cococandy:


Yes I am.

Now that it is out of the way, what do you have to say about the topic that is not related to my vagina?

budaatum:


Wouldn't it be great if the individual above felt the same way about himself spending quality time with his own kids? But I must admit that he must value the qualities in his wife so much that they must more than make up for his own deficiencies which he wisely choses not to impart on his kids, which is commendable of him.

I wonder if perhaps more kids will be better off if more fathers think as he does. Or perhaps more fathers should improve themselves so their kids benefit from the time they spend with fathers.

budaatum:


Wouldn't it be great if the individual above felt the same way about himself spending quality time with his own kids? But I must admit that he must value the qualities in his wife so much that they must more than make up for his own deficiencies which he wisely choses not to impart on his kids, which is commendable of him.

I wonder if perhaps more kids will be better off if more fathers think as he does. Or perhaps more fathers should improve themselves so their kids benefit from the time they spend with fathers.

Powerfly:
The future is truely FEMININE.

Then the future is full of shit

Kelvin3476:
MY REAL NAME IS ANYAMELE CHUKWUEMEKA, AND I WISH U WILL FIND SOME1 TO TELL U THE TQUTH ABT MY DAD. THE TIME MY DAD SPEND WITH US HIS PRODUCTS GET SOME KIDS, NEIGHBOURS VERY JEALOUS OF US. NOR MATTER HOW OFTEN WE STAY WITH OUR MOM, BT WE PREFARE 2HOURS WITH OUR DAD THAN 7 DAYS WITH OUR MOM BECUS MY DAD DOEST BELIEVE IN AFRICAN WAY OF TRAINING KIDS WHILE MY MOM IS THE POWERHOUSE. THE TREATMENT WE GOT 4RM MY MUM DECIPLINED US ALOT. MAY DAD REST ON

budaatum:


You benefited from the time your father spent with you, so I am going to assume you know that you and your kids may benefit from the time you spend with your kids.

cococandy:


Why did you resort to caps lock? Is it to make it louder?

Yes the women you’re talking about are feminists. If they weren’t, they wouldn’t feel free to plan a life and career of their own. Feminism gives them that choice. To do what they wish with their lives. It’s simple

haybhi1:



Look dear, it goes beyond just saying 'thank you'.

Did you read the part he said "... As for me, I have decided to shun marriage. Even if I have to get married in the future, she must be a woman capable of challenging me. What I mean by challenge here isn't the woman who quarrel me, I mean the woman who have a lot to bring on the table. A woman I can gain from intellectually, spiritually, emotionally and of course physically. She must be a woman ready to speak up for other women. ..."?

It'd be a very hard time collating the number of ladies who fall in that category. In fact, you as a lady, do you safely fall in that category?

budaatum:
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Happy International Women's Day.

SouthNigerian:
Happy International Women's Day to the females out there.

When growing up as a child, my Mom faced a lot of discriminations in the hands of my Dad and his family.

She faced constant assaults physically, emotionally and spiritually. My Dad never wanted my Mom to fulfill her potentials because he felt his authority in the house would be challenged if my Mom become financially independent. My Dad's anti-progressive attitudes towards my Mom drained all her aspirations to become great in life.

She abandoned her lofty ambitions because she's a wife. She left the things that would have made her fulfilled because she's had to save her marriage. My parents lack of cooperation affected my upbringing and education(thanks to exposure and good friends). I could have been making South Nigeria proud if I had good education but hey, here we are

I discovered my Mom wasn't the only person in the league of subjugation by men. It came to my knowledge that women are slaved beings in that thing called Marriage. I discovered most men are envious of their women who seek to be free and great in life.

All of my childhood experiences and societal ideologies made me arrive at the conclusion that marriage is nothing but a trap for women. Crazy enough, women are the ones who seek marriage the most.

I have decided never to get married because I believe in great potentials that women harbor. I strongly believe in the strength of women. I believe in women's capabilities.

Many of you guys would say Nigerian Women are useless. How many of you guys would husband a woman who aspire to be as great as Okonjo Iweala, Folorunsho Alakija? How many of you doesn't mind having a wife who is richer and influential than you are? Well, me don't mind seeing my woman greater than I am. Her breakthroughs would only multiply my desire to be greater.

