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Re: Opinion: Women Are The Reasons Men Treat Them Badly [My Experience] by PrimadonnaO(f): 3:42pm On Mar 28, 2021 |
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Re: Opinion: Women Are The Reasons Men Treat Them Badly [My Experience] by eazzzy1(m): 3:50pm On Mar 28, 2021 |
Primadonna, Not every guy who isn’t ready for marriage goes clubbing every night, turn their heads at boobs or spend money like teenagers. There are upright guys who aren’t ready to marry. Let me use myself as an example; When I started working, there was an opportunity open for assistant managers, the firm was opening a branch in India, an A.M would be offered 35% raise to go start up the Branch and be there for 6 - 18 months. The Person will earn Canadian dollars in India, accommodation provided etc it looked like a great opportunity to me, no A.M took the role. The major reason was they had families. That wasn’t a role I would have passed on even if I had a 2weeks baby or my marriage was just 3 weeks old. The essence of my story is in Nigeria once a guy is working and a woman gets to her mid twenties they think they are ready to marry. Three questions people should ask to determine readiness are; 1) Are you willing to sleep with only person for the rest of your life? 2) Are you ready to put someone else’s happiness over yours for the rest of your life? 3) Are you ready to forgive everything and anything? Number 1 answer for me is yes. 2&3 are hell no. That’s why I’m not ready for marriage. 8 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Opinion: Women Are The Reasons Men Treat Them Badly [My Experience] by unity004(m): 3:59pm On Mar 28, 2021 |
UyaiIncomparabl:. one sharp guy don chop clean mouth haha hahaha |
Re: Opinion: Women Are The Reasons Men Treat Them Badly [My Experience] by UyaiIncomparabl(f): 4:07pm On Mar 28, 2021 |
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Re: Opinion: Women Are The Reasons Men Treat Them Badly [My Experience] by Sammmyyyy(m): 4:22pm On Mar 28, 2021 |
Magnoliaa: Hold on. I'll go get my glasses to read this. |
Re: Opinion: Women Are The Reasons Men Treat Them Badly [My Experience] by Sammmyyyy(m): 4:22pm On Mar 28, 2021 |
Polynek: Thank you. Thanks for stopping by, sir/ma 1 Like |
Re: Opinion: Women Are The Reasons Men Treat Them Badly [My Experience] by Sammmyyyy(m): 4:26pm On Mar 28, 2021 |
smart1204: Thank you sir. And like you have said, only God can help our generation. Personally, I have vowed never to defile anyone's daughter, save for my future wife. The temptations keep coming, especially in this lecherous world of iniquities, thank goodness for self control, anyway. 1 Like |
Re: Opinion: Women Are The Reasons Men Treat Them Badly [My Experience] by Sammmyyyy(m): 4:28pm On Mar 28, 2021 |
emperorAY: And I still regret that till today. I regret not declaring my stance to her in the first place, but when I did, I earned myself a good name. Till today, she refers to me as "rare" |
Re: Opinion: Women Are The Reasons Men Treat Them Badly [My Experience] by Sammmyyyy(m): 4:30pm On Mar 28, 2021 |
IlufoyeOlamife: You are right, and that is the reason the world is gradually turning upside down. What a silly generation! |
Re: Opinion: Women Are The Reasons Men Treat Them Badly [My Experience] by Sammmyyyy(m): 4:31pm On Mar 28, 2021 |
Akuruoulo: Thank you, thanks a lot. |
Re: Opinion: Women Are The Reasons Men Treat Them Badly [My Experience] by Sammmyyyy(m): 4:36pm On Mar 28, 2021 |
Akuruoulo: You are very welcome sir. I have been keeping quite since way back on that issue, but now, it's gone worse, sadly. I hate to read lamentations of our virtuous sisters who have fallen into the cold hands of our evil brothers. It saddens me, greatly. |
Re: Opinion: Women Are The Reasons Men Treat Them Badly [My Experience] by BBBells: 5:02pm On Mar 28, 2021 |
