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Re: Have You Ever Experienced Love And First Sight? Share Your Story by Naughtysex: 12:38pm On Mar 04
James4358:
one thing let to another & we had a mind blowing sex.

"one thing lead to another" kee you there
una fvck,simple
Baby dey here?
Re: Have You Ever Experienced Love And First Sight? Share Your Story by Dpaulie(m): 12:43pm On Mar 04
whodeyhere:


story of my life, some of these ladies naturally get attracted to kind people but how can I be unkind? It is really a war within me.
The truth is, it’s something u can’t change... it’s one’s weakness
Re: Have You Ever Experienced Love And First Sight? Share Your Story by EmyGod(m): 12:44pm On Mar 04
One thing is committing sin but the worst is what follows every sin we commit at back. Many future has lost it fabrics because of fornication, my brothers and sisters there is no gain in sin, the sin you commit freely today will come tomorrow to truncate the peace of your mind in future. So many men who has sexual affairs with women are not ready to settle down with them why don't you hustle, make money and get one beautiful girl for yourself than risking your future home with STDs. A born again has nothing to do with forncation so be one.

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Re: Have You Ever Experienced Love And First Sight? Share Your Story by lastchild: 12:47pm On Mar 04
Heartdanny:
I was on a bus to Enugu to meet a guy my cousin have arranged for me to marry, so on the bus a guy tall, handsome and well built was seating next to me. I saw how he made sure he sate next to me. Along the line we started talk onlike me that don't talk much I saw my self telling him everything about me where I was going and all that. We exchange numbers but he said he will call me the next day to know how it went since I will be spending a night there. But I ending up coming back that same day cos the marriage will not work base on he has married before with kids.
But form the day I saw this guy on the bus all I could think of was him. He called as promised and we started what I will call a wonderful relationship. We can't do without each other we became best friend, I feel so free and secured when am round him.
Well he got a job and relocated to another state which is very far from our state we could only see when he is around cos my mum wouldn't all me out of the house. We only talk on phone. Dou it was good cos he made sure he told me where and what he is doing all the time.
But distance took away my best friend cos one night he called crying on the phone when I asked what the problem he said someone is pregnant for him. To cut the story he ended up marring her.
Am married to one of the best man in the world and we are living happily and I have never set my eyes on my love at first sight friend. after my marriage I followed my husband to where he resides and ended every communication with him even Dou I have his number on my phone.
One day his number called me I didn't pick at first I went to my phone call log to see if I mistakenly called him but no. He called again and I pick up he said is me, I asked how he got my number he said he went to my house my mum gave him the number.
He still goes to my house to see my mum and buy things for her when ever he is around. He said he feels at home when ever he is there. I never introduced him to my mum but he told her he is my friend.
do you agree with me that if this guy push further, you'll fall for him even though you are married

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Re: Have You Ever Experienced Love And First Sight? Share Your Story by content208: 12:52pm On Mar 04
MANNABBQGRILLS:


Love wantintin.

Make the Butterflies in her tummy kee am dere......

Eriggs, do you know Felix Terungwa Dave? If you do, tell him he has lost dignity and honour. He had become an empty shell of a human and should bury his head in shame.

Tell him he is a disgrace to humanity, a curse to human existence. A man with zero sense of rightness. Tell him he is cursed and his evil will find him out everywhere he goes.

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Re: Have You Ever Experienced Love And First Sight? Share Your Story by rex444(m): 1:17pm On Mar 04
OnlyDeCapPlease:


Love at first sight is just an excuse for a female with "itchy" pvssy to fvck a guy within 24 hours of just meeting him.