As for me, I have decided to shun marriage. Even if I have to get married in the future, she must be a woman capable of challenging me. What I mean by challenge here isn't the woman who quarrel me, I mean the woman who have a lot to bring on the table. A woman I can gain from intellectually, spiritually, emotionally and of course physically. She must be a woman ready to speak up for other women.

FEMINISM DOESN'T BRING AN END TO THE THOUSAND YEARS REIGN OF MEN IN THE SOCIETY. FEMINISM IS CREATING A FUTURE OF FREEDOM FOR BOTH GENDERS TO GO AHEAD AND FULFILL THEIR GREATEST POTENTIALS.

My Advice to Our Ladies Out There:
Seek to be independent in all ramifications. Financial, emotional, spiritual, physical independence etc.

Choose to be the best you can be with track records, don't choose to be a hoe.

HAPPY INTERNATIONAL WOMEN'S DAY.

Rocktation:


May I remind you that this OP's passion to support the feminism movement, was fed by the inability of his dad to demonstrate enthusiasm, when it comes to allowing his woman to exude any of the good qualities he mentioned? Of course, no one ever accused men, especially africans, of a willingness to accept that they oftentimes only audio-want logical, intelligent, smart and all the other attributes from their women, that they can barely handle, due to some hierarchical ascendancy, passed down from their ancestors. A lot of Nigerians are walking stereotypes. Or you yourself, in all honesty, can you allow an Okonjo Iweala type of wife, to blossom in "your house"? Leaving you with the baby and no soup in the house, to attend some summit in Holland, being opinionated as to where you should settle..and the works... Reaaally?

As the OP has tacitly suggested, there is a thin line between challenge and quarrel.

emperorshaokahn:
you are not just a farm tool but a dumb one at that,show me where or when iweala or mrs johnson have ever identified themselfs as ''feminist''?.so every successful women is automatically a feminist?.first of all feminism is a leftist political ideology that has much marxist/socialist influnce,most if not all conservative/rightwing women dont want to have anything to do with feminism,feminism is just another liberal nonsensical experiments,and i dont expect any serious african women to identify herself as a feminist.

kinah:


Op be careful what you wish for.
Seek God

SouthNigerian:
Happy International Women's Day to the females out there.

When growing up as a child, my Mom faced a lot of discriminations in the hands of my Dad and his family.

She faced constant assaults physically, emotionally and spiritually. My Dad never wanted my Mom to fulfill her potentials because he felt his authority in the house would be challenged if my Mom become financially independent. My Dad's anti-progressive attitudes towards my Mom drained all her aspirations to become great in life.

She abandoned her lofty ambitions because she's a wife. She left the things that would have made her fulfilled because she's had to save her marriage. My parents lack of cooperation affected my upbringing and education(thanks to exposure and good friends). I could have been making South Nigeria proud if I had good education but hey, here we are

I discovered my Mom wasn't the only person in the league of subjugation by men. It came to my knowledge that women are slaved beings in that thing called Marriage. I discovered most men are envious of their women who seek to be free and great in life.

All of my childhood experiences and societal ideologies made me arrive at the conclusion that marriage is nothing but a trap for women. Crazy enough, women are the ones who seek marriage the most.

I have decided never to get married because I believe in great potentials that women harbor. I strongly believe in the strength of women. I believe in women's capabilities.

Many of you guys would say Nigerian Women are useless. How many of you guys would husband a woman who aspire to be as great as Okonjo Iweala, Folorunsho Alakija? How many of you doesn't mind having a wife who is richer and influential than you are? Well, me don't mind seeing my woman greater than I am. Her breakthroughs would only multiply my desire to be greater.

As for me, I have decided to shun marriage. Even if I have to get married in the future, she must be a woman capable of challenging me. What I mean by challenge here isn't the woman who quarrel me, I mean the woman who have a lot to bring on the table. A woman I can gain from intellectually, spiritually, emotionally and of course physically. She must be a woman ready to speak up for other women.

