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Re: Why Is It That Some Married Couples Hardly Wear Their Rings Nowadays? by Godszilla: 11:55am On Apr 02, 2021 |
OK wearing of ring isn't real a symbol of love but to identify u in a civil society your status. I don't bliv in wearing of ring,neva in d bible,God neva gave Adam n eve but recent event made me understand y. I had dis lady dat was interested,she started droppin me off from my bus stop to office daily,knew she need a man but alwz felt bad cos she chose d wrng guy n it was my fault as I dnt wear ring.it wasn't a gud experience 4 me. Thankful coro lockdwn helped me out.she's married now,knew she was searching fr a hubby n she seems d church type. I stil dnt wear n neva will,I also dnt care if Mrs doesnt wear but undrstand y some wear n it's not a bad idea r cultUre jaelz: |
Re: Why Is It That Some Married Couples Hardly Wear Their Rings Nowadays? by nneh1(f): 11:56am On Apr 02, 2021 |
Bornsinner7:All the time we justify what doesnt suit us in the name of africa/Nigeria. This is 2021 not 1800 2 Likes |
Re: Why Is It That Some Married Couples Hardly Wear Their Rings Nowadays? by mywells: 12:00pm On Apr 02, 2021 |
The weight of wedding cannot be estimated with the cement bag,thats why u find it difficult to put it on. 1 Like |
Re: Why Is It That Some Married Couples Hardly Wear Their Rings Nowadays? by BRATISLAVA: 12:00pm On Apr 02, 2021 |
valentineuwakwe: That's not the point. The question is why some married people don't wear their wedding rings. Answers range from weight gain(quite common), to trying to be different, to removing it so often they see no point wearing it. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Why Is It That Some Married Couples Hardly Wear Their Rings Nowadays? by BRATISLAVA: 12:03pm On Apr 02, 2021 |
Realdeals: The most genuine reason. It gets uncomfortable especially when you take it off and decide to put it back on later. That and weight gain. |
Re: Why Is It That Some Married Couples Hardly Wear Their Rings Nowadays? by maureensylvia(f): 12:03pm On Apr 02, 2021 |
It's just a piece of jewelry. I stopped wearing mine 3years ago |
Re: Why Is It That Some Married Couples Hardly Wear Their Rings Nowadays? by Realhommie(m): 12:05pm On Apr 02, 2021 |
okeyumez:None exactly... Just one of those man made traditions that we have now attached too much relevance to. People cheat even with their rings on so what difference does it make really? Like a poster stated earlier, the heart knows where it belongs. Every other thing na cosmetics, lol. Some churches don't even wed couples using a ring because it's not biblical. But this woke generation especially women would have none of that because to them the ring is everything. How do i know this? Watch them flaunt and pose with it once they get married, it's become a symbol of status. 3 Likes |
Re: Why Is It That Some Married Couples Hardly Wear Their Rings Nowadays? by Alaganature(m): 12:12pm On Apr 02, 2021 |
They don't wear it because the ring is not an expensive ring..lol |
Re: Why Is It That Some Married Couples Hardly Wear Their Rings Nowadays? by deeva2: 12:13pm On Apr 02, 2021 |
Bornsinner7:CORRECT GUY |
Re: Why Is It That Some Married Couples Hardly Wear Their Rings Nowadays? by BigBizzy(m): 12:16pm On Apr 02, 2021 |
I for example, I don't wear my wedding ring at all. My wife does. Reason why I don't its cos of the nature of my job... 1 Like |
Re: Why Is It That Some Married Couples Hardly Wear Their Rings Nowadays? by deeva2: 12:17pm On Apr 02, 2021 |
[quote author=Alaganature post=100418384]They don't wear it because the ring is not an expensive ring..lol[/quot YOU BAD GAN OO |
Re: Why Is It That Some Married Couples Hardly Wear Their Rings Nowadays? by sweetkev(m): 12:19pm On Apr 02, 2021 |
IYANGBALI:werey |
Re: Why Is It That Some Married Couples Hardly Wear Their Rings Nowadays? by KefeeBRIGHT91(m): 12:19pm On Apr 02, 2021 |
jaelz: ...ring or no ring, married or single, a Flirt/Cheat will always be a Flirt/Cheat. A ring, vow or promise made to the other spouse changes nothing if the spouse in question decides not to change. People make sweet love with other people/friends/colleagues with their ring on. Same way you'd find a spouse faithful without putting on any ring even though they are married. Most often you hear people say "once i get married i'll change". Marriage changes nobody/nothing asides marital status on paper. We're who we are. Know that and know peace. Expectations hurts. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Why Is It That Some Married Couples Hardly Wear Their Rings Nowadays? by Ayo2004: 12:23pm On Apr 02, 2021 |
Una still dey spend money on top ring |
Re: Why Is It That Some Married Couples Hardly Wear Their Rings Nowadays? by MrNipplesLover(m): 12:24pm On Apr 02, 2021 |