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Re: Opinion: Women Are The Reasons Men Treat Them Badly [My Experience] by Enntay(f): 5:17pm On Mar 28, 2021 |
Re: Opinion: Women Are The Reasons Men Treat Them Badly [My Experience] by ikllbrokehoes(m): 5:57pm On Mar 28, 2021 |
UyaiIncomparabl:Is it true Victoria Imaobong? |
Re: Opinion: Women Are The Reasons Men Treat Them Badly [My Experience] by ikllbrokehoes(m): 5:59pm On Mar 28, 2021 |
PrimadonnaO:I love your write up Donna, straight to the point. 1 Like |
Re: Opinion: Women Are The Reasons Men Treat Them Badly [My Experience] by UyaiIncomparabl(f): 6:06pm On Mar 28, 2021 |
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Re: Opinion: Women Are The Reasons Men Treat Them Badly [My Experience] by Rickbronz(m): 6:08pm On Mar 28, 2021 |
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Re: Opinion: Women Are The Reasons Men Treat Them Badly [My Experience] by ikllbrokehoes(m): 6:12pm On Mar 28, 2021 |
UyaiIncomparabl:Lolz you had to remove the imaobong? you are funny I swear |
Re: Opinion: Women Are The Reasons Men Treat Them Badly [My Experience] by UyaiIncomparabl(f): 6:17pm On Mar 28, 2021 |
ikllbrokehoes: I'm showing you that as a correction. That's not my name. |
Re: Opinion: Women Are The Reasons Men Treat Them Badly [My Experience] by PrimadonnaO(f): 6:23pm On Mar 28, 2021 |
ikllbrokehoes: 2 Likes |
Re: Opinion: Women Are The Reasons Men Treat Them Badly [My Experience] by ikllbrokehoes(m): 6:46pm On Mar 28, 2021 |
UyaiIncomparabl:Okay. if you say so. |
Re: Opinion: Women Are The Reasons Men Treat Them Badly [My Experience] by Akuruoulo(m): 7:36pm On Mar 28, 2021 |
Sammmyyyy:U are very right , bt feminism is also shathering the married ones marriage |
Re: Opinion: Women Are The Reasons Men Treat Them Badly [My Experience] by Goalnaldo(m): 7:37pm On Mar 28, 2021 |
Why isn't this thread on front page yet? Very nice and sensible write up. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Opinion: Women Are The Reasons Men Treat Them Badly [My Experience] by Sammmyyyy(m): 8:47pm On Mar 28, 2021 |
CuteMike01: This is very thoughtful of you, sir. In fact, I feel self control is not being preached in our society enough. I see it as a needed tool to survive in this sexually frustrated world. Thanks for stopping by. |
Re: Opinion: Women Are The Reasons Men Treat Them Badly [My Experience] by Sammmyyyy(m): 8:55pm On Mar 28, 2021 |
Harddiskng: You have valid points up there and I agree with you. On another note, I feel we men have work to do too. Since "they do not have sense" like you have said, how about you and I start speaking sense into them rather than just sex and sex? How about that? |
Re: Opinion: Women Are The Reasons Men Treat Them Badly [My Experience] by Sammmyyyy(m): 9:09pm On Mar 28, 2021 |
eazzzy1: You have valid points up there, honestly, and thank you for your honest submissions. Your last point there is what I will have to disprove, all the same . Me? Other people's relationships? You're mistaken alot. I have more than enough mangoes to fill my basket, talk more of ther people's issues. The only bond I mentioned in the write-up was mine, not anybody's. Secondly, your notion of life, as that "... will count as a lesson to her in future." is ludicrously archaic. Some sacrifices are too weighty to bear, bro. Some lessons are best left unlearnt in life. For a naive lady who get deceived into commiting several abortions for her lover, and in the end, the young man jilts her when he discovers she cannot give birth anymore. Pray tell, what lesson can she learn there? And don't even say adoption or come with the rhetoric of "childlesness means nothing." Let's stop trying to sound western than the westerners themselves. 1 Like |
Re: Opinion: Women Are The Reasons Men Treat Them Badly [My Experience] by Sammmyyyy(m): 9:12pm On Mar 28, 2021 |
jaszplus12: She needs to write more, honestly 1 Like |
Re: Opinion: Women Are The Reasons Men Treat Them Badly [My Experience] by Sammmyyyy(m): 9:48pm On Mar 28, 2021 |