FEMINISM DOESN'T BRING AN END TO THE THOUSAND YEARS REIGN OF MEN IN THE SOCIETY. FEMINISM IS CREATING A FUTURE OF FREEDOM FOR BOTH GENDERS TO GO AHEAD AND FULFILL THEIR GREATEST POTENTIALS.

My Advice to Our Ladies Out There:
Seek to be independent in all ramifications. Financial, emotional, spiritual, physical independence etc.

Choose to be the best you can be with track records, don't choose to be a hoe.

HAPPY INTERNATIONAL WOMEN'S DAY.

Billyonaire666:

In essence, you are a product of a broken home, and that experience has defined the life you live now and helped determined your aspirations and goals which are a standard deviation to the delta sigma from common norm, to your self-realized norm.

I want you to understand that not everyone is a product of broken homes and the percentage of those female facing subjugation from idiotic husbands and narcissistic fathers like yours are very decimal.

In essence, I am telling you to take your idiotic feminism connotation out of cyberspace. Learn to deal with your issues individually and not rant online as if your reality has resonance with ours. We are not all from broken homes so no need for feminism glorification here.

We are celebrating women's day and you want to ruin our day with promoting Feminism....are you mad? Let us celebrate our mothers and sisters in peace and happiness. Take your broken home symphony out of our equation so we can balance the quadrants.

HellVictorinho:

My dad did worse but my sisters don't think about the severity of those bad things.
They feel those things don't matter anymore because some people have assisted them financially.
Although they can't marry someone as irresponsible as my father,they feel he has tried for my mum and the rest of us which is a contradiction because they should be willing to marry someone like him since they think he's tried for my mum and them.
Anyway,my father is still clueless about our survival.
Life is an absurdity, indeed.

cococandy:
die mad

cococandy:


Yes I am.

Now that it is out of the way, what do you have to say about the topic that is not related to my vagina?

SouthNigerian:
Happy International Women's Day to the females out there.

When growing up as a child, my Mom faced a lot of discriminations in the hands of my Dad and his family.

She faced constant assaults physically, emotionally and spiritually. My Dad never wanted my Mom to fulfill her potentials because he felt his authority in the house would be challenged if my Mom become financially independent. My Dad's anti-progressive attitudes towards my Mom drained all her aspirations to become great in life.

She abandoned her lofty ambitions because she's a wife. She left the things that would have made her fulfilled because she's had to save her marriage. My parents lack of cooperation affected my upbringing and education(thanks to exposure and good friends). I could have been making South Nigeria proud if I had good education but hey, here we are

I discovered my Mom wasn't the only person in the league of subjugation by men. It came to my knowledge that women are slaved beings in that thing called Marriage. I discovered most men are envious of their women who seek to be free and great in life.

All of my childhood experiences and societal ideologies made me arrive at the conclusion that marriage is nothing but a trap for women. Crazy enough, women are the ones who seek marriage the most.

I have decided never to get married because I believe in great potentials that women harbor. I strongly believe in the strength of women. I believe in women's capabilities.

Many of you guys would say Nigerian Women are useless. How many of you guys would husband a woman who aspire to be as great as Okonjo Iweala, Folorunsho Alakija? How many of you doesn't mind having a wife who is richer and influential than you are? Well, me don't mind seeing my woman greater than I am. Her breakthroughs would only multiply my desire to be greater.

As for me, I have decided to shun marriage. Even if I have to get married in the future, she must be a woman capable of challenging me. What I mean by challenge here isn't the woman who quarrel me, I mean the woman who have a lot to bring on the table. A woman I can gain from intellectually, spiritually, emotionally and of course physically. She must be a woman ready to speak up for other women.

FEMINISM DOESN'T BRING AN END TO THE THOUSAND YEARS REIGN OF MEN IN THE SOCIETY. FEMINISM IS CREATING A FUTURE OF FREEDOM FOR BOTH GENDERS TO GO AHEAD AND FULFILL THEIR GREATEST POTENTIALS.

My Advice to Our Ladies Out There:
Seek to be independent in all ramifications. Financial, emotional, spiritual, physical independence etc.

Choose to be the best you can be with track records, don't choose to be a hoe.

