Wittyglam:
Most of us don't understand the level of damage will cause to people by doing this things. Society has made people accept anything just to feel among.
It's not right to ask a chubby girl out and few months later you start asking to work toward been a size 8. A friend of my almost gave up on life due to this.
Check out this video for a detailed explanation

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=HvDOM5jhLDU

richmond500:
u may like someone because of their maturity and intelligence which is very rare to find, when u are in the relationship, there is nothing bad to ask her to change her physical look, if she's too fat, asking her to do some exercise and eating less is not an insult.
That ur friend that almost gave up on life is an idiot.

If I like ur emotional maturity and empathic intelligence, I'll likely ask u out and after I ask u out, I can just tell u to work on ur physical appearance to look more palatable and presentable, if u decide to commit suicide cos of this, then u mumu

Wittyglam:
She was not an idiot, most people can not go through that? I have many young girls and guys going through this.

lilvicky68:

Totally agree with you..she didn't do anything bad na..she was just with the wrong person who didn't appreciate her

FreeSpirited:
Fat girls are very emotionally fragile, probably due to body image problems.
I'm always very cautious of my utterances around them especially when it has to do with looks and beauty. All I do is accentuate their facial look and ass as being big and sexy....that way I get them to bed easily.
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I dated one last year, she's pretty but big for a gal of 23....her ass is bbw and well shaped..though I wish I could tell her to try more exercise, I feel she should know this..So I dint make any allusion to her body cos I was just there for the bbw sex experience, she's okay, from a wealthy family, and decent, but I don't want to puncture her self esteem by talking abt her size cos she very much likes me and I make her feel good......
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It's hard to discuss body issue with plus size gals without coming across as insultiveive cos they are very insecure even when you don't mean to insult them...they are sweet and milky in bed though..but to marry them, no go easy

i926:
I don't do fat girls.

I always remind them to hit the gym and tell them not to eat much cuz they gluttons.

Rossybliss:

That part of been glutton I will have to disagree you,some are naturally gifted most of Dem nt even eat asmuch as some slim ones do

i926:


I have seen some. You might be right though. It could be genetical stuff

Hope you not in the league of fat girls? If you're, start exercising.

MrHighSea:
Chubby girls rock. with fat at right places of course.

But excess fat at old age won't be funny.
Telling her that, is love.

gistray:
I can't date an elephant