She probably has love at first sight every 2 weeks or so.
chaaai God bless Ur brain more
Re: Have You Ever Experienced Love And First Sight? Share Your Story by rex444(m): 1:26pm On Mar 04
I had this ex who was so uptight and strict that no guy in the area could even come close to and she was an independent chick.... She called me thunder bolt as that was how she said I sparked her the first day we met but after d flame died ...so I don't believe in that
Wittyglam:
Share it, I have the grace of reading long stories.
Re: Have You Ever Experienced Love And First Sight? Share Your Story by Heartdanny(f): 1:36pm On Mar 04
lastchild:
do you agree with me that if this guy push further, you'll fall for him even though you are married


No I won't cos I no what I went through to finally forget everything about him. It wasn't easy but I made it.
My husband have become the centre of my life even though it wasn't love at first sight for me, But I was able to love again. I don't know how to cheat in a relationship so why will I start in marriage.

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Re: Have You Ever Experienced Love And First Sight? Share Your Story by Fiscus105: 1:46pm On Mar 04
Heartdanny:



No I won't cos I no what I went through to finally forget everything about him. It wasn't easy but I made it.
My husband have become the centre of my life even though it wasn't love at first sight for me, But I was able to love again. I don't know how to cheat in a relationship so why will I start in marriage.



If circumstances can bring two of you together physically and this guy disturbs you a little bit further, he will definitely break ur defense and spark sensation burning in heart. You might not agree o but its a reality.

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Re: Have You Ever Experienced Love And First Sight? Share Your Story by Heartdanny(f): 1:51pm On Mar 04
Fiscus105:



If circumstances can bring two u together physically and this guy disturbs you a little bit further, he will definitely break ur defense and spark sensation burning in heart. You might not agree o but its reality.


No it won't happen
Re: Have You Ever Experienced Love And First Sight? Share Your Story by Fiscus105: 1:52pm On Mar 04
Dpaulie:

You’re wrong, don’t need to tell me this, I have more male staff than females, and I’m not as kind(if I may call it kindness) to the females as I do to the males because I’m a man and I know what it means when u are a man.. you don’t know me, I’ve married for seven years and never had sex with any other woman.. sex is too sacred, I don’t just give it out even when I was single talk less of now


You are slipping gradually, several things that humans do that least expected of him or her, daddy Paul said this thousands of years back in the Bible. Again learn when to knw ur boundary wen relating with opposite gender.
Re: Have You Ever Experienced Love And First Sight? Share Your Story by Fiscus105: 1:54pm On Mar 04
Heartdanny:



No it won't happen


Yes ma! I said it, you may not believe it but its a fact.

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Re: Have You Ever Experienced Love And First Sight? Share Your Story by Greatfullheart(m): 2:53pm On Mar 04
bouncin04:
How do you expect me to fall in love with a Nigerian girl .

Nigerian girls are useless ..... All of them !! angry
i swear to jah. Nigerian girls/ladies are useless and Over-Hyped, they're some good ones but are rare to find. Nigerian girls are hard to recon with.

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Re: Have You Ever Experienced Love And First Sight? Share Your Story by meobizy(f): 2:53pm On Mar 04
My question is whether they kpenshed or not. Something tells me they didn’t. Lust is always allowed. There are some people who you can’t think well when around until the deed is done with them.
Re: Have You Ever Experienced Love And First Sight? Share Your Story by SmellingAnus(m): 4:03pm On Mar 04
Heartdanny:
I was on a bus to Enugu to meet a guy my cousin have arranged for me to marry, so on the bus a guy tall, handsome and well built was seating next to me. I saw how he made sure he sate next to me. Along the line we started talk onlike me that don't talk much I saw my self telling him everything about me where I was going and all that. We exchange numbers but he said he will call me the next day to know how it went since I will be spending a night there. But I ending up coming back that same day cos the marriage will not work base on he has married before with kids.
But form the day I saw this guy on the bus all I could think of was him. He called as promised and we started what I will call a wonderful relationship. We can't do without each other we became best friend, I feel so free and secured when am round him.
Well he got a job and relocated to another state which is very far from our state we could only see when he is around cos my mum wouldn't all me out of the house. We only talk on phone. Dou it was good cos he made sure he told me where and what he is doing all the time.
But distance took away my best friend cos one night he called crying on the phone when I asked what the problem he said someone is pregnant for him. To cut the story he ended up marring her.
Am married to one of the best man in the world and we are living happily and I have never set my eyes on my love at first sight friend. after my marriage I followed my husband to where he resides and ended every communication with him even Dou I have his number on my phone.
One day his number called me I didn't pick at first I went to my phone call log to see if I mistakenly called him but no. He called again and I pick up he said is me, I asked how he got my number he said he went to my house my mum gave him the number.
He still goes to my house to see my mum and buy things for her when ever he is around. He said he feels at home when ever he is there. I never introduced him to my mum but he told her he is my friend.
Wow... This life no balance... Sometimes life has a way of keeping certain persons we love far away from us till we have lost that person to another person...