HAPPY INTERNATIONAL WOMEN'S DAY.

budaatum:
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But a,man with bigger crowns with go for a lady with smaller crown or non existing crown and make her a somebody

But a,lady shouldn't stoop low to help crown another man
Double standards



Happy International Women's Day.

SouthNigerian:
Happy International Women's Day to the females out there.

When growing up as a child, my Mom faced a lot of discriminations in the hands of my Dad and his family.

She faced constant assaults physically, emotionally and spiritually. My Dad never wanted my Mom to fulfill her potentials because he felt his authority in the house would be challenged if my Mom become financially independent. My Dad's anti-progressive attitudes towards my Mom drained all her aspirations to become great in life.

She abandoned her lofty ambitions because she's a wife. She left the things that would have made her fulfilled because she's had to save her marriage. My parents lack of cooperation affected my upbringing and education(thanks to exposure and good friends). I could have been making South Nigeria proud if I had good education but hey, here we are

I discovered my Mom wasn't the only person in the league of subjugation by men. It came to my knowledge that women are slaved beings in that thing called Marriage. I discovered most men are envious of their women who seek to be free and great in life.

All of my childhood experiences and societal ideologies made me arrive at the conclusion that marriage is nothing but a trap for women. Crazy enough, women are the ones who seek marriage the most.

I have decided never to get married because I believe in great potentials that women harbor. I strongly believe in the strength of women. I believe in women's capabilities.

Many of you guys would say Nigerian Women are useless. How many of you guys would husband a woman who aspire to be as great as Okonjo Iweala, Folorunsho Alakija? How many of you doesn't mind having a wife who is richer and influential than you are? Well, me don't mind seeing my woman greater than I am. Her breakthroughs would only multiply my desire to be greater.

As for me, I have decided to shun marriage. Even if I have to get married in the future, she must be a woman capable of challenging me. What I mean by challenge here isn't the woman who quarrel me, I mean the woman who have a lot to bring on the table. A woman I can gain from intellectually, spiritually, emotionally and of course physically. She must be a woman ready to speak up for other women.

FEMINISM DOESN'T BRING AN END TO THE THOUSAND YEARS REIGN OF MEN IN THE SOCIETY. FEMINISM IS CREATING A FUTURE OF FREEDOM FOR BOTH GENDERS TO GO AHEAD AND FULFILL THEIR GREATEST POTENTIALS.

My Advice to Our Ladies Out There:
Seek to be independent in all ramifications. Financial, emotional, spiritual, physical independence etc.

Choose to be the best you can be with track records, don't choose to be a hoe.

HAPPY INTERNATIONAL WOMEN'S DAY.

1Sharon:
Don't let your scorned mother's experience put you off men.

Learn from her experience and weed out narcissistic, uncaring men.

By the way, a woman accumulating all these academic, financial assets and achievements is MASCULINE energy.

There can only be one masculine energy and one feminine energy in a relationship. If there are two masculine energies in a relationship, you're both going to be fighting for the throne.


A relationship between a woman more successful than a man can work, but men avoid those women cos of the attitude that comes with those women.


I'm no fenimisnt no mo . I'm learning

scofield114:
op that kind of woman you are praying for is the one that will send u to ur early grave women are like a herd if they are left alone problem will arise u are just a boy u dont know females go and read about hypergamy i like ur father he is a great man for controlling ur mother

bukatyne:


When I started reading, I thought you were a lady but reading to the end, you are male.

It is good you are planning not to get married, you are yet to discover what a husband's role is.

Goodluck and healing.

SouthNigerian:


All I see is a weak heart filled with insecurities. A heart blurred in visions and insights.

Hundreds of thousands of generations have passed the earth in evolution. If everything were to be the way it was, you and I would be slaves farming cassava on acres of lands. This topic wouldn't have exist because there won't be Technology.

This world is meant to evolve. All of the ideologies which guards our mode of relation, the Religions we practice today etc were once rejected by previous generations. Today, they become norms.

Imagine a world where discrimination doesn't exist, world where everyone can go ahead to pursue a career that gives them joy.

A world where we feel fulfilled as we age older because we chose a path that complements our potentials. A world where we are all free to choose what we want.
You might nod your head and say such world can never exist. Just ask yourself, are all generations the same?