Good morning Nairalanders.
Am still not clear about the lady am dating if am the only one she is Dating.
Couple of days I forwarded some text about my relationship here(distance relationship) I only got some few advice please this time around you guys should help me out.
I recently had the opportunity to back up my Lady's contact to my phone without her consent which makes me to see some contact she saved with romantic names and I even go through the contact on whatsap to check the profile pictures and I found out its guys(Males). I saved a picture and send to her asking who could this guy be to her and she claimed she didn't know him, she even asked if I know him, do I ? and I said no. She skipped the matter unknown to her I got the contact through the back-up process. This is a lady I complained of not using my pictures on social media ever since we met(8months ago) but she can use other guy's pictures to celebrate them occasionally.
Please Nairalanders help a brother because this is a lady I Love and wish to get married to her after she complete her studies...

Should I contact those guys about the lady whom she is to them ?

Please people of experience help me with your genuine words of advice cos I don't want to fall into had I know.

Thank you and God Bless you All

i think you are just dating yourself in this relationship

How many times you want advise. You opened thread last time we gave you yet you bring the same issue come here again. This early mormor. Since you're dead take a ride to mfm prayer city. By the time them tear fire enter you maybe that mumuism go roast comot. I hate ozors

MejiLoyon:
How many times you want advise. You opened thread last time we gave you yet you bring the same issue come here again. This early mormor. Since you're dead take a ride to mfm prayer city. By the time them tear fire enter you maybe that mumuism go roast comot. I hate ozors

I was actually thinking of such, I just need an additional strength to move on

If you have gone through the piece you should have understand that something comes up (a signal) cos I said I was opportune recently to back up her phone contact with her consent and I found some romantic names saved

Damn!! Insecurity at its best

Don't be a weakling and move on. You are one of her options.

MARSHALDEMSA202:
Good morning Nairalanders.
Am still not clear about the lady am dating if am the only one she is Dating.
Couple of days I forwarded some text about my relationship here(distance relationship) I only got some few advice please this time around you guys should help me out.
I recently had the opportunity to back up my Lady's contact to my phone without her consent which makes me to see some contact she saved with romantic names and I even go through the contact on whatsap to check the profile pictures and I found out its guys(Males). I saved a picture and send to her asking who could this guy be to her and she claimed she didn't know him, she even asked if I know him, do I ? and I said no. She skipped the matter unknown to her I got the contact through the back-up process. This is a lady I complained of not using my pictures on social media ever since we met(8months ago) but she can use other guy's pictures to celebrate them occasionally.
Please Nairalanders help a brother because this is a lady I Love and wish to get married to her after she complete her studies...

Should I contact those guys about the lady whom she is to them ?

Please people of experience help me with your genuine words of advice cos I don't want to fall into had I know.

Thank you and God Bless you All

She can conveniently put other guys pics on social media, but can't put yours?

Dude it's evidently clear she's using you to her own advantage and you'll be discarded when your purpose is fulfilled.



Rise up and Wise up man!

No go kill yasef because of woman matter oooo. I don talk am before and I go still talk am again, if no be u disvirgin ur wife on the wedding night, bros keep money for DNA. Only 1% of men/women are faithful in relationship/marriage, so na normal thing nowadays. As for those WhatsApp update, if she truly no want u to see dem, she for block u from viewing them. So my guy, chill and relax cus woman matter no be wetin dem dey carry for head in this APC era.

It seems you're truly in love with this lady.

My advice: if you have doubts about the one you love, it's a 50-50 case. Your fears might be real or false.
Since you are not yet married and you are already having doubts about her fidelity, why not try someone else and let her be? There are countless eligible ladies out there, seek the one that it right for you.

Thanks sir, I appreciate

Thanks sir

YOU BETTER MOVE ON.

birdie:
It seems you're truly in love with this lady.

My advice: if you have doubts about the one you love, it's a 50-50 case. Your fears might be real or false.
Since you are not yet married and you are already having doubts about her fidelity, why not try someone else and let her be? There are countless eligible ladies out there, seek the one that it right for you.

You're right sir. God bless you

fati2001:
YOU BETTER MOVE ON.

OK sir. Thanks for your response

Offpoint1:

She can conveniently put other guys pics on social media, but can't put yours?

Dude it's evidently clear she's using you to her own advantage and you'll be discarded when your purpose is fulfilled.



Rise up and Wise up man!

Alright. Thanks sir

Jack005:
Don't be a weakling and move on. You are one of her options.

OK sir. Thanks a lot for your response

Pretend to be broke for a month or two, cut spendings to her, but still be frequent with her on calls then if she is double dating you will see her reactions, she may tell you to give her space for a while or may not be picking up your calls as often as before

""Should "" I contact those guys about the lady whom she is to them ?......""

Kikikikikikikiki . Yes, you just need to laugh when a pikin ask this type of question

We go get serious problem if you confront those innocent guys.


I don't wanna read something like this on FP;
A Nairalander's Nose Broken After Confronting His Assumed GF's Assumed BFs

I won't lie.
She currently friend zone u making u to think dat u guys are dating.
My advice: keep her off for some time, show her u can do better without her, ignore her calls and chat. post other ladies pics..
Bring the jealousy out of her and u are good to go..

Dude! How old are you? 12? Just move on na.

Bro move on you've been friendzone, that is why i will keep repeating nigerian girls are a useless and worthless piece of shiit.

MejiLoyon:
How many times you want advise. You opened thread last time we gave you yet you bring the same issue come here again. This early mormor. Since you're dead take a ride to mfm prayer city. By the time them tear fire enter you maybe that mumuism go roast comot. I hate ozors

lol truly you get bad mouth


but am still waiting on your promise though

perkyB:
lol truly you get bad mouth


but am still waiting on your promise though

All is in order . I've modified na.

You have a Nigerian girl as girlfriend and you think and hope you are the only one dating her. Are you not a fool?

I will comment later let me eat first

ajast:
Pretend to be broke for a month or two, cut spendings to her, but still be frequent with her on calls then if she is double dating you will see her reactions, she may tell you to give her space for a while or may not be picking up your calls as often as before

OK. Thanks sir

Nonexistent:
You have a Nigerian girl as girlfriend and you think and hope you are the only one dating her. Are you not a fool?

Am actually confused

Naijahops:
Bro move on you've been friendzone, that is why i will keep repeating nigerian girls are a useless and worthless piece of shiit.

Thank you sir

JOACHINpedro:
We go get serious problem if you confront those innocent guys.


I don't wanna read something like this on FP;
A Nairalander's Nose Broken After Confronting His Assumed GF's Assumed BFs

Ok, Thanks sir