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Re: Have You Ever Experienced Love And First Sight? Share Your Story by Heartdanny(f): 4:05pm On Mar 04
SmellingAnus:
Wow... This life no balance... Sometimes life has a way of keeping certain persons we love far away from us till we have lost that person to another person...

Such is life, Life goes on.
Re: Have You Ever Experienced Love And First Sight? Share Your Story by DedeNkem: 4:16pm On Mar 04
"Love at first sight" is a pipe dream. It doesn't exist!

Lust, Crush, Infatuation, Obsession and Like are confused by many to be Love.

Lust
Lust is closely related to love, but lust means such emotions in which some always desire is working behind these emotions. Normally, lust to related to some physical contact emotions.

Crush
Crush is a temporary attraction towards any person, in which a person just like someone else, but does not consider it a compulsory person in his or her life.

Infatuation
Infatuation is also known as foolish love, as it means such heartiest feelings for someone else in which not only love and care are working behind, but also without any reason and physical desire

Obsession
The term obsession is assigned especially to such emotions in which we feel that we must get that particular thing without considering its benefits or drawbacks. This feeling remain on the concerned person up to that time, whenever he gets that particular thing.

Like
Like is an emotional attraction that anyone feels for another person, object, or ideology. In other words, it is a watered-down Love.

Love
Love is supreme, it is the strongest emotional feeling of one person for someone else in which personal attachment, care and kindness like feelings work behind. in fact, a loving person means, a compulsory person for any one, who love.
Re: Have You Ever Experienced Love And First Sight? Share Your Story by Jeezuzpick(m): 4:29pm On Mar 04
luminouz:


Marry them today. Amebo undecided

Oya, naa.

Church dey my street. I go enta Pastor house go call am comot.

If no be Naija wahala of pessin must get plenty money to waste on wedding, notin to wait for again.
Re: Have You Ever Experienced Love And First Sight? Share Your Story by vetrovialMan(m): 4:41pm On Mar 04
Wittyglam:
My friend, was on her way to the market and saw this cute guy they connected and she claimed to have experienced butterfly in her tummy. I told her it was lust but she got mad at me and they started dating the next day, one month into the relationship mama is not feeling it again, as all they spoke about was sex and physical appearance. Long story short, mama ended up blocking papa and agreed it was lust.
The end
Share your own, don't read and run if I catch you eh.

hmmmm ok oo, see make I tell you, that feeling you have that you say is butterflies an your common sense dey comot soo
Re: Have You Ever Experienced Love And First Sight? Share Your Story by dalass(f): 4:43pm On Mar 04
James4358:
I met imaobong while going to submit an assignment during my first year in school in 2011. As a shy guy then, i sum up courage to walk up to her, getting ther i lost my voice, only to end up telling her i missed my way & i asked for direction. Thank God the feeling was mutual, she kept smiling at me until she willingly gave me her number. She paid me a visit d following day, one thing let to another & we had a mind blowing sex. We've dated since 2011, Godwilling we'll say i do in december this year as plans are in top gear. Thank God it wasnt infatuation. She has been d best woman av ever asked God for.