eazzzy1: You have really valid points, actually, and I am sure she sees from your POV too. Well, no one is pressuring you to marry. My stance is just that, while you wait, remember not to tie down a lady who isn't ready to wait with you with vain promises. Let her know from the scratch that you aren't ready, not at least in the next so so so years. Not that after 5 years of taking her through servitude, you'll now come out to tell her you aren't ready. That's what my post seeks to achieve. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Opinion: Women Are The Reasons Men Treat Them Badly [My Experience] by eazzzy1(m): 9:54pm On Mar 28, 2021 |
Sammmyyyy: Well Sammmy, do you know there are women who never had an abortion in the past yet are childless? bottom line is life fvcks us all. You can do all the right things and still get knocked out by life. An example will be someone who mistakenly takes a lantern to pour fuel in the generator and get burnt vs someone strolling along the road innocently a tanker explodes and he get burnt. I also do not think any grown up lady can be deceived into getting an abortion, if a lady decides to get an abortion it is because she knows she isn't ready to have a child or she knows she can't afford to support the child alone. She chose to get an abortion for herself. She can share her experiences with younger girls towing her path, that is the lesson. The same way women who didn't commit abortion yet are childless find children is the same way she would find children too. This isn't about been western, what else would she do? kill herself? she has to keep on living, learn from her mistakes and make better choices in future. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Opinion: Women Are The Reasons Men Treat Them Badly [My Experience] by Sammmyyyy(m): 10:05pm On Mar 28, 2021 |
eazzzy1: . More like: "No one is totally useless. Even the so called useless ones can be used as bad examples." * Just jokes Well, I get your point. Those ladies just need to be more cautious, in my opinion. Fine, no human is infallible; we can all make mistakes. I am just saying that some costly mistakes which are avoidable should be avoided at all cost. There's a saying in my indigenous dialect, "Na person wey never see fight dey call himself man." Thank you for your submmissions, too |
Re: Opinion: Women Are The Reasons Men Treat Them Badly [My Experience] by Duplexxx: 10:08pm On Mar 28, 2021 |
Re: Opinion: Women Are The Reasons Men Treat Them Badly [My Experience] by eazzzy1(m): 10:16pm On Mar 28, 2021 |
Sammmyyyy: Well, when i ask a girl out, i say would you be my girlfriend, I state my desire and leave it to her to agree or not. I do not tell her after two years of dating we would then get married. It is a girls prerogative to leave a relationship when her timeline for marriage does not fit the guys timeline. My point is marriage isn't the ultimate. Do you know there was a study by durex that showed Nigerian women were the most unfaithful in the world? I think a big part of that report stems from the fact that Nigerian women will secure the bag of marriage before thinking of happiness. They end up pursuing happiness while married. The likes of Oprah and her partner have being together since 1986, as partners. Will Primadonna see an issue with that? Let me just state clearly that I would rather date a woman who has been in one relationship for 5 years than be with someone who has been in 10 relationships in 5 years because she keeps quitting after few months because the men aren't ready as Primadonna suggested women should do. bottom line is when a woman finds the right man she should stick with him, have kids if she wants to. An unmarried baby mama and a divorced baby mama are both baby mamas. Marriage can end the exact same way a relationship can end. 2 Likes 1 Share |
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