Common with the men dem. Most women wear their rings regularly. But I will advise married people (M+F) to wear their wedding rings as dearly. It's not about anything but a sign that you're a married man or woman and unavailable for any bullshiit anymore. This would also accord you some respect from people. Seeing a man or woman as married attracts respect. I'd still advise married women to wear their rings religiously. Me wey be say the first part I look on a woman is her finger. That's where my eyes go straight before evaluating her fefenefe. Stay blessed, y'all. 1 Like |
Re: Why Is It That Some Married Couples Hardly Wear Their Rings Nowadays? by samdaisi: 12:31pm On Apr 02, 2021 |
What special about wedding rings does it arrests our conscience not to cheat or what? its a matter of choice but its not a parameters to measure faithfulness in marriage 2 Likes |
Re: Why Is It That Some Married Couples Hardly Wear Their Rings Nowadays? by fxdee(m): 12:33pm On Apr 02, 2021 |
Bornsinner7:... I always feel uncomfortable wearing it.. I don't like anything jewelry at all. Besides, what is even its importance in marriage?.. Millions of ring cannot stop any spouse from cheating. |
Re: Why Is It That Some Married Couples Hardly Wear Their Rings Nowadays? by RALPHOW(m): 12:44pm On Apr 02, 2021 |
Some lost theirs and the price tag on original gold ring is killing. |
Re: Why Is It That Some Married Couples Hardly Wear Their Rings Nowadays? by femi4: 12:46pm On Apr 02, 2021 |
jaelz:It's the heart that matters. Not everybody like accessories/add ons. Besides, you can't be replacing it everytime you misplaced it |
Re: Why Is It That Some Married Couples Hardly Wear Their Rings Nowadays? by osinawanta(m): 12:48pm On Apr 02, 2021 |
Can't remember the last time I took my off since 8years now 1 Like
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Re: Why Is It That Some Married Couples Hardly Wear Their Rings Nowadays? by Roon9(m): 12:57pm On Apr 02, 2021 |
sinaj: Lols! I'm sure a man said that. A friend of mine told me his reacts to his skin. What a load of baloney |
Re: Why Is It That Some Married Couples Hardly Wear Their Rings Nowadays? by cutedharmee: 1:03pm On Apr 02, 2021 |
Nothing "ll make me remove ma wedding ring from ma hand...thats why I prefer to buy gold. |
Re: Why Is It That Some Married Couples Hardly Wear Their Rings Nowadays? by Waga02: 1:04pm On Apr 02, 2021 |
Wedding ring is not a guarantee to remain faithful to your partner. I remembered I don't use my own up to 6 months. and in the 9years of my marriage I have not seen another woman. Marriage is a thing of mind. Just decide and make up your mind that in riches and poor that your marriage will work. |
Re: Why Is It That Some Married Couples Hardly Wear Their Rings Nowadays? by Praxis758: 1:15pm On Apr 02, 2021 |
Richy4: Your last statement crowns it all. Wedding ring is unscriptural, as it originated the ancient Middle East idolatry. It's funny when some Christians make reference to Isaac's search for wife. It was WRIST BRACELET AND NOSE RING that was given to the woman and not finger ring. Gen. 24 : 22 Wedding ring does not symbolise 'deep-rooted-love-at-heart' as the ring can be removed nano-seconds. Joining couples together with the Bible is the only sure way (this too neither guarantee total committment nor rule out infidelity, but it symbolise the WRITTEN WORD that settles in heaven. |
Re: Why Is It That Some Married Couples Hardly Wear Their Rings Nowadays? by Fxwarrior: 1:20pm On Apr 02, 2021 |
sinaj: Sinaj, how are you doing? I really missed your presence. Hope you're good. |
Re: Why Is It That Some Married Couples Hardly Wear Their Rings Nowadays? by Praxis758: 1:20pm On Apr 02, 2021 |
okeyumez: I can authoritatively say the Bible does not have any written account of wedding ring. Though some folks ignorantly make reference to Isaac and Rebecca. The account recorded was not 'wedding ring' but 'nose ring and wrist bracelet' which was deep-rooted in idol worshipping in the ancient Middle East. |
Re: Why Is It That Some Married Couples Hardly Wear Their Rings Nowadays? by Freddd009: 1:21pm On Apr 02, 2021 |
Fahdiga: This is not true. Most don't wear it because of heat n it puts lines on their finger. It irritates them |
Re: Why Is It That Some Married Couples Hardly Wear Their Rings Nowadays? by Greystone: 1:23pm On Apr 02, 2021 |
DaddyRochie1642: Simple truth |
Re: Why Is It That Some Married Couples Hardly Wear Their Rings Nowadays? by Samcent: 1:23pm On Apr 02, 2021 |
I don't wear mine. Reason: No felt need. |
Re: Why Is It That Some Married Couples Hardly Wear Their Rings Nowadays? by Nobody: 1:24pm On Apr 02, 2021 |
Kondomatic: Exactly. And for some people, the finger is now fatter than the wedding ring…… |
Re: Why Is It That Some Married Couples Hardly Wear Their Rings Nowadays? by anataala: 1:24pm On Apr 02, 2021 |
Weeding ring is tradition not religious obligation. Faithfulness is more important that the ring. 1 Like |
Re: Why Is It That Some Married Couples Hardly Wear Their Rings Nowadays? by Sunsets: 1:27pm On Apr 02, 2021 |
No noise please, wear if you want and don't wear if you don't want. Smile4mee01: |
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