Awwwnnn...

Beautiful shocked
Re: Have You Ever Experienced Love And First Sight? Share Your Story by lastchild: 4:46pm On Mar 04
Heartdanny:



No I won't cos I no what I went through to finally forget everything about him. It wasn't easy but I made it.
My husband have become the centre of my life even though it wasn't love at first sight for me, But I was able to love again. I don't know how to cheat in a relationship so why will I start in marriage.

you are right, but based on my experiences, women are fragile in emotions

unless you hated the guy before you guys parted ways, as long as you still likes him, if he eventually becomes your male beastie again, it'll happen
Re: Have You Ever Experienced Love And First Sight? Share Your Story by Nobody: 4:56pm On Mar 04
olisaEze:
Love doesn’t grow but growls on an empty stomach.

Nigeria is filled with well dressed 'empty stomachs' (I did not mention any sex o!) grin.

Therefore, those butterflies oyinbo pipo are always talking about for themselves, are internal hunger pangs switching the average 'empty stomach's' brain to survival mode.
you've made no sense at all
Re: Have You Ever Experienced Love And First Sight? Share Your Story by Wittyglam(f): 7:04pm On Mar 04
No
sapphiere:
Hmm. Hope she didn't feel used by the man.
Re: Have You Ever Experienced Love And First Sight? Share Your Story by Wittyglam(f): 7:06pm On Mar 04
Wow
rex444:
I had this ex who was so uptight and strict that no guy in the area could even come close to and she was an independent chick.... She called me thunder bolt as that was how she said I sparked her the first day we met but after d flame died ...so I don't believe in that
Re: Have You Ever Experienced Love And First Sight? Share Your Story by iamL(f): 7:12pm On Mar 04
Fiscus105:



If circumstances can bring two of you together physically and this guy disturbs you a little bit further, he will definitely break ur defense and spark sensation burning in heart. You might not agree o but its reality.

Useless human being! U think everyone is weak and cheats on their spouse?
Keep screwing ex-turned people wife urs will be screwed too.
Re: Have You Ever Experienced Love And First Sight? Share Your Story by iamL(f): 7:16pm On Mar 04
lastchild:
you are right, but based on my experiences, women are fragile in emotions

unless you hated the guy before you guys parted ways, as long as you still likes him, if he eventually becomes your male beastie again, it'll happen

Madam just ignore this stupid comments. His type are those that sleeps with married women so he thinks are women can be like other people's wife he sleeps with.
Re: Have You Ever Experienced Love And First Sight? Share Your Story by Fiscus105: 7:46pm On Mar 04
iamL:


Useless human being! U think everyone is weak and cheats on their spouse?
Keep screwing ex-turned people wife urs will be screwed too.


Crying more than bereaved, ur rant shows exact who you are. Hypothetical at highest level, go back and read how she herself commented.

A bull in a Chinese shop.
Re: Have You Ever Experienced Love And First Sight? Share Your Story by rex444(m): 7:56pm On Mar 04
I term it lust at first sight
Wittyglam:
Wow
Re: Have You Ever Experienced Love And First Sight? Share Your Story by Wittyglam(f): 5:03am On Mar 05
Some women fall tho
Heartdanny:



No I won't cos I no what I went through to finally forget everything about him. It wasn't easy but I made it.
My husband have become the centre of my life even though it wasn't love at first sight for me, But I was able to love again. I don't know how to cheat in a relationship so why will I start in marriage.

Re: Have You Ever Experienced Love And First Sight? Share Your Story by Wittyglam(f): 5:03am On Mar 05
Big lust
rex444:
I term it lust at first sight
Re: Have You Ever Experienced Love And First Sight? Share Your Story by Wittyglam(f): 4:01am On Mar 06
That is if the feeling is mutual
meobizy:
My question is whether they kpenshed or not. Something tells me they didn’t. Lust is always allowed. There are some people who you can’t think well when around until the deed is done with them.

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