Tizzz78:
We started dating last year December, we are cool with each other, we try as much as possible to avoid quarrels.. I noticed something about my girl, everytime she meets a new guy, she tells me about it whenever we chat or talk on phone..

Pls just kind of curious, what could b my girl motive to always tell me about every new guy that meets her and exchange contacts with her..

Any bashing is welcomed, na normal vibes for here as long as I get ur opinions..

OnlyDeCapPlease:


It depends. Are you guys married or dating?

pozehnani:


Land for sale.

odinson1:
Dont be fooled!

Your girlfriend does not love you,she's just telling you all that to soften you up so you can trust her(after all,she tells me about the guys that Toasts her,so I can trust her)
Trust me bro She is a potential cheat

That being said, Nigerian girls are Useless...All of them

JONSYN7154:
you must comment o of not......

Ayo2004:

Because I am from a polygamous and very large extended family so I have seen first hand how far women go especially when they do not get what they want and how men especially the rich ones find it almost impossible to stay loyal after the numerous attempts by Nigerian girls looking a sugar daddy...I also know how much people stay in unhappy relationships all in the name of "marriage" and I want to be able to easily cut off every single relationship that doesn't give me peace of mind as most women especially in economic desperate places such as Nigeria are very difficult to please,if u sell a kidney for them and you have a fight,you have done nothing,other husbands have sold both for their wives

That being said,I am not discouraging anyone from getting married but I believe a man should sit down and think "what am I benefiting from this union?am I just getting married because I want to fulfill society wishes?has this woman proven she loves me as much as I love her or even more?am I financially capable to be married?"if u know your money is the main thing attracting her,do not marry her unless your name is Jeff Bezos as there will always be someone out there richer than u

I might change my mind in the future but for now,it's a no no for me

Tizzz78:
We started dating last year December, we are cool with each other, we try as much as possible to avoid quarrels.. I noticed something about my girl, everytime she meets a new guy, she tells me about it whenever we chat or talk on phone..

Pls just kind of curious, what could b my girl motive to always tell me about every new guy that meets her and exchange contacts with her..

Any bashing is welcomed, na normal vibes for here as long as I get ur opinions..

2shaw:
I stopped dating under 20's 2 years ago,they are dull,gluttony,sex diff guys a lot, cheap,slaying ,copyng what chioma wore on Instagram,they don't baff well ,they love money and thats all they know. They are lazy,have a sharp mouth, no more girls again 4naija. Naija girls are useless. There was one i funked ehn,asin she too love my Bleep,but she be street girl,the tin pain me. Her bro send dey beg me to forgive her,but I couldn't. She insulted me and took my kindness for my weakness. Till tmrw she still calls me but I don't pick anymore.

Tizzz78:
We started dating last year December, we are cool with each other, we try as much as possible to avoid quarrels.. I noticed something about my girl, everytime she meets a new guy, she tells me about it whenever we chat or talk on phone..

Pls just kind of curious, what could b my girl motive to always tell me about every new guy that meets her and exchange contacts with her..

Any bashing is welcomed, na normal vibes for here as long as I get ur opinions..

Drealflex:
dating.

Tizzz78:
We started dating last year December, we are cool with each other, we try as much as possible to avoid quarrels.. I noticed something about my girl, everytime she meets a new guy, she tells me about it whenever we chat or talk on phone..

Pls just kind of curious, what could b my girl motive to always tell me about every new guy that meets her and exchange contacts with her..

Any bashing is welcomed, na normal vibes for here as long as I get ur opinions..

Tizzz78:
We started dating last year December, we are cool with each other, we try as much as possible to avoid quarrels.. I noticed something about my girl, everytime she meets a new guy, she tells me about it whenever we chat or talk on phone..

Pls just kind of curious, what could b my girl motive to always tell me about every new guy that meets her and exchange contacts with her..

Any bashing is welcomed, na normal vibes for here as long as I get ur opinions..

Anigreat:






Is either you're so broke or so damn ugly, reason you're so scared and so insecure.



