, and I shouted back at her.

She packed out my belongings , and she started throwing my bags and other stuffs outside.
She locked the house entrance and left with the keys

I decided to stay calm and wait for my brother to come back.

Because everything my brother own, we both struggled for it.
Woman is the owner of her home
If she said u can't stay then leave in peace.
Re: Does My Brother's Wife Have The Right To Walk Me Out Of My Brother's House ? by kolade560: 10:32am On Feb 17, 2021
How do people feel comfortable living with their married siblings? I can't do this!!!? its wrong.......Let them enjoy their marriage, go and rent an apartment and ur friend can even come and occupy ur house for years......don't be a home breaker...
Re: Does My Brother's Wife Have The Right To Walk Me Out Of My Brother's House ? by 24kmagic: 10:48am On Feb 17, 2021
Shokoloko:


Lol, this is hilarious.
I can imagine you fighting with the woman in the kitchen: who will pluck the chicken today? who will turn garri today? Who will fry the yam in the morning.
I can even imagine you blocking the door of the Kitchen with one leg and one shoulder.
you have really brightened my day. Keep it up.

Lol
Nah
I just want to have free access to the kitchen in the house.
I don't joke with my stomach.
I cannot be starving when there's foodstuffs and ingredients in the kitchen.
Re: Does My Brother's Wife Have The Right To Walk Me Out Of My Brother's House ? by seanwilliam(m): 10:56am On Feb 17, 2021
This might be fake story ..



But however if it was real, dem no born any of my brothers’ wives well make she follow me do that rubbish when she is not mad. If she does and my brother was also in support of her , I will block them both and I WILL NEVER forgive them till the day I leave this world ..

If my wife does that to my brother ( even if my brother is wrong ), I will send her packing till she comes back to her sense and I go scold my brother too but not in the presence of my wife..


Las las na see finish Dey cause all these things.. me wey be say all my brothers wives Dey kneel down greet me anytime I go there.. most of them even love it if I sleep over ( it might be fake love though ).


Op if you and your brother joined hands buy the property then u need to demand your share with force before u leave..


I’m a gentleman but never a fool

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Re: Does My Brother's Wife Have The Right To Walk Me Out Of My Brother's House ? by Xandelle: 11:09am On Feb 17, 2021
crackhaus:
Only people who are possessed with the spirit of witchcraft and afflicted with poverty mentality, will see anything wrong when a woman's BIL goes into the kitchen to cook something for his guest/friend. I said what I said...


In this decade when women are taking charge of industries and big businesses, some are still forming alpha & omega of kitchen matters.

My brother, they still want to remain in the kitchen. Let us help them naa... what's your own naa

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Re: Does My Brother's Wife Have The Right To Walk Me Out Of My Brother's House ? by Dagz007(m): 11:15am On Feb 17, 2021
Sorry Bro, Your Brother's wife has all the right to send any of your family members that failed to understand privacy and culture out of her �. That house is hers and if she allows you to stay there then you should understand what is called boundary , you don't go to a woman's kitchen to serve your friend without her consent, you goofed their, my brother.

If your brother must enjoy his home pls I'll advice you to just stay away since you already know that the woman of the house doesn't like you.

Command some respect by staying away and go become equally responsible.

May God bless your hustle.
Re: Does My Brother's Wife Have The Right To Walk Me Out Of My Brother's House ? by Funkybabee(f): 11:20am On Feb 17, 2021
the future of some uncultured generations will be determined based on the comments above

some people don't remember the trying times

the time you will need the said sister, there is nothing much peace can cost to reign in a family..


just be remembering that one day she will surely go to her husband house to learn and face the law of karma, because what goes around comes around, what we did today is what shall be spoken tomorrow


such q guts and authority to send her packing out, oga oooo
Re: Does My Brother's Wife Have The Right To Walk Me Out Of My Brother's House ? by userlucky: 11:40am On Feb 17, 2021
seanwilliam:
This might be fake story ..



But however if it was real, dem no born any of my brothers’ wives well make she follow me do that rubbish when she is not mad. If she does and my brother was also in support of her , I will block them both and I WILL NEVER forgive them till the day I leave this world ..

I[b]f my wife does that to my brother ( even if my brother is wrong ), I will send her packing till she comes back to her sense[/b] and I go scold my brother too but not in the presence of my wife..


Las las na see finish Dey cause all these things.. me wey be say all my brothers wives Dey kneel down greet me anytime I go there.. most of them even love it if I sleep over ( it might be fake love though ).


Op if you and your brother joined hands buy the property then u need to demand your share with force before u leave..


I’m a gentleman but never a fool

Small boy thinking,u will still grow.

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Re: Does My Brother's Wife Have The Right To Walk Me Out Of My Brother's House ? by Nobody: 11:46am On Feb 17, 2021
Lexusgs430:



I am a free giver........ tongue


If Samson could fall for delalia, siena could fall for missmercedes........ Who ayam not to fall for poco........... grin


Do us a favour and save the confession till poco finish are sentence, exclusively coverage to ashewo thread.

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