Rather than being grateful that you have a girl that opened up and tells you anytime a guy woes her, you're here being worried. How many girls of nowadays are so faithful to do that?

If you want her to keep it to herself anytime guys approach her, then open up to her, but las las believe me, na u e go pain pass.

premierlead:



Hmm!

This is very nicely said but I know well that time is a great healer, meaning that with time you'll have a change of mind over this thing but it must not be forgotten that these women seem to be the same thing - cankerworm in their brain. Despite lavishing my estranged wife with almost all my income everyday, whenever misunderstanding ensued I still didn't do anything was her usual anthem before I finally sent the balderdash packing. Not ready for any hoe anymore.

OnlyDeCapPlease:


Because you guys are only dating her actions are of lesser consequence.

Let's look at this carefully. If 2 people are in an exclusive relationship then there's no need for any of them exchanging contacts with members of the opposite sex unless it's important work contacts, business contacts or study/school related. In that case if such contacts are important work, business or study/school related, then there is actually no need to inform your partner. Such contacts should be in the same category as uber driver, tailor, make-up artist, mechanic, dj etc because they are people who perform or can perform a functional role for you. If a person in a relationship meets a random member of the opposite sex at the bank and they ended up talking general platonic gist, then its just having an interesting conversation with a random person in the bank. If names and numbers are exchanged, then it has entered another level. There must be some sort if interest for that to happen. Going home to tell you partner doesn't make you faithful. NOT exchanging contacts in the first place is what makes you faithful. I know some people are weak and can be pressured into exchanging contacts. Some people are also just too nice. Also some people just don't know how to say NO and mean it or don't know how to end things. Others just don't know how to keep boundaries. Some just don't have common sense. These are all warning signs that one has to take into consideration if planning to take the relationship to the next level.

On the other hand some girls are of the opinion that, so long as you have not put a ring on their finger, they are free to leave options open with other guys who might end up being more serious about marrying them.

Bottom line is, so long as you guys are just dating and you are not really serious about her, then you may carry on till one or both of you are tired, and then move on. Its not the end of the world, just part of the learning curve.

Spending123:
Space Booker

witworth:
and is the so called space booking a crime?
Anyway it's obvious you have no sensible or responsible opinion than to say space Booker, they say here is nairaland forum and someone just asked for advice and opinions, and all you can best reason is to say, space Booker.
Nonsense

Tizzz78:
We started dating last year December, we are cool with each other, we try as much as possible to avoid quarrels.. I noticed something about my girl, everytime she meets a new guy, she tells me about it whenever we chat or talk on phone..

Pls just kind of curious, what could b my girl motive to always tell me about every new guy that meets her and exchange contacts with her..

Any bashing is welcomed, na normal vibes for here as long as I get ur opinions..

Xenry:
Perhaps she feels you ain't enough for her, or maybe that's just her lifestyle— exploring guys.
@Op, if I were you, I would do the same. Women are each other's worse enemies, and they are always jealous of each other to the core. So try and start talking to her about other girls, and she would realize that her format is faded.

Anigreat:






Is either you're so broke or so damn ugly, reason you're so scared and so insecure.



Rather than being grateful that you have a girl that opened up and tells you anytime a guy woes her, you're here being worried. How many girls of nowadays are so faithful to do that?

If you want her to keep it to herself anytime guys approach her, then open up to her, but las las believe me, na u e go pain pass.

Anigreat:






Is either you're so broke or so damn ugly, reason you're so scared and so insecure.



Rather than being grateful that you have a girl that opened up and tells you anytime a guy woes her, you're here being worried. How many girls of nowadays are so faithful to do that?

If you want her to keep it to herself anytime guys approach her, then open up to her, but las las believe me, na u e go pain pass.

Ayo2004:
She might be using reverse psychology..don't be a fool and fall too hard,take care of her and be nice but never in your life trust her completely or assume she can never cheat,if u do this and the worst happens,e no go